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haha I hope you posted this for rage bait. The fact that she divorced you means she's a good woman and I know she'll find better. You seem to have it all figured out, but I hope your heart stays with Jesus. Have some humility (how do I know you're reading this?)

Holy shit, I do not even xcare that you cheated, but eveything you say seems so disingenuous

Yeah, the Catholics are having a hard time.They have done this for years with widely varying results. Yeah too young can get you too. Maybe you should try it to show it works. What makes you such a catch?

You can marry without getting it sanctioned by the courts

“submissive beautiful virgin” women exist, you just can’t afford them. you’re going for the top 10-5% of women but you’re not in that range of desirability yourself. if you want to find a woman like that you’ll need to reach that level of high value yourself by working on your looks, status, and finances. it’ll also be much harder if you’re older as most women like that don’t really have daddy issues so they prefer men their age

2:53 It takes some balls to take responsibility for your behavior & get to a point where "I look great naked" & to say "it's bad" to divorce & how it fucks up your whole life & relationships & family situation, but your brain only just stopped developing at 25 years old & your ability now at 29 to create structure to your life where you make better decisions & are willing to be held accountable in public shows that if you stay on that path you can really grow in amazing ways as a person & in your potential as a partner with someone one day who will relate with you & accept your past & see that you grew in your autonomy to a point where you can take care of yourself & become a healthier person & maybe appreciate a woman who is also independent & has goals of her own that align with everything you are both trying to learn achieve in your life. Codependency kills everything it destroys all relationships by posting this you are willing to live in the real world & put your mistakes out as a public record because you know how it feels to cause suffering & to suffer & how to grow out of that & choose to be a man & to learn about how to have healthier behavioral patterns because your autonomy independence & letting go of crutches & dependancies mirror the semen retention movement in that there is greater satisfaction if begin a creative working agent & achieving things yourself & in doing iso you can also find solace in setting an example for others. You will find that if you maintain self care & independence that when you turn 35 you will be like wow I am super young I am 35 I have my whole life ahead of me. Keep doing all the basic work the self care the training (& sunscreen usage) to pursue longevity & I think if you get married the next time it might be completely different than your first marriage & much happier & might involve a great deal of mutual independence but also empathy & the value of working as a team that inspires each other, just do not get into a relationship if you think it will end badly try to find someone where you both agree that it should never end badly if & when it does & apply the same honesty you have here & then you will experience a relationship worth working on Most of us even if you are the most brilliant attractive wealthy person on the planet *never find that person or never find the one* so you may as well keep working on the self respect you have going on here to keep setting that example & prepare for the journey ahead You have a good optimism & it is good that you are healthier after this while process & the likelihood this will continue will be high Like I said at 35 you will be like "I am a kid I am so young" keep working on yourself & your relationships so that they are healthy keep taking accountability & everything will always be more satisfying & empowering

You seem full of yourself. You proceed to talk about all your "wins" instead of being a man and owning your shit. Perhaps take a moment to think why you did it and talk to people about that. I am not surprised you are divorced.

No you shouldn't get married because the marriage vow means nothing when you can break it for no reason, all it means is you give your power to your wife over all your assets, which is against the bible.

Friend, you're 29, you got years in front of you. Once you've apologized, you've done all you can do. Take care of yourself...I'm not joining your coaching program.

I'm so sorry. It's obvious on your face this stress aged you terribly! Chill out, you're still kinda young!

You already felt shame, sadness, regret, anger, heartache. All of the above. Idk you personally but at this point it sounds like you are creating a complex dynamic of feeling sorry for yourself but in the form of shame, telling yourself you actually aren’t sorry for yourself, so you can keep hurting yourself. Each day we are a brand new person, and yet again we get to choose our values. You obviously are empathetic and very honest, which are great values and pretty rare in itself. You made a mistake forgetting those values and the lesson you learnt was a tough one, but now you know what it means to stay true to those values you already have. Learn to trust yourself again and let go of the past, you already are a good person, no singular mistake defines any of us. Keep your head up, stay positive, someone new will appreciate this wiser more loyal version of you. ❤❤

31 years old, divorced one year. I'm a Christian, but my wife was Muslim. And a virgin when we met. Sure there are differences of faith, but I was happy to be with a modest, intelligent girl who believed in God. We were together for 4 years. At first it was good... but she didn't have any friends in the city where we lived (Chicago). I encouraged her to join activities and clubs that might give her more connections. Soon, she had lots of friends. Lots of girlfriends, and even some guy friends. I'm a secure person, and I thought she was a person of character. So it didnt bother me. She started dressing promiscuously to go out with them. I asked her, "What if your (very religious) grandmother saw these clothes? What would she think?" Somehow that made me the bad guy. She started staying out late with them. I started seeing flirty texts from other men. When I would raise issues, she would scream, hit me, throw (and destroy) her phone, even pulled a knife out of the drawer to threaten me. I've seen her scream at her mother in the same way, when her mother is a kind and gentle woman, so it's not just me that she did it with. I told her that we couldn't keep being together until she started to treat me with respect. Not that she had to take commands from me. But that she had to treat me with the same respect she would treat her coworkers, or a stranger on the street. I truly believed she would work with me to improve our situation. What actually happened is that she divorced me, and started dating the guy from her gym, the same guy I confronted her for sending flirty texts with many months prior, and the same gym I encouraged her to join when she had no friends and was lonely. The entire process was very destructive to my mental state. I watched my mother cheat on my father, and after they divorced he was a shell of a man. I said, I won't let that happen to me. I'll find a woman of character. I really thought the woman I married fit the bill. She believed in God. She didn't drink, she had graduated college a virgin. But none of it mattered. She was as bad as the trashiest women I'd ever known by the end. I don't know what the solution is. I relate to the idea, that I have everything I could want. Maybe I should be doing what you're saying, and trying to focus on helping other people. Other than giving away all of my savings, I'm not sure what help anyone wants from me. Most people don't want to hear the "truth" that would help them. I have lots of out-of-shape friends, who aren't interested in my diet/exercise advice. Same goes for matters of money, or faith... I'm not sure how I could help anyone, without handing over what I've worked my whole life for and managed to scrape together. For now, like you, I go my own way. Good luck, brother.

That’s depressing ): I just want a good woman and that’s not asking for much…

I’m praying God fills the mission field with young men. It’s time to stop playing house and go to the battlefield. Maybe this is a wake up call from God to us.

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So getting married and pro creating Is weak?

I get it man. Truly do. Sometimes it seems impossible.

This video will blow up

Yes, men should get married otherwise they would be living in sin. If you choose not to get married, dont have relations... Edit: After watching the video, you come across as creepy. No offense. Good luck on your healing journey

Appreciate the honesty, and best of luck with your channel

I'm 27 right now at the beginning stages of a divorce. There was no cheating, just soooo much disagreeing on everything on a day to day basis and I became unhappy. And as society goes nowadays, the ONE time I actually open up to her about it, it's used against me. But this is going to be extremely complicated for me. We have 2 kids together and even though I am still involved every single day, I am still going to owe her half of everything: retirement, savings, house, and everything else that I had going. I'm tired and not looking forward to this uphill battle for my kids for the next year. I met her with 0 debt, a savings account, paid off car, and just going good. She drained everything and left. Now I have to go into debt just to get my kids. It's going to suck, but at the same time, I'm so relieved she will be out of my life. Before I met her, I was in fantastic shape. Running every day, lifting x5-6 a week, and eating very well. Since getting married, I can count on one hand how many times I've gone to the gym or on a run, gained almost 80 lbs, and just miserable. The best thing about it, it's only up from here. Long story short, it's nice to see someone in a "similar" situation have positives on the other side of the situation.

Thank you bro 👊🏼 change comes from within. Keep up the good content!

You sound like a man who has never been in love. Women are not all the same, saying 95% of them are the same is insane. I'm not sure what kind of brainlet you have to be to generalize an entire gender like this, but I sincerely hope you find love one day. It's beautiful and it opens up your world in ways you can't possibly comprehend without experiencing it yourself. You may never find it. It's rare. But that's part of what makes it so special.

Hello, hello. Welcome to the "I don't know how this ended up in my recommended, but I'm glad it did" club

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Love it! Thank´s bro really needed that. Greetings from Germany!

By the time you can afford it, the car isn't important.