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I'm studying to become a teacher and my professor assigned us this video :) Was helpful too and I'll be sure to use these tips in my own classroom.

What if it's three students at the same time feeding into each other? How do I handle all at the same time?

Do these strategies work for special needs children as well?

You obviously don't deal with these illegal Hispanic students in charter schools. They act like Animals

Thank you thank you I drive BD ( four middle school boys to and from school) I am trying so hard make our ride somewhat pleasant.

I've been teaching for over 20 years, and students behavior has definitely declined. They are not being trained at home. The parents are teaching them to "Don't take that" from the teachers and any one else. Sad. However, these are some of the best tips I've seen so far. It takes a while to build those quality relationships that will help to eliminate the disrespect and bad behavior.

“Nothing is personal.” Yes, it is personal. When you go above and beyond and actually invest your heart into those kids and in their undeveloped lack of social “ skill” they break your heart. THAT- IS personal. I no longer have the heart for them.

I really loved your video. I actually did number 5 today for a difficult preschooler, but it didn't work. Me to student: If you think about it, I know you want to make your teachers happy, and that when you do what the class is doing and you listen, you have a really wonderful day, so that is something to think about. Preschooler: Nu Uh. (her exact words lol) I like being bad. I got really stuck after that one

I'm a teacher's aide at a middle school and to be honest none of this really works in a group setting. I have a few groups of students that just refuse to be respectful, or to follow instruction. If I attempt to encourage corrective behavior I'm told to "Mind my business" or "You're not a REAL teacher" and my personal favorite "You need to check your caucasity"....The current generation coming up has zero interest in learning, and essentially no respect for others or themselves. It's infuriating, depressing, and heart breaking at the same time.

Wishy washy....not specific

This sounds workable. Changes do take time. I give incentives such as praise, affirmative words, or sometimes cash as often times, students are hungry.😊❤

Thank you! Tomorrow will be a better day because of you.

What if your class is already beyond this? There are a lot of kids display negative behavior

Wow thank you so much for taking the time to make this content. I am a Sunday school teacher and I am struggling with a student who constantly needs to move … literally can’t be still and is constantly yelling out, making noise, throwing things etc. This video was very helpful. I am not sure if he has unmet needs or if I have not gained skills to communicate my expectations clearly. Thank you again. I will try using your suggestions. So helpful!!

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How did you become a behavior strategist? Im interested in that career path!

Great pieces of advice 👏. Thanks!

Hi, so do we have to choose between the think sheet and one- one conference? And what happens if they don't want to share anything? I tried the one-one conference but they said very little.

This was very helpful.

Your step-by-step approach really helped!

No this will not work!

I love the think sheet ❤ Thank you so much 😁👍

Thanks.. So useful tips 😊

Great tips! My recliner is essential after dragging myself home after an exhausting day.

Though I am researching strategies for school bus drivers, What you have shared is valid for that application as well and I will be implementing your ideas. Sincerely appreciate your help and precision of sharing.

Outstanding video. Bad academic behaviors lead to bad consequences. This is just axiomatic. Not every action needs immediate action. Some do. Natural consequences can be a great teacher.

I think rude students behaviour can be traced back to the parents who failed to instill the right behaviours in their kids. Even the government has taken away the parents ablity to do that as well. In the 80's children were more respectful.

Dear teachers.... from a girl who was raised in the 90s, I thank you for all the overcoming you have to do in order to teach students today. 😢. I am currently a coach, and I set out to help out teachers, but the more I do my research, the more I realize how teachers are now made to "fear" their students. As if discipline and punishment are cursed words. This is so sad, and being overly soft with kids turns them into spoiled brats and burdens the whole society. God help us. 😢

Very helpful information and tips

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Pre college, but I agree. Kids actually want to respect adults, they just aren't given good adults to respect sometimes. Ask a kid who their favorite RUclipsr is, they'll name an adult most likely. Their favorite streamer is likely an adult. Kids respect adults, they just don't respect authoritarian adults, nor corrupt adults. My strategy is going to be to be the elder the want to respect, not to force them to respect their elders (which is toxic btw). When that fails, a clear line of consequences will ensue.

I am a teaching assistant. The teacher I work with as no control, boundaries and no consequences for the pupils disruptive behavior. I was hired to impliment that but are my efforts a waste when the teacher allows them to walk all over her?

Can't thank you enough. You're extremely intelligent and have a wonderful sense of the bigger picture of what's necessary in a classroom and all the practical ways to get it done. A teacher for the teachers! 😀👍

As a substitute teacher, this is helpful, but difficult to enact, simply because I'm only there for the day.

Do not be disruptive, be quiet in the class. Thrift store bicycles should not be stored indoors. Please have a normal reason to visit a learning environment.

Maintaining that authority requires earning the students respect. Creating a fair structured classroom culture will allow you to maintain that authority. Good video.

What about when the consequence doesn’t matter to them even when it’s implemented? Parents who don’t care and blame you? Or when a large portion of a class feed off one another and there are too many to single out and consequences aren’t realistic given the number of kids who disrespect or disrupt? Singular instances of disrespect are easy to manage. But a large class feeding off of one another as far as volume and meeting classroom expectations, it feels impossible to regain and maintain order and teach. I’ve tried everything I can think of. Seating charts… revised multiple times… silent lunch… losing a portion of their PE. Contacting home and involving admin. These kids enjoy ILC because they normally get to sit in there and do nothing but play computer games or watch RUclips. It seems like an impossible battle when there’s almost no option to apply effective consequences to students who deserve them.

Great advice thank you

As a SUBSTITUTE teacher, I find your video extremely NOT HELPFUL. You gave no examples, just justifications for bad principal's behaviors. I have a little time on my hands right now, so I'm going to list out MOST of the shenanigans I see in the middle/highschools after 7 years of substitute teaching. This list is CONSTANTLY GROWING because the kids are constantly coming up with new RUDE BEHAVIORS to do in the classroom. Keep in mind.... you are promoting NOT HAVING CONSEQUENCES for all of these OUTRAGEOUS BEHAVIORS..... Here's my list: 1.playing trashkitball with paperwads. 2.Breaking pencils into small pieces and throwing them. 3.Students up out of chair walking around the room 4. Throwing paper airplanes. 5. Snapping loud "paper-poppers" during class. 6. Wireless speaker hidden & play PORNO sounds 7. inkpen broken up & thrown 8. Inkpen spread ink all over the floor or on another students seat 9. SLAM their book loudly on their desk to disturb class every couple minutes 10. KNOCK under their desk to cause unnecessary distractions 11. Tap pencil constantly/wont stop 12. Trash the room with food wrappers 13. Water bottle spill on floor creating hazard. 14. WATER splash on other students 15.WATER bottle FLIP game to land right side up causes THUNK.... THUNK noise every 10 seconds! 16. EMPTY water bottle twisted until it explodes LOUDLY during class. 17 WATER bottle throw at another student 18. SPIT piece of hard candy onto floor for teacher to clean up 19. THROW raisins or cranberries from lunch room thrown at each other making MASSIVE MESS on floor. 20.Borrow teachers tape dispenser and use ALL tape making fake hand claws 21. Borrow teachers stapler and SHOOT STAPLES at other students 22. STAPLES removed from stapler and broken into chunks to throw 23. Throw things at teacher when his back is turned 24. Student stands in front of teacher to block his view of class so another student can throw something. 25. Overwhelm teacher with hoard of students wanting restroom pass & other passes 26. Student returns from restroom but wants to go AGAIN to retrieve some item left behind 27. Student request to go to another teachers room to do other work. 28. teacher walks around room assisting students, but one student IMMEDIATELY goes to teachers desk and digs through desk drawers & teachers briefcase contents. 29.CELLPHONE... kids won't stay OFF of it 30. CELLPHONE kids doing Tik-Tok dance during class 31.CELLPHONE kids watching sports, videogames & PORNO! 32 CELLPHONE playing music or disruptive sound effects LOUDLY & repeatedly. 33. Nurses pass given, but student never goes to nurse 34. Teacher giving instructions, but kids talking & ignoring teacher 35. Students YELLING OUT rude comments & irrelevant questions while teacher is talking 36. Say something to a student & they ignore you and start conversation with another student. 37. Tell students how to do assignment, and several of them later say, "What are we supposed to do? 38. Paper handout just lays on students desk & they ignore it 39.Paper handout is wadded into a ball and thrown. Then student claims you never gave them an assignment 40. Kids are so LAZY they will not bring a pencil to class. If you give them one, they will break it up and throw it. If you don't give them one, they will say they can't do the assignment! 41. GAY! Kids call each other GAY constantly 42. The "N" word, kids call each other all the time. 43.SLAP!! you're IT! and the chase is on-- all around the room! 44. HANDWASH liquid is slapped into the face of another student 45. Kids lean on the dry erase board and erase much of the instructions you wrote there 46. DRY ERASE board, kids write all over them 47. HANDOUT worksheet, kids hide it & say they never got one 48. Handout is MULTI-page, but kids only take page ONE. 49. While teacher is talking to class, student scoots his desk 2 inches to make LOUD NOISE every time you start to speak. 50.Textbook dropped onto floor to make very loud BOOM sound to disturb class every couple minutes. 51. Constant talking and socializing of kids but no work being done. 52. Pretend to steal other students item, then chasing each other. 53. Kid trashes the assignment & says you didn't give him one. 54.Rubberband snap it onto skin of other student 55.Rubberband shoot at others 56. FAKE FIGHTS/tussles/SLAPS/PUNCHES/minor struggles CONSTANTLY by many students during class 57. LOUD talking/.YELLING at each other across the room. 58. CUSSING! Some kids sound worse than sailors 59. NITPICKING the teachers clothing or jewelry or accent etc 60. INSULTING the teacher in many ways. 61. Accusing the sub of "Not Being a REAL teacher" 62. asking teacher "How OLLLD are you anyway?" 63 Trying to handshake or hug teacher is not allowed, but kids try anyway 64. Some classrooms have 3 or 4 doors & kids will sneak out of class if you turn your back. 65.Some kids will SNEAK INTO your room and they will always cause trouble. 66. THE CLOWN SHOW where kid repeats every word you say to him as a disruptive RUDE activity. 67. Refusing to sit in ASSIGNED seats causes other students to argue about it and it is ANOTHER disruption. 68. Half the class runs up to look out the window if ANYTHING happens outside. 69. Smoking in restroom & kid returns smelling like a SKUNK 70. e-cig PUFFED in class while shirt is pulled over kids head. 71.eating red hots in class, then demanding a pass to get water 72. Redhot takis ALWAYS get dropped on floor and crushed for teacher to clean up. 73. GUM chewed and stuck under desk. 74. Room lights turned off by student leaving room. 75. KNOCK at classroom door and 5 students jump up to open it... but they NEVER open it, they hold the door SHUT and play the "YOU CAN'T COME IN" game! 76. Roller Chairs, kids use as an amusement park ride. 77. YARDSTICK picked up by student and brandished as a "PLAY-SWORD" to threaten other kids 78. BATHROOM pass students INUNDATE sub with requests to go to restroom and complain "it's not his turn to go!" 79. FEET-DRAG kids do every assignment as slowly as possible. 80. Kids sit on FLOOR, top of desks, and TABLES rather than in their seats. 81. FLOCKING to teachers desk to ask 50 questions & requests to overwhelm the teacher. 82. PERSONAL QUESTIONS kids ask teacher just to waste time. 83. Student will PURPOSELY bump teacher, then say "YOU TOUCHED ME!" 84. CRAYONS broken into pieces & thrown 85. ID-BADGE kids don't wear it, they swing it around their head and smack each other with it. 86.DESK FLIPPED upside down by grabbing it's front legs while student is sitting in it & his head bashes into wall. 87.STEALING another kids workbook and writing their own name on it 88. SEX activities in hallways and restrooms DOES OCCUR in some schools 89. Cigarette lighter brought to class and flame is held against a girls dreadlocks! Luckily didn't catch fire 90. SPITTING right into another students face 91. TIK-TOK shenanigans.... Slap A Teacher Month! 92. Drawing swastikas or penises on desk or on whiteboard. 93. LOUD jokes told of sexual or racial nature 94. LAUGHING EXTREMELY LOUD AND REPEATEDLY over and over during the whole class period and WON'T STOP. 95 Hairdressing and hairweaving done during class. 96. PERFUME or AIR-FRESHENER SPRAYING onto another student 97 SLAPPING a handicapped student who could BARELY WALK because "SHE IS WEAK." 98. THERMOSTAT changing settings without permission. 99. Head down, Hoodie up, student turns off all contact with the classroom activities! 100.GROUP assignment, but kids refuse to do anything except SOCIALIZE and talk. ....................................................I have a HUNDRED and TWENTY-SEVEN M O R E ! ! of these "shenanigans" kids pull in school. Ii think you get the point. These rude activities are not occurring ONE AT A TIME. They are occurring constantly and SEVERAL AT ONCE during class! But management does not believe in CONSEQUENCES!!!! I think it is time to do what the management wants. What would happen if every time a child DOES a rude action.... the teacher gives them a candy bar? Do you think the kids would STOP doing their shenanigans, or do you think they will do MORE of them? If you take the side of ADMINISTRATORS to not have consequences, then you are part of the problem, not the solution.

The sound quality on this video is bad. But essentially, principals don’t want teachers doing their own thing in terms of manipulating the kids because from the administrator’s standpoint they’re in the public relations business, selling an intangible product, and they believe in nonsense such as the phrase “I don’t teach math I teach kids”. This is nonsense on the face of it because it begs the question “then what exactly are you teaching the kids”? In reality teachers are expected to be able to control the kids and if they cannot do that then they always get fired or at least asked to resign. Teachers are better off just quitting. It is inevitable that teachers will be largely automated out of existence. The screens have won and the public schools will be converted to brick & mortar online academy eventually. With tutors, not teachers.

I use owed time, seat change and redirection sheet

2 hours detention straight away for anyone that messes around after 2 warnings they will never do it again

Many thanks for this

You always make tough topics feel easy!

Classroom management does not correct bad behavior when admin wants to do nothing about it when they want them to stay in the classroom and the teacher has to do with that and also teach classroom management is a joke.

Can you please do a video on dealing with tattling? Oh, and how to figure out if whatever students tell you what their classmates say or do is true? For example, I had a student that would tell me that someone else said a bad word. I couldn't tell if the kid was a liar or a snitch and didn't know how to respond.

Thank you so much! I just became a TA at a middle school after working at an elementary school for 11 years. I have never seen so much disrespect coming from children in my entire life.

This only work with obedient kids. If they are rude they want to insult you on purpuse. It's obvious they aren't worried about the consequences because they know they will ignore it too. I asked a boy 3 times to swap seat in class because he couldn't stop talking and laughing loud. He just said no. He doesn't want to. End of story. I lost. They won't do anything they don't want to. They dictate the rules. 16 year olds. The other, a smaller boy from another class, turnd his back while I was informing him about tomorrows program. I call him back, he looks at me with cold eyes and turns back just to close the door on my face so he doesn't have to hear me.

Great information. Wish she had listed in writing the steps to reduce challenging behavior at the end of the video. Thank you for this.

You always manage to make tough topics feel easy.