Way Too Wifey Podcast
Way Too Wifey Podcast
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Stop Overthinking
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In this episode of Way Too Wifey, we're diving deep into a topic that affects all of us at one point or another-overthinking. Whether it’s second-guessing a relationship, replaying past conversations, or worrying about future outcomes, overthinking can keep us stuck in our heads and stop us from enjoying life in the present. I'll be sharing practical strategies on how to quiet the mental noise, regain control of your thoughts, and cultivate inner peace. Plus, I'll talk about my own journey with overthinking and the mindset shifts that have helped me ...
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Stop Settling for the Bare Minimum
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WORK WITH ME: stan.store/respectfullygabby Follow for more on social media: respectfullygabby www.tiktok.com/@respectfullygabby In this week’s episode of Way Too Wifey, I dive into personal stories that highlight why you should never settle for a guy who's only giving the bare minimum. From mixed signals to half-hearted efforts, we’ve all been there-stuck hoping for more from some...
Solo travel & dating abroad
Просмотров 7521 день назад
WORK WITH ME: stan.store/respectfullygabby Follow for more on social media: respectfullygabby www.tiktok.com/@respectfullygabby In this episode of Way Too Wifey, I’m diving into my solo travel experiences across Europe this summer. From making new friends in foreign countries to going on spontaneous dates, I’ll share all the fun, challenges, and personal growth that came from trav...
He's liking other women's pictures on Instagram
Просмотров 46Месяц назад
WORK WITH ME: ⁠stan.store/respectfullygabby⁠ Follow for more on social media: ⁠ respectfullygabby ⁠⁠www.tiktok.com/@respectfullygabby ⁠ In this week's episode of Way Too Wifey, we're diving into a hot topic that's been on everyone's mind: what does it mean when he keeps liking other women's pictures on Instagram? Is it harmless social media behavior, or does it signal something dee...
Boy crazy? Decenter men from your life
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WORK WITH ME: stan.store/respectfullygabby Follow for more on social media: respectfullygabby www.tiktok.com/@respectfullygabby Ladies, it's time to put yourself back at the center of your own story! In this episode of "Way Too Wifey," we're diving deep into the world of boy-crazy women and exploring how we can shift the focus away from men and back onto ourselves. It's all about ...
Stop dating the hot guy
Просмотров 71Месяц назад
WORK WITH ME: stan.store/respectfullygabby Follow for more on social media: respectfullygabby www.tiktok.com/@respectfullygabby In this episode of Way Too Wifey, we’re diving into the age-old dilemma: the allure of the hot guy. While those chiseled features and effortless charm might seem irresistible, we're here to talk about why it might be time to hit the brakes. Join us as we ...
Why we fall so fast
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WORK WITH ME: stan.store/respectfullygabby Follow for more on social media: respectfullygabby www.tiktok.com/@respectfullygabby In this episode of Way Too Wifey, we dive into the captivating world of whirlwind romances and explore why some of us fall in love so fast. What is it about certain people or situations that make our hearts race and our minds rush to the altar? Is it chem...
I can't stop thinking about them
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WORK WITH ME: stan.store/respectfullygabby Follow for more on social media: respectfullygabby www.tiktok.com/@respectfullygabby In this empowering episode of Way Too Wifey, we're diving deep into the mind's tricky patterns and why we often find ourselves obsessing over people who reject us. Are you stuck in a loop of ruminating thoughts, replaying every interaction, and wondering ...
Why do people cheat?
Просмотров 2002 месяца назад
WORK WITH ME: stan.store/respectfullygabby Follow for more on social media: respectfullygabby www.tiktok.com/@respectfullygabby In this eye-opening episode of Way Too Wifey, we dive deep into the murky waters of infidelity. Join me as we explore the differences in how men and women cheat, shedding light on the unique motivations and behaviors that often distinguish their acts of b...
Dating Fatigue
Просмотров 4722 месяца назад
WORK WITH ME: stan.store/respectfullygabby Follow for more on social media: respectfullygabby www.tiktok.com/@respectfullygabby From the endless swiping to the rollercoaster of emotions, I'll share candid stories and insights about the exhaustion that can come with constantly seeking that perfect connection. Discover the signs of dating fatigue, how it affects our mental and emoti...
Are you just the placeholder?
Просмотров 6832 месяца назад
WORK WITH ME: stan.store/respectfullygabby Follow for more on social media: respectfullygabby www.tiktok.com/@respectfullygabby In this episode, we're tackling a topic that hits home for many: being the "placeholder" for a man in dating. Have you ever felt like you're just filling a space until someone "better" comes along? How do you know if you're being chosen for the long haul ...
Dating Smarter with the Reverse Box Theory
Просмотров 7463 месяца назад
WORK WITH ME: stan.store/respectfullygabby Follow for more on social media: respectfullygabby www.tiktok.com/@respectfullygabby We dive deep into the secrets of dating smarter and more intentionally as women. Discover the transformative power of the "Reverse Box Theory," a method that helps you categorize men into four distinct boxes while vetting them, ensuring you don't get atta...
F BOY FREE
Просмотров 4653 месяца назад
WORK WITH ME: stan.store/respectfullygabby Follow for more on social media: respectfullygabby www.tiktok.com/@respectfullygabby In this episode of Way Too Wifey, we're diving deep into a topic that's all too familiar yet not often discussed openly: being "F Boy" free. Join me as we unravel the telltale signs of these charming heartbreakers and arm ourselves with the knowledge to s...
Scarcity mindset in dating
Просмотров 2243 месяца назад
WORK WITH ME: stan.store/respectfullygabby Follow for more on social media: respectfullygabby www.tiktok.com/@respectfullygabby Welcome back to another episode of Way Too Wifey! In this episode, we're diving deep into the mindset that's holding you back in your dating life: the scarcity mindset. Are you settling for less, fearing you'll never find "the one"? Do you feel pressured ...
Help.. I've fallen for an avoidant
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WORK WITH ME: stan.store/respectfullygabby Follow for more on social media: respectfullygabby www.tiktok.com/@respectfullygabby Welcome back to Way Too Wifey! In this heartfelt and insightful episode, we're diving deep into the complexities of relationships, particularly focusing on the dynamics between anxious and avoidant attachment styles. If you've ever found yourself feeling ...
How men fall in love
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How men fall in love
Making Him Earn It: How to Test His True Interest
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Making Him Earn It: How to Test His True Interest
How your lack of confidence is showing up in dating
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How your lack of confidence is showing up in dating
The black cat golden retriever dynamic: the chaser vs the chooser
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The black cat golden retriever dynamic: the chaser vs the chooser
Is it your anxiety or are you dealing with a red flag?
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Is it your anxiety or are you dealing with a red flag?
Is He Actually A Nice Guy Or Is It Just An Act?
Просмотров 1785 месяцев назад
Is He Actually A Nice Guy Or Is It Just An Act?
Scared to Have the What Are We Conversation?
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Scared to Have the What Are We Conversation?
Get Control Over Your Emotions
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Get Control Over Your Emotions
Is Being Delulu Really the Solulu in Dating?
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Is Being Delulu Really the Solulu in Dating?
Are You Searching for a Feeling or Relationship?
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Are You Searching for a Feeling or Relationship?
Slowing The Dating Process Down
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Slowing The Dating Process Down
How To Stop Obsessing & Get Them Obsessed Instead
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How To Stop Obsessing & Get Them Obsessed Instead
People Pleasing
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People Pleasing
Going No Contact
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Going No Contact
Playing The "Cool Girl"
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Playing The "Cool Girl"

Комментарии

  • @virgo3175
    @virgo3175 Месяц назад

    That night🌙 and day 🌞 reference thooooo💯💯🤦🏼‍♀️

  • @aadpiraat7126
    @aadpiraat7126 Месяц назад

    I suppose its the same with all destructive behaviour if your not happy with yourself you try to find it elsewhere

  • @stevearai3361
    @stevearai3361 Месяц назад

    Sorry to burst your bubbles, but are you sure you're not mixing up the genders here? Or is there a joke I'm not catching onto here? 😂 Now you're preaching men to be simps, like driving over an hour in order to get the girl? Megan Fox is beautiful and smart? Lmao ma'am, I don't know what universe you're from, but it don't work like that on mine. Sorry

  • @PriyaTilkar
    @PriyaTilkar Месяц назад

  • @yuh9995
    @yuh9995 Месяц назад

    I’ve been watching this video a lot and it’s been helping so much! How did you learn to get out of your codependency? That’s something I’m struggling with

  • @allyviagarza2210
    @allyviagarza2210 Месяц назад

    The tarot comment made me subscribe immediately 😭😂

    • @waytoowifey
      @waytoowifey Месяц назад

      hahahha ily, but yeah totally been there. The dululu is real 😂

  • @danim1152
    @danim1152 Месяц назад

    Being in love with the idea of someone vs who they actually are is such a dangerous game to play

  • @anasosa569
    @anasosa569 Месяц назад

    doing the lords work here

  • @ashleylauren000
    @ashleylauren000 2 месяца назад

    Starts at 14:14

  • @beybye8366
    @beybye8366 2 месяца назад

    Yes yes yes 0:35

  • @797brm
    @797brm 2 месяца назад

    So good

  • @thevikingwolfpack836
    @thevikingwolfpack836 2 месяца назад

    You women need to knock off the controlling attitudes an not be so toxic then maybe the men wont seal the deal .

  • @edhog
    @edhog 2 месяца назад

    35 year old man here, successful, body builder and father. Ladies, this woman is a train wreck and is clueless. 30 and “not in a rush” lol If I wanted more babies, I date a woman that was in not geriatric pregnancy range. Let’s do some math. Meet woman, date for 2 years to find out if she’s a catch or not. Marry, wait another year or 2. That makes this woman now 34 if we met today. Being a man of options I would entertain the idea of anything serious. Also, a woman that’s travelled “living her best life” “catching vibes” is the same woman I put as a place holder when I was in my 20’s. Protip - don’t travel, take your Chasity seriously and take the fact men want a chased woman seriously. This chicks a walking red flag.

  • @edhog
    @edhog 2 месяца назад

    35 year old man here, successful, body builder and father. Ladies, this woman is a train wreck and is clueless. 30 and “not in a rush” lol If I wanted more babies, I date a woman that was in not geriatric pregnancy range. Let’s do some math. Meet woman, date for 2 years to find out if she’s a catch or not. Marry, wait another year or 2. That makes this woman now 34 if we met today. Being a man of options I would entertain the idea of anything serious. Also, a woman that’s travelled “living her best life” “catching vibes” is the same woman I put as a place holder when I was in my 20’s. Protip - don’t travel, take your Chasity seriously and take the fact men want a chased woman seriously. This chicks a walking red flag.

  • @ArchonJackpot
    @ArchonJackpot 2 месяца назад

    Do you know how to kick-start a motorcycle ? @sailormel69420 ..

  • @ArchonJackpot
    @ArchonJackpot 2 месяца назад

    @sailomel69420 .. Remind you of anyone ?

  • @pants9969
    @pants9969 3 месяца назад

    ive been enjoying your videos but i had to immediately click off of this one because your mic is just way too loud please dont shout into it and make it less sensitive as the constant white noise and also the constant thudding sound that it makes is very disruptive and can be painful when listening especially with headphones on

  • @jimcipolla85
    @jimcipolla85 3 месяца назад

    Hi, with due respect , yes you can birth a human being BUT, not without a man. It takes two honey. You know this. So, you must show respect also. And, the statement of women can do ANYTHING a man can do,,,is incorrect. This Country was and is built AND maintained by men. Think about it. We need each other. Woman needs man and man needs woman. And remember, we are both wired differently. That's all. Simple. If we all just remember that and show respect to each other we will have such a better time together. We are not here to compete against each other, We are here to love each other

  • @myusernameistaken23
    @myusernameistaken23 3 месяца назад

    "Everything a man can do, we can do as well" *Looks over at the jar that needs to be opened*

  • @paulcanfield4157
    @paulcanfield4157 3 месяца назад

    You don't pick your husband, you interview for the position. Your past is your resume, he is the employer at the company you want to get hired at. Your job is to be presentable and have the skills the company wants, the company is responsible for being established and capable of sustaining you long term with a good benefits package. The more prestigious the company the better your resume has to be. But also the more candidates will be competing for the same position. Dates are interviews, you are checking out to see what the companies vision is and where it is heading, while the company is checking to make sure you haven't had employment at tons of companies previously as well as being a temp worker. If you want a man smarter, taller, stronger, wealthier, and more competent than you that means you are not the prize because he is better than you in every way. You only offer youth, beauty, purity, and fertility. Otherwise a man would find another man as a partner. Women today are delusional in thinking they're special. Reality is most of you are average at best but think the guy that smashed you is the same kind of guy you can get commitment from. Women are saying where are the good men, they've checked out from society, building wealth, and setting ourselves up because we don't have the biological shelf life that women have. If all men have been telling women that if they're not going to have luck by waiting until 30 before finding a man it may have some validity... like biology that shows women's fertility is past it's peak, that 35 is geriatric for pregnancies and every year after increases the potential for dangerous childbirth complications... What men and women value are not the same, if you do not learn how to appeal to the man you want you will never be selected. For the men who have their shit together and see the degenerate mental faculties and lack of emotional regulation in what is called an adult nowadays... well we are taking out wealth and finding foreign brides. Women there are the same but have lower expectations and want less which makes life more simple and that's what a man wants, a peaceful life where he is respected and appreciated. Our status and wealth go farther and our presence is celebrated and not just tolerated. Additionally US laws make marriage a bad deal for men. The more we work and acquire the more that we risk losing in divorce, women initiate most divorces, get custody more often, and alimony goes to women more often. There's ZERO reason for a man to marry a woman in the US that's not based in religious reasons. ruclips.net/video/n4aMiAesXjE/видео.html

  • @Egsise
    @Egsise 3 месяца назад

    Please please please begging made me stop watching the rest of the video.

  • @omotayosatuyi252
    @omotayosatuyi252 3 месяца назад

    Wow what an assumption

  • @NadiaHxpe
    @NadiaHxpe 3 месяца назад

    I’m in London ❤

  • @michelefitzmaurice4610
    @michelefitzmaurice4610 3 месяца назад

    What about always packing an overnight bag & staying at HIS place? Should it be equal time at both places? Just curious!

  • @SolutionOrientedMan
    @SolutionOrientedMan 3 месяца назад

    I sense darkness in you, behind the act

  • @infinitzt
    @infinitzt 3 месяца назад

    ❤🧡💛💚💙💜💜🤎🖤🤍

  • @AnthonyFerguson-d2i
    @AnthonyFerguson-d2i 3 месяца назад

    This isn't going to work

  • @tbone3184
    @tbone3184 3 месяца назад

    A perpetually single woman, teaching other perpetually single women how to not be perpetually single. 😂

  • @QueFranklin-fn4pj
    @QueFranklin-fn4pj 3 месяца назад

    My future husband ex girlfriend thought he should care if she left or me. What we need to care for when she no one to keep around no way? She was a total headache but he couldn't realize it. He never took the time to realize what's behind her earthly body. What else will she do if she can be manipulated into transient sexual encounter's? She blamed me for getting his spark back in the bedroom when seemingly to her he wasn't thinking about sex. She didn't even want the man to fall in love with me. I didn't take my clothing off so she got frustrated. I don't have to take my clothing off it's just he attracted and god know what he really need. He need to leave these women alone before something happen's bad.

  • @nostalgisity
    @nostalgisity 3 месяца назад

    I was all in until 22:30 and I have to respectfully disagree. You keep your options open once the guy won’t commit either to push him or explore your options, but dating many people at the same time is a recipe for disaster for many reasons.

    • @DandelionSpring96
      @DandelionSpring96 3 месяца назад

      Ummm no? People been doing that since ur grandma days. Chille date around and dont be too obsessed with one person

    • @DandelionSpring96
      @DandelionSpring96 3 месяца назад

      Until they make u official. Ok?

    • @nostalgisity
      @nostalgisity 3 месяца назад

      It not about obsession about one guy. I’ve done both: Dating many guys at the same time is not a good idea: first multiple dates are ok but once u figured out who u wanna be with, it’s not a good idea to keep going out with many guys as this won’t help u settle down for one - if that’s your aim-. If both sides are open to seeing others then that’s a different story & that’s how I see it working best from my life & people around me who tried both ways.

    • @paulcanfield4157
      @paulcanfield4157 3 месяца назад

      @@DandelionSpring96 The more available you seem to a man the less of a choice you are to him and more of an option. Men won't commit to what other men were able to readily access. Time favors men not women. Our grandparents didn't have access to the people that we do nowadays, they only had a small number of people within their social circles to pick the best person they could from. But yes some grannies were hoes too, not knowing their own minds.

  • @sanoeteevaristo9797
    @sanoeteevaristo9797 3 месяца назад

    Been in London for 20yrs. Happy to make more friends. Both genders. Find me on Facebook. Sanoete Evaristo.

  • @hoylemj
    @hoylemj 3 месяца назад

    Take it personal

  • @eloisiacasillo9045
    @eloisiacasillo9045 3 месяца назад

    I am in London love x I would love to meet you

  • @JohnSmith-ij4xe
    @JohnSmith-ij4xe 3 месяца назад

    Well a the exception 😂 as I still love being single. I don’t need anyone to make me happy but if a woman can make my life better then I will gladly settle down. BUT with me is I don’t date or have a gf for the hell of it. It’s got to be the one in my eyes. Yes never a guarantee but that mind set and going that direction. Also fear of another man? Nope am the gift and I don’t get jealous. I don’t play games but where I find a lot of the problems happen is that men and women don’t communicate correctly as they fear the other one isn’t ready for what they want OR that the other person will run away because they don’t want the same thing. Communication is key even if it’s at the risk of losing the person. Mix signals happen all the time

    • @53Strat
      @53Strat 3 месяца назад

      You a guy here and into guys as well or what?;p

  • @KhaziJKG
    @KhaziJKG 3 месяца назад

    Don’t listen to this woman. She’s pretty so ugly girls can’t relate. Be agreeable, be firm, and smile. Men are simple

  • @1MilkmanDan1
    @1MilkmanDan1 3 месяца назад

    💨

  • @l8Os
    @l8Os 3 месяца назад

    I’m a guy. Not sure why this was recommended to me but I’ll clear some things up for you. All guys DO want a wife. We all DO want love. We all do want ONE good woman. Our standards are honestly low as fuck, but the issue is women are still falling sooooo short. The things most guys look for are pretty simple and straight forward: - loyalty - no or very low body count - nurturing - calm, peaceful, respectful demeanor These are traits that ALL women should have naturally. And all women used to have these naturally. But for some reason nowadays it’s like 1 in 10,000. Y’all fucked yourselves tbh. You let the culture and your shitty friends and role models turn you into a terrible person. Now none of you are wifey material. Enjoy the fuck zone. That is a real thing. And 15 seconds into the video I can tell why that’s where guys put you and treat you the way they do. And that whole “who am I to tell you what to do with your body” is the issue. Stop acting like hoeing around is GOOD. That is the problem. You are the problem. And if you’re going to have a podcast speaking directly to women you gotta stop lying to their face. DO NOT FUCK AROUND WITH MULTIPLE DUDES. it’s not hard to say that. DO NOT GIVE YOUR BODY TO MULTIPLE DUDES. it’s not ok to have a hoe phase. It’s not ok to have a high body count. It’s not ok to give up your body to a bunch of men who don’t deserve it. It’s not ok. And it’s not going to make you a wife or get you what you claim you want.

    • @Nichaelesv
      @Nichaelesv 3 месяца назад

      She's not gonna listen to you

    • @Nichaelesv
      @Nichaelesv 3 месяца назад

      Date one guy at a time hun, the guy you want won't tolerate being an option.

  • @Manuela_632
    @Manuela_632 3 месяца назад

    All that u said it is right

  • @Audrey-k2h
    @Audrey-k2h 3 месяца назад

    I am not Trying I am just Being

  • @mariaj4
    @mariaj4 3 месяца назад

    My heart beats outside of my chest everytime im near this guy and i try to hide it and run away from my feelings a lot

    • @nataliegallego6526
      @nataliegallego6526 3 месяца назад

      If he available I mean single, unmarried? Go for it! Tell him how you are feeling about him. Just be honest about your feelings . However it turns out ,even if you are rejected look at it as if it is for your best. My motto is ;' rejection is for my protection '. You never know what he is feeling 😊

    • @mariaj4
      @mariaj4 3 месяца назад

      @@nataliegallego6526 problem is I'm not single but didn't do kids as not in love but rather have an overly caring or nurturing spouse that makes me feel like a child more than a wife

    • @mariaj4
      @mariaj4 Месяц назад

      @youtuber-cc8sx the guy disappeared so that his presence doesn't bother me or my feelings but occasionally turns up just so I don't miss him. Still, it's true that my heart stopped pounding for anyone but it starts all over on getting a glimpse of him. Not that I'm not attractive or at par with him, Ive spent most of my life like a celibate and mostly forcefully even though married as associated with a monk like husband. So you can understand, that's years of physical loneliness and I'm not even into social media or dating apps.

    • @mariaj4
      @mariaj4 Месяц назад

      No family, nothing except for a companion is how we both are leading our lives

  • @nicollerochelleofficial
    @nicollerochelleofficial 3 месяца назад

    You got that right, women are f-in gansta!!

  • @mabellopez5127
    @mabellopez5127 3 месяца назад

    There’s an issue with dating one guy and entertaining others. It’s better to go out with one and continue to better yourself and have and have the kind of life he would want to have. If he’s the one for you, it would all come together, if not you should eliminate him faster than you think. Because if you have several options open at the same time, you could have several bad apples which in turn makes you lose respect eventually. Be genuine and have a life is what I would say.

    • @bettyboop1353
      @bettyboop1353 3 месяца назад

      I totally agree date 1 guy and really get to know each other, if he is worthy and you can see the potential keep him if not then move on to the next.

    • @ektaaasar
      @ektaaasar 3 месяца назад

      @mabellopez5127 @bettyboop1353 yes I believe the same & it used to be that way back in the day perhaps but I guess nowadays with too many options & accessibility of people through social media guys tend to talk to several girls at a time & same many girls do I guess as well even though as a woman I believe in dating one at a time or incase if you are seeing one or two more guys at the most as well in talking stages be honest from before with all that you may be seeing. However this way of dealing with multiple options eventually leads to nothing or either situationship/on off relationship by appearing disappearing or ghosting . So we don't know who is coming into our lives or who is going or has gone from our life mentally. It's just too draining to date or even be friends these days. I just love keeping to myself most of the time.

    • @iluvitim
      @iluvitim 3 месяца назад

      i agree, learn to be secure and discerning is the key. be your best self with one guy you choose to try with and if it doesnt, it doesnt.. you dont lose yourself in the process.

  • @amandazarr231
    @amandazarr231 3 месяца назад

    not the kissy lips neck tat 😭

    • @waytoowifey
      @waytoowifey 3 месяца назад

      @@amandazarr231 hahaha girl 😂 it’s okay we’ve all been there

  • @daviddeharo39
    @daviddeharo39 3 месяца назад

    As a golden retriever married 28 year old. Yes, you need to show interest but if you show it in a game you will get a player. If you are real and upfront about how you feel you will get the real ones and you will save your energy from these players. So learn to know what you want a player or a husband.. so how can you be upfront. Ask if they are single or looking for someone first. Don't approach with that question, always introduce yourself first. Then ask them that. That will right away put your interest out there and show then that you care for loyalty. Then depending on their answer. (Be careful with liers, dudes who lie may go around the question, hesitate or look over their friend first). When they answered just be like cool I'm asking because I think you are handsome or my type or cute or what ever just complement. They will probably say thanks and laughter in nervousness haha. But as soon as you do that ask them if they would be down to talk and see if you have similar interest. From there I suggest you leave get their contact info for a first date. Like a said a real man will appreciate the effort and recognize the honor cuz we all know how hard it is to approach and feel rejected so you already have extra points. So if they are interested and they are confident enough on their masculinity and their self steam they will show it with their following actions. If they are insecure and immature it will show as well because they won't know how to behave.

    • @daviddeharo39
      @daviddeharo39 3 месяца назад

      Also be ready for rejection remember that no matter how much you fail it never equates to your worth. Also don't try to stick to a single type of man cuz that drastically reduces your chances to find someone. More often than not men don't realize they fall in these female categories of player or nerdy looking because we don't understand or care for fashion. Give them the benefit of the doubt and be honest as well about it and it may even make them change for you towards an aperience or interest you like.

    • @daviddeharo39
      @daviddeharo39 3 месяца назад

      Good luck ot there!

  • @maxisunleashed1855
    @maxisunleashed1855 3 месяца назад

    My two cents as a man, while is true that giving everything and going easy mode on a men could generate a loss of interest because the man can think that he is very confortable and nothing bad will happen, I don't think you have to keep your partner on hills everytime, maybe settle on the middle of that Idea, just be bothering enough so that he does not think he keeps you on no effort. Actually you can make a paralelism with Jobs, imagine you as a women are the Company and the men are the workers, would you want a worker that is super confortable at his job doing the bare minimun, ofc no, but also as he is your partner but not your worker you would not want him to be exploited, that is going the other end of the extremes, as I said, maybe is better to be middle point. And besides, if its explained properly It could help improve that men into a better men. But I Would not advice to keep him on hills every single second. I would think it as we are trying to be a Team of Two. Where no one is more right than the other, although maybe men have to yield more in relationships but Don't reach the confrontation point, a man does not want to confront the women he loves, he wantes to protect her and wantes to know that she is a safe place to come back after being in society where he is going to be misstreated. You are not his caregiver either but I guess that providing some soothing on the women ends makes them more in tone with their femeninity and there for also more attractive for a man, knowing that you have someone that you can talk to, and that will patch you up to continuo onwards, that is pure Gold ladies. Hope you all good luck looking for partners!

    • @ektaaasar
      @ektaaasar 3 месяца назад

      As a woman I agree with you. But it can also be other way around where women keep waiting & waiting. Unfortunately, many people don't understand how to strike right balance. I went through this as I was also way too lenient & easy going with the guy I was in talking stages with & as we would see each other regularly at the gym..but did not talk much after a few good initial interactions as I feel I unknowingly made some mistake due to which he pulled away. But he did not openly tell me what upset him or he is no longer keen. I did not know where n how to draw boundaries in my case as after he pulled away he would later come n talk to me when he wanted to & disappear for months in between & barely communicated with me in between despite seeing each other almost everyday at the fitness centre. We would just exchange hi hello & some surface level conversations. So it was on & off. I couldn't understand & kept waiting often for him. I would reach out in between but would not get good response. I was not aware how to deal with it, like if there is something between us or not. It was confusing. This went on for like a year. I showed loyalty in the talking stages itself. Anyway once I confronted him when I reached my limits he put me in the friend zone. I never bothered him thereafter n I left the fitness centre. And he reached out to check after 6 months. What's the news at my end. I just told him briefly what I am up to & kept interaction brief.Don't know if he was already in another relationship earlier then or I was rebound. So ya I realise I should have given him some stress & not let me take for granted. But then some women who are toxic would purposely give their guys stress by causing drama very often to keep them on their toes which is not right also.

    • @maxisunleashed1855
      @maxisunleashed1855 3 месяца назад

      @@ektaaasar Honestly I would not know what is the right thing to do for a women in that scenario. When you say you confronted him, you mean, you declared or proposed him to drink something? It makes me sad that people are not open to say, I may never want anything with you but keep you on their eternal waiting list. Is happening to me with a Girl that I met and I keep inviting her to the cinema or doing some activity together but she takes two days to answer, and even tho she is polite and even feels flattered, I feel like I am just being toyed around and I'm losing hope. I Told her That it is okay and that I will still try inviting her into the future but I don't know, I hate that she takes too long to answer, and some other aspects. In the beging she strike me as this sweet girl that is going through some rought stuff, like her mother is hospitalized and her job situation is kind of problematic. And I can't support her entirely on her job because is OF or something in between. But I believe she likes me, just that as she said to me, she's not looking for a relationship as she exited a toxic one not long ago. I feel the right thing to do is just stop texting her, which is what I plan to do after a last invitation.

  • @sadiqua7
    @sadiqua7 3 месяца назад

    I would love to have someone write a book on how to respond when they reach out. Like an actual script because it’s just to exhausting navigating their mind field. I’m FA leaning secure now and I know I’ve never been so incapable of adult communication as my ex. He text me after 3 months of ghosting and leaving me on read and apologized but when I replied he just again left me on read. Why bother apologizing for something you continue to do?? He does it to everyone so I don’t take it personally anymore, I just rather he just leave me the F alone.

  • @globalinsight7938
    @globalinsight7938 3 месяца назад

    Your channel will definitely grow, this is quality content and you are very personable and current. Subscribed!

    • @waytoowifey
      @waytoowifey 3 месяца назад

      Awh thank you so much!!!

  • @Picture_Perfect_AxL
    @Picture_Perfect_AxL 3 месяца назад

    Great content ❤

  • @melissalopata1141
    @melissalopata1141 3 месяца назад

    It’s funny how avoidant turn secure when they meet the right woman. Maybe he’s not that into you and it’s that simple.

  • @desiemehrabian1133
    @desiemehrabian1133 3 месяца назад

    Why would an avoidant initiate a relationship when it’s devolved into a friendship more or less at this point?