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Such simple things...such beautiful things....

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You are correct. Most "friendships" are transactional. They get something from you, and in exchange, you get some thing from them. At that level, a delicate balance must be maintained. I know many people but only have 2 close friends. They ask nothing from me and I require nothing from them. I simply enjoy being around them. I also enjoy being alone and that is my preference. If you are not friends with yourself, you cannot be a true friend to others because you will be looking to use them to fill a void. A true friend energizes you. A shitty friend sucks the energy out of you, like a vampire.

Same. I walk fast, talk fast, think fast, drive fast, on and on. Always been this way. I hate anything slow and always feel guilty if I am not accomplishing something. When I do something, it has to be perfect. You can see it as a problem, but only if you contrast it with how most other people are, or you can accept that you are different, that it is just how you are wired. Like with anything, there is an upside and a down side. No particular way is "right". Still though, silence and stillness should be practiced and cultivated, for balance. I have been a meditator for 50+ years and I highly recommend it. As Blaise Pascal said: "All men's miseries derive from not being able to sit in a quiet room alone".

i think you have adhd (you match my symptoms)

Yeah you’re not alone. I got this too. Always feel like I gotta be doing something or I’m falling behind. I also bury my emotions just to push through. Trying to slow down tho, take a break, and let all the bad stuff out

I have still not been adopted. Do we need to get a new lawyer?

I believe this is a wonderful time for you. I am grateful that you are enjoying it.

Your hair is fantastic, I can't take my eyes off your hair.

Sometimes we just need to learn how to be bored too.

I like how you are equating 'to dream' as in being..."To be or not to be,"...sort of.... As in facing the type of person one is or isn't and then going for it in one way or another. It doesn't necessarily address as to why a person is here ultimately, yet it might very well lead to it by following one's inner personification...as long as one is using one's mind and finding out eventually *_how_* one got here (beyond the biological aspect of just being here). Good day Sofia.

Always fall your dreams it’s the secret to have a wonderful life ❤ Love your cat 😻

And here I was, thinking she was going to talk about dreams, as in sleep dreams.😅 I guess this was enough internet for the day

Wow... you're really really really really really really really really cute... Also... CAT !!

Let that imperial orange cat adopt me!

Please adopt me and buy me that imperial blue suit.

No one can disagree with you! You are right, life gives us this opportunity to follow our dreams or not to follow them! But we also need to think about courage to follow what they have dreamed of. Sofia, darling, I am so glad to see you smiling. You are thrilled and radiating positive energy. 😊 thank you for sharing 😊

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I see kitty i Like 👍💚

How about taking your cunny instead ? Is that good enough ?

Proud of you ❤

It was a bot comment, those are quite annoying and awful, i'm Christian, and i really hate when peoples force their belif on others, or leave comments like that. My main reason why i belive in God is because i feel less lonely, is like i have someone i can talk to in my head, or ask things, or complain to, without having any espectations. Often if i'm alone or i cry, i just get in my feed some quotes, is hard to explain, but peoples always treated me bad. So having someone that i can feel safe with , is a must for me, that is why i love to belive in God, i just don't ask. I did used to be like "why me" when i was having hard times. I even tried to km-self for years, and even now i'm mentally unstable about it at times, but i remember that is not worth it, there is rain but there is sun after. Is not God's fault for what peoples do, i just started to learn that what is made for me will come. But is up to anyone to belive in what they want or not belive in anything, and that's what make me different from others, cause i respect anyone about it. And i hope you're mentally ok and strong, from the video it seems like you're strong and confident, but i know the difference between camera and behind, so i hope behind it you're fine aswell.

You are *_SO_* naturally beautiful; someone must have told you this before? Us guys (men) 'die' to find women like yourself, whom are resourceful yet just naturally feminine and comfortable with themselves. PLEASE pick the right guy to share life with...please, because you are in a rare field of real women. (I say this without a demand for anything to you.)

😮😮😮 you are great! Thank you for sharing 😊

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Your words inspire courage and confidence.

Tell you what we think? Why you have an eye for scenery and good sense of lyricism in and with words; you express yourself as to draw us in and seemed appropriately dedicated to finding good meaning in and for your life. Why, you could write, I think, easily and not have to feel like you are not saying something new...No, the way you think and speak (just even generally here) would be enough to get people interested in reading your material. You're balanced as to when you speak on things and your writing (again I believe) would make your interest on the topic flourish in the minds of others. That is what I think.... Truly.

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“Say it in tears, and take up your space” Thank you for sharing this message, and your story. I’m reminded of all the times I would show tears when asserting myself because it was so weird to assert myself in any way. Not saying people should cry, but that I agree that it’s important to say your piece, take your space, and own what you say. RUclips algo blessed me with your video. Much love, and good luck to your future projects

I do not know why I make myself as small as possible. I need to be okay with being around, thank you!

This is killer advice. Just get out there and be the BIGGEST and BEST version of yourself. Why exist if you can't do it 100% authentically according to the DIVINE plan of the universe.

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Nice hair

Great way to put some real advice. If you let other people live in your head, they take the space around you too.

Preciosa...

can u give me a job

Yes it's always best to be free and not try fitting in, cause that's what keeps you in the right mindset

Whatever that means to you, do that 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

Ty for the reminder ❤

Until I was 16 years old, I came to myself thinking "what will people say to me if I do this?" I am now 17 years old and in the last 1 year I have opened up some space for myself, freely, no matter what anyone says, I started to work for myself and the happiness of the people I love and I realized that this 1 year has been more productive than the previous 16 years, so I recommend it to everyone :)

It tastes like peace

That was what I need, I was studying hard and now I feel so good bc of Sun. Thank you Sofia

So nice over there, I love it 😍

Looks like a peaceful place 😊! Thank you for sharing 😊

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Real Life " Social Skills " are hugely lacking in these younger generation.its so sad.Social Media has replaced intimacy between people.Its so easier to make friends as kids because kids hearts are more "Wide Open".😢

There definitely are Sofia... given my 33 years around this sphere i think people are frightened and overstimulated to the point that they have trouble just slowing down and investing time in others for the sake of actually connecting with another human being. It's sad, but people I thought I would be friends with for life have fallen off the map and never really reached out unless they needed or wanted something for them, not for the relationship. It hurts, but you definitely chose a much healthier path to go down - you will find those individuals when you are out living your life doing the things you love. And if not, you got to enjoy yourself anyway!

I've noticed this in my life lately and it's frustrating because I am 40 and you would think by now I would have found good friends. But I would get texts asking for money or rides or favors. Never any texts asking how I am or even happy birthday once a year. When I suggest we should hang out they always have an excuse unless I say "I'll treat." I am just over it, but it does get lonely and you find yourself with bad friends just to cure the loneliness even if you know better.

Ciao Sofia, apprezzo molto il messaggio. Circa un anno fa (inizio del secondo anno di università) ho deciso di staccarmi da un gruppo di amici "storico" che mi portavo avanti dalla prima liceo. Andando avanti con il tempo mi sono visto come sempre più escluso, tanto che venivo a sapere spesso di uscite ed eventi a cui loro partecipavano o che loro stessi organizzavano senza degnarmi della minima considerazione. Dopo averli, per dirla in grandi linee, mandati a quel paese, mi sono sentito malissimo per un paio di mesi, durante i quali ho iniziato anche a sentire uno psicologo, e ho conosciuto altre persone che a oggi mi danno valore per quello che sono, senza far si che io debba meritarmi l'attenzione con favori e necessità. Staccarsi, anche a costo della solitudine, è sempre meglio che rimanere appesi a una sanguisuga pronta a sfruttarci in ogni occasione. Oggi sto molto meglio e ho ripreso molta della sicurezza che avevo perso; pensavo di essere io il problema, ma così non era. Saluti da Torino :) -Luca