Ilana and Jamie
Ilana and Jamie
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It's hard to come home after war
War changes everything-soldiers live in a primal state of survival, disconnected from the everyday life we know. After enduring unimaginable trauma, they return to a world that’s moved on without them. The struggle isn’t just on the battlefield; it’s also in trying to reconnect with the family that waited, suffered, and hoped.
#MilitaryLife #Homecoming #SilentStruggles #SoldiersSpecial
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Living under threat
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Stress lingers when the trauma is ongoing, like being in a car that never stops. We adapt to the pressure, but it takes a toll on our relationships. Remember, you're not alone in this journey-take care of yourself and your loved ones. #MentalHealthMatters #RelationshipStress #HealingTogether #PrayforIsrael #IsraelConflict #SoldiersSpecial
You can't recover when it's not over
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You can't recover when it's not over
War impacts more than just the battlefield
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War impacts more than just the battlefield
I used to be annoying - now I'm unbearable
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I used to be annoying - now I'm unbearable
When everything changes
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When everything changes
A little silver lining in a time of war
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A little silver lining in a time of war
What if you had your partner's bad habit?
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What if you had your partner's bad habit?
Don't forget those green flags
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Don't forget those green flags
Being real with how your partner functions
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Being real with how your partner functions
The unhappy peace dynamic
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The unhappy peace dynamic
It's not always clever to compromise
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It's not always clever to compromise
Are you a jew living in fear? #Shorts
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Are you a jew living in fear? #Shorts
National Individual
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National Individual
Not sharing doesn’t mean not loving #Shorts
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Not sharing doesn’t mean not loving #Shorts
How to truly love my war hero
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How to truly love my war hero
War hurts relationships
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War hurts relationships
Look at Relationships Like a Business #Shorts
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Look at Relationships Like a Business #Shorts
The Biggest Relationship Mistakes: Communication 4
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The Biggest Relationship Mistakes: Communication 4
Biggest Relationship Mistakes: Communication 2
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Biggest Relationship Mistakes: Communication 2
The Biggest Relationship Mistakes: Communication 1
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The Biggest Relationship Mistakes: Communication 1
That sinking feeling....
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That sinking feeling....
Dating: Are you being too picky 2. Adjusting the picture
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Dating: Are you being too picky 2. Adjusting the picture
How to know if you are being too picky, or not!
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How to know if you are being too picky, or not!
Compromise and still win!
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Compromise and still win!
Explosions and how to avoid them!
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Explosions and how to avoid them!
The 2 "H's" and letting go of your mood!
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The 2 "H's" and letting go of your mood!
Unity, 2 Hands and what on earth happened to Ilana's finger!
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Unity, 2 Hands and what on earth happened to Ilana's finger!
3 May 2020
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3 May 2020
3 May 2020
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3 May 2020

Комментарии

  • @diorkayla..1636
    @diorkayla..1636 Месяц назад

    Why his hands are so in a circle like that what do that mean?

  • @zollipopss
    @zollipopss Месяц назад

    so true! thank you for the kind advice❤

  • @m.e.987
    @m.e.987 3 месяца назад

    This doesn't sound respectful at all - we are not each other punching bags. It doesn't mean it will not happen from time to time but it is much healthier to learn to express your emotions in a healthy way - like: Right now I am feeling so overwhelmed. I need more help. Please help me. i need (and state what you want.) But please do not make it sound that the receiver by defending themselves from the attack and avoiding responsibility for your actions by telling him that he is overanalyzing your words. Don't justify your action - if it is wrong it is wrong. It is wrong to say harsh words to feel better and than blame the other if he feels bad and tell him he is overanalyzing.

  • @michaelweems679
    @michaelweems679 3 месяца назад

    This woman is ridiculous. Just be rational from the start. Problem solved.

  • @redpilledman00000
    @redpilledman00000 3 месяца назад

    "Nobody ever helps me" is what every single MAN in this world has to deal with. Embrace the equality sweetheart. Men are not able to have 'unreasonable attacks' without facing consequences.

  • @DannyRamirez321
    @DannyRamirez321 3 месяца назад

    If you are very aware of this behavior, would it be fair to expect some growth and change in you as an individual?

  • @paintballinkaliguy
    @paintballinkaliguy 3 месяца назад

    Ahhhh... so dont be held accountable for what youve said and done... while holding the man accountable for what youve said and done... Yup... makes total sense... you realize if a man does this its called abuse right??? The Irony has not been missed.

  • @philiptamer8995
    @philiptamer8995 3 месяца назад

    She is BEAUTIFUL !!!!!!!

  • @user-nr4xo7jz4y
    @user-nr4xo7jz4y 4 месяца назад

    Very true. Also because of peace and the comfort zone/habits often people do not realize that they are actually very unhappy for a long time or even when they do, they are not unhappy enough to change something. Reflecting and communicating can solve most problems, if the intention is there.

  • @TechWiz1983
    @TechWiz1983 4 месяца назад

    I've been self dating 4 years now. Can't find a female version of my self! 🤣✌️

  • @bastbotanicals
    @bastbotanicals 4 месяца назад

    This is exactly what I need right now. Thank you!

  • @Putri-nl2gg
    @Putri-nl2gg 5 месяцев назад

    What do you do afterwards should you ignore them and carry on, tell them it was uncalled for, or walk away?

    • @ilanaandjamie994
      @ilanaandjamie994 5 месяцев назад

      Depends on the situation. But the goal here is to let the hurtful comment pass and don't escalate

  • @idealchanful
    @idealchanful 5 месяцев назад

    Israel upset me Israel make me feel hate

  • @ilanacowland8894
    @ilanacowland8894 5 месяцев назад

    You've gone too far when one of you feels it. And yes, knowing you are fully committed makes you a powerful partner - good kind of power. Everyone wants to know that they are safe in their marriage and commitment creates that.

  • @spanishpeaches2930
    @spanishpeaches2930 5 месяцев назад

    Who knows when you've gone too far though? My wife will never back down and that has caused huge problems. However, i stick with the marriage , but I'm not worried about splitting up and she absolutely knows rhat. Does that mean i have the power in my favour?

    • @ilanaandjamie994
      @ilanaandjamie994 5 месяцев назад

      It's gone too far when you switch over into a different dynamic, one where you are responding out of pain, and your intention is to hurt

    • @Putri-nl2gg
      @Putri-nl2gg 5 месяцев назад

      You might think she knows that but in all honesty she might not really know it. My wife and I were having issues she became very angry and controlling a few years back and I was at the same point as you, I would tell her that I didn’t care anymore. It wasn’t until almost week after I actually packed up and walked out that she realised that I was serious about not caring. She called and searched for me, apologised, grafted and agreed to get some help with her mental health. We are now doing better than ever and I definitely care now.

  • @heinkeld
    @heinkeld 5 месяцев назад

    In another way I’ve always seen it. We have general social contracts. We have “relationship category” contracts. Then we have the social contract that we enter between each other. Most of these contracts have a base structure that begins with truth, consideration, and forward pursuit. When one goes too far, it’s a breach of this mutually pursued contract that should never be broken in true care or love, that, when one goes beyond this simple portion of understanding, then all the rest of the relationship comes into question. The dedication comes into question because even the SIMPLEST of terms were not met. Now, what other “sub-structures of mutual reality” did I think we agreed upon are truly not agreed upon or respected by you? We all know these this idea deep down despite the way I worded it above. That’s why those things stick with us. You can’t apologize away a breach of the simplest terms. It takes a long time to prove that commitment to not only the microstructures, but mostly the dedication to the “never changeable”. We can adapt and change our mutual reality, but not the trust it takes to decide to share in one.

  • @angelalovell5669
    @angelalovell5669 5 месяцев назад

    Well, THAT ending line was deeply disingenuous - we live under a worldwide patriarchy, women are famously and overwhelmingly NOT believed or supported when sexually harassed or abused. That is also the case here. You are politicising a fact of life, that people who are sexually assaulted are constantly doubted, mocked and belittled, for your own narrative. As a Jewish woman myself, I do not co-sign this manipulation of the facts. You're behaving like empathy and understanding can only be given to one group of people (and it should be our group) - thankfully, humanity is not limited by that nonsense. I absolutely agree that those who suffer assault and abuse should not be forced to share and relive their experiences under any circumstances, certainly not derision and disbelief. But that doesn't justify what you're dogwhistling here, as you wander through a peaceful forest and suggest that one woman's dignity and healing outweighs the suffering and lives of thousands of men, women and children over the course of DECADES. Don't delete this. Let criticism against you stand. Anything less is lying and manipulation and a terrible representation of our people and humanity at large.

  • @Norrisxhuck
    @Norrisxhuck 5 месяцев назад

    Jesus hamas dragging innocent families into this.

  • @sharonthompson8406
    @sharonthompson8406 5 месяцев назад

    So awful!

  • @tater_chip_
    @tater_chip_ 5 месяцев назад

    #freepalestine 🇵🇸

  • @rimaacepunk7397
    @rimaacepunk7397 6 месяцев назад

    Free Palestine 🇵🇸

  • @Keannabliss
    @Keannabliss 6 месяцев назад

    🇵🇸

  • @Anonymousme2314
    @Anonymousme2314 6 месяцев назад

    Thank you! :)

  • @jamierichards8
    @jamierichards8 4 года назад

    Anyone looking for Mr or Mrs right do yourself a favor and subscribe to this. Ilana and Jamie have a beautiful way of talking about essential topics and giving it over in a way that ensures you walk away with powerful tools.

  • @michaelvegoda4608
    @michaelvegoda4608 4 года назад

    Really awesome wisdom for living!

  • @zoyzer
    @zoyzer 4 года назад

    Amazing 😍