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JC Lao
Добавлен 13 сен 2022
I hope I can help you with something.
Your Feelings Don't Matter (Do it Anyway)
Of course there're gonna be days where we have to do the work (assignment, tasks, goals) and we don't feel like it.
But our feelings about it don't matter! As long as we do the job anyway, progress is made.
DO THE WORK, ESPECIALLY WHEN YOU DON'T FEEL LIKE IT! 👊
But our feelings about it don't matter! As long as we do the job anyway, progress is made.
DO THE WORK, ESPECIALLY WHEN YOU DON'T FEEL LIKE IT! 👊
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Видео
4 Quick Tips to Sleep FASTER
Просмотров 257 часов назад
What's good bro, wanna sleep faster? 😴 I got some tips for you. Try one of them out. Number 3 is the most effective Definitely will work for you bro 👊 Timestamp: 0:59 Tip 1 2:32 Tip 2 3:29 Tip 3 5:16 Tip 4
Resentment Will Destroy Your Relationship
Просмотров 8014 часов назад
This is one of the key lessons I learned from being in a proper committed relationship. It's so easy to start to fall into the trap of resentment, so I want you to avoid the mistakes I made. I hope you can save your current or future relationship from this bro 🙏 1:20 How do Resentments happens? (my story) 6:40 Are you immature or being taken advantage of? 8:07 How to deal with Resentment
Get rid of this Mindset (It slows you down)
Просмотров 307День назад
You gotta choose carefully what you will invest your time and energy into bro. Just because it's beneficial, it doesn't mean it's good. Hope it helps you 👊
Just START (there is no perfect timing)
Просмотров 9314 дней назад
Starting is the task IS THE PERFECT CONDITION. Enough about thinking how you would do it and what will happen. Just do it, that's the fastest way to progress in anything. Hope it helps you bro 👊
Cheating on Yourself (you gotta stop)
Просмотров 67621 день назад
I have been doing avoiding discomfort lately. It turned me into someone who I hated. I gotta stop and be better. I hope you can learn from my mistake and be better too. 🙏
The Relationship Trap I Fell Into (I thought I was unique lmao)
Просмотров 1,4 тыс.21 день назад
lmao bro I thought I was different. Guess I'm wrong bruv 😂 I started to get worse into the relationship, I got lazy, I got emotional and I got weaker. Hope you don't make the same mistake like I did bro. Tell me what you think 👊
GOT A MASSIVE W TODAY
Просмотров 48Месяц назад
I want to share today's Win with you bro. Hope you adopt the same habits bro. Let's get STRONG 👊
Stop Breaking Promises (To YOURSELF)
Просмотров 112Месяц назад
Respect Yourself for once bro. If you break your own promises and lose respect for yourself, You're done. We can't be like that bro, LET'S DO BETTER 👊
Do it Later (Just SLEEP)
Просмотров 2,2 тыс.Месяц назад
Let me give you a quick and simple tip to finish your assignments and tasks better and easier bro. You'll gonna love how easy this is. Hope it helps you bro 👊
Forget Winning (Just Beat YOURSELF)
Просмотров 367Месяц назад
"Forget Wins and Losses, Just Beat Yourself" That's the lesson I want to share with you today bro 👊 I know that we have to compete with everyone in this world, but if you can't even beat yourself, then how can you beat the others?
Maturity is NOT Listening to Your Parents
Просмотров 62Месяц назад
(This was recorded back in December 2023) This video is one of my most important lesson yet. Hope you can take the time to watch it bro 🙏
How I Learned to Trust Her
Просмотров 2372 месяца назад
I'm gonna tell you how I learnt to love and trust my girl properly, knowing that it could potentially hurt me. Hope you learn something bro 👊 0:00 Intro 1:05 My Past 2:16 My Relationship now 3:41 Why it’s Hard (Competition & Commitment) 7:43 How I Started to Trust Her 🎵 Music iced coffee by ‘moonboy’ • iced coffee ☕️ jazz lofi vibes (no co... 💿 Listen everywhere httpsffm.toicedcoffee ✅ For more...
Start Again Strong!!! (I'm back in Japan)
Просмотров 672 месяца назад
Finally back to Japan after a long visit back home. Going to keep grinding and staying strong. Join me bro 👊 Hope it helps you 🙏
What I Learned about Dealing with Pain and Rejection
Просмотров 362 месяца назад
I learned to open my body and my heart. We do this so that we can be strong and resilient to any the feeling of pain and rejection we received from others. I hope it helps you bro 👊
Small Update (First Test to My Resolve) Raw & Unedited
Просмотров 222 месяца назад
Small Update (First Test to My Resolve) Raw & Unedited
The Most IMPORTANT Trait of a High Quality Girl
Просмотров 7583 месяца назад
The Most IMPORTANT Trait of a High Quality Girl
How I Got a High-Quality Girlfriend
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How I Got a High-Quality Girlfriend
Be Careful Who You Listen to (even your parents)
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Be Careful Who You Listen to (even your parents)
Ok
This is good, needed to learn this
I just read a book, 5 mins in I become sleepy af
bro how did u know I had trouble w/ my sleep recently😭
I got chu my boi 👊. Try those tips, tell me later if they work 🤝
Tired of relationship videos yet? (lol)
Love language sure is complicate
had me fked up for a good while haha
I need to rewatch it again because I got confused with your explanation on the youtube 20/80 example.
Let me make it simple for you bro - Scripting, recording, editing, posting: are the only essential task to move RUclips forward. Heck, even just Recording and Posting. Those tasks gives you the most bang for your buck when you invest into it. They are the ESSENTIAL tasks. 80% of the benefits - Creating RUclips banners, SMO maxing, designing channel page, sharing to friends and family, even commenting (I do it because I really enjoy talking with you guys) are the tasks that ARE BENEFICIAL but not important enough to put more time and effort in if you don't have to. They're beneficial, but not ESSENTIAL. 20% of the benefits Basically, everything, every goal, every project/business and tasks all have 1-2 tasks that will give 80% of the outcome. The rest only give 20%. If you know that a test has 8 questions that are algebra and 2 questions that are calculus. And you only have 5 minutes to study. You would know which topic to INVEST your precious 5 minutes on.
Hayyy bro ur edit is dope now ahahhahah
haha just a bit at the start lol. Thank you 🙏
I have been having this conversation with me every night for the past few years. Keep failing to get the momentum rolling, and then feel miserable at the end of the day. 😭
It is so real … i cheated on myself, i will get back on Track !
this is true. If I weren't lazy or made myself excuses, I wouldn't have failed my first college class and now I have to retake it and that is burdening my future self. Thank you for this shift in mindset. I need to start thinking "what can I do now won't burden my future self?".
Exactly brother. We made mistakes in the past, but now we gotta focus on the present so that our future selves don't suffer. And one day he's going to look back on you and be grateful that you did the hard thing. Remember that 👊
Yeah, thinking too much doesn't produce results. Just starting it is what actually matters. 100% man 💪
Fuck, this video has 89 views and I am one of them. Literally a sign I need stop cheating on myself...I needed to hear this.
You got this bro 👊
This is something so many know they struggle with, but you just need to hear it out loud to let it sink in. Really nice video, thanks
Thank you for your words bro 🙏
Thank you bro🤝
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valid post peak as always were just lying to ourselves
Exactly bro, it's so easy to fall into this. We gotta do better bro 🙏
break up. if you're having doubts that means you aren't meant to be. a good partner will grow with you... duh.
Check attachment theory
Fix on yourself first, boys. Take care of yourself and only then, you can take care of someone else.
I think although your goals should always be important, eventually, when you are in a committed, long-term relationship your partner SHOULD be one of your top priorities if not your top priority. It's not a weakness or a distraction, it's what it means to be a life partner and what it means to have a family if/when you have one. The more "elements" you bring into your life the more you have to balance them, if you have a girlfriend or other type of commitment you won't have time to work quite as much as if you're single, but this other element of your life (should) brings something valuable that you shouldn't overlook. I think putting too much weight on "success" is a trap of its own in which many people fall, often due to their upbringing. Rather than looking at your life in terms of success, I think you will gain more when you look at your life in terms of happiness. What makes you FEEL the happiest? What generates the most joy in your life? Make that a priority, and when possible your top priority. It's more likely to be the people around you than some societal and likely superficial measure of success. If you're very young, I think your education should still come first because that impacts your future and overall life quality, but after that, as long as you have enough to live comfortably (according to YOUR own standards), there's nothing wrong with putting more of a focus on the things that actually make you happy. In fact, you're likely to have a much more enjoyable life that way.
As for women and love in general, I think women value when a man loves them and can be vulnerable with them, aka when they're "invested". I think the version of you that they fall in love with is not only the one that is driven or focused on whatever you were doing before, but also the one that was pursuing her and being thoughtful of her. So apart from continuing to work on yourself and your confidence, it's also important to continue "pursuing" your partner, and showing affection regardless of how long you've been together. Sometimes relationships decline because one or both people get lazy or comfortable and stop putting in effort or because one or both people stop prioritizing or focusing on the relationship, so try to find a good balance!
Truly well said. This is all the things I totally agree with and would be beneficial for all of us. Congratualation bro, you have nailed and expanded on all of the things I think would help young men who will go through relationships in the future. I couldn't have said it better myself. This is valuable enough that I will pin this so other guys can learn from this. Thank you for your help 🙏 For the guys still needing some clarity, read this man's valuable comment. I think it would you a lot.
Lowkey wanna get a girlfriend just to break up with her and get a motivational boost.
Bro I had the same thought as you wtf 💀
Krazy. Being in a relationship means being vulnerable and seeing each other for who they really are. It’s harder to achieve that if you’re always thinking that your partner for some reason is always looking for an upgrade and that they’re gonna be more attracted to more this and that. Sounds like a you problem. Also, why do you make it sound like men who are really into their girlfriends would fall into a trap as if being in a relationship with women is only at a man’s expense when it’s not. I think, instead of going on YT to rant about how they can’t measure up or something, actual men just do it.
Yo bro, thank you for watching the vid and giving me your thoughts. First of all, that's not what I'm trying to convey at all. The mindset of never being vulnerable or never be emotionally attached is a wrong mindset. Because that's how love is supposed to be. Being anxious, worrying that if we are not our best self all the time is a wrong mindset to be in a relationship with someone. I totally agreed with you on that. I think there is a misunderstanding here or I wasn't clear enough with my message. But Yes, my mindset is to improve myself all the time, not out of fear that my woman will leave me for a better one, BUT out of my love her and wanting to give her the best I could, Because I Love Her. Thank you giving me your thoughts🙏
This is exaclty what happened to me and I lost her. Got comfortable and thought life was complete with her. Started becoming attached and was no where near who I once was.
Bro you just have a oneitis for this one chick....Yes she might be a good girlfriend, but there is no the one..if y'all break up, you'll probably meet someone else and feel the same way ABT them as you do for her now
I don't think so bro. You and me both know that there is a billion other guys and girls out there and no one person is "the one", so I get what you mean completely. BUT, if we don't allow ourselves to fully love our woman with all our heart as ingetting more attached emotionally, then how are we suppose to love them bro? I truly think there is not other way but to risk getting potentially hurt and betrayed, but at least we did with our hearts fully opened. So no matter what happens, we have no regrets.
For me I got play by girl so yup 👍 but now back grind start to enjoy myself and my passion ( hobby)
For me, Having a relationship in teenage life is such a waste of time. That's the lesson I have in my life. U can love but love yourself more than others. You're the more important + I love your content, keep it up and nice quality vd as well
100%. Those teenage love, highschool love almost always like a test period. And if we get a heartbreak from those times, it's more pain than it is pleasure. "Learn to Love slow, but Love properly and wholeheartedly" is what I would say is a better mindset for us men.
I think it is very healthy. I only got into a relationship in my early twenties. It was also my partners first long relationship. The relationship dragged on for way longer than it should and was quite a bad relationship. I will never allow myself to be in a similar relationship. If I went through a relationship ealrier in life (high school) when my life was less stressfull, I would have learned the same lesson without the negative effect it had in my proffesional life. I would have probably also taken it less serieusly and broke it off earlier instead of trying to "fix" something that can't be fixed.
@@Cyhcg5uhgb It's like you have experienced a relationship in your teenage can bore u in the twenties, it is Bc U already knew what the relationship is and starting to take not seriously for that. Such a rare to find true love in this generation for teenagers
@@horuzz2009 love the quoto
You learn a lot about your outlook on life, and yourself. Everything is a learning curve. I agree the relationship its self prolly was a waste of time but learning what you don’t like at that time, Is better then figuring it out at 25-35 or older.
Good bro I train boxing 🥊 also fun hahaha
Good for you brother. I train jiu jitsu, try it out, it’s crazy what it does to you
Still love ur content talking some good topic👊 I also use to break my promises to build a aesthetic or dream body I want but fail then I lose trust myself so now been working out by being discipline and consistency and have a goal and stick it haha
Don’t be the thinkers but the doer
Be the doer not a thinker
100% bro 🤝
Love the content. Keep em coming dude.
Thank you so much bro 🙏
brother can u make a video about no label relationship ? need some advices right now enlighten me if you could
Maybe I can help you personally about that. Wanna hop on discord and talk? Azizphs#8926
@@jclao i couldnt my pc microphone isn't working at the moment its just she loves me shows all the ways she could but we been at it for almost a year now I'm thinking is all the time used gonna be wasted? stuff like that her mother is abit strict so that might be one of the problems i don't even know what to do should i pursue or stop
@@ra1playz I didn't mean calling bro, just text me. I'll see if I can understand your situation. But I'm starting to see what you mean bro. hit me up if you're interested in chatting a bit 👊
Bro! I literally did the same at the start of 2023!
Let's goooooooo 🔥🔥🔥
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“For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life. For God did not send His Son into the world to condemn the world, but that the world through Him might be saved. “He who believes in Him is not condemned; but he who does not believe is condemned already, because he has not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God. And this is the condemnation, that the light has come into the world, and men loved darkness rather than light, because their deeds were evil. For everyone practicing evil hates the light and does not come to the light, lest his deeds should be exposed. But he who does the truth comes to the light, that his deeds may be clearly seen, that they have been done in God.”” John 3:16-21 NKJV 1. Romans 3:10 As it is written: “None is righteous, no, not one; 2. Romans 3:23 For all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God 3. Romans 5:8 But God shows his love for us in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us. 4. Romans 5:12 Therefore, just as sin came into the world through one man, and death through sin, and so death spread to all men, because all sinned- *5. Romans 6:23 For the wages of sin is death, but the free gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord.* 6. Romans 10:9-11 Because, if you confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. For with the heart one believes and is justified, and with the mouth one confesses and is saved.For the Scripture says, “Everyone who believes in him will not be put to shame.” 7. Romans 10:13 For “everyone who calls on the name of the Lord will be saved.” *Please think about the message, Christ lived, died, and rose, Absorbing and satisfying the justice of God for sin, so that all who believe/trust in Him will not die in their sins and face justice but receive the gift of eternal life* ““Teacher, which is the great commandment in the Law?” And He said to him, “ ‘You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your mind.’ This is the great and foremost commandment. And the second is like it, ‘You shall love your neighbor as yourself.’ On these two commandments hang the whole Law and the Prophets.”” Matthew 22:36-40 LSB ““You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall not commit adultery’; but I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman to lust for her has already committed adultery with her in his heart. But if your right eye makes you stumble, tear it out and throw it from you; for it is better for you to lose one of the parts of your body, than for your whole body to be thrown into hell. And if your right hand makes you stumble, cut it off and throw it from you; for it is better for you to lose one of the parts of your body, than for your whole body to go into hell.” Matthew 5:27-30 LSB ““Come to Me, all who are weary and heavy-laden, and I will give you rest. Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For My yoke is easy and My burden is light.”” Matthew 11:28-30 LSB “Jesus *said to him, “I am the way, and the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father but through Me.” John 14:6 LSB “Therefore I said to you that you will die in your sins. For unless you believe that I am He, you will die in your sins.”” John 8:24 LSB “So Jesus was saying to those Jews who had believed Him, “If you abide in My word, then you are truly My disciples; and you will know the truth, and the truth will make you free.” They answered Him, “We are Abraham’s seed and have never yet been enslaved to anyone. How is it that You say, ‘You will become free’?” Jesus answered them, “Truly, truly, I say to you, everyone who commits sin is the slave of sin. And the slave does not remain in the house forever; the son does remain forever. So if the Son makes you free, you will be free indeed.” John 8:31-36 LSB
That's the advice i needed to hear
Dang also congratulations for 147 sub u did ur milestones hahaha
This is an actual solid advice, thanks bro!
Thats a good plan !
Ehh bro you are doing great alr, don't stop posting stuff like this keep it up. This was one of the best advices I could've ever gotten. Thanks✨🥷
Thank you so much bro 🙏
"Cause I'm Asian, you know how it is"
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I seriously needed this. I've been struggling to fix my sleep schedule, so thank you for this. Btw, I have to commend you for your effort on this channel.
Thank you man, I try to make sure I don't give up, that has been the hardest part about doing this. Hope you're able to fix your schedule and improve your life bro🙏
found this while i was doing my assignment, now that youve said it, might as well just do it
Wow this is my first time finding a criminally underrated channel
holy sh*t, bruh you have no idea how much encouragements those words gave me 🙏
To be honest I have bad sleep too but now be relax and do it later is a great video.
I beat myself everyday in the shower 💪
shhhheee bro 💀
I have no clue as to how RUclips has for the first time in a decade shown me a video with less than 200 views. This is a great confidence booster and motivation to anyone who has either given up on finding someone or that just needs that little push to go talk to the 1 girl they like. As I have a 12 year old coded brain the phrase that you keep repeating "just beat yourself" is just perfect. It makes my mind subconsciously change the meaning to "just beat your you know what"
Appreciate the stop-by bro 🙏. Just get that first step of talking to her done. It's actually easier than we all thought.
U talk good fact and good messages 😎
Is true ur challenge is yourself
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Nice video talking some good stuff keep going bro 😎
Can’t wait for next video ahahha
Always appreciate the encouragement bro 👊. School finally started so I got pretty busy, but I'm trying, I hope you're doing well too brother 🙏
Hay ur welcome I like ur video I been in self improvement so support the bro and like ur video also i know u going to get 100 sub for sure 👊😉fist bump
This mf in love bro