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learning to be ok when things don't go my way
The meditation I was listening to: insig.ht/Dz2gTUcqTOb
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Видео

SSP Testimonial : Supporting self in real time
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SSP Testimonial : Supporting self in real time
SSP Testimonial : Lindsay Pandya
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Such a joy to connect with Lindsay about her experience with the SSP! Will share about my ASD eval soon. To connect with Lindsay find her on Instagram @intuitive_psych_111
does anyone love me?
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I also recommend the book, "I need your love, is that true" by Byron Katie!
Autism in AFAB and/or femme people
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Dr Kim Sage's video : ruclips.net/video/grOwEs17IEs/видео.html Dr. Kim's list: Anxiety/Depression with PTSD presentation without big T trauma because little T traumas are more impactful, Autism Screening for anyone with BPD symptoms High Sensitivity and Dysregulation: Autistic individuals, especially girls, often experience heightened sensitivity to sensory input and difficulty regulating their...
musings on nice stuff, jealousy and life/death 💙
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musings on nice stuff, jealousy and life/death 💙
Change the story not the script
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Change the story not the script
consent and consciousness
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consent and consciousness
if you have trouble being assertive at the doctor's office
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if you have trouble being assertive at the doctor's office
matte screen protector if phone makes you nauseous
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matte screen protector if phone makes you nauseous
When things don’t go your way
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When things don’t go your way
something tricky about parts work
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something tricky about parts work
hard work and faith like a mustard seed
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hard work and faith like a mustard seed
past and future selves hangout
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past and future selves hangout
why is eating so hard sometimes?
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why is eating so hard sometimes?
what I learned from football
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what I learned from football
the natural pull to chaos
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the natural pull to chaos
Chat with me about ETs, aliens, UFO's and other paranormal experiences
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Chat with me about ETs, aliens, UFO's and other paranormal experiences
my ET contact experience
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my ET contact experience
loop switch earplugs review
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loop switch earplugs review
when you are first practicing assertive communication
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when you are first practicing assertive communication
how to always reach your goals and set solid boundaries
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how to always reach your goals and set solid boundaries
permission to indulge
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permission to indulge
perimenopause flu
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perimenopause flu
mythology announcements
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mythology announcements
low lighting is nice while maybe not "professional"
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low lighting is nice while maybe not "professional"
the two premises on which right and wrong depend
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the two premises on which right and wrong depend
pda, patriotism and everything always makes sense
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pda, patriotism and everything always makes sense
the then what exercise for when you are catastrophizing
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the then what exercise for when you are catastrophizing
reducing anxiety with unskilled creativity
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reducing anxiety with unskilled creativity

Комментарии

  • @laurieglazener
    @laurieglazener 2 дня назад

    Love the reminder…help is a form of control. And….you cannot be someone else’s higher power. It’s a timely message for me. Thanks for posting this!

    • @therootedcoop
      @therootedcoop День назад

      How wonderful to be on the journey together 💞

  • @kristensimmons2371
    @kristensimmons2371 8 дней назад

    Thank you so much for sharing this (and everything you do!) 💕 I’ve never felt more seen or validated

    • @therootedcoop
      @therootedcoop 6 дней назад

      Oh that makes me so happy! I'm so grateful to be on the journey with you!! 💙

  • @tstone1699
    @tstone1699 8 дней назад

    Brilliant! I was just gifted a pair of the night vision glasses. Game changer.

    • @therootedcoop
      @therootedcoop 8 дней назад

      Oh hooray, what a wonderful gift! 🎉

  • @BluWlf0666
    @BluWlf0666 11 дней назад

    Stop ruminating and focusing on yourself. Find something productive to do.

    • @therootedcoop
      @therootedcoop 10 дней назад

      Yes, the pressure to be productive can be very strong. May we each find the path that is best for us 💙

  • @karolynnarcher3919
    @karolynnarcher3919 12 дней назад

    I just bought more loops because I lose them. I need them to like people

  • @VanessaGraham-zb8ji
    @VanessaGraham-zb8ji 13 дней назад

    Yes u can! 🎉❤✊

    • @therootedcoop
      @therootedcoop 13 дней назад

      aw, another thank you! You've brought me another smile! xo

  • @VanessaGraham-zb8ji
    @VanessaGraham-zb8ji 13 дней назад

    Lovely smile. ❤

  • @blkrainbow1075
    @blkrainbow1075 15 дней назад

    Sending you a hug back. Thank you for the enlightenment!

    • @therootedcoop
      @therootedcoop 14 дней назад

      Aw, recieved! Lovely to be on the journey together!

  • @ianalan4367
    @ianalan4367 15 дней назад

    I tend to do better if I focus on the splinter in my own eye.

  • @MouthyMama376
    @MouthyMama376 15 дней назад

    My high school BFs mom was quick to point out that you should never verbally discipline children by saying "[YOU] are bad" you say "[that action] is bad/wrong," and I don't think **nearly** enough people understand the shame they create unwittingly by not consciously differentiating that. It's a seemingly small thing that actually has potential for a huge and lasting impact on their self image & identity. THEY aren't "bad." The action they chose is "bad," and easily correctable. Honestly I even say "[that] is bad/wrong" with my animal companions too and you can call me crazy all you want, but there's a marked difference in their responses to that vs the responses of friend's pets who are told they specifically are bad. When they hear "you're bad"/"NO, BAD!" they carry both guilt for disappointing you- their cherished human - and shame for "being bad," idc what anyone has to say about it. And if there's that much of a noticeable difference in dogs and cats, etc, think about how much more terribly impactful that is for a human of ANY age, but certainly children who want nothing more to be loved by us and please us in every possible way. They will hear us telling them that **they** are "bad" echoing through their brains with every future self consideration and decision and the more they hear it the more permanently destructive it will become. It will soon be replaced their own words and inner thoughts about themselves and will become incredibly difficult to change with each new recollection of "my mom/dad said I am bad" or self narration of "I am bad." Sorry, I'm rambling bc this is SO important to me and takes almost no effort to correct in our daily speech patterns. I apologize for that. I'm so grateful that BFs mom brought that to my attention & that it had such an impact that it changed my own speech habits, even as a high schooler.

    • @therootedcoop
      @therootedcoop 15 дней назад

      I'm so glad she offered that gift to you and that you were able to receive it <3

  • @kirsten3535
    @kirsten3535 16 дней назад

    I could have stumbled across a better video today. Thank you ❤

    • @therootedcoop
      @therootedcoop 15 дней назад

      Oh I’m so glad! Big hugs to you on the journey!

  • @MouthyMama376
    @MouthyMama376 16 дней назад

    "Boxed" breathing has saved me from sensory spirals more times than I can count. I was taught "in for 4, hold for 4, out for 4, hold for 4, repeat" but your method sounds great for when it's even too overwhelming for that simpler method. Definitely subbing. You are such a light! ❤

    • @therootedcoop
      @therootedcoop 16 дней назад

      aw, thank you so much! and yes, box breathing is awesome as well! there is something that is like a power punch with this one, I don't know why but it helped me eliminate panic attacks and migraines! I learned it from Dr. Weil, I put the link of him explaining it in the description...he explains this as a practice not a one time thing, I do it almost every day! Let us know what you think of it! xo, z

  • @MouthyMama376
    @MouthyMama376 16 дней назад

    My dear OP- Please know I'm saying this with love and understanding & if it makes it in front of your eyes, please read it through in totality. Let other people's actions go. They're not your responsibility. Only YOU are your responsibility. It's not for you to change them, only to be the good example for them to see and emulate. ONE DAY/HOUR/MINUTE/SECOND AT A TIME. You're still learning to be comfortable in your own discomfort and powerful in your own powerlessness, and that is HUGE! Good job! I know deeply that it is dangerously soul crushing to want to save someone from the cycles of pain & sickness that we humans must necessarily deal with in this life, but we have to let them come to it in their own time or they won't succeed. That's incredibly junky, but it just IS. That was a difficult lesson for me to learn as well and I hear my own struggles with it in your own words. We are only human and as such are inherently flawed but that's ok too, I promise! Everything you said about the Serenity Prayer is **bang on** and it seems to me that you're now on your way to truly accepting that we can't change anything other than ourselves. Sit with that for awhile and really let it come to a place where you're ok in knowing that. Remember, there's ALWAYS support, someone to talk things over with, get different view points from and 24/7 global meetings at your disposal to gain new insights and evolve from. I know you don't know me, but today I will carry you in my heart and pray for you to have the meaningful guidance and support that you need/seek in this moment in time. I've never seen you or your channel before, but you/this vid were the very top of my page today so I feel as though this is The Divine Universe bringing us together for support & understanding, if only for a fleeting minute in time. You are loved. You are valued. Your efforts and very self are appreciated. Never doubt or forget that. Be well, be blessed & (perhaps most importantly) harm NONE (& that includes you, fellow human ❤)

    • @therootedcoop
      @therootedcoop 16 дней назад

      thank you for your kindness, all the love to you as well!

  • @AriGato8155
    @AriGato8155 16 дней назад

    That looks really beautiful

  • @Lou-u3n
    @Lou-u3n 19 дней назад

    Energy in motion=Emotions. 100% Keep it honest and trust how you feel. Love you too! You always have the answers inside

    • @therootedcoop
      @therootedcoop 19 дней назад

      aw, so beautiful! thank you! xoxo

  • @Linet01
    @Linet01 25 дней назад

    Are you a member of the rm program

    • @therootedcoop
      @therootedcoop 25 дней назад

      yep, I am, it has been a fantastic experience, they can give you current pricing: realitycreator.com

  • @josephmccorkel7021
    @josephmccorkel7021 Месяц назад

    Big foot gonna get you.

  • @jharris7
    @jharris7 Месяц назад

    Yes! Take the pressure and expectations off yourself. You can't force sleep, so it's best to not add stress on top of it.

  • @chrisschmidt8693
    @chrisschmidt8693 Месяц назад

    What you need is a metal detector being out in the woods like that ?????

  • @gabrielhamashiach5491
    @gabrielhamashiach5491 Месяц назад

    Start with Christ…..

  • @aleksandrsugen6044
    @aleksandrsugen6044 Месяц назад

    👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍

  • @DeniseMoore-kr9xq
    @DeniseMoore-kr9xq Месяц назад

    If it's something that catches me off guard like stubbing my toe, I use it as an opportunity to be present. Usually, I'm going too fast. Like when I broke my foot!

    • @therootedcoop
      @therootedcoop Месяц назад

      yes love that, being jolted back into the present moment and seeing yourself in the movie can be uncomfortable but also helpful! xo

  • @seratis.a1739
    @seratis.a1739 Месяц назад

    Thank you so much for breaking this down, this is amazing! Would love to understand more about the nervous system work

    • @therootedcoop
      @therootedcoop Месяц назад

      It's an absolute pleasure, I loved learning about it and thinking it through! Would love to connect about the nervous system work, please reach out to me at my website and we can book a free call! www.anexperiencer.com

  • @heatherallyn2319
    @heatherallyn2319 Месяц назад

    Oooh love this idea! Going to play around with it too 🙂 Also, the universe sure loves to come back around and smack us when we get judgy, hey 😅 also, post-puppy depression is a real thing. Its so much, such a big adjustment to your family, kind of like postpartum. So take care of yourself 💜 like actual PPD, it will get better.

    • @therootedcoop
      @therootedcoop Месяц назад

      Thank you so much for this validation and reminder, whew it has been quite the experience! And yes, my judgement sure has a way of coming back to me! 😅

  • @laurenashleemessina
    @laurenashleemessina Месяц назад

    🤯 I’d like to try this as well. Wow! Thank you for sharing. ✨

    • @therootedcoop
      @therootedcoop Месяц назад

      my pleasure, let us know how it goes!

  • @BiltmoreGhost
    @BiltmoreGhost 2 месяца назад

    Only a problem if someone is coming from the other direction😂

    • @therootedcoop
      @therootedcoop 2 месяца назад

      indeed! I didn't even think of that, I don't know what I would have done! 🤣

  • @VanessaGraham-zb8ji
    @VanessaGraham-zb8ji 2 месяца назад

    Great interview ❤

    • @therootedcoop
      @therootedcoop 2 месяца назад

      thanks Vanessa, it was such a fascinating journey and was so happy to share!

  • @VanessaGraham-zb8ji
    @VanessaGraham-zb8ji 2 месяца назад

    Mothers coo. The mother we wish for and yearn for even when mum passes to the next journey. It is the balance we need in a world that is very masculine. I wanted to be that mother and trauma and society dictates it otherwise. Now I’m really getting to know my children (Kari, Ashley and Nikki) as a mother. I’ve always loved them hugely but now with them having this therapy and owning my own life journey, I can. Thank you Z by the way…chat…you have a great giggle…and I love you ❤️

    • @therootedcoop
      @therootedcoop 2 месяца назад

      Awwww, what a true delight it has been to get to know your beautiful family! Willingness to grow and change is the greatest gift we have to offer this world so bravo and love you too!!

  • @kellyjennifer
    @kellyjennifer 2 месяца назад

    Love this. So helpful! Thanks, Z!

  • @Lou-u3n
    @Lou-u3n 2 месяца назад

    Yep. Check in with yourself! It's your life.I am always temperature checking myself, it really helps me navigate small things to even big things.

    • @therootedcoop
      @therootedcoop 2 месяца назад

      Yes, we have so much wisdom inside! 💟

  • @EThompson-z9r
    @EThompson-z9r 2 месяца назад

    Same situation with the glasses here. I’m going to embrace it!😊

  • @karolynnarcher3919
    @karolynnarcher3919 2 месяца назад

    Here in the chat!!

    • @therootedcoop
      @therootedcoop 2 месяца назад

      chat - no comment from your mom yet? what's going on?

    • @VanessaGraham-zb8ji
      @VanessaGraham-zb8ji 2 месяца назад

      I couldn’t find it and Kari sent it today.

  • @josephinediamond2727
    @josephinediamond2727 2 месяца назад

    Definitely 💯 take off the list The spider 🕷️ is representive of the letter Ff the weaver of the Alphabet. When one writes certain letters to being changed into their lives one also taps into the vibration and frequencies of earth 🌍 all is beautifully connected .Awareness is 🕷️🕷️🕷️key .

    • @therootedcoop
      @therootedcoop 2 месяца назад

      oh that is so interesting because I notice that the F is a hard letter for me, I tend to revert to the "secretary's f" without a top loop, just found an old handwriting book on my walk in a pile of free books, excited to take a look at it....also interested in hearing more about the spider, I'd like to make peace with them...

  • @NandoMusicOfficial
    @NandoMusicOfficial 2 месяца назад

    Thanks for sharing! So rare to see it in practice. Very useful!

    • @therootedcoop
      @therootedcoop 2 месяца назад

      yes, it can sometimes be so tricky to figure out what these things are like in real time, glad it was helpful! <3

  • @Stella14-l6t
    @Stella14-l6t 2 месяца назад

    Erm

  • @DeniseMoore-kr9xq
    @DeniseMoore-kr9xq 2 месяца назад

    What I'm hearing is, be a mermaid. ❤😂 Thank you for the video and info. These past few days have been absolutely WILD. I find myself thinking "what is happening in the other realms that is resulting in these feelings and creating THIS story on THIS timeline?" Having done SSP and learning about myself I have been able to tune in and avoid major meltdown. Love these reminders and continued education.

    • @therootedcoop
      @therootedcoop 2 месяца назад

      Wild indeed! So grateful we can be on the journey together!! And sign me up for mermaid!! 🌊

  • @josephinediamond2727
    @josephinediamond2727 3 месяца назад

    Hi I remember when I first started this practice 14 years ago and though I had the books , I didn’t seem to follow directions or best said “ I didn’t know the power in just following one inch margins all around the page except the right side representing the future , go all the the end without scrunching words .the top one inch for it represents authority, you really don’t want to do more than one inch from the top . The power in this practice is more than most would ever imagine or could ever imagine . Please reach out to me if you’re still writing .

    • @therootedcoop
      @therootedcoop 2 месяца назад

      Hello! Yes, I so agree, this practice is so phenomenal, I am definitely still writing! I love that you have been engaged with it for 14 years and would love to hear your story and experiences with it! If you'd like to have a conversation, you can book a free inquiry call through my website: anexperiencer.com

  • @DeniseMoore-kr9xq
    @DeniseMoore-kr9xq 3 месяца назад

    Thank you for sharing.

  • @rebekahlikesmusic2723
    @rebekahlikesmusic2723 3 месяца назад

    Wow it looks beautiful there

  • @johnnymitnick
    @johnnymitnick 3 месяца назад

    Sometimes its better to take the path less traveled ❤

  • @DeniseMoore-kr9xq
    @DeniseMoore-kr9xq 3 месяца назад

    What a magical place! ❤

  • @DeniseMoore-kr9xq
    @DeniseMoore-kr9xq 3 месяца назад

    All 3 of them!! Love the books!

    • @therootedcoop
      @therootedcoop 3 месяца назад

      Amazing! I love Neale's story, such a good reminder to just follow the nudges and not worry about the outcome!

  • @DeniseMoore-kr9xq
    @DeniseMoore-kr9xq 3 месяца назад

    Similarly, I used to have a card on my dash that said, who's influence are you under. Somehow that programed a check in everytime I drive to check in on my authenticity.

    • @therootedcoop
      @therootedcoop 3 месяца назад

      oh yes, I love that as a reminder to notice if you are responding to an external authority or your inner authority, beautiful!

  • @revueltaroja4621
    @revueltaroja4621 3 месяца назад

    Man, created gOD and we decide what god is and what isn’t , we decide what he wants frommus.

    • @therootedcoop
      @therootedcoop 3 месяца назад

      it's all so very interesting to contemplate!

  • @EThompson-z9r
    @EThompson-z9r 3 месяца назад

    So helpful to reframe things this way. Radical Acknowledgement - I love that!

    • @therootedcoop
      @therootedcoop 3 месяца назад

      oh I'm so glad it was helpful, I struggled with the word "acceptance" for so long when the things really didn't feel "acceptable"! xo, z

  • @mirenlopez6789
    @mirenlopez6789 3 месяца назад

    Thank you for making me yawn several times 😅🤣😂❤

    • @therootedcoop
      @therootedcoop 3 месяца назад

      Haha, yawning is the best! So glad we could share some yawns 🎉❤🎉

  • @HighPriestessHighTimes
    @HighPriestessHighTimes 4 месяца назад

    Love this !!! ❤

    • @therootedcoop
      @therootedcoop 4 месяца назад

      Thanks! It was a sweet morning!

  • @spacefacey
    @spacefacey 4 месяца назад

    The theory behind pms feels like it makes sense at first but I feel falls apart when you really think about it. Like, if humans are social creatures (and travel in family units, not just partnerships) wouldn't relationship strife put them in danger of being ostracized from the group? Or if population # are really small, limit the chances of a mating partner trying again to reproduce with them? So much to learn about female bodies, I feel like they are built so much more complex then scientists give them credit for

    • @therootedcoop
      @therootedcoop 4 месяца назад

      great points! for me it is just a relief to open up to seeing how complex and real and impactful it all is and use that curiosity to get really clear on how to support ourselves and each other so that we are not stuck in the cycles of blame and shame and misery <3

  • @HerzoginLina
    @HerzoginLina 4 месяца назад

    Sometimes I can feel the onset of my pmdd, it's like I can't feel happiness anymore. Very bad anxiety too at the end of my cycles. Studys show the serotonin level drops with the onset of mpdd

    • @therootedcoop
      @therootedcoop 4 месяца назад

      yes, it is so real! sending you lots of love and hoping you are able to take really good care of yourself during these times!

  • @monkiesbanana321
    @monkiesbanana321 4 месяца назад

    PMDD is moreso about how the brain overreacts to changing hormone levels, not the hormone levels themselves. The issue is in the brain. I wonder how much gut bacteria plays a role in PMDD.

    • @therootedcoop
      @therootedcoop 4 месяца назад

      Oh very interesting! Can you share a bit more about what you mean of brain reacting to hormone levels vs hormones?