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Thank you for this video! Gave me some questions to ask at my first Midwife appointment, including any guidelines they may have to follow for going late. I'm hoping we don't have issues with that. I'm 5 weeks pregnant with my first!

I would blame the hospital and doctors for not taking this serious. Then you being so adamant about not having anything to help with the pain. This story is so wrong in so many ways…please new moms, don’t do this. Ask questions and get the best medical help…

I found myself in the same situation with getting toys I didn’t really see a fit for in our home. What I’ve been doing is adding those toys to a travel bag/bin in our car for just that, traveling, staying at airbnbs or family outside of town. The toys still get used but not on a regular basis. Of course, I still do some purging/selling but usually when my son no longer cares for the items/outgrows them and when it’s not something we’d want to keep for a potential future child.

I am cloth diapering but i still would like some disposables for newborn and possibly traveling.

Active labor when contractions consistently last at least 45 seconds 3 mins apart. You may not be dilated enough so there are interventions they need to do or emergency c sections, but you’re not having active labor if you’re able to walk it off and do things to make your contraction better. Usually when you’re close to having labor, you’ll feel contractions. However, I feel like if you have that many contractions they should have given you meds to ripen your cervix to help with the dilation because all those contractions for a few days could have stress your baby that’s why the baby pooped inside the womb.

Hey there! German midwife here and your video just popped up on my fyp. Thank you for telling your story ❤ I really am sorry your experience was not how you have wanted it to be. I understand and am sorry. Also I think some comments here are rather rude and not sensitive. This is a momma that wished her experience to be different and that is absolutely understandable. If I am allowed to give you or any reader a little advise or suggestion as a midwife AND a mother: I was going for the most natural experience for my births as well and I know all the things that can happen in a delivery ward and the medical interventions happening or the things the hospital staff sometimes does not do to encourage a natural birth. So for me a hospital birth was not an option. I gave birth in a BIRTH CENTRE and my second was born AT HOME and it was THE BEST DECISION for me! So natural; I was self-determined, gave birth in upright positions, not forced to do anything I did not want to, was able to eat and drink and give birth in the water, no pushing on the belly or intense pushing the baby out, everybody respected all my decision like for example clamping the cord when the placenta is birthed etc. ☺ I can really really HIGHLY RECOMMEND a birth outside of the hospital to any healthy mother with a healthy pregnancy. There are so incredibly many advantages compared to a birth in the hospital, most certainly way less interventions and therefore no intervention cascade leading to more interventions leading to more complications and risks. Also outside-the-hospital births are not less safe! At least here in Germany a home birth is the safest way to give birth for several reasons (if the mother is healthy) ☺ If you or any other mom has got any questions please ask me! I am happy to help. 🧡 There are also so many beautiful home birth vlogs here on RUclips, that can help you see the Beauty of home birth ☺

What baby diaper do you recommend for me to get myself

Did all of these things. It's been a JOYFUL experience. 3 weeks in. So thankful to God and my family.

Meal train rules!!

Congratulations!!!

Hi Olivia! I recently found your channel and I’m really enjoying your content!🌷 I’m pregnant with my first baby, and my husband and I have been talking a lot lately about vaccines that are pushed on children, how important it is to be eating organic where you can, and to stay away from processed foods! Your video reminded me of a Tucker Carlson interview with Calley and Casey Means that I really think you would find interesting if you haven’t seen it already. Doesn’t matter where you stand politically, I think as a parent or parent-to-be it’s absolutely worth a listen!! It’s awesome! God bless you and your family 🌷❤️

I feel like your health professionals and birthing class did you such a disservice by not preparing you mentally better for birth. Understanding that all experiences aren’t the same, knowledge on active labor, and expectations when in labor such as this waxing and waning effect with contractions. It’s a lot mentally. But congratulations on your bundle!!!

Im so sorry people have been so rude to you in these comments. Im also so sorry you didnt get the birth preferences you desired i know how disappointing that can be & i know healthy mom and baby was your 1st priority but that doesn't take away the fact it can be disappointing. Even as a midwife i find Pitocin is so overused, im so sorry they upped it without your consent. and unnecessary induction even more so, its because they try and control numbers on the floor but ive known some hospitals to be bordering on harrasing, i also tend to limit cervical checks as much as possible to a degree as it can increase infection risk, it can be uncomfortable and it can be disappointing. You Can say no to any of these if you don't want to be checked permitting. You also can always say no to induction and pitocin, once its not medically necessary of course. Drs dont freely let you know that however. Its also hard to advocate for yourself in the moment i know that from experience. Also really sorry they didnt delay cord clamping that happened with my second last baby and like you they told me they did for 2min lol. Im guessing the shot she offered was pethidine not sure on the pills. All that to stay regardless to how you did it YOU DID IT. Just because this birth didnt go exactly how you hoped doesn't mean your next won't so please dont allow that to put you off. Ive had 7 all widely different births from my eldest being 10week early second was a 76hr pitocin labour, 2 with a failed epidural, 1 with a horrific episiotomy 1 failed induction which led to an emergency csection and last but not least a beautifully redeeming VBAC unmedicated bar gas and air with my last baby my point being your next birth could be exactly how you dream. Please look into gas and air for a pain relief option i dont know why America doesn't offer it. Im in ireland❤

Great info!! Do note that car seats and strollers are toxic as well😅 but there are non toxic brands

🙄 I rarely hear that someone is so clueless about pregnancy, childbirth and the postpartum period, and he went through it. Everything from the beginning to the end is nonsense. Hiding the baby's gender from everyone, making a circus out of the baby's gender, medicines are poison, doctors are enemies, you stick to your desires at the cost of the baby's health... all nonsense.

I’m an ultrasound tech…on that page where it said gender it meant your gender bc you are the patient, not the babies gender. She didn’t want you to look not because it had babies gender but because she probably didn’t want you to see that and get confused

What would be dangerous about an air fryer? It's a small convection oven

Good morning. Watching here while cooking, your baby so cute hugging your leg 🥰. Happy cleaning and keep safe. ❤

lol, me and my brother used to eat dog food when we were younger 😂

I did not like Coterie at all. You should look into EcoPea diapers

I think you did amazing! Considering how long the labor was, you should be really proud of yourself. Thank you for sharing your story and remaining positive. I was able to have unmedicated birth first time around but now with baby #2 learning more about different experiences that other women have and it is good to be prepared for something unplanned. Your birth story also reminded me how important it is to rest and sleep while you still can do this. ❤

The Intro was very much like Hey Shayla

My suggestion to you would be go to midwife next time and take all the classes they offer you and don't read stuff online about "what you should" expect. Every baby and every labor is different.

Wow You’ve named a lot of brands, Thank you. I only knew about 3 brands before. Very helpful video, having my 2nd bby any day now & wanting to do things different wit less chemicals

a beautifil way of thinking that your body is for your husband and for your children as well as covering up modestly for religeous purposes.

What are some improvements you have seen so far?

Haven't eaten an animals or drank their secretions in 30 years. My 26 year old daughter went straight from the breast to soya milk and is still going strong (black belt, rock climber, marathon runner). My 81 year old parents are also vegan - as is my athlete brother. Protein is never an issue providing we eat enough calories - deficiency just isn't a thing. It seems to be that if someone has gas then there may well be underlying gut issues that need to be checked out. I think Hench Herbivore has stories on that - as well as personal experience - and once his issues were sorted he continued happily with the vegan diet.

eggs aren't dairy :)

I was vegan/plant based for seven years. It caused so many health issues and didn’t help clear up a single one in the big picture. I was so inflamed, ended up being super allergic to so many foods, terrible digestion, autoimmune issues, no energy, hormones wrecked. I did so much troubleshooting and was running out of things that I could eat without having an allergic reaction so I lost a ton of weight and felt awful. I really tried to make it work. When I finally gave in to eating animal based foods it was a slow process but finally I’m starting to feel human again

Hi I wear Huggies Goodnites pull ups for night issue? I have wear the Honest pull ups and the diaper are good.

It's so great of you to share this story. You're a brave woman. It sucks that so many people didn't respect your wishes and you felt so much pressure to do things you didn't want. That midwife was not great, sorry to say. Your instincts were great and you should be proud you warriored through. A peaceful and loving, joyful atmosphere brings your oxytocin which increases labor, and no one helped that happen. You were treated so badly. I'm so sorry it wasn't your ideal birth. I'd really suggest getting a duola next time. A duola is your protective bubble to make sure you have the experience you wanted. You'll tell her everything you envision ahead of time so you don't have to think and make the decisions in labor. She can also be your coach and support your husband. I'm so glad to hear your positive outlook and wish the best for you.

Congratulations on your new little miracle. Labor is not for the weak for sure....I had a daughter,56 hrs of HARD labor-contractions were 2 minutes apart for most of that time and a son,69 hrs with 1 1/2 minutes between contractions for 40 of those hours. There was no medication at all for either bc I was just terrified of the drugs hurting my baby. Our daughter was 8'5oz and our son was 9'5oz. I hope your next labor goes faster for you, but at least now you know-IT IS WORTH IT ALL!!!! 🥰

You are growing up good job

I can’t understand this animus you have toward the medical profession. You look at them as your enemy. It seems also that you wanted to control every aspect of the birth. Your body will do what it needs to do and you certainly cannot hurry it along. Worrying about your labor bc you weren’t making progress probably turned into anxiety which is difficult to control. I hope for your next birth you try to relax and listen to your body. It’s okay if you have a long delivery. And please think of the baby before refusing pitocin which would have made all the difference. It’s okay to have medical intervention bc your body needed it. From a mother of three, remember “it is what it is” so just go along with any changes and trust the medical profession. They really have your best interest at heart. ❤️

My sons name is Israel :))

Given your last name, if you use Bishop people will definitely think you like chess 😉 Thanks for the video! Of these I like Gideon the best.

Interesting. Terra has videos showing that everything but the taps and label on the front can be vermicomposted. I’m intrigued now!

I get wanting a natural birth and all, but please Mother's you need to think of the baby and thier health. Your only want is to get the baby out asap, especially after the water has been broken.

Get rid of the second piggy bank!!! I’d keep the one that looks longer lasting or fits a potential style or theme you want to go for. You can be truly grateful for the thought that was put into this, but the gift giver thought they were making life easier or more fun. The toy clutter will only continue to grow. It will be a constant process of decluttering around birthdays and holidays. Your child will be able to participate in this activity later. Neither of my sons ever grew to like stuffed animals. They’re 5 and 3 now. Their friends (same age boys) love stuffed animals though. We still have a few but they literally just use them to throw at each other (like playing dodgeball type of games) 🙃 . My boys would rather play with and assign characters and emotions to their hotwheels cars than a stuffed toy. My 5 yo son has been creating a story line for several months of an entire village of hotwheels. There are multiple families and every car has a name. If he’s truly not interested, don’t hang on to most of it that isn’t very sentimental. I’m about to have my third child, a girl, so maybe someone will finally give these stuffies some affection, lol.

Love that you put the links for vaccines and SIDS

Ya ! We need a part two!!!❤

You poor dear. Next time go for epidural. Four days took too much out of you. Blessings

Hi! So cool blue kitchen. Great motivating deep cleaning as well. Thanks. Have a wonderful week.

I think you’re transitioning from a young woman to a mature mom. When you lose weight you probably wouldn’t want to wear your old clothes anyway. You’re more mature now.

Great story sweet mommy!

This was super helpful!!!

I was thinking about the gender thing. I wonder if it was your identifying patient information which would state female.

Funny how you liked Dyper best! I used pampers pure with my now toddler and tried Dyper recently and it was TERRIBLE. He got a rash right away and it leaked, did not fit well. Compared to pampers pure which never gave him a rash, almost never leaked and fit so well... I had to toilet train him because the rash refused to go away. Having another baby now and looking for a better choice to start with. Thanks for the list!

Just made some edits to my registry! lol

Great video! Just so you know, Attitude seems to have paid off EWG to get verified because when you search each ingredient on EWG, many go up to number 7! On the supposedly "verified" products. I still use some Attitude products that i researched all ingredients and they were low enough for me to be okay with. Just want you to know that it might surprisingly be as good as the toxic stuff because it might have similar unsafe ingredients.