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Heart of Dating
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Добавлен 20 мар 2020
The purpose of the Heart of Dating Podcast is to unmask the ever so ambiguous world of dating as a Christian. Dating is not explicitly discussed in the Bible, simply because at that time, dating did not exist! While there are resources spread out across the years, there are not many centralized areas where Christians can access dating advice, help, and guidance easily and in a fashion that is accessible.
The ultimate hope is that the Heart of Dating Podcast will start a healthy conversation for men and women and provide wise input and direction as we answer some tough questions and uncover some transformative ways to develop a healthy attitude and approach to dating as a Christian.
The ultimate hope is that the Heart of Dating Podcast will start a healthy conversation for men and women and provide wise input and direction as we answer some tough questions and uncover some transformative ways to develop a healthy attitude and approach to dating as a Christian.
Compatibility is OVERRATED, Why Opposites MAGNETIZE (& What TRULY Matters) | Ep 251, Heart of Dating
Today, JJ and Kait dive into compatibility with guests Megan and Casey, shedding light on family dynamics, shared values, and the richness of embracing differences in relationships!
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TIMESTAMPS:
00:00 Introduction
08:51 Book sparks important conversations for dating, marriage.
14:17 Attraction in marriage requires cultivation and growth.
19:48 Low-maintenance marriages are rare yet balanced.
25:29 Therapy aids emotional processing and setting boundaries.
31:26 Golden retriever symbolizes likability and predictability.
34:08 Embrace growth and learning in relationships.
38:28 Defining "healthy" varies; expectations differ significantly.
43:32 Extroverts compatible, compatible sacrifices ...
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TIMESTAMPS:
00:00 Introduction
08:51 Book sparks important conversations for dating, marriage.
14:17 Attraction in marriage requires cultivation and growth.
19:48 Low-maintenance marriages are rare yet balanced.
25:29 Therapy aids emotional processing and setting boundaries.
31:26 Golden retriever symbolizes likability and predictability.
34:08 Embrace growth and learning in relationships.
38:28 Defining "healthy" varies; expectations differ significantly.
43:32 Extroverts compatible, compatible sacrifices ...
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Видео
What if I Choose the Wrong Person? The CANCER of Endless Options | Episode 250, Heart of Dating
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Today, we’re diving into the depths of decision-making in relationships tackling the concept of FOBO, sharing personal experiences, insights, and practical tips to overcome this fear and commit fully! TIMESTAMPS: 00:00 Unspoken dating issue often seen in men. 03:53 Great week, marriage conflict, improving through self-care. 08:18 Perceived unattractiveness versus actual beauty discussed. 12:30 ...
5 MUST DOs Before You Get Engaged
Просмотров 1,1 тыс.14 дней назад
Dating experts, Kait and JJ Tomlin give you insight into 5 things you need to do before you get engaged! Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! www.patreon.com/heartofdating Crushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show interest: www.heartofdating.com/resource/how-to-show-interest Want to further your dating knowledge? Ch...
Love Attachments and Healing Past Hurts with Jason VanRuler | Patreon Bonus November 2024
Просмотров 24914 дней назад
Licensed therapist, Jason VanRuler joins us to lead a workshop on figuring out your love attachments and how to heal your past hurts! Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! www.patreon.com/heartofdating Crushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show interest: www.heartofdating.com/resource/how-to-show-interest Want to furt...
Dating Someone Who Won't Grow Up AND The Struggle of Unavailable Men! with Madison Watkins | HOD
Просмотров 2 тыс.21 день назад
Today's guest, Madison Watkins, discusses expressing emotions in relationships and dealing with the fears of being "too much," along with exciting updates about her music journey! #podcast #heartofdating #toomuch #christiandatingcoach #christiandating #madisonwatkins TIMESTAMPS: 00:00 Dating maturity, Peter Pan syndrome, emotional perception. 03:20 Attend Heart of Dating Conference 2025, Dallas...
Getting Over and Getting Back with Your Ex...Here's What A Pastor and Dating Coach have to Say
Просмотров 1,2 тыс.28 дней назад
Getting Over and Getting Back with Your Ex...Here's What A Pastor and Dating Coach have to Say
Two Miscarriages in Two Months, Dealing with Disappointment, Broken Dreams and Wrestling with God
Просмотров 2,6 тыс.Месяц назад
Two Miscarriages in Two Months, Dealing with Disappointment, Broken Dreams and Wrestling with God
LIVE Dating Coaching..Where are Christian Single Women? Family Drama, and Crushing on the WRONG One!
Просмотров 371Месяц назад
LIVE Dating Coaching..Where are Christian Single Women? Family Drama, and Crushing on the WRONG One!
Are Dating Apps Cooked? PLUS a Heated Debate on Christian Nationalism | Ep246, Heart of Dating
Просмотров 965Месяц назад
Are Dating Apps Cooked? PLUS a Heated Debate on Christian Nationalism | Ep246, Heart of Dating
What NO ONE Tells You About the ICK in Relationships, Halloween, and Harry Potter | Ep245, HOD
Просмотров 832Месяц назад
What NO ONE Tells You About the ICK in Relationships, Halloween, and Harry Potter | Ep245, HOD
Online Dating Safety Tips, Nobody Wants This, and Cyberstalking | Ep 244, Heart of Dating Podcast
Просмотров 824Месяц назад
Online Dating Safety Tips, Nobody Wants This, and Cyberstalking | Ep 244, Heart of Dating Podcast
Surviving Hurricane Helene & How Pineapples are Changing Dating | Episode 243, Heart of Dating
Просмотров 7492 месяца назад
Surviving Hurricane Helene & How Pineapples are Changing Dating | Episode 243, Heart of Dating
Controversial Thoughts on the ELECTION and Politics | Patreon Bonus Episode Sept 2024, HOD Podcast
Просмотров 4072 месяца назад
Controversial Thoughts on the ELECTION and Politics | Patreon Bonus Episode Sept 2024, HOD Podcast
Trailer: We're Going Rogue! | Heart of Dating Podcast
Просмотров 4052 месяца назад
Trailer: We're Going Rogue! | Heart of Dating Podcast
Friendationships, Thirst Traps, Prenups, Stuck on an Ex, Interracial Marriage, and More! | Ep 242
Просмотров 1,6 тыс.2 месяца назад
Friendationships, Thirst Traps, Prenups, Stuck on an Ex, Interracial Marriage, and More! | Ep 242
Right Person Wrong Time Is So Stupid!! Here's WHY!! | MM69, Heart of Dating Podcast
Просмотров 1,2 тыс.2 месяца назад
Right Person Wrong Time Is So Stupid!! Here's WHY!! | MM69, Heart of Dating Podcast
WHY You Settle, Low Standards, Godly Self-Worth vs Worldly Self-Love | Mansode 68, Heart of Dating
Просмотров 1,3 тыс.2 месяца назад
WHY You Settle, Low Standards, Godly Self-Worth vs Worldly Self-Love | Mansode 68, Heart of Dating
Too Picky or Just Right? Why Your Dating Standards Get in the Way | Episode 241, Heart of Dating
Просмотров 1,7 тыс.3 месяца назад
Too Picky or Just Right? Why Your Dating Standards Get in the Way | Episode 241, Heart of Dating
Why is it so hard to be a single guy in 2024? Gender roles, Turnoffs and Feminism| Heart of Dating
Просмотров 9453 месяца назад
Why is it so hard to be a single guy in 2024? Gender roles, Turnoffs and Feminism| Heart of Dating
Boundaries and Wandering Eyes | Patreon August 2024, Heart of Dating Podcast
Просмотров 7083 месяца назад
Boundaries and Wandering Eyes | Patreon August 2024, Heart of Dating Podcast
Girls CAN Make a Move: Double Standards and Fear of Rejection | Episode 240, Heart of Dating Podcast
Просмотров 1,4 тыс.3 месяца назад
Girls CAN Make a Move: Double Standards and Fear of Rejection | Episode 240, Heart of Dating Podcast
The 12 Month Rule: Get Married or Break Up | Men's Minisode 66, Heart of Dating
Просмотров 9263 месяца назад
The 12 Month Rule: Get Married or Break Up | Men's Minisode 66, Heart of Dating
Female Submission: What it IS and ISN’T! with Nika and Emeka | Episode 239, Heart of Dating
Просмотров 1,6 тыс.3 месяца назад
Female Submission: What it IS and ISN’T! with Nika and Emeka | Episode 239, Heart of Dating
Find Your Spouse Here: Where to Find a Quality Partner | Mini Mansode 65, Heart of Dating Podcast
Просмотров 1,3 тыс.3 месяца назад
Find Your Spouse Here: Where to Find a Quality Partner | Mini Mansode 65, Heart of Dating Podcast
Christian Single Men CRISIS: Shortage Of Good Men, If They Exist, How To Find Them | Ep 238, HOD
Просмотров 3,4 тыс.3 месяца назад
Christian Single Men CRISIS: Shortage Of Good Men, If They Exist, How To Find Them | Ep 238, HOD
Can I Miss The Spouse God Has For Me? | Mini Mansode 64, Heart of Dating Podcast
Просмотров 1,4 тыс.3 месяца назад
Can I Miss The Spouse God Has For Me? | Mini Mansode 64, Heart of Dating Podcast
Debra Fileta Spills the Tea on the Biggest Dating Lie | Episode 237, Heart of Dating Podcast
Просмотров 8413 месяца назад
Debra Fileta Spills the Tea on the Biggest Dating Lie | Episode 237, Heart of Dating Podcast
The Person You Really Need To Marry | Mini Mansode 63, Heart of Dating Podcast
Просмотров 1,4 тыс.4 месяца назад
The Person You Really Need To Marry | Mini Mansode 63, Heart of Dating Podcast
Should I Only Marry A Virgin? With Daniel and Elles Maddry | Episode 236, Heart of Dating Podcast
Просмотров 2,3 тыс.4 месяца назад
Should I Only Marry A Virgin? With Daniel and Elles Maddry | Episode 236, Heart of Dating Podcast
What NOBODY Tells You About Sleeping Together | MM 62, Heart of Dating Podcast
Просмотров 9174 месяца назад
What NOBODY Tells You About Sleeping Together | MM 62, Heart of Dating Podcast
Jerry Seinfeld snd Ellen Pompeo 😅
Wow this was such a cool discussion! Thank you!
This is such a beautiful discussion. The lie I have believed is that for a marriage to work, there needs to be close to 100% compatibility. I’m currently dating this amazing man but seeing differences has been scary because of this limited belief. Yes to having established core values and yes to differences being a blessing. Please pray for me in this process of dating with the intention of marriage.
Lol that fobo thing definitely doesnt apply to men. At least not for me.
So pretty much your charging people to watch the rest of the video.
I think it’s nice to have some differences in a relationship as well as different strengths and weaknesses. It creates a balance and opportunity to learn from one another.
I am totally crying with Nika 🥹😭 Her courage to be vulnerable like she was in front of us & in order to be helpful to us is so beautiful & inspiring. Thank you!!
This is good!
Can yall ask Madison why she deleted her IG?!?
That's so true 🥹
Wonderful conversation - I always appreciate your transparency and wisdom! Fantastic topic to cover!
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As a part of the pre engagement counseling, I'd suggest a divorce lawyer (in addition to people that know you both). That lawyer will have a lot of wisdom as to why marriages succeed/fail, and I would value that advice highly. A girl isn't getting a ring from me without that.
Sadly The Types of People this video is Speaking of, will never see this kind of content, b/c those who are like this A. Don’t have the time to watch videos for self improvement & upgrading themselves. Cause there too busy filling there days & nights with things that validate there ego B. Lacks the qualities to be able to have self awareness
This is a very good video. Very useful. Thanks Guys🙏🌸
Great episode! Maybe you have already done an episode on this, but it would be good to hear more about what if you are on the other side of FOBO? Like what if you are the fiance who was left or the person who is being “gophered”, how do you stop it or prevent it?
yay!
Episode 250! Wow what a milestone!!
Whatever you can to stay in hope
Katie- girl my sister & I feel the same way about Celine!! We got the pleasure of seeing her 5 years ago & it was amazing! I am one of those people who sing along with the artist ! No shame ! I would love to go to a concert with you ! It’s next level ! ❤🎤 not to brag I have a great singing voice!
I know that y'all said wait a whole year before getting engaged but what about if the person is autistic and they are brutally honest and truthful about themselves and their past? Does the rule still apply? If you're asking the tough questions early on in dating and seeking God's discernment and wisdom before you start dating a d continue to do so through the dating process, do you still have to wait a full year? I've seen tons and tons of videos about Christian couples who got married after anywhere between 3 months all the way up to a year. I don't understand how you can put that timeline on everyone when we don't know what God truly has planned for His children.
I think it just comes down to wisdom but ultimately getting to know someone as a process that takes time and I feel like three months is essentially rushing it. You don’t really know a whole lot about somebody even if they’re being honest after three months. People’s true character takes time to really be revealed. Because people can fake things Just because you can get married after three months of knowing somebody doesn’t mean you necessarily should and not all of your feelings are necessarily from God. The last thing I’ll say is that after three months, you are very much still in the honeymoon phase and I think you should wait until you get out of the honeymoon phase and start seeing somebody for who they really are to get engaged and go to the next level.
@@jackieferrarimusic I appreciate your response. I was only asking this question as a general question because I know someone who is autistic and I was curious.
@@GodsDaughter_89At the end of the day, praying and checking in with God, yourself, each other, and others around you is your go-to. Kait and JJ, as well as others, have at least a year. But if you are praying about wisdom and discernment, and are sure this is the correct move to make, as well as what God is leading both of you to do, do it. There are some older singles that do the same, and go from meeting to marriage even in a few weeks to a month. And have happy, long lasting marriages.
I don't think it has to be a year. Because a year can be different amounts of time with them. There is a difference if you start out seeing each other multiple times a week verse once a week. Or how long of time you spend with them at a time. Personally would want to hear from friends and family who that person is. And date around friends you trust to bring up things you might be missing or trying to deny they are like "that".
@@pamm2652 That's fair, and I appreciate you bring up the point about spending more or less time with someone. I also think it depends on how long you've known someone too. If you start dating and you've known them for 5 years I could see a few months, but if you met them a month ago, probably wise to get to known them over the course of a year. Best thing is to not rush into marriage. Give it time even if you do spend a lot of time with that person, I don't think spending more time with them can speed up the dating process. That's the wisest way to date to really get to know someone is to give it time.
Yes it does.
Honestly this video is just like all the others. All they want to do is bash men for being single and not fitting into the perfect man cookie cutter. Maybe we need to ask the questions; Are men just done with dating? Are men tired of getting shot down constantly with no reason behind it? You would think if the woman referred to in the video were looking for the Godly men I know there wouldn't be a problem.
So I got a question. I’m someone who has been trying to build myself a life through businesses over the past 10 years. Last few years have been really rough with finances and I’ve accumulated some credit card debt and some IRS debt. Does that make me a Peter Pan and not ready to date? It’s kind of hard to hear that. It makes it seem like you have to be completely absolutely perfect to be ready? I’m 30 years of age, have a business, yes some debt, own a house. Does that make me not ready?
I’ve been walking with the Lord for about 10 years now, I consider myself to be spiritually and emotionally mature but finances has been the one area of growth that I have been trying to work on.
Fellow Redhead! 🎉🎉
Mic-drop! Trials are an opportunity to find out the integrity of our relationship with Jesus.
Notice how this describes a large majority of women.
I'd be interested in taking Madison to Disneyland. I get free guest passes through work.
Did you just find another co-host!? You two had me laughing several times. I relate to being the loud weird girl that gets shut down and insecure because people don’t get it. THANK YOU for talking about that. 🙌🏼
So glad to see you well Kait! That was a fun episode
I loved her on American idol and she got to meet Tori Kelly (one of my dream celebrity to meet). I relate to being too much for some and not enough for other people, but as I get older I am not really as concerned about that. “Peter Pan is giving boy in man’s body no cap.” 😂 This was super refreshing episode and to see a single person carry such confidence in their singleness was so encouraging. And it is not because Madison has it all figured out and doesn’t ever lack confidence at times; rather, it is just the Lord and also how she has thought through and worked through it just from her time on American Idol to now is such growth.
Fun episode and super relatable! Thanks!
This is by far the best description of what it feels like to be a single male in the church right now, and how to fix it.
I truly learned from and appreciated your first interview with Heart of Dating. It was refreshing and a great encouragement for Christian women who believe God has called them to singleness and if not, to make the most of being single while single. I pray you continue following the Lord Jesus Christ as HE leads you. It's great to have people in our lives who love us and want to offer advice and may feel led to do so, but along with the advice, it's important to go back to God and make sure the advice given is of Him. Praying for you Tara Leigh and thank you for all you do for the body of Christ.
Follow up: I've been single and celibate for two years now. I'm still committed to remaining single permanently. I just don't want to date someone or get married.
you guys completely failed in this episodes. virgins preferring to marry virgins is perfectly okay and, in fact, is preferable
This was a huge fail. As someone said below, virginity is not an insecurity. Stop with the virgin-shaming and giving men and women the message that "it's no big deal". Sin has consequences, and virgins wanting to marry other virgins is perfectly fine
Great analysis. My policy is easy. No opposite sex friends when in a committed relationship unless it’s a friend of the couple. And especially if there is romantic/sexual interest from one or both of the people, absolutely not. Statistically, about 80% of cheating happens with people we know including the next door neighbor and opposite sex friends. Biology is what it is. There’s no hack for it. Beta men play female friends forever waiting for their chance. Many women are oblivious to the reality that most men are interested in female friends only because they are attracted to them.
Remember God has a purpose with everything he lets us go through, just trust it is for good , he wants to do something in you let him
So there aren't any red flags. K trust everyone 😅
Praying for you guys <3 my sister-in-law experienced a miscarriage at ~11 weeks in October ... so when you say that you know in your head that God is good but struggle to feel that in your heart, you're not alone!!
Sending prayers to your family ❤
Definitely praying for you guys. Thankful for Mark to be in your life and ask how YOU are. Remember the lord is close to the broken hearted. 💜
How can I find her testimony? I already searched for it but couldn’t find it. I typed her name and beautiful story but nothing
Thank you for sharing your story of pain with us all. I know that grief doesn’t go away, it just changes with us as we grow and age. I’m just gonna be transparent here. I was recently battling with trusting God through the pain and sorrow when I found I was even getting jealous when He would answer others prayers. I had to give myself a reality check and remind myself to be satisfied in Him and His plan, not satisfied in my own. I know God answers my prayers, but sometimes the answer is a “not now” or “no”. I know my God has saved and blessed me before, so I can trust He will do it again. So, now I’m choosing to believe and trust in His plan, even if the answer could be “not now” or “no”. 🤍🤍
I am so sorry for your losses. Have you heard of the incredible area of restorative reproductive medicine (e.g. NaPro Technology, NeoFertility)? They do really incredible work with miscarriage prevention. I interviewed fertility specialist Dr. Phil Boyle who actually recently published his data on his incredible new miscarriage prevention treatment. You can listen to my interview with him on RUclips (Alternatives to Contraceptives and IVF: FABM and RRM - Dr. Phil Boyle).
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Look at all these celebrities that are now Christian...Catholic 😂 because men need to struggle..guys want something to sacrifice for...protestant church are feminine , they are their demograph these women..and alowed to preached teach prophecy...
I'm sorry for your loss guys 😢
Don't ride in the same car on your first few days. Wisdom.
Hey idk how I came across this channel online but all I know is we are all believers in the faith. I highly recommend Brittany Dawns youtube who also has gone through miscarriage and the lord has helped her in her pain 🙏 God bless you.