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Lilay Kat
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Добавлен 9 апр 2021
Hi, it's LILY! I'm all about living a joyful, simpler and relatable life! Follow me as I talk about life, ideas, and ways of thinking.
Your stuff is holding you back / Don't let things own you
I've been feeling a tad overwhelmed from the holiday season because everything screams buy buy buy. I don't know about you, but I don't find much joy in having a lot of things. I figured having more things doesn't make you happier nor does it make you better. I think most people are held back due to their stuff. Their stuff keeps them suck.
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life lately vlog: nyc trip, winter break, shopping in the city, pizza and exploring the city
Просмотров 24День назад
Hi! Not a typical video I upload but life has been very good lately. I've been busy and traveling the end of the year. I must say this year has been far the most growing year of my life and I know it keeps getting better. I don't have a specific agenda for this video. It's kinda of a dumping ground for some quick memories I caught living my daily life. NYC is alright just a tad too smelly for m...
Where are all the normal people?
Просмотров 53Месяц назад
Hello! I haven't been on here for a bit since I've been minding my own business. Online has been weird lately and I'm starting to think social media is the new reality tv. I don't know how everything got this way but I'm sure tired of it. I'm wondering where all the normal people go? Maybe being relatable is out now? Not sure, just a video of me talking away.
How I Learned I Was Wealthy
Просмотров 756 месяцев назад
You were born wealthy. It's not all money either. If you are able to check off most of these boxes, then you are very wealthy. After you learn you are wealthy, the second step is believing it and becoming the reciprocal of what you want in life. Support my work by reading my blog. You Are Born Wealthy: open.substack.com/pub/lilaykat/p/you-were-born-wealthy?r=3m3oqt& Related videos: Negative peo...
Negative people and learning to change / my honest view
Просмотров 516 месяцев назад
Negative people are just people who believe are negative. They are just showing their proof of what they believe in themselves. Everyone does it that in any shape and form. That's why you should learn to reprogram yourself. Support me by checking out my writing: lilaykat.substack.com/ Watch similar videos: Who you follow matters: ruclips.net/video/xfYj915QZfU/видео.html Why you shouldn't tell p...
Who You Follow Matters / How Social Media Shapes Your Reality
Просмотров 656 месяцев назад
Curating your feed to following the right people could shape and change your life. We all know what you consume is who you become. Why not be decisive on what you consume and become better in time? Take charge of your life by thinking wisely who you engage with even if you hear from them online. You get to decide who you become in the end. Do you like topics like this? You could like my writing...
Why You Shouldn't Tell People Your Dreams & Goals / Learn to Stay Quiet
Просмотров 646 месяцев назад
I use to tell everyone what I was doing because I was so excited on what was happening to me. I figure people would be excited for me equally and I realize the response was different. When you desire to change for the better, not everyone could onboard the same. I want to tell you, your dreams and goals are fragile especially in the beginning. Learn to protect your mind and spirit. ps: blurry v...
Why You Are Not Getting What You Want / How to Remove Resistance
Просмотров 436 месяцев назад
A lot of great things have arrived! There was a period before all these good things when I felt anxious and doubtful. I think it's a natural state of mind, but I wanted to share how I managed to clear those feelings up. Maybe you'll find this video helpful for learning how to get what you want. Yes, there are ways to change the timeline of what you asked for. Would you support my writing? lilay...
It's Time To Get Ready
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You're time will come. It will always come, but what do you do while it's not here? It's time to get ready. It's time to prepare yourself for what you've asked for. You can start making the shift now. Life doesn't stop until you get something. It's always on the go. What if I told you, you need need to get ready in order to get what you want? It's time to get ready because what you have asked f...
How I Deal With Stress
Просмотров 827 месяцев назад
Lately, I've been so stressed out! But I know this is a normal thing like everybody else. However, most people don't share how to manage your stress and understanding where stress could come from. I can give you a list on how to deal with your stress; however I think it's better if I give you advice on how to grow out of it. There's no right or wrong answer either. If you like my videos. Suppor...
What happens when you become authentic
Просмотров 1047 месяцев назад
I was a tad effy on the advice, "be yourself" when I was young. There were plenty of reasons why I was afraid to be myself or be authentic to other people. To be yourself is going to cost you something. It's whether you are okay with that cost from the beginning. However that cost isn't forever. I think that cost eventually gives you positive returns. I'm not going to lie being yourself, especi...
How a space can improve your life / your environment can change you
Просмотров 1447 месяцев назад
Hi, this video is not anything revolutionary. I went on a business trip to LA and a short vacation. It felt so much relief and enjoyment at my stay. I've been in a slump for some time and I needed to get out of my current place. This is a video how simply going out and changing the scenery can help you out. No, you don't need to book a flight, always welcome to, but there are always other ways ...
Finding Your Sweet Spot or Zone of Genius
Просмотров 637 месяцев назад
We were told to work on things we are not good at. Although, I do find this advice helpful at some degree, but it can also be counterproductive in our time and energy. We are all gifted at things and learning to harness those skills and talents to provide value to the world is the best way of living your full potential. Finding your sweet spot is like the AHA moment or when you are in the state...
Take Back Your Life / You Are Responsible for Your Life
Просмотров 1587 месяцев назад
You are responsible for your life. Learn this now and wake up to the fact no one is going to take blame for your choices. The internet likes to share you a life of fiction and has convince you that you are powerless. You need to understand what you consume, can consume you. Take back your life by thinking about what you really want to do. Learn to think beyond the levels of the internet and wha...
Why I Think 'Do What You Love' is Misleading and Useless
Просмотров 868 месяцев назад
This video is not to discourage you. I'm here to tell you the truth. You can still do what you love and whatever you want, but you have to make it through some harsh hoops. I'm on your side when sharing about real life. All these points are always up to debate. Remember not everyone has the same truth as you, but I rather give you life advice before you go and wonder why it didn't work out. You...
Why I stop following influencers and creators
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Why I stop following influencers and creators
How I freed myself from my shopping obsession, especially on social media
Просмотров 1108 месяцев назад
How I freed myself from my shopping obsession, especially on social media
The problem with "It Girl" and How to Become It
Просмотров 698 месяцев назад
The problem with "It Girl" and How to Become It
Why You Should Stop Oversharing & Possible Consequences of Oversharing
Просмотров 2389 месяцев назад
Why You Should Stop Oversharing & Possible Consequences of Oversharing
5 Reasons Why High Earners Can Still Be Broke
Просмотров 659 месяцев назад
5 Reasons Why High Earners Can Still Be Broke
why you should stop playing small / let yourself shine
Просмотров 639 месяцев назад
why you should stop playing small / let yourself shine
6 minimalistic decisions to reduce stress in your life / simplify your choices
Просмотров 659 месяцев назад
6 minimalistic decisions to reduce stress in your life / simplify your choices
The Things I Stop Buying and Doing to Stay Frugal / Living My Optimized Life
Просмотров 1249 месяцев назад
The Things I Stop Buying and Doing to Stay Frugal / Living My Optimized Life
Ways I Stay Frugal Based On My Lifestyle
Просмотров 9910 месяцев назад
Ways I Stay Frugal Based On My Lifestyle
5 Way To Use Social Media Productively And Beneficially
Просмотров 9010 месяцев назад
5 Way To Use Social Media Productively And Beneficially
My ideas and perspectives on frugality and how it starts with a mindset
Просмотров 8410 месяцев назад
My ideas and perspectives on frugality and how it starts with a mindset
If you don't know yourself, you are easier to manipulate
Просмотров 5410 месяцев назад
If you don't know yourself, you are easier to manipulate
Here's why they are upset you cut them off / set boundaries, standards and find peace with yourself
Просмотров 12610 месяцев назад
Here's why they are upset you cut them off / set boundaries, standards and find peace with yourself
This was definitely a video i could relate to in the past. I agree with what you were saying. Most things we may have alot of like clothes or shoes etc. we really dont need so much of it and only use some of it. I sold and donated alot of things that were just taking up so much space. I felt good when i let those things go that were taking up my whole room and closet. I liked your video 👍😊
Nice. It looks like you enjoyed the New York City. I am looking forward to seeing your next video.
Good to see you. I agree with you. Social media just ain’t fun to me anymore. It’s exhausting AF tbh.
You make great videos. Don't feel pressured to keep uploading.
thanks for understanding!
Leo
I recently just deleted my Facebook. For years I have a LOVE & HATE relationship with that platform as it has screwed me over so many countless times with drama issues with family and friends. There were times where I wanted to delete it, but I was unable to bypass the 30 day grace period and kept going back like what you said FOMO (Fear of Missing Out). I was an addict. I see all of my friends and peers showing off their highlight reels of their marriage engagement and their new born child and I just wanted my moment of glory as well if that ever happen to me someday. I came to realize, however, that it doesn't matter if I get all those CONGRATULATIONS on the comment section, because these people don't even know me. Sometimes, it's best to just keep everything private as it much healthier that way. Also, people who uses social media are the ones who are the most insecure. True confidence comes from within.
I've been off social media for 4 years and I couldn't be happier! Social media is a major distraction!
Being off of Social Media is the best decision I ever made. I don’t know when I’ll be back on there I really love being off. I might not be back on there. It is not good for my mental health anyways.
same! take your time and enjoy your freedom
Best thing I ever did is to stay off of there.
Yup. The unnecessary trends that change every week. It’s impossible to keep up with. I also enjoy my vacations way more without having social media. I don’t have to worry about my outfits on my pics being good for IG lol. So dumb when you think about it but that’s what social media does to our brains.
yeah social media can be really distracting! being off feels much better
You speak the truth. I'm wealthy but I'm not rich. Great video.
Very nice video Lilay.
thank you!
I agree with you 💯
You are so beautiful!!
thank you !
I hate social media platforms
How I wish we lived back in the day where social media didn’t even exist Now those were the good old days ❤
Facts ❤
yes they were...born in 83 so old here and yes it was wonderful.
You either quit ALL social media or don't say "I quit social media" and the still go on social media. RUclips is a social interactive platform.
No it isn't, it's a SEARCH ENGINE, the dynamics are different massively!
You're lovely
Since cognitive dissonance is such a constant for us all; Proactive positivity is a must to weigh against the negative default situations out there, coming at us on a daily basis, ihop. Thanks for the wonderful enlightenment, thought provocation, once again‼️
Good video agree with everything.
thank you for watching!
Thanks for sharing. I am reflecting on a lot of the points that you made for quitting social media. I was struck in particular by what you said about how some people are just meant for a season of our life and also by what you said about how social media negatively affects our sense of self.
glad you are reflecting! and thank you for watching and supporting!
Why are you here then?? RUclips is a social media. Can't wait to hear your justification.
You can actually learn things on RUclips. Compare to other social medias
There are always exceptions and people use youtube for various reasons. It’s all about what you make of it. There can certainly be exceptions, right?
Yea, ☀ the sun will show up again, for sure, it's been around for billions of years, it will be around billions more. I'm like you Lilay, why fret?? It's even behind the clouds and on the other side of dark at what appears to be night!! Always there, it is. Here's to gratefulness Cheers to gratefulness!!!🎉 🙏
thanks for watching and cheers!
I’ve finally taken the step also to delete my instagram & it’s been over a week. In the past I would take 3 month breaks of getting off and found myself getting back on & notice how it affect my mood & wellness… I don’t see myself getting back on any social sights & focus more on living the life God has given me’ i appreciate listen to your story& love your beautiful Hair & smile 😊
congrats on taking control of your life! glad you are making a positive choice for yourself! and thank you for watching & supporting too! i appreciate it
I did the same thing and said the same thing, but then my wife said you still use RUclips, and that's social media 😅
thank you for the video!
thank you for watching & supporting!
I never felt the need to take a break from social media because I'm SO strict with what I allow to reach me. If anybody I'm friends with posts something that bothers me.. MUTE.. Like half the people I'm friends with are muted lol I don't care.. and if I ever see something from an account I don't like.. BLOCK! No joke I have thousands of accounts blocked. And I have different instagram profiles.. 1 is just for people I actually know, another account is for people I like that I don't personally know, and another is for artsy type accounts, etc.. and I'm constantly shaping the algorithms to not show me anything controversial or violent. And it gets boring after like 10 minutes since I'm so strict with what I see that I just naturally log off . Gotta be very proactive because these algorithms are designed to engage people with chaos.
Great video and life can be "lifing" sometimes but as long as we trust in God and remain present and appreciative of the little things in life, the small stresses will eventually move to the side.
yess! thank you so much for the reminder! i love this!
@@lilaykat you are welcome. Quick question I see you aren't on social media, just like me. Is there an email I can reach out to you at? I would love to ask you something personal and not publicly? Respectfully asking of course.
I agree, when I went to college I realized who I am and wanted to be.
that's so good! glad you figured it out. thank you for watching!
Know thy self, identify is paramount, concur!!
thank you for watching!
Yes I very much agree.
thank you for watching!
I’m content creator myself and would be fire to collab with you in the future if you are down
Noti gang 🤝💯
Profound enlightenment, ZOG!!! , I would like to go for it all, yet to get laser focus & make a living some things though great, have to be relegated to hobby, until free time comes available. While the priority on what keeps the bills paid& collectors at bay. I told my dad at 1 time I didn't like a certain aspect of a very hard job I had. I'll never forget his response he said "your grandfather very seldom ever found a job he liked" my grandfather was one of the hardest working people I've ever known in life. Farmer of livestock and truck driver born 1901. Thanks again for the continued motivation, inspiration, proven, delivered as clear as day. Which happens to be your ZOG of course, stay well, keep the passion, fight 👍!!
aww i love that story! well hopefully you get to live out what you love and can earn a great living for it. sending you my best wishes! and thank you for the kind words and support. i hope to bring more value and insights for you to enjoy!!
There's no time ⏰ like the ever-unfolding present, 4sure!!! To go for it! And get it!
That 'fake' wealth you mentioned is the 'bait' to draw whatever chance they have at extracting pennies, dimes, dollars to maybe bring some real wealth for themselves is my guess Lilay😂😂😂!!! Thanks again you are an incredibly motivator in this 🌎 world, the way it is, you are very much appreciated!
yes i think you are right haha! thanks for supporting and your kind words! much more to come!!
Thanks for sharing, your identity is well in tact relatively speaking, 🎩 👒 🎩 👒 hats off to you for taking on the formidable challenge of helping others do the same in influencial spaces subject to the 'almigty' dollar as their only guiding light at times. Or should I say blinding light, ya know 🤔! !
yes being online can be a slipper slope!! thanks for watching & supporting
Yea, 'space' is the operative word as it serves as a great metaphor for limitless opportunities to reset, recalibrate, recommit!!! Thank for inspiring us once again, 1-mo gin 👍
yes feels soo good to rest and restore! thanks for watching & supporting!
Great tips & tricks ihop, it really is great to be grateful btw, at the end of day!!!
Absolutely!!
Good video I just recently started my social media detox journey so I’m excited 🤝 I also subbed love seeing content like this
best wishes to your new journey! thanks for watching & supporting!
Changing environment is a game changer!
truly it is! thanks for watching!
Does youtube count as social media? Because im trying to quit social media but i just started a youtube channel and uploaded some videos yesterday
you do whatever your heart desires
For me RUclips is an information platform. The like system is private so less narcissistic and no fake friends
Anotha Banga!!! Good shit girl. Also you better share that tiramasu next time 😉
thank you for watching!
You nailed it!
thank you!
Love this video and I wish your video would go viral because this is so realistic. I know colleagues that are engineers because their parents pushed them into it. They disliked the harsh discipline their Tiger parents pushed on them but their careers in enginnering helped them finance what they love to do on the side and provided a comfy lifestyle. I tell people make money, and do what you love once you got the money from the high paying 9-5. From a 33 year old millineal, great video and Im subscribed. ❤️💪🏾
Yes, this is key! Use your 9-5 day job to fund your dreams! Thank you for watching.
I really like your channel. Glad i found it 😘
I'm so glad! Thanks for watching!
I hope someone sees this comment…I have not been on social for about 7 months now. And thinking about it makes me proud. I was so sick of seeing people fake everything for social media. I no longer compare my life to others’ and don’t care to impress others. I live more in the moment and enjoy being private. ❤
congrats on taking your life back! sending positive energy to your journey!
Don't give up, mate!
I've just deleted Facebook after almost 17 years and it feels so freeing. Thank you for keeping it real. It's so refreshing watching a video without all the crazy editing and ads and special effects. Just good, honest conversation about things that matter 🙏🌼
Yes, simple formatting is easier to consume! thank you for watching & sharing your journey!
I subscribed to your channel because it was very interesting that you talked about some of the very things I was talking and thinking about . Social media isa great marketing tool but it's terrible when there's not a lot of purpose in it if it's not getting you nowhere . We must take control of the time we spend on it and sometimes it requires getting off completely..thanks❤
100% agree! valuable content is the type of content you should consume or none at all. thanks for watching!
Thank you for posting… you said a lot🙌🎉❤
thank you for watching & your support!