Peter & Tekky
Peter & Tekky
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Coming Out to My Asian Mum 🥺 A Heartfelt Chat
In this week's episode, we chat to Tekky's mum - this is the first time they've spoken about this so openly - hope you guys enjoy!
🌈 Timestamps:
0:00 Introduction
0:22 Mum’s thoughts on Tekky not doing a traditional job
4:06 Social media as a career, it’s not easy
6:12 Your happiness is more important to me
7:50 Impact of growing up poor
10:35 When did you know Tekky was gay?
13:30 Why mum was the last to find out
14:40 Tekky’s biggest worry in telling his parents
16:40 What would you say to someone’s parents who doesn’t accept them?
20:38 Advice for a child whose parents doesn’t accept them?
23:18 Aunty with a lesbian daughter
26:13 What Tekky’s mum thinks of Peter
28:03 Mum’s wish - just be good peop...
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Комментарии

  • @alrees61
    @alrees61 28 минут назад

    Tekky's emotion was deeply heartfelt and resonant. Growing up, one of the most challenging and universal desires-whether consciously or subconsciously-is the wish to make our parents proud, regardless of whether we are gay, straight, or lesbian. However, the foundation of this journey lies in first accepting and embracing our true selves. Parents, more often than not, are perceptive and attuned to their children. In most cases, they are already aware of who we are, but out of love and respect, they often choose not to interfere unless they sense something is genuinely wrong. For instance, a parent might step in if they notice signs of distress or depression in their child, motivated by their instinct to protect and support. This dynamic underscores the profound bond between parents and children-a relationship built on understanding, love, and mutual acceptance.

  • @lorimichelle309
    @lorimichelle309 59 минут назад

    So sweet. Im feeling so single right now.

  • @LucianandSage
    @LucianandSage Час назад

    You two make a beautiful couple and I'm thankful I found your video

  • @aedwards720
    @aedwards720 Час назад

    A mother always knows all. They have the sharpest radars.😂

  • @Jackson-g4u
    @Jackson-g4u 2 часа назад

    > so sweet ~ ~

  • @Myah_wadlow
    @Myah_wadlow 2 часа назад

    I love you guys so much ❤❤❤❤ (sorry for being late to watching this) ilysm

  • @pammeenta6998
    @pammeenta6998 2 часа назад

    I often wonder if I were a millenial if my coming out would have been less traumatic. I was physically & emotionally hurt by my father for being rumored gay & for my "traces" of feminine gestures ( I struggled to act straight, hanged out with boys that bullied gays.) I was confused & made every effort to convince myself I am straight. All through this dark teenage years, my mom was my rock because she encouraged my artistic/creative personality. Then my Pa died & I was secretly relieved inspite of my sorrows for losing him. By 22 yrs old, I was still convinced I am "really" straight, I would even have 2 GF at same time. Until we moved to San Francisco were the veil & closet I've managed to hide in were slowly but progressively unraveled & forced open. After long & stressful contemplations, I decided to come out to my mother- I decided not to care about anyone else's acceptance. All that mattered was my mom. She was my rock. After a 1week spiritual retreat I took to get courage, I rushed home to tell her I'm gay. I assumed she will reply: "I know you are, I'm your mom & it's ok because I Love you." Alas, she instead REJECTED ME. That very moment of her rejection, I felt my world collapsing. I left the family that same day, and never spoke to her. I felt BETRAYED. All of my siblings accepted me & after 5 years they convinced me to see her on Mother's Day. But she belittled me instead. In total, I did not speak or seen her for 35 years, until 3 years ago when again my siblings convinced me to speak to her because she's very ill. On her Bday, I video called her. But she barely recognised me. She had dimentia. I decided to set aside my ego & pride & made plans to fly out to see her. But she passed away before I was able to see her. I watched her memorial on family live stream. In the end, I again felt cheated & betrayed because inspite the many decades of her resistance to admit she rejected me, I swallowed my pride & forgave her, only to be denied the closure I so wanted to have with her. Pardon my very long narrative. I simply want to share to the parents who watched this video : " Please do not risk losing your child for denying their happiness for who they believe they are".

  • @hmouaci5838
    @hmouaci5838 2 часа назад

    Love you 💞

  • @petershen7393
    @petershen7393 3 часа назад

    what a beautiful conversation with your mom Tekky! l love this video so much! thanks for sharing!

  • @ChrisWatson-ly7rn
    @ChrisWatson-ly7rn 3 часа назад

    😂😂😂😂😂 so bad that it's good

  • @Foodlover-j4i
    @Foodlover-j4i 3 часа назад

    Nice content new subscriber

  • @ivanazivkovic2859
    @ivanazivkovic2859 4 часа назад

    Tekky, Peter i love you and a send you love from Serbia.

  • @TattoosLovers
    @TattoosLovers 5 часов назад

    Heyy peter & tekky i know this is not the right place to ask you guy's but which packet vietnamese coffee brand to buy that's doesn't taste chemically oh yeah 3IN1 .😊😅😮🎉😂❤ thank you very much for da tip & answer's cheer's xoxoxo

  • @Kevin-Gong
    @Kevin-Gong 5 часов назад

    I feel deeply moved and warm-hearted after watching the candid conversation. Tekky, I really want you to know you and your mother encourage me and you make a difference to me. I still feel shame of being gay and hate myself because of gay bullying. Self-acceptance is a long way for me. I am also worried about whether my family members will accept me. But you and Peter coming out and living happily calmed my nerves. Thank you so much!

  • @melissamartin9803
    @melissamartin9803 6 часов назад

    😂😂10😂😂

  • @danzilsauls6883
    @danzilsauls6883 7 часов назад

    What a great Mom. How lucky you are to have her.

  • @Shatu19
    @Shatu19 7 часов назад

    😂😂😂OK...noted, I will use this line in the future 😂😂

  • @jeremyshepard8241
    @jeremyshepard8241 7 часов назад

    Thank you both for all the positive attitudes you project in your videos.

  • @NehaThakur-wc4hw
    @NehaThakur-wc4hw 8 часов назад

    💜💜

  • @YUZ_SG
    @YUZ_SG 9 часов назад

    Being happy is all that matters

  • @jeremyshepard8241
    @jeremyshepard8241 10 часов назад

    😊

  • @jeremyshepard8241
    @jeremyshepard8241 10 часов назад

  • @stevenbellusci9084
    @stevenbellusci9084 10 часов назад

    😂😂😂😂🤭

  • @luvbieberfever8
    @luvbieberfever8 10 часов назад

    Lol 😂😂😂

  • @helenpinsent7742
    @helenpinsent7742 13 часов назад

    Tekky love this talk❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @edward_myc
    @edward_myc 13 часов назад

    This is so sweet and wholesome, I love this series so much ❤

  • @remarc69
    @remarc69 14 часов назад

    Your mum is very level headed and sweet, was a pleasure to watch 🏳️‍🌈

  • @aDanielproductions
    @aDanielproductions 14 часов назад

    I was wondering if the videos locked behind membership can be unlocked. I can’t seem to become a member

  • @brucecampbell7851
    @brucecampbell7851 15 часов назад

    Love you guys, thanks for sharing and making a difference in the community!

  • @justintan296
    @justintan296 15 часов назад

    Tekky's mom is very wise and supportive. Happy for both of you!

  • @helenpinsent7742
    @helenpinsent7742 15 часов назад

    Peter without a cap is great but Tekky your line is one of weakest 😂😂😂😂

  • @markcouture4726
    @markcouture4726 16 часов назад

    Tekky - your Mum seems like a fucking awesome person.

  • @joycecheong4312
    @joycecheong4312 16 часов назад

    You guys don't sound very local. Where are you guys from?

  • @luisellac.9249
    @luisellac.9249 17 часов назад

    🇮🇹🥰 cuteeeeee mom....you are always a beautiful and sweet couple... greetings from Piedmont ( Italy 🇮🇹)

  • @PRVCC-h4p
    @PRVCC-h4p 18 часов назад

    Man O pause 😂

  • @joshwai
    @joshwai 18 часов назад

    Singaporean..

  • @2235-j8l
    @2235-j8l 19 часов назад

    Wow, your mom is like a beam of sunlight, beautiful to see your relationship with her. What a vulnerable and open chat to have, you definitely are fulfilling your mom's wish of doing good in the world with videos like this.

  • @rejungmochi3860
    @rejungmochi3860 19 часов назад

    Really love tekky mom she is so supportive and really brave mom❤❤❤❤❤❤really love you all guys. especially tekky mom so adorable she understand about happyness of her son thats must be need everyone couple of same sex. she give such a motivational thats huge huge respect mom again❤❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @noeyalap7710
    @noeyalap7710 19 часов назад

    What a beautiful and understanding mom. Tekky is lucky to have a mom who is very understanding.

  • @FunTowerRadio
    @FunTowerRadio 19 часов назад

    This video was so powerful. I cried with you. ❤

  • @kelvinlee5084
    @kelvinlee5084 20 часов назад

    Tekky so cute!

  • @dale4396
    @dale4396 20 часов назад

    I’m a retired psychologist who worked with teens in Japan, Singapore, and Thailand. Your story deeply resonated with me and reminded me that good things come to those who live authentically. You’re living a meaningful life and making a positive impact on others-that’s truly admirable.

  • @deivymercado8309
    @deivymercado8309 20 часов назад

    Wow guys! Thank you so much for this video. It was great and I really think it will help someone out there. Thanks also for your honesty. I just discovered your channel with this video, but I hope more people have the opportunity to see you and discover the two adorable, intelligent and lovely guys that I discovered today 💙.

  • @kenfraza
    @kenfraza 21 час назад

    Thanks!

    • @peterandtekky
      @peterandtekky 12 часов назад

      Thanks so much Ken 🥰 Hope to see you in the future 😋

  • @kenfraza
    @kenfraza 21 час назад

    Tekky, you try to post SOMETHING everyday: a short reel, a full video, something! 🤗❤️🫂

  • @matthewjay660
    @matthewjay660 21 час назад

    Tekky, now I know why you are good people; your mother is a gem 💎. 🇺🇸🏳️‍🌈🤝🇦🇺🏳️‍🌈 P.S. Peter and Tekky, this was your best video. 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻🙋🏻‍♂️

  • @edmsperuvian5455
    @edmsperuvian5455 21 час назад

    Takky you are blessed to have a beautiful family the care , love you and support you . Such a lovely Mom all the best in your future ❤

  • @paulrobertson7650
    @paulrobertson7650 21 час назад

    Tekky you have a very wise mum..its called unconditional love..I can't understand parent's whom doesn't except gay children..I am a tad confused though as in one of your video's I watched you call yourself bi..but its obvious when you talk I don't think you are?personal question!have you ever been with a girl?maybe once?just to see?..I did and things didn't work?? Best wishes to you both and a happy Xmas and healthy New year..❤❤

  • @melissamartin9803
    @melissamartin9803 22 часа назад

    Tekky mom is so cool and beautiful ❤❤

  • @robbie1445
    @robbie1445 22 часа назад

    Adding a third into a relationship Has many pitfalls I have watched Adam Grayn and Jeremy atm it seems to be working !! They are like 3 best friends !! But mostly it doesn't work.Why because two of the three many be more into eachother and if there is an issue it could be two against one !! For it to work all 3 must have the same values in many things !! Plus listening to this video there is an underlining feel that both are almost keen to try it. If one is looking at others and thinking o yes fun 3 way sex ect ect there is a big danger when a couple add a third person to the mix !! It may work for some but for most it will destroy the couples relationship in the end sorry !!