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I sometimes wish I had that because I beat myself up a lot over me being sick and feeling not worthy of the love I have from my wife. It leads me into dark places in my mind sometimes I don’t take my medication sometimes I don’t care about taking what is clearly giving me more time then I otherwise wouldn’t have but I start talking about it and I’m right back the dark place and sometimes I just want it to be over with because I feel changes inside every day and wonder when will I run out of time and there are other days that I work go thru my routine and complete my tasks without a thought about what’s going on inside. I told my wife when I got diagnosed with mylofibrosis that I wouldn’t have married her if I knew in advance about this which really made her mad. I just don’t want people to be around when the end stage gets here because I hate disappointing people and failing because I had agreed to give this marriage 20 years then I found out about this and knew I was going to fail her and disappoint her.

That’s awesome you do understand there are so many aspects to this and that’s why I said he left out all of what you just stated so that’s why some people myself included thought you were overly demanding and some women their turn on is how abusive they can be. I was convinced otherwise when you did the video about his 5 favorite things you do for him when has been good. Ice cream, cuddling and watching movies together and a few others you mentioned which of course he also never brought up but that showed me how much you really love him and that’s beautiful for both of you.

That’s all you want from him is his best effort and you allow yourself to experience his side of things and hopefully he also understands why you discipline him for those same reasons

Wow that surprised me sort of but that’s awesome that you allowed yourself to be in the submissive role because I think most FLR don’t allow this because dom’s rarely switch as they don’t want to lose control over their partner

I asked her about what if you decided to change the dynamic and maybe be dominant and change roles how would she address this?

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I have a LOVE/HATE relationship with Loctober participation!❤

That’s a different NO for me and you made him do this in another video which kind of freaked me out at first but since hearing you I think I understand how you got him to do it

That’s the crazy thing about being a switch if you give control even a little you create a thought that hey I did this once I can easily do it again and I can have her submit to me. If he came to you with this what would you say to him? If he decided he wanted to try this as a new dynamic would you be willing to and if not what would you do if he said it’s an ultimatum to his participation going forward? 🤔

Wow so he could easily take over this position and become your dominant and start disciplining you because if it has happened this time it could easily happen again hmm 🤔

Wifey I do want to say one thing directly to you about the way you address him. I’ve listened to this video twice and I picked up on two things that you could get better results using. First you say he’s here to serve you and should be grateful for that opportunity to serve you that is extremely demeaning and makes the person feel as though they have no other value to you then what you stated and second this is a marriage first and foremost so respect for each other comes to mind in how you speak to him. I don’t know either one of you but through this channel but there are men all over the world who have wives who treat their husbands in this way which leads to divorce and sometimes worse depending on his mental state at the time just like the show snapped one minute everything is normal and then one time something clicks inside and he just cold stops everything and if you’re lucky you might be able to fix it before he shuts down completely but more times you don’t see the warning signs until it’s too late and now you can’t fix it. So it’s ok to hold him accountable and for his and your own wellbeing but respectfully because ultimately you love him and he loves and is devoted to you so you can be strict and still be respectful of the vows you both took. You don’t want to devalue him or make him think you are that’s a very dangerous path when a man realizes he has no value in his life. I fight with myself every day about this because of my terminal cancer and my value to my family 😔

He’s complaining about chores but no likes chores but you have to think of them as tasks that need to be completed to live in a nice clean and comfortable space and unless you’re going to pay someone else to do them then they fall to the people who own the home. It doesn’t take long if you focus on one task at a time and tackle them individually not look at the list as a whole. Turn on some music and enjoy cleaning and making your space clean for both of you so you can be proud of your accomplishments. In turn she will be proud of you for completing your tasks and enjoy spending time with you doing fun stuff like cuddling and watching tv together she loves you very much but complaining about things that need to be done hurts her and angers her in the same sentence because I’m sure she also works hard to keep your home stable and doesn’t complain about her responsibilities ❤

Love this kind of video

Want your attention 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

lol I flinched when I heard that first crack after the hand spanking wow

I’m guessing the last three strikes were with a strap of some kind definitely didn’t sound like a cane and the paddle would ruin the design you adding to the shorts ?

That was interesting because from his side of things he never mentioned how these punishments were designed to make him a better person or for his own well being which is the point of all of this to begin with. So when I discovered you guys all of his stories basically were I like being spanked and controlled by my wife but not the reasons why he needed these behavior modifications so I did come across very one sided at first until we heard from you. Now it makes a lot more sense why he agreed to this and you loved him enough to provide it for him. He didn’t really convey that to the audience just that he suffered through these things because of his devotion to you. Keep up the good work ma’am. We should all be so lucky to have a relationship like this but your also right about the dom vs wifey role and I’m guilty of this also which is it sounds fun and exciting because it’s new but down the road what does it mean to truly submit to someone completely and keep it going as long as you guys have. If it was just for sexy fun time that would have worn off years ago so it definitely has to have more substance to it. That’s where you guys are I believe 😎

Yeah she pissed and had every right to be I told her I bet the Christmas party will be interesting if you guys attend it 😂

lol I guess he let the cat out of the bag so to speak should be an interesting Christmas party if you guys attend this year 😂

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It is all about one word Consent he agreed to this and he truly from listening to him talk adores and worships the ground you walk on and the air you breathe. He is always defending you and how much he has dreamed of this relationship since he was a kid. Our wishes wants and needs do get fulfilled though sometimes in ways you weren’t expecting them but to him you are his Goddess and I don’t think he would be able to move on without you that’s how much he truly loves and cares for you. I’m glad you realize this because it’s definitely a rare person that can submit himself the way he does and not build resentment over time. I can see why so many people are considering this lifestyle change 😎

Great video s

Audio recordings are great I vote to keep doing those

Good tips

Hey hubby, outstanding story.. thank you for sharing.. love hearing that she punished you as you dreamed of.. licking the fluids as you described added to the story… it sound like she enjoyed it as well.. again GREAT story.. question: I have never seen any polls you have discussed.. where do I look for that.. I appreciate you both very much… BTW i am addicted to your stories.. and I’m loving it!!

If you read my previous posts I explained to hubby how my brat energy works and how you would be feeding it instead of extinguishing it but now that I’ve heard your side of things I think you are a very smart and reasonable person and I want to apologize to you for my earlier comments and I look forward to hearing all of your stories and would love feedback from you guys as well

I’ve been talking to my wife about you guys and trying this out but I’m gone 30 days at a time so she can’t figure out how it could work for us and me as well

That’s hard to do bratty with humor and fun where you don’t cross into getting into trouble 😂

Wow you’re an amazing person and I love that you are on here as well

Awesome! Ashley won't be sitting down for a bit!!

why did u send a perfectly good man and reduce him to a sissy maid did he ask for it ordidujust decide it was a good idea please explain

He does make you sound a bit like a tyrant but still says he loves and adores you as his angel

I guess he found out how serious you are about rules and boundaries and enforcement of the rules

He left out the fact that he didn’t let you know what was going on and safety is paramount and he broke that worrying you

He worried you and put his safety in question so you were in your full rights for worrying you the way he did

lol he did I was cringing as he was describing it