David Bannon
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MADELINE JUNO - PHANTOMSCHMERZ (PHANTOM PAIN) ENGLISH SUBTITLES
Madeline Juno - Phantomschmerz (Phantom Pain) in German with English subtitles. © Madeline Juno. Lyric translation © 2022 David Bannon.
Video Editing: Madeline Juno
Composition: Madeline Juno & Oliver Som
Strings: Michaela Danner
Lyrics: Madeline Juno
Translation: David Bannon
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Видео

GRIEF SUPPORT GROUP - FORT LAWN COMMUNITY CENTER
Просмотров 11410 месяцев назад
GRIEF SUPPORT GROUP - Supportive ways to honor a love that continues on. Provided at no cost by the Fort Lawn Community Center, 5554 Main St, Fort Lawn, South Carolina 29714 USA, 803-872-4491. Call the center or email group facilitator David Bannon (ddbannon@gmail.com) to reserve your spot.
SONGS ON THE DEATH OF CHILDREN by Friedrich Rückert and David Bannon - Teaser Trailer
Просмотров 529Год назад
Teaser trailer for SONGS ON THE DEATH OF CHILDREN: SELECTED POEMS FROM KINDERTOTENLIEDER by Friedrich Rückert, translated and annotated by David Bannon. Foreword by Cornelia Kallisch. From Toplight Books, an imprint of McFarland & Company, Inc., Publishers: mcfarlandbooks.com/product/Songs-on-the-Death-of-Children/ • “In the wake of a profound loss, David Bannon discovered the German poet Fried...
MADELINE JUNO - SCHATTEN OHNE LICHT (SHADOWS WITHOUT LIGHT) ENGLISH SUBTITLES
Просмотров 3412 года назад
Madeline Juno - Schatten ohne Licht (Shadows without Light) in German with English subtitles. © 2017 Madeline Juno. Lyric translation © 2022 David Bannon. Video Editing: Madeline Juno Composition: Madeline Juno & Oliver Som Lyric: Madeline Juno Translation: David Bannon
SONGS ON THE DEATH OF CHILDREN by Friedrich Rückert and David Bannon - Book Trailer
Просмотров 1,6 тыс.2 года назад
Book trailer for SONGS ON THE DEATH OF CHILDREN: SELECTED POEMS FROM KINDERTOTENLIEDER by Friedrich Rückert, translated and annotated by David Bannon. Foreword by Cornelia Kallisch. Coming in 2022 from Toplight Books, an imprint of McFarland & Company, Inc., Publishers: www.mcfarlandbooks.com/product/Songs-on-the-Death-of-Children/ • “In the wake of a profound loss, David Bannon discovered the ...
Songs on the Death of Children - Grief, Compassion & Hope
Просмотров 1,3 тыс.3 года назад
A short film on the world classic of grief, Songs on the Death of Children (Kindertotenlieder), featuring Jürgen Heimüller as the poet Friedrich Rückert. In German with English subtitles. POETRY Friedrich Rückert, Kindertodtenlieder [Songs on the Death of Children] (Sauerländer, 1872). The translation for “Over all graves” (“Über alle Gräber”) was first published in Wounded in Spirit (Paraclete...
THIS IS GRIEF - “YOU ARE MISSING FROM ME”
Просмотров 2373 года назад
This is what it feels like when someone dies - some part of us that cannot be measured has been taken away, we are not ourselves, we are not whole, we face each day soul-crippled. A helpful video on grief. The full essay used in this video: “YOU ARE MISSING FROM ME” This is what it feels like when someone dies - some part of us that cannot be measured has been taken away, we are not ourselves, ...
Aimer est plus fort que d'être aimé with English Subtitles - Daniel Balavoine - New Cover
Просмотров 1183 года назад
Aimer est plus fort que d'être aimé (To love is stronger than being loved) with English Subtitles. A powerful new cover of the famous song by Daniel Balavoine. Footage La passion de Jeanne d'Arc (The Passion of Joan of Arc) Director: Carl Theodor Dreyer © 1928 Société générale des films Icebreaking ship segments are licensed under Creative Commons (CC) U. S. Coast Guard (CC) Video, translation ...
VALENTINE’S DAY & GRIEF - Surviving our hidden sorrow
Просмотров 2733 года назад
Helpful thoughts on surviving Valentine’s Day after the death of a spouse, child or parent. With insights from C. S. Lewis and noted grief experts. See this video on Facebook: ddbannon/posts/1612468252475775 Valentine’s Day and Grief © 2021 David Bannon REFERENCES Jakoby, Nina, “Grief as a Social Emotion: Theoretical Perspectives,” Death Studies 36(8) (2012): 679-711. Valentine , C...
ONE MORE THING TO WRAP THIS CHRISTMAS
Просмотров 1483 года назад
"Still one more thing to wrap . . . your arm around someone grieving a loss this Christmas." - Do you know someone grieving a loss? “Still one more thing to wrap” Cartoon by Richard Crowson, Wichita Eagle, 25 December 2010 © Richard Crowson MUSIC Home for the Holidays © Chris Haugen One More Thing To Wrap Video © 2020 David Bannon
ADVENT by Rainer Maria Rilke read in English and German
Просмотров 1,7 тыс.3 года назад
Rainer Maria Rilke’s ADVENT read in English by David Bannon, author of Wounded in Spirit: Advent Art and Meditations (paracletepress.com/products/wounded-in-spirit) and in German by actor, teacher and psychotherapist Florian Friedrich. ‘Advent’ by Rainer Maria Rilke, written in Schmargendorf, December 1897, and first published in the book Advent (Friesenhahn, 1898). Translation © 2020 David Ban...
O CHRISTMAS TREE (O Weihnachtsbaum) by Friedrich Rückert read in English and German
Просмотров 4233 года назад
Friedrich Rückert’s ‘O Christmas Tree’ (O Weihnachtsbaum) read in English by author and translator David Bannon and in German by actor, teacher and psychotherapist Florian Friedrich. Learn more about Friedrich Ruckert: blog.paracletepress.com/index.php/for-advent-i-from-david-bannon/ ‘O CHRISTMAS TREE’ by Friedrich Rückert ‘O Weihnachtsbaum’ was first published in Kindertotenlieder [Songs on th...
IF OUR DEAD ARE NOT WITH US (Wenn dir nicht deine Todten leben) - Friedrich Rückert
Просмотров 2423 года назад
‘If our dead are not with us’ (Wenn dir nicht deine Todten leben) by Friedrich Rückert. Translated and read by David Bannon. This poem was first published in Kindertotenlieder (Songs on the Death of Children) in 1872. Read more translations of Friedrich Rückert's Songs on the Death of Children in Wounded in Spirit from Paraclete Press - paracletepress.com/products/wounded-in-spirit Translation ...
THE PHILIP YANCEY BLOG - "FAMILY SECRETS" - GUEST ESSAY
Просмотров 1824 года назад
Oprah Winfrey, Jane Fonda, the Roosevelt family, Frederich Buechner, Harry and Margaret Truman they all had "Family Secrets" - a new guest essay on the Philip Yancey blog space. philipyancey.com/family-secrets PhilipYancey.com, the Philip Yancey blog space and web site © Philip Yancey - www.philipyancey.com “Family Secrets Video Trailer” © 2020 David Bannon “Family Secrets” essay © 2020 David B...
OVER ALL GRAVES (Über alle Gräber) by Friedrich Rückert read in English and German
Просмотров 3224 года назад
Friedrich Rückert’s “Over all Graves” (Über alle Gräber) read in English by author and translator David Bannon and in German by actor, teacher and psychotherapist Florian Friedrich. Learn more about Friedrich Ruckert: blog.paracletepress.com/index.php/for-advent-i-from-david-bannon/ ‘OVER ALL GRAVES’ by Friedrich Rückert “Über alle Gräber wächst zuletzt das Gras,” Kindertodtenlieder [Songs on t...
THE WHYBRARY - A COVID-19 LIBRARY STORY
Просмотров 3584 года назад
THE WHYBRARY - A COVID-19 LIBRARY STORY
TOM HIDDLESTON READING FUNERAL BLUES - STOP ALL THE CLOCKS by W. H. AUDEN
Просмотров 139 тыс.4 года назад
TOM HIDDLESTON READING FUNERAL BLUES - STOP ALL THE CLOCKS by W. H. AUDEN
FINDING MEANING WHEN A LOVED ONE DIES
Просмотров 5094 года назад
FINDING MEANING WHEN A LOVED ONE DIES
Holiday Traditions and Grief
Просмотров 3904 года назад
Holiday Traditions and Grief
Surviving a Christmas of Grief - Mourning & the Holidays
Просмотров 2294 года назад
Surviving a Christmas of Grief - Mourning & the Holidays
Wounded in Spirit 2019 Christmas Trailer
Просмотров 1484 года назад
Wounded in Spirit 2019 Christmas Trailer
ZAZ - On s’en remet jamais with English Subtitles - Les Lives de l’appart’
Просмотров 1645 лет назад
ZAZ - On s’en remet jamais with English Subtitles - Les Lives de l’appart’
Meditations of a Korean Monk - Beopjeong 법정스님
Просмотров 8405 лет назад
Meditations of a Korean Monk - Beopjeong 법정스님
A Place for the Grieving - Channel Trailer
Просмотров 6225 лет назад
A Place for the Grieving - Channel Trailer
Meister Eckhart On Suffering
Просмотров 1,2 тыс.5 лет назад
Meister Eckhart On Suffering
Fatherhood - Understanding Men in Mourning
Просмотров 2055 лет назад
Fatherhood - Understanding Men in Mourning
Wounded in Spirit 2019 Book Trailer - The Artists
Просмотров 2055 лет назад
Wounded in Spirit 2019 Book Trailer - The Artists
Crime and Redemption - Life after conviction
Просмотров 3545 лет назад
Crime and Redemption - Life after conviction
Wounded in Spirit 2019 Book Trailer - Reviews
Просмотров 2645 лет назад
Wounded in Spirit 2019 Book Trailer - Reviews

Комментарии

  • @veronicwbrennan4002
    @veronicwbrennan4002 2 месяца назад

    Good, but nobody beats John Hannah's reading.

  • @rudrakshadasgupta7048
    @rudrakshadasgupta7048 3 месяца назад

    Marvelous

  • @Hisal292
    @Hisal292 4 месяца назад

    🥰🥰

  • @jamesfulton8251
    @jamesfulton8251 5 месяцев назад

    The fella who wrote this...wrote a masterpiece..W.H.O.❤🎉

  • @EFYG_Music
    @EFYG_Music 5 месяцев назад

    Hey! If you like this song, you'll love the version by El Famoso y Grandioso!

  • @donnagraham4050
    @donnagraham4050 6 месяцев назад

    This is beautifully done … I have Behçet’s. Sad your lovely one was a warrior.

  • @kayjohnston8976
    @kayjohnston8976 6 месяцев назад

    Wonderful words / Thank you Tom and thank you Hannah , You both said the words so well.

  • @reginaeva6140
    @reginaeva6140 7 месяцев назад

    Silence the Piamos.....!!! Please, pretty please.

  • @jeremydow1432
    @jeremydow1432 7 месяцев назад

    Nice poem : more comma need Tom, as.

  • @ClifffsVictory
    @ClifffsVictory 7 месяцев назад

    Is the book mentioned available in English?

  • @mickontherock1
    @mickontherock1 8 месяцев назад

    I suddenly lost my husband on the 14th march, and this is exactly how I feel. Night night Lenny xxxxx💔

  • @pahkk
    @pahkk 9 месяцев назад

    Still, sometimes I miss this man. This man remains as a little price in a bright star in sky.

  • @RicardoRivera-zg7mp
    @RicardoRivera-zg7mp 10 месяцев назад

    RIP to me

  • @carlabrumbeloe641
    @carlabrumbeloe641 10 месяцев назад

    What a wonderful way to support those in need.

  • @honey23b2
    @honey23b2 Год назад

    I love this reading. It is so powerful.

  • @jamesfulton8251
    @jamesfulton8251 Год назад

    On forr weddings, for me this was the best bit, words, verse, DH , got this just right...fantastic.

  • @ayhandamienisik
    @ayhandamienisik Год назад

    I might have behchet disease. I am hurting so bad that between 0 and 10 I am at level of 7 or 8. I live with this pain everyday and I try not to let anyone notice I am in pain. If i did not have my kids I don’t know what I would do.

  • @ElleMay
    @ElleMay Год назад

    This is a lovely tribute to a beautiful lady, so sorry for your loss.. I know how this feels I’m currently living in continuous pain can’t get to pain clinic for 2 years as there is a backlog since Covid.. Behçet’s disease is an awful thing to live with.. I’m struggling with it so much. This video is beautiful thank you for sharing ❤

  • @spmoran4703
    @spmoran4703 Год назад

    This is how it feels when someone goes that was loved by you. This is how I felt when the only one man that truly loved me died

  • @samb5282
    @samb5282 Год назад

    IT'S AN IRONIC POEM!!!!

  • @Miguchingu24
    @Miguchingu24 Год назад

    🙏🙏🙏

  • @badsezz77
    @badsezz77 Год назад

    I dint know how my sister read it at our dads funeral. He wanted it read but man it was hard

  • @waterbeyza3769
    @waterbeyza3769 Год назад

    Its rly a lonely journey😢and not ending i am trying my best to life with it

  • @antoniopalmero4063
    @antoniopalmero4063 Год назад

    When reciting this poem I always seem to enter a Scottish accent or a churchillian tone .

  • @philipyancey7975
    @philipyancey7975 Год назад

    Well done video! This project deserves the classy treatment of the book trailer.

  • @krupasanghavi7151
    @krupasanghavi7151 Год назад

    Bad smell in mouth nd viginal??? Pls tell me I am pregnant nd also i have this type of symptoms

  • @ts-eu6mp
    @ts-eu6mp Год назад

    I just came back to this-did not try to-but it happened. Thank you, David Bannon-you have been a source of knowing for me. Terri

  • @ts-eu6mp
    @ts-eu6mp Год назад

    Oh Yes. Thank you for this-how simple, how sweet, how true, how.....ts

  • @ts-eu6mp
    @ts-eu6mp Год назад

    Seeing and hearing this again-sometime later-and yet...still missing-as if I expected something else...grief is the stranger thing...Terri, Jenna's Mother

  • @ts-eu6mp
    @ts-eu6mp Год назад

    Thank you, David, for the moments you took to write me and the blessing that was given to you by a true friend that you shared with me. I lost my daughter, Jenna Rose. I just want to tell you that I've not forgotten you, what you went through and what you said. I have much more work to do. Am changing Dr's.-this one did me no favors. Sent me to a unenlightened therapist, although I tried. Put me on some anti-depressants-2 months or less after Jenna died, so "That I would stop crying." Well, it stop[ped-she kept raising the dose. I lost what filters I had gained in life. So I finally took myself off of it-I am not against that type of help-just not in that dosage and the idea of "needing to stop crying" was too hard for me to understand at the moment and protect myself! So, I have also been "diagnosed" with at least 2 new illnesses-and it is painful and debilitating. I am working through that on my own, finding other Dr's. but am mostly bed ridden and have been-for the time being anyway. I feel better off the large-dose anti-depressant-I was in no way suicidal, ever- and will also feel better when I can completely extricate myself from this Dr. and get a new primary care person-one who doesn't do that and who also doesn't miss health problems and then freak out and treat me very poorly to get me to leave-just talk to me-but I suppose they are all afraid of what patients might try to do legally-though I have never been like that, ever. The Dr. ha created a lot of harm to me. And has injured me with words as well as not being thorough with my medical records. But they are everywhere and I thank God when I finally find a good one-with ethics and smarts and professionalism and compassion. I'm up with one specialist-and am going from there. I just felt like writing-the holidays, obviously. I do hope this finds you moving along at your own helpful pace and that you and yours have managed to stay well. Thank you again. ts

  • @TessMalloy
    @TessMalloy Год назад

    😢

  • @edwardhew4984
    @edwardhew4984 2 года назад

    After the tsunami I went to Otsuchi as a humanitarian worker but I only found out about this years later. Hopefully I can return again someday. 🙏

  • @athenamanolopoulounilsson3692
    @athenamanolopoulounilsson3692 2 года назад

    I miss her

  • @Torahboy1
    @Torahboy1 2 года назад

    I’m not crying….. YOU’RE crying !!!

  • @symbologie
    @symbologie 2 года назад

    I have to read this poem at a funeral on Saturday. I thought Tom would be a good teacher.

  • @defiant341
    @defiant341 2 года назад

    I do hope W H Auden doesn't mind me rehashing his words... Stop all the clocks, cut off the telephone, Prevent the dog from barking with a juicy bone, Silence the pianos and with muffled drum Bring out the coffin, let the mourners come. Let aeroplanes circle moaning overhead Scribbling on the sky the message Our Queen Is Dead, Put crepe bows round the white necks of the public doves, Let the traffic policemen wear black cotton gloves. She was our North, our South, our East and West, Our working week and our Sunday rest, Our noon, our midnight, our talk, our song; I thought that Our Queen would last for ever: I was wrong. The stars are not wanted now: put out every one; Pack up the moon and dismantle the sun; Pour away the ocean and sweep up the wood; For nothing now can ever come to any good. W H Auden

  • @lesleymcshanemitchell9651
    @lesleymcshanemitchell9651 2 года назад

    The Queen is dead Long live the King. The Like of her we shall never see agian My Queen My Sovereign RIP

  • @pipcorteen874
    @pipcorteen874 2 года назад

    Awful..I think!

  • @Massev6871
    @Massev6871 2 года назад

    Beautiful

  • @ts-eu6mp
    @ts-eu6mp 2 года назад

    Thank you, again, David. I find an understanding in the manner you have approached your own beloved child, My daughter was desperately ill from her early 20's until our final trip to the hospital a few hours away. 2019. Yes, she is missing from me. be well. Terri, Jenna's Mother

    • @DavidBannonToday
      @DavidBannonToday 2 года назад

      You are welcome, Terri. 2019---such a short amount of time. Three years can feel like no time at all in our calendar of grief. Yesterday, perhaps, or last week. You remind me of professor and priest Henri Nouwen's thoughts on loss: "Real grief is not healed by time. . . . If time does anything, it deepens our grief. The longer we live, the more fully we become aware of who she was for us, and the more intimately we experience what her love meant for us." Nouwen was writing from the lived experience of his own grief. He concluded his letter with this thought that I now share with you: "Consolation and comfort are to be found where our wounds hurt most."

    • @ts-eu6mp
      @ts-eu6mp 2 года назад

      @@DavidBannonToday I love Henri Nouwen! A woman visited me after a surgery and quoted him. I was instantly drawn to that; it either resonated with me or else it felt like something familiar. I remember saying that to her, about 25 years ago. Now I feel as though I need to read a book by him-if I can concentrate that long. Thank for your acknowledgment that 3 years is really not that long ago. You are a kind and insightful human being. Terri

    • @gertrudelovell3455
      @gertrudelovell3455 9 месяцев назад

      My son died 12 years ago.he was 42 years old and committed suicide.im still struggling with the consequences.

  • @thinking102
    @thinking102 2 года назад

    This was the poem I had read out at my husbands funeral...

    • @greengrassofhome
      @greengrassofhome 2 года назад

      I am so sorry for your loss, Marie. God bless you.

  • @ts-eu6mp
    @ts-eu6mp 2 года назад

    I thought that was James Galway on flute. And to anyone who might read this and think me odd to mention that before this love and dearly paid for poem, I ask you to open your mind's eye to grief, once again, for this is just how I dealt with the loss of my precious daughter, at this moment-didn't know I was going to do that-I just did. blessings, Terri---Jenna's Mother

  • @ts-eu6mp
    @ts-eu6mp 2 года назад

    Seems as though this is true National Treasure. I read below where in the USA there are "wind phones" also. Isn't it a worldwide need? Blessings. Terri

    • @landscapedetective4064
      @landscapedetective4064 2 года назад

      Here's a list of the US Wind Phones I know of: Battle Ground, Washington. Fahnestock State Park, Putnam County. NY. Oakland. San Francisco. Squaxin Park (Formerly Priest Point Park), Olympia. Washington. Oneonta, New York. Provincetown, Massachusetts. Portsmouth, Rhode Island. Folly Farm Nature Preserve. Safety Harbor. Florida. Quail Hollow Park. Stark County. Ohio. Marshall, (North of Asheville) North Carolina.

    • @ts-eu6mp
      @ts-eu6mp Год назад

      Oh, thank you kindly! I am sorry it took me this long to see what you wrote about the locations in the USA that you know of. This seems rather incredible to me-I think it is a true need and a wonderment, at once. Thank you for your diligence and your caring. I just now said aloud, to my open window, "Thank you, Landscape Detective." If you hear it on the wind or feel it somehow, that was me just now. Terri

  • @ts-eu6mp
    @ts-eu6mp 2 года назад

    This rings true. And they are good, the singer and the musician, too. Rings true.... Terri

  • @ts-eu6mp
    @ts-eu6mp 2 года назад

    Starting with a beautiful picture of a dewy rose- her middle name, as I said before, is Rose. Terri

  • @ts-eu6mp
    @ts-eu6mp 2 года назад

    David Brannon, I was so bowled over by the response you so generously gave that I totally missed the Celtic blessing right in fort of me! Hope you did not think I was just a dolt! That is a beautiful saying and what you have said also touches my heart. I have it copied in a notebook now. Thank you. Blessings, Terri

  • @ts-eu6mp
    @ts-eu6mp 2 года назад

    Thank you. Thank you very much. DB.

  • @ts-eu6mp
    @ts-eu6mp 2 года назад

    Hiddleston is solemn and effective to be sure. And Auden, well, brilliant. Yet John Hannah's recitation of this in Four Weddings and a Funeral grabbed me and never let me go! When my daughter died fairly recently, way too young, of cancer, that was what I turned to0 Hannah's version of Funeral Blue's-and I sent it to my sister, who has not had or wanted kids0though she loves mine0-and it made her understand how I felt! So it helped in that way. It will always be there for me-truly, and it is a poem for the ages but it is regarding the immediate mourning of grief-at a funeral or memorial service, which we could have neither for my girl because her Dad had that very real broken heart syndrome and I had to get him to the hospital in our hometown and had to save his life. Her body was still in the morgue 3 hours away and it was so hard. He was too ill to have it and I had to protect him and take care of him-and her bewildered brother, who was like a terrific twin with her despite the big age difference between them. It is something one never "gets over", rather I believe it is a hard thing that will always be there and we must find a way to live around it, as she would definitely wanted. Sorry, folks, this is what I do. I go a thousand mph or am on STOP! I feel that this too shall pass and change into something different, but not having any kind of a service for her has made a tremendous difference in the way all of us have had to deal with our grief and C-PTSD, etc. from her loss. Beautiful inside and out and an artist and animal lover and kind, funny, smart, and true. Very true- knew herself! My joy, my heart, the one I got to spend the ,most time with . Thanks for indulging me. Best to ALL!

    • @DavidBannonToday
      @DavidBannonToday 2 года назад

      I too have lost a daughter, ts. Poetry, like all art, often helps us find ways to express the inexpressible. They can also help us mark solemn occasions. It is never too late to have a memorial service. In fact, researchers have found that marking small occasions, such as birthdays and memorials days (the day our loved one died) is helpful and normal. These small observances over the years give us a time and place for memory, tears and prayer. May you have moments of gentle memory amid your many tears in the long years ahead. When my daughter died, a friend sent this Celtic blessing to me, which I now send to you: May the beauty of her life be reflected in each tear that falls for her.

    • @ts-eu6mp
      @ts-eu6mp 2 года назад

      @@DavidBannonToday David, you had a "Jess" and I had a "Jenna". Jenna Rose to be precise. I had not read your 2nd reply to me when I wrote my sincere Thank you to you first. Please do accept my deepest and heartfelt thoughts of considerations on the loss of your precious one. A daughter- they are so 'daughter"-I believe you know what I mean, or else I'm being too obtuse! Don't mid being a little obtuse- good to confuse the one's who grate on ya'm don't cha know- (this is me having fun with words and ideas)-but really, I will now use the French phrase. Was that the Celtic blessing that you sent to me? I ended up on your actual site, and sorry, but I could not be sure I got it correctly. Please, for heaven's sake, let me know and receive the Celtic blessing that you so generous shared- I need it! I feel very fortunate to have happened upon your channel and have set it to follow and be alerted. I love that story about your Jess and the e year old recitation of the burly voiced Japanes man from the night before!! :). My daughter had an ear for accents and copying in her own way and it was delightful and funny! We played games where we would make up languages and words and have conversations with each other. So much fun- laughing and laughing and we could usually understand each other because of "talking with our faces" and eyes and gestures, too. My son tells me to this day that I "talk with my face." I have an ear for accents but often I know not that I'm doing it and have, I'm afraid, sounded as though I was making fun of, et's say randomly, an Italian waiter whom I ordered in an Anglo-Italian accent when I placed for order. One of many examples. I feel badly afterwards because I was not aware of doing it! Through the years I have tried sincerely to be more aware and would always , vbefor that, find a way to smooth it over with them so they realized I was not being saucy and unfeeling! I would hate it if that were the case. Once, my daughter fell and scraped her knee badly enough to need some Mommy medical attention- which I also did all the time as a kid-what a tomboy I was- I digress. I took her in the house and found the room in my Mother and Father-in-laws house where they kept the medical supplies.After we had washed it and dried it and were ready to continue with the rest, I told her that it might burn and I would blow on it to help but if she wanted or needed to cry it was fine. Just not to wiggle and make it hard, which of course she did not because she was brave. I ha said, "It is okay it you cry. After all, you are just a six year old little girl." She looked at me in a way that made me stop and said very distinctly, "No, I'm not I'm a 6 year old woman." And the way she emphasized woman- I'll never forget. And you know, she just may have been. Some nearly 50 year old memory that I cherish. There was not a day that ever went by that I don't have memories of her saying or doing something that I think of. She was working full time and going to school when the first of her illnesses hit, in her early 20's. I am very grateful to have found this site that you have so lovingly, truthfully, intellectually and emotionally hits the crux of the matter and also flutters around the main subject, with the delicacy of butterflies wings. Which we all know that if a butterfly opens and closes it's wings on the other side of the world, it has an effect on the other side of the planet- it feels a lot like that since my daughter died-that without her on this planet many things that did and were going to happen stopped. Thank you. Terri Spencer-Williams

    • @DavidBannonToday
      @DavidBannonToday 2 года назад

      @@ts-eu6mp Thank you for these lovely stories of Jenna. It takes some 4-6 years to put a death in perspective, counselors assure us, and even then many of us struggle to focus on the happy memories, the small joys that now mean so much to us. Harriet Sarnoff Schiff wrote in her book, The Bereaved Parent, that reviewing past mistakes with our now dead children is worse than worthless, it is harmful. Still, memory is part of grief. We remember all of our times with our children, the good and the bad. This is why I wish for each of us gentle memories. They may not all be of the happiest times, but if they are gentle, we may in rare moments find we can make peace with all that they were to us, and all that we were to them---and continue love them as they surely continue to love us. I believe that to grieve is to love. Thank you for watching the video on the French phrase, "You are missing from me." That video was inspired by an essay that I posted on my (not-for-profit) author page, which may be interesting to read. Here's hoping the link works: facebook.com/ddbannon/posts/pfbid02LteaAkuuKWw27MDEqMqC2pS4DEcC3dZffqWXQVvKVJuTzeuX1WGfKXczh9LsoZLul

  • @happydoodlesofpensacola
    @happydoodlesofpensacola 2 года назад

    thank you ❤

  • @carlabrumbeloe641
    @carlabrumbeloe641 2 года назад

    This song goes straight to your soul.