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Living with in laws means: No boundaries. No privacy. Not living the way you want to with your partner. Not being your authentic self. Potential conflict with in-laws (because it's their house). You have to live by their rules. Can't have sex in the house knowing your in-laws are downstairs. You need to get your own place after marriage. Ideally before so you know where you'll live.

Obviously you dont understand what interfaith marriage. People like you are ignorant.

I don’t agree nor disagree with your last point tbh. I’m also a feminist too and frankly don’t care that I’d be walking behind, however if this really wasn’t such a big deal to people then brides walking ahead would also be no issue. The practise ever so slightly confirms some peoples misogynistic mindsets so it’s not fair to say that people who are fussed about it don’t understand, symbolism can be very important to people’s sentiments. Ofc when you have different views on symbolism you understand it differently, i think at the end of the day you’re not wrong in your point, it doesn’t matter, but that also means it shouldn’t matter if people want to do 2 fere with the groom ahead snd 2 with the bride. After all the main point should be having Guru ji to your side. Apologies if I’ve made any mistakes in what I said, it’s just how I understood your point, which is why again I neither agree nor disagree, I think it’s very nuanced and if the right thing is done (with Guru ji to the side) then it shouldn’t matter if people opt to have the bride ahead too. I also have a question, for some context I do not have the greatest relationship with my father, and I don’t wanna go into much detail (and also do not want a debate about parental values etc or comments like “but he’s your father”, I’m very happy that other people have fathers that were present and non-ab@sive, this was not my experience,) that disclaimer aside, is it absolutely necessary for my dad to be the one to hand me the palla? I suppose this again ties into symbolism, It’s a small part of the day that I can ignore but even thinking about it makes me sad, I believe if the palla for me should be done at all it should be my mum, but preferably I’d like to skip it, is that even possible?

Punjabi me dso

This was the mich needed video for me ❤ thank you ❤

Their is nothing wrong in LIVING with elderly PARENTS after marriage but PARENTS also have to understand this that LET your children to tackle with their problems in MARRIED LIFE by their OWN ... I will NOT live away from my parents after marriage because When I will be independent financially then they will not interfere in my PERSONAL LIFE that much they want me to make my own decision related to LIFE I can discuss with them they can tell me what's right and what's wrong but at the end They want me to make my own decision .. So VERY few people are having such an understanding PARENTS in their LIFE who do not interfere that much therefore I want to be a GOOD SON also I will NEVER live away from my PARENTS after marriage because I don't want to be that selfish SON .. And most IMPORTANTLY I want a GIRL who will completely accept my PARENTS as HER OWN I don't want her to DISRESPECT my PARENTS I can't tolerate that ... Please never leave your PARENTS ALONE They also want love and care ...

So breathatking ... amazing composition... it so fills my heart 💖 as a non-sikh... im amazed, blessed to have been found this as trying to learn more on Guru Nanak ji 💖. God bless... WeareOne

I feel frustrated when I hear people say that the ceremony of Anand Karaj within interfaith marriage is not accepted in gurdwaras. My mother is Punjabi Sikh and my dad is white caucasian antheist however my brothers and I were raised by our nanima also punjabi Sikh. And its Sikhs with these opinions which made my parents marriage much more difficult . Guru Nanak states we are all one so in this modern world why are we not embracing this message?????? So many young Sikhs from a two Sikh parent household getting married nowadays can’t even speak punjabi and don’t even understand the kirtan or Shabads they listen too. How is that any different to being of another faith as long as they respect Guruji. As Guruji states you can dress in religious robes but it does not make you a religious person. What you are saying is not taught anywhere just purely made up

I have seen people like navdeep kaur in sukh community who sell their idea of being different as a sikh while guru nanak himself never wanted any difference of religion or caste in any human. God curse you Navdeep kaur for spreading seperatism...god CURSE you

Even I am facing with is problem mam it's very difficult live with this

Punjabi vich bolde ta kine sohne lagde

Just a few days back , this thought use to trigger me , but now I'm clear on what I have to do . Thanks for talking about this navdeep . Keep up the good work . And you're so so bful ❤

Wow, I’m Punjabi too from Pakistan, born in Brooklyn,NYC 🇺🇸 & raised in Islamabad, Pakistan 🇵🇰.

Waheguru ji

Thank you so much for this video! Though I am not sikh, I do feel a spiritual connection to my hair. I have PCOS and quite a bit of chin hair if I allow it to grow. I wish there were more AFAB people allowing their facial hair to grow. I try to allow it but it's so hard to face all the judgement. I admire your courage!

Thank you so much. You have given me a lot of motivation. 🙏🙏

sister , I have done this mistake . I had so many hairs on my face , but i removed those , now i am regretting that i must not do that . I cried a lot after that , will guru sahib accept me again and will forgive me for my mistake ? or i must do some kind of punishment for my mistake? plz tell me a solution through which i can get rid of my regret 🙏

You have proved that the only thing that matters for a true Sikh is his/her Gurus order and not judgements of society. Your husband is really lucky to have a wife like you.

Thank you for inspiring .... I have chosen to not remove facial hair and off late I really was struggling to stick with it...

sister, can you share more abt why the palla is not tied and about why the father is the one handing the palla? why can no one assist partners to get up?

So proud of you dear

The people who admiers western culture... in terms of pre and post marriage is insane! They themselves know... what a mess their culture is! We all know the divorce rate in western nations... and the toxic culture, is producing all types of antibsocials... Study them properly. We people in Bharat is living a heavenly life! See... I'm not that selfish that after getting established and getting married... I'll leave my parents... and stay separately and not looking after them. Its my duty, my responsibility to look after them even after my marriage! The persons who have sacrificed their entire life for me... how the hell can I leave them on their faith in search of a peaceful life? Thats tremendously selfish and cheap! Now, some of you'll say... what about the daughter and their parent? In that case, I will say... the daughter don't have to stay in her in-laws forever... she can come and go and look after their her parents like that... None of the husband or wife must leave their parents who have done everything to make their kids establish... in hand of faith. We must look after them... and not just think shelfishly about our own happiness!

Hi Navdeep. Thanks for putting this video out there. Though I agree with several of ur points, I strongly disagree on your first point of Gurudawara marriage should only be restricted to sikh. If u believe that then I guess u haven't understood the key learning of Sikhism and Guruji.. but instead fallen pray to haumai and people's biases of what Sikhism should be.

You are pretty. We are mammals so it is normal.

All normal adults has hairy. Thats very true, its just waste of time and money. Hairiness/naturalness might be more beautiful than hairless unnaturalness and i support only naturalism...

“Walk down the aisle” is in itself very western. Just pointing this with a lot of love.

YAAAAS

Thank you for being an inspiration, Ive also gone through similar experiences and felt alone, its heart warming to hear you sharing your story.

Lol, I’m not even getting married but somehow this video pops up on my suggestions and I end up seeing it entirely. One thing that I felt needs yo be taken to notice is, you said there is no relevance or issue with Laavan being done at any point of the day.Well as far as I know and have read, the baani itself is written in Raag Soohi which is meant to be sung roughly between 9am to 12noon. I think thsi should be practiced devotedly andyhe raagis too should be encouraged to sing the baani as directed by the guru within that time frame. I agree baani can be read and sung at any point un the day, but if its with your wedding, I think every small detail counts.

how old are you ?

Very informative video thankyou bhenji

can you make a video in Punjabi and tell how you be Sikh Amrit kado chakya

can you talk in Punjabi and when you started to tie dumala

can you talk in Punjabi and when you started to tie dumala

India devloped now.. people like you living in past

thankyou for this

Hy i hv one question wil u reply?

I can't imagine the pressure women face to adhere to so many arbitrary standards, especially regarding facial and body hair. I applauder women who can face that pressure and still choose not to obey

Thankyou so much for this video bhene... Please keep making videos for women in sikhi around amrit rehat and day to day life as a sikh. This is my humble request 🙏❤️

Waheguru Ji ka Khalsa waheguru Ji ki fateh Navdeep Kaur ji I am the one who faced the same situations as u do, your video gave me an extra courage to love myself the way guru Ji wants me to be, really appreciate ur courage for bringing this topic loud on social site because I have never got much potential to talk to anyone about my facial hair, always felt uncomfortable, but from now I will be open and loud. No matters what society say. Thanks a lot.

Excellent video penji, keep it up. Raj Paji, Scotland.

punjabi bol sanu anjreji ni aundi

I stopped watching this video when you mentioned not allowing interfaith marriage. This is goes against my interpretation of Sikhism. I believe that your interpretation of this is outdated and is incorrect. Sikhism values love for all, selfless service, humility, compassion, equality and justice for all. You saying this goes against those beliefs and practices. You do not have the right to tell people to only have a Sikh wedding if you practice in the way that you DO! Get off your high horse. So much for being an educational video, you are sharing and spreading false information. Shame on you.

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Thank u for this video. I am American and I am Gursikh my fiancé is Punjabi and he is also Gursikh we both have taken Amrit. I am trying to make his Mom understand that we would only have a Gursikh marriage and I do not want to have any of the Punjabi or Hindu traditions in our wedding simply because I respect all of our Gurus and I am not a confused Sikh. She loves me very much and respects my decision but she is sad that I won’t have the henna painted on my hands and feet or have any nose pins or jewelry or sindoor on me. She is also Sikh but not an Amritdhari so she still follows Punjabi and or Hindi traditions. I have nothing against it but I do not follow these traditions. I only follow Gursikh traditions. Again thank u for ur video u explained everything very well.🙏🏽

Interfaith weddings not ok can u explain why?

Interfaith weddings not ok can u explain why?

I am proud of you dear Waheguru ji bless you 🙏

I'm photographing a Sikh wedding this Friday, may I ask what I should wear and expect?

You are great