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Milli's Mum - Rochelle Nicole Evrard
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Добавлен 12 май 2015
The most extreme form of bereavement is parental bereavement - and I know firsthand of this pain, after losing my baby girl Milli at only 6 days old with no indication of complication prior to her birth. It came as a complete shock to us.
As the weeks passed and we were riding the tsunami of grief; those around us expressed how useless they felt. They didn't know, we too, felt so useless.
From Milli's life & death, this podcast was birthed. A space for family & friends to be educated with us. A safe space for loss parents to share their story of baby loss, grief, trauma, heartache & hope.
Support & join the conversation, more info: linktr.ee/rochelleanddylan
As the weeks passed and we were riding the tsunami of grief; those around us expressed how useless they felt. They didn't know, we too, felt so useless.
From Milli's life & death, this podcast was birthed. A space for family & friends to be educated with us. A safe space for loss parents to share their story of baby loss, grief, trauma, heartache & hope.
Support & join the conversation, more info: linktr.ee/rochelleanddylan
Milli’s mum - season one finale and life update
Thank you to everyone who has been a part of our first season of Little Life Big Loss.
We didn’t know what we were doing or where it would go but thank you for coming along for the ride!
Here is a little wrap up of what was and what might be in future!
“LITTLE LIFE BIG LOSS” the podcast for grieving baby loss families
You can find more of Milli’s Mum & her Little Life Big Loss journey:
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We didn’t know what we were doing or where it would go but thank you for coming along for the ride!
Here is a little wrap up of what was and what might be in future!
“LITTLE LIFE BIG LOSS” the podcast for grieving baby loss families
You can find more of Milli’s Mum & her Little Life Big Loss journey:
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Milli’s mum - season one finale and life update
Просмотров 2332 месяца назад
Thank you to everyone who has been a part of our first season of Little Life Big Loss. We didn’t know what we were doing or where it would go but thank you for coming along for the ride! Here is a little wrap up of what was and what might be in future! “LITTLE LIFE BIG LOSS” the podcast for grieving baby loss families 👼🏼❤️🩹🌹🙏🏽 You can find more of Milli’s Mum & her Little Life Big Loss journey...
Lisa - Archie & Coopers mum - twin loss 2 sons, 22+5, 1 earthside daughter after loss
Просмотров 4152 месяца назад
What a beautiful story of hope after loss. Lisa birthed her two beautiful sons Archie & Cooper who only lived for 8 minutes & 30 minutes after she was diagnosed with an infection that could have taken her life she was induced to birth her boys knowing they would be incompatible with life. She spent so much time with them after their passing taking them home to have more visitors and heartfelt p...
Lisa - Archie & Coopers mum - twin loss 2 sons, 22+5, 1 earthside daughter after loss
Просмотров 442 месяца назад
What a beautiful story of hope after loss. Lisa birthed her two beautiful sons Archie & Cooper who only lived for 8 minutes & 30 minutes after she was diagnosed with an infection that could have taken her life she was induced to birth her boys knowing they would be incompatible with life. She spent so much time with them after their passing taking them home to have more visitors and heartfelt p...
Rachel - Arlo & August's Mum - Hypercoil Umbilical Cords, Fused uterus, Stillbirth, late Miscarri...
Просмотров 412 месяца назад
Rachel's story will blow your mind (but with such beautiful inspiration at the end) Rachel had 2 sons, Grayson and Orlando, but she yearned for a 3rd child. She didn't expect she would have to lose 4 more before she got her last living baby. A late miscarriage, a stillbirth, a TFMR with twins, a vanishing twin with a successful surviving twin she got there. Rachel is doing incredible things in ...
Rachel - Arlo & August's Mum .Hypercoil Umbilical Cords, fused uterus, stillbirth,miscarriage & TFMR
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Rachel's story will blow your mind (but with such beautiful inspiration at the end) Rachel had 2 sons, Grayson and Orlando, but she yearned for a 3rd child. She didn't expect she would have to lose 4 more before she got her last living baby. A late miscarriage, a stillbirth, a TFMR with twins, a vanishing twin with a successful surviving twin she got there. Rachel is doing incredible things in ...
Katie - Ella's Mum - Medical Negligence Breech Vaginal Birth UK
Просмотров 3532 месяца назад
FAR OUT WHAT A RIDE! Amy's journey is not for the faint-hearted. I love that in this episode she speaks about the ways she sought help with anxiety during pregnancy loss & also with post-natal depression when she brought home her first living child. How helpful Bears of Hope were during the birth of her stillborn babies and their support after adding in PANDA too. www.bearsofhope.org.au/ panda....
Amy - 3 Losses, 1 Triploidy, 2 TFMR with Cystic Fibrosis, 2 IVF bubbas earthside
Просмотров 1622 месяца назад
FAR OUT WHAT A RIDE! Amy's journey is not for the faint-hearted. I love that in this episode she speaks about the ways she sought help with anxiety during pregnancy loss & also with post-natal depression when she brought home her first living child. How helpful Bears of Hope were during the birth of her stillborn babies and their support after adding in PANDA too. www.bearsofhope.org.au/ panda....
Amy - 3 Losses, 1 Triploidy, 2 TFMR with Cystic Fibrosis, 2 IVF bubbas earthside.
Просмотров 1132 месяца назад
FAR OUT WHAT A RIDE! Amy's journey is not for the faint-hearted. I love that in this episode she speaks about the ways she sought help with anxiety during pregnancy loss & also with post-natal depression when she brought home her first living child. How helpful Bears of Hope were during the birth of her stillborn babies and their support after adding in PANDA too. www.bearsofhope.org.au/ panda....
Karina - Rafael's mum. Donor sperm, testicular cancer, 40+6 stillbirth.
Просмотров 1393 месяца назад
When Karina met her now husband Evan, they discussed on their first date the need for Evan to do IVF as he was diagnosed with testicular cancer at just 19 years old. Told he only had a few weeks to live, they took fertility precautions but it did not work. He survived, what a miracle! But has always known he would not be able to have his own children. Karina talks of their journey to IVF donor ...
Naomi - Alfie's Mum. 23+3 stillbirth, 2 miscarriages, 2 living children.
Просмотров 1214 месяца назад
Alfie Bear - born at 23 3 weeks with an anterior placenta but otherwise perfect scans. Gallbladder removed at 15 weeks pregnant after too many painful gallstone attacked. This episode we talked about the effect of losing a child on our mind as a woman, the blame we put on ourselves and our body. The guilt Naomi felt for letting her two daughters down. "I don't feel pregnant" .... the intuition!...
Bec - Archie’s story - short cervix - 22 weeks stillbirth
Просмотров 1594 месяца назад
Wow what a story! Bec’s incredible strength - what her body has physically been through. Birthing her baby Harrison in May and accidentally falling pregnant only 6 weeks later. Her short cervix wasn’t able to hold her beautiful bubba Archie and her waters broke at around 21.5 weeks. Bec talks so perfectly about how her 6 older children and step children are dealing with the grief, a grieving hu...
Bec - Archie’s story - short cervix - 22 weeks stillbirth
Просмотров 454 месяца назад
Wow what a story! Bec’s incredible strength - what her body has physically been through. Birthing her baby Harrison in May and accidentally falling pregnant only 6 weeks later. Her short cervix wasn’t able to hold her beautiful bubba Archie and her waters broke at around 21.5 weeks. Bec talks so perfectly about how her 6 older children and step children are dealing with the grief, a grieving hu...
Kiki - Sprout's Mum - full term stillborn during home birth - undiagnosed velamentous cord insertion
Просмотров 8714 месяца назад
Kiki & her husband Tyler had a home birth planned from the start of their pregnancy. Kiki herself along with her sibling were born at home some 30 years ago, so this was a natural path to follow for her. At 20 weeks she registered with a hospital (just in case) however when needing to present to hospital after little Sprouts heartbeat could not be found at home, they presented to a different ho...
Kiki - Sprout's Mum - full term stillborn during home birth - undiagnosed velamentous cord insert...
Просмотров 1684 месяца назад
Kiki & her husband Tyler had a home birth planned from the start of their pregnancy. Kiki herself along with her sibling were born at home some 30 years ago, so this was a natural path to follow for her. At 20 weeks she registered with a hospital (just in case) however when needing to present to hospital after little Sprouts heartbeat could not be found at home, they presented to a different ho...
Michelle - Sonny's Mum. TFMR at 34 weeks - cysts on the brain following an “incident”
Просмотров 3265 месяцев назад
Michelle - Sonny's Mum. TFMR at 34 weeks - cysts on the brain following an “incident”
Alyssa - Felix's Mum - ARPKD recessive gene neonatal loss.
Просмотров 2076 месяцев назад
Alyssa - Felix's Mum - ARPKD recessive gene neonatal loss.
Hannah - Olive’s mum - TFMR, 22 + 4 wks, short cervix, failed stitch.
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Hannah - Olive’s mum - TFMR, 22 4 wks, short cervix, failed stitch.
Alyssa - Felix's Mum - ARPKD recessive gene neonatal loss
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Alyssa - Felix's Mum - ARPKD recessive gene neonatal loss
Hannah - Olive’s mum - TFMR, 22 + 4 wks, short cervix, failed stitch.
Просмотров 526 месяцев назад
Hannah - Olive’s mum - TFMR, 22 4 wks, short cervix, failed stitch.
Annelise - Sophie's Mum - 2 vessel placenta, kidney failure, growth restricted, 27wk stillbirth
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Annelise - Sophie's Mum - 2 vessel placenta, kidney failure, growth restricted, 27wk stillbirth
Annelise - Sophie's Mum - 2 vessel placenta, kidney failure for mum, growth restricted, 27wk stil...
Просмотров 766 месяцев назад
Annelise - Sophie's Mum - 2 vessel placenta, kidney failure for mum, growth restricted, 27wk stil...
Liv Part 2 - Siena's mum. 2 little kiddies on earth + 22wk stillborn in heaven
Просмотров 566 месяцев назад
Liv Part 2 - Siena's mum. 2 little kiddies on earth 22wk stillborn in heaven
Liv Pt 1- Siena's mum. 2 little kiddies on earth + 22wk stillborn in heaven
Просмотров 1766 месяцев назад
Liv Pt 1- Siena's mum. 2 little kiddies on earth 22wk stillborn in heaven
Little Life, Big Loss Trigger Warning
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Little Life, Big Loss Trigger Warning
Thank you for listening to Little Life, Big Loss
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Thank you for listening to Little Life, Big Loss
Liv - Siena's mum. 2 little kiddies on earth + 22wk stillborn in heaven
Просмотров 596 месяцев назад
Liv - Siena's mum. 2 little kiddies on earth 22wk stillborn in heaven
Steph - Sage's Mum - 38wk stillbirth, living children, critically small placenta
Просмотров 465 месяцев назад
Steph - Sage's Mum - 38wk stillbirth, living children, critically small placenta
Steph - Sage's Mum - 38wk stillbirth, living children, critically small placenta.
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Steph - Sage's Mum - 38wk stillbirth, living children, critically small placenta.
Thank you for your RUclips channel and for sharing about your precious Milli and her siblings. I appreciate longer episodes. The loss of beloved little lives deserve to be respected, honored and remembered. Thank you for this space. 💞
Obviously all loss is sad and painful but my heart breaks even more for the women before us who just had to forget and move on. 😢
I couldn't help but cry listening to you talk about your precious Millie Rose 🌹. My heart absolutely breaks for you, your husband & your beautiful family. I pray you all can feel God's almighty hands wrapped around each one of you. Just know you aren't alone & you all are in my thoughts, my heart & in my prayers ❤️🙏🏻🥲🕊️ From one angel 👼🏻 Mama to another 👼🏻
Hi Rochelle! Will there be a video of this one or just the audio version? Thanks :)
I'm missing the videos 😢
Congratulations on your beautiful Sprout story and sharing him with us
Crying with you. Beautiful Milli only knew what it was to feel loved.
Thank you mamas for sharing your stories. In NZ mothers get parental leave from loss after 8weeks. They get full 26 weeks pay if they were already entitled to it.
So proud of our gal!!! You shared your story beautifully xxx
Milli’s mum what a courageous thing to do to be so vulnerable and so open about such a heartfelt topic grief is of our precious babies. May the sense of not being alone provide a modicum of comfort in a group no one would ever want to belong. All our angels are so very precious and are always thought of.
Bec I’m so extremely sorry we had to meet after your loss of your precious Archie. My tears were flowing throughout this interview for you and your beautiful family. May you feel this huge hug I’m sending you. I’m sure Archie is showing his angel friends what an amazing mumma he has. 🩵🩵
Hi I had stillbirth las year with valementos cord insertion which was not diagnosed in the scan.This valementos vessels was bit more far from the placenta.This vessels so fragile easily ruptured or compressed.i also induced with my baby boy.i know its really hard for mums to go through this emotional situations.take care.
Your a beautiful woman and you would come across more beautiful without the F*ck word being thrown in. Not trying to be mean, just trying to help you gain more followers :) The funny part is the word dont bother me, but I know how some people are in the world>>>anal lol
Im so so so sorry I'm so sorry for all your family and little Milli 💗 I hope your pain lessens. 😢 I want to say don't give up and don't let go of hope. I wish I could help in some way. I'm just so sorry for your loss and immense pain
So sad! My son was stillborn coming up on 2yrs soon and just had his lil bro this past dec
I’m single in this game as that’s the path I chose and my loss was my second child as well. will add pregnancy after loss is hard AF and a mental health struggle but I think being prepared for that part helps. I wish I could guarantee everyone have success in pregnancy but I know it’s so unpredictable and that sucks.
💔tfmr is so hard. I just went through it💔
I am so incredibly sorry for both of your losses. In South Africa, you have scans every 4 weeks. I miscarried my twin and had a high risk pregnancy so I was monitored every 2 weeks. Though of course I am beyond grateful for my miracle son .... I think of my angel son in heaven every single day.
So sorry for your loss .What a special and loved little girl ❤️ .Sending love and hugs from 🇬🇧 xx
Thinking of you Rochelle and your strength to talk and help others is beyond a beautiful gift of resilience, love and treasured giving, within your heart cells of grief. Two amazing mothers listening, caring and building! Such a beautiful page Rochelle! Milli is super proud!!! You are creating a foundation. And that is super special! One super strong mumma ❤❤❤ you are being seen xx
Awwwww Jess! It was remarkably so brave to share and so much strength to talk about your mother journey. Your baby boy is super proud of his name spoken I’m sure ❤️❤️❤️ Happy Heavenly 6 month Birthday little Nate, may your star shine super bright always for mum and dad! 🫶🏻🫶🏻 So beautiful to watch Jess xxxx Your strength is admirable, sending my love ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Medical negligence in South Africa, where I live, does not pay for emotional trauma at all. Only Medical costs and loss of earning. I nearly lost my life in 2022 at the hands of my Ob-Gyn. I developed sepsis and embolism and was in hospital for 12 weeks. It took another 18 weeks to be able to bathe myself or make a sandwich alone. But I have no real recourse. My medical costs were covered by insurance. My child didn't have a mum for 6 months.
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I'm so sorry. Such a huge loss. It's so interesting that midwife led care is so common in AU. I'm in South Africa and monthly scans with an OB are the absolute standard. Midwives are super uncommon. Flip side is that C Sections are the majority of births by a long way. Generally here in SA, weekly scans in the last trimester is the accepted protocol.
I am so sorry for your loss. x ❤❤sending love.
My heart breaks for you. My story is different, but I know grief. I was pg with twins and one survived and the other didn't. We tried desperately to have a rainbow baby. I became pg with another set of twins but sadly they passed away on my first set of twins birthday. We weren't ever able to get pg after that. Now we are foster parents. I love kids and I had too much love to keep it to myself. I love how you honor her memory! I'm doing the same for Autumn, Meadow, and Willow.
So sorry for your loss. I pray that God the one who gives children may visit you again so that you may testify his glory and faithfulness in your life, in Jesus Chist name
I am So SORRY ! I don't like watching these video's because all in the same breath and thought I am reminded how dang blessed I am. They are now all adult's but at 70 years-old I will never understand the loss of brand new babies and the Hopes, Love, Future Dreams go with them on their journey back to God's arm's. It crushes my soul and I Thank God that I didn't have to grieve the greatest love I've ever Known. Thank You for Sharing. My heart hurts. She is SO BEAUTIFUL !
Sending you both so much love and strength. My loss was 10 years ago and it still hurts like a MF. Medical staff are not infallible. They weren't 10 years ago and they weren't last year when I nearly lost my life to Sepsis as a result of malpractice and negligence.
Lol 😆
Born as an angel at 11.11. She’s certainly special, forever an angel ❤
I am so sorry for your loss of your beautiful Angel Milli. My heart goes out to you both.
So sorry for your loss. I'm glad they were at least able to find out what was wrong. Hugs to you.
Consoles My Friend Praying For You And Family Sorry For Your Loss
Im so sorry, for the loss of your little girl,I had a miscarriage, it never leaves you! After I had a healthy baby boy,very laid back! Be strong,I'm sure you'll be parent's soon! God bless
This is a touching, sad and yet beautiful tribute to a pretty little girl and her loving parents. I'm a retired OB RN, and I was always amazed by the strength mamas and daddies had when putting a lifetime of love and memories into a few minutes, hours, or days. Sympathy and hugs.
What a beautiful epitaph. So sorry for your loss 💔
Yo perdí uno después de 8 años me volví embarazar ahora después de tanto dolor y sacrificio, es en vísperas del divorcio... No sabemos lo que depara el futuro..deseo vuelvan a intentarlo y valoren su unión. Bendiciones❤
Trisomy 18 is a tough diagnosis. The few babies that do make it to birth live a very hard life & don’t survive very long. Sad situation all around 🥺
I'm so sorry for your the loss of your beautiful baby girl.She is in heaven with Jesus and is now one of his angels.May she rest in peace.I'm praying for the blessing of another little one.❤❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
I am just so sorry this happened to you. Thankyou for sharing your story. such a devastating topic but there was something beautiful about this conversation between you two. Sending so much love to u both.
I’m a nurse on the Gold Coast. I was expecting to read that you lived in America not on the Gold Coast. I can’t imagine the pain you must feel. I’ve cared a lot for the elderly who have passed away. All I can say is that your beautiful baby girl is up there with them including my lovely mum and dad and she is putting beautiful smiles on all their faces ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Rochelle, I stumbled across your Instagram page & come over to watch your videos. My daughter in law delivered a stillborn at 7 months. She stopped feeling the baby move & by the time she got to the hospital the baby had no heart beat. A little girl, Oakley Rhea. My daughter in law was sent home for a few days before they brought her back in to deliver Oakley. Talk about a mind fuck. Every aspect is devastating. Even with an autopsy, we never got a reason why she died. Grief is a journey. The one thing we never do is forget Oakley. We talk about her often. She was loved. She IS loved. Her memory deserves to be honored. She’s a heavenly big sister now, as Mia was safely born 2 months ago. ❤ Milli’s story is beautiful. Not the part about how sick she was, the part about how cherished she is. Milli was so deeply loved. Her life was precious & it had meaning. Her gift to you & Dylan was showing you the kind of love that only a child could bring. Unfortunately, with such deep love comes deep grief. Rochelle, you and Dylan are so lovely. And we both are so lucky to have our own personal guardian angels, who we will see again some day. I’ll be keeping you in my heart & prayers as you journey thru this next season in life. 👼🏻 🙏🏼♥️🌈
First I want to say I am tremendously sorry for the loss of your precious little girl. I love what you are doing in her honor. There’s another channel called Still A Part Of Us, where they interview parents who have experienced loss, like what you are doing. They too have experienced the loss of a child. Maybe y’all could be on one another’s channels. Just an idea. If not, maybe y’all could find a friend in one another. Thinking of you, your husband and your family ❤
I am heartbroken for your loss. There is such a depth of tears and joy, only another parent who has also lost a child can understand. I am sure she is dancing in heaven until you join her. Sending my love and prayers
😢So sorry for your devastating loss 😢💔
Thank you so much! 💖
I'm so very sorry and you sound so strong. What a wonderful mother for Milli's short life on Earth. I'm praying for your healing❤
Thank you so much!!
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After struggling with infertility, i got pregnant with twins. I lost one of them in utero and I was fighting so hard to save my pregnancy, that i never grieved my lost baby. 35 years later Im still thinking of that baby. So i imagine the pain of parents who were able to give birth and hold and cherish their baby and sadly lost him
Thank you for sharing! if you ever want to share on my podcast Id be honoured - @rochelle.nicole.evrard to find the form to complete. I believe sharing your story helps heal x
Sarah, so very sorry for the loss of you precious angels. How heartbreaking. I am confused thou, that they offered you to induce if they they all heartbeats, if you had left things to carry on naturally, could your pregnancy have continued, even if you lost your wee boy who started to come thru your cervix? or would it have ended? I have known someone have a still birth but the other twin carried to term. You are such a strong lady 🙏😢😢😩
I have let Sarah know your questions and she will answer in time. x
Unfortunately as I was already in labour there was no way to stop it as his feet had come through my cervix already. We prayed and hoped after we deliver him that it may stop but again unfortunately the labour progressed and the other 2 followed 💔 xx
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We need protection of all humans life from moment of conception.
Absolutely!! Every moment counts and is a blessing!
That’s your opinion for yourself. Mine is different.