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Harshan Kannan
Добавлен 29 ноя 2023
Channel covering topics on self improvement and social issues
Why Choose Combat Sports for Mental Health and Personal Growth? (Featuring Collin Chew)
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Advising Certain People is Pointless: Save Your Energy
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On the Prevention of Self-Radicalization in Singapore
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The Magic of Music: Using Music to Shift Your Mood and Thoughts
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Volunteering Transforms You Inside Out
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Everyone Makes Mistakes: Embrace the Journey
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History Repeats: Tobacco Companies’ Medical Manipulation in Vaping
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Woodlands Checkpoint Expansion: Why Speeding It Up Matters
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The Upside of Singaporeans’ Complaining Culture
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Social Anxiety: Understanding & Overcoming it
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The Inspirational Life Story of Nick Vujicic
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Why You Should Buy a Physical Dictionary
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How to Overcome Trauma Tied to Physical Places
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Why You Should Not Join a Gang in Singapore: A Message to the Youth of the Nation
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Open for Collaboration: My Message to Potential Collaborators
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The Subconscious Effect of Living Dishonourably
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The Subconscious Effect of Living Dishonourably
Spreading Awareness on Body Dysmorphic Disorder: Let’s Talk About It
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Spreading Awareness on Body Dysmorphic Disorder: Let’s Talk About It
Exploring Life Outside the Box of Academics
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Exploring Life Outside the Box of Academics
A teacher in India that I got inspired by
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A teacher in India that I got inspired by
Beyond School Essays: Writing to Impact and Change the World
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Beyond School Essays: Writing to Impact and Change the World
Is There Space for Truth in Our World?
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Is There Space for Truth in Our World?
Overcoming Depression(featuring WolfGrey)
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Overcoming Depression(featuring WolfGrey)
Hey Harshan, Would love to do podcast with you on music.. what you say?
Why not investigating from where exactly this fear of criticism comes from? We were not born with the fear of criticism. We did not get panic attacks by walking randomly in the street. "Everyone is usually focused on themselves" "Spotlight effect" this is not true for Shame-based culture countries. In Shame-based culture countries - people are intrusive and comment other people about issues which are private and none of their business. Also, predatory personalities are very much focused on how to manipulate, control and exploit the target. "Try connect to one person" But why? Elections in America showed that 49% of general population is mentally ill psychopathic abnormal sick individuals who support fascism and nazi concentration camps. Why we would talk to potentially serial mass murderers? "Zero sum thinking" For this model - the other person needs to be mentally healthy. We cannot make other person mentally healthy. So I do not understand why you suppose we need to negotiate with people who are stubborn and will never change? "Other are not thinking about you" How do you know this? You can't read other people's minds. Social anxiety is Complex Trauma. It is Emotional Flashback. PTSD issue. This cannot go away with logic.
Thank you for taking the time to share your thoughts! I appreciate your perspective and understand that everyone’s experience with social anxiety is unique. My video aimed to provide general insights that might help some people, but I recognize that not all strategies work for everyone. I’d love to hear more about your experience and what approaches have been effective for you. Your input could be valuable for others who may feel similarly:)
@@HarshanKannan IFS Model. Humanistic psychology. Coherence Therapy. Social anxiety: These are all interchangeable: RSD (Rejection Sensitivity Dysphoria) = Social anxiety = Emotional Dysregulation = Complex Trauma = Toxic shame = After-effects of ACoA & ACE = After-effects of narcissistic abuse, emotional abuse, psychological abuse, mental abuse = Hypervigilance/hypovigilance = PureOCD = Unfavorable power dynamics = Trauma response = Trauma bonding = Neurodivergence = Spectrum, not binary thinking = Amygdala hijacking = Trauma triggers and flashbacks = being criticized for something you can't control = having high moral and ethical standards and enforcing them = someone random complains about our errors when we done superhuman efforts to avoid ALL mistakes which 98.5% percent of people never invest neither physically nor mentally = toxic person complaining and expecting us to know something for the first time without mistakes = Perfectionism = Protesting: someone toxic complaining without fair assessment and basing their protest on bias and prejudice and oversimplification = Protesting: trauma panic symptoms related in an attempt to express OUR OWN judgement and negative evaluation and holding criminals narcissists accountable for their crimes and hidden selfish agenda of exploiting others = Not conforming = Conforming (fawning) to unreasonable standards and neurotypical norms = Conforming to narcissistic abuser and psychopath who would punish us if we don't conform to their Coercive control, hidden agenda and manipulation and pathological lying = Being authentic true speaking the truth to fake people and toxic people who have hidden covert agenda to exploit others = being Agreeable (Big 5 personality trait) = being Open (Big 5 personality trait) = Being Neurotic (Big 5 personality trait) = being healthy, friendly and open to life and people = Attachment issues = Codependency = Listening to our gut feeling = Quiet BPD (PureBPD) = BPD Splitting = Inner critic = Imposter syndrome = Being exposed to Operant Conditioning of Negative reinforcement (rejection, cold shoulder) = Being exposed to Negative reinforcement Breadcrumbs hoping positive reinforcement will come instead = doing the best we can to avoid and mitigate negative reinforcement = Avoidance = Victim of false accusation and slander (overt or covert) = overcompensation and masking and making trauma and or abuse to be functional = being wounded and reacting to someone future faking our voids being fulfilled to hook us up to their lies = Self-referential thinking = identity being rooted in "I am not enough" instead of "I am enough" = Narcissistic Mortification = Sensory overload = Autistic shutdown = Pathological Demand Avoidance = The looking-glass self = mindread recursively / Recursive Thinking = mindreading = caring too much = Schizoid empty core = Repetition Compulsion = suppressed anger == EMOTIONAL FLASHBACKS "People expect the quiet one to adapt to the loud people but not the other way around"
So where should we join? Which country?
lol
Are you second generation Indian born in Singapore?
Your channel is interesting some very unique topics
Glad you think so:)
Thanks for so much clarity.
Glad it was helpful!
Beautifully said😊, You are very wise .
Welcome onboard:)
Love this ! ✨
i think as we continue to grow, especially in a society in which things such as lying are almost glorified, we tend to lose sight of what honor truly is, as it ties to virtues such as respect, wisdom, etc. it is simply consistently frowned upon, especially in contemporary culture, or perhaps simply brushed under the rug, but ultimately, its a wonderful reminder to step back and realize how these little acts are much more dishonorable than we make it seem. wonderful video; everything was so beautifully said.
wow thank you so much for the reminder. I needed to hear this
Glad it was helpful!
...unless you're a government official.
First person to tell me I look like a pigeon
No I definitely d didn't!! NAMASTE!
@@WalkingTall-f1j it’s the conspiracy theory joke of government drones being pigeons😭. HAHAHA NAMASTE
u have a mixture of a chinese and a indian accent barely indian tho
Wa mern thie, wa mern thie, Kam beh tang mai chon tie, koh cai ai li, cit pua sie wa ka tie🎶
@@HarshanKannan agreed ( i have no idea what this means )
@@sovietbear8606 OH you must be from outside Singapore, this was a famous Hokkien song back in the day( not my generation)😂 it’s called “ I ask heaven”
@@HarshanKannan o ur from singapore ur video has reached the indian feed its about to pop off
@@sovietbear8606RAHHH LESS GOO
This video hits hard...💀
Life hits harder…💀
very cool video. also, bhai aapka head nai takrata roof pe pullups karte time ?
No it doesn’t 😂
Beautifully Spoken. True mastery of the individual lies in self-discovery, and living true to one's name
Great insight!
Where are you from
I’m from Singapore:)
loved your take on this topic. subscriber and excited to see more from you.
Bhai, don't complicate your ideas by using high sounding words and accent, you can give more just by being simple, avoid being a pedant. Stick to your noble intentions, not to frivolous show off. Bhai don't take my criticism to heart. I said it straight forward bcz didn't want to waste my and your time
He isn't faking his accent. He is from Singapore.
@@Ummesfaisal @Ummesfaisal dear you focused only on 5% of my comment, u left high sounding words, pedant, complicate, noble intentions etc.
@@Ummesfaisal i tried to minimise personal emotions as much as possible and tried to make it a constructive criticism
Hearing this brought me to tears cuz I lost a loved one recently too I needed this today 🫀
Must be divine timing:)
Love your vids ! Really insightful & provokes my curiosity ✨💪🏾
Damn ur with my sis
It was very nice of you to share what you went tru. Thank you and it was a lovely conversation.❤
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I just wanna say thank you for using your platform to speak out about it! It really touches my heart to see how the world supports Palestine because again, who is Israel? the only Israel I know is the shit that comes out from ass.
I get it totaly, you support palestine just because you are humans... But did you say something wen Armenians and Afgans were recently ethniclally cleansed? Or when in the last few years the death toll of Yemenites surpassed the one in Gaza? Or in Congo when 6 millions at least people were massacred in the last 20 years ? The question is if you support just because it is human to do so, why not do the same videos for all ?
watch the full video, genocide occurring in congo and sudan has been mentioned:)
🙎🏻♂️free America from those who have colonized and plundered the tax resources of American citizens
You need to state facts not what you here. You're either dumb or ignorant. Maybe combination if both. I'm happy to debate you both anyday
Put down the mic, go back to school guys
Is it you guys or YT deleting comments??
Not me. People are free to speak in my comment section:)
You got a new subscriber from Ireland 🇮🇪 We are very pro Palestine 🇵🇸
And not a single word about hamas , the israeli hoatages that are atill in gaza till today and the 7/10/23 . Lets please stop pretending that you actually care of the situation .
Hamas was created and funded by Netanyahu at his own admission 😂 Didn't the IDF use HANNIBAL DIRECTIVE on Oct 7th? Didn't the IDF open fire on Isreali hostages? Hmmmmmmm
babygirl wheres the connection here…. 0:40 also to prove you wrong yes they have been mentioned but not for the same reasons you must be thinking. if u truly care about the israeli hostages, u would call for a ceasefire and for your kindest information, the beloved israel government has rejected a permanent ceasefire in exchange for the hostages… do u honestly think it is okay to kill the many innocent civilians in Gaza??? theres not one single video of the Hamas treating the hostages horrible UNLIKE the zionists. so think again. this isnt happening from 7/10/23, this started since 1948.
@@missannonymousx youre either brainwashed or lacking information . Most of the israeli hostages are normal civilians who were kidnapped from their homes , among them are babies , women and elderly while the hostages from the other side are not hostages but hamas prisoners who commited crimes such as murder kidnapping and such . Where is even the comparison here .
There are also Palestinian HOSTAGES in Israeli prisons!! Still not released!! WITHOUT charge.
@@cometsmina no such thing because the law system in israel will not allow so . If someone gets arrested without a reason they can delay him in custody for maybe few days at most and then release . There no such thing as Palestinian hostages , israel is not a cartel or terror organization . There are prisoners who committed some kind of a crime . There are many prisoners inside the israeli jails who murdered israelis and hamas wants to include them in the deal for exchange against the israeli hostages and thats sick .
If there's something you clearly don't know anything about... maybe not make a video about it?
Plastilin State: Iran's Global Power Grab.
Thank you for your voice, you are beautiful human beings ❤️🩹 #freepalestine 🇵🇸🕊️
they spoke facts, i wished more people have genuine hearts like them instead of some zombies we are living with today. you be suprised not just politician but malay people also getting bored with these which made me shame. so easy to turn their cheek around running their flooding bills.
Read the Quran, Allah gave the land to the children of Israel, do you really want to go against God’s word for political reasons? 🇮🇱🇮🇱🇮🇱 it wasn’t Palestinians fighting the Romans in the siege of Jerusalem. It was Jews. Israel is our Jewish land 🇮🇱🇮🇱🇮🇱
Plastilin is The Century's Anti-Semitism Invention as a Continuity to the the 1938 agenda.
Those are Europeans , just thieves .
@@Freenow-i6o Europeans are not jews .
Stop spouting your nonsense biblical fairytales 😂 That land was given by the British via the Balfour Declaration and then signed by the N@tzis via the Haavara Agreement.
YOU should read the Quran indeed because theres not ONE single verse that mentions that Jerusalem is a Jewish land. It is a Holy land for all Muslims, Jews, and Christians, as all groups had religious ties to the area where everyone was living peacefully until the Nakba in 1948. This is not a political issue, this is a genocide of ethnic cleansing against innocent kids and civilians.
Singapore people need to grow humanity if they think bring neautral is normal whilst a real life genocide is going on. Just remember if something happens to you people all over the world will remember your attitude of ignoring the murder of over 30.000 people and saying it’s nothing to do with you. You reap what you sow so when something happens to you we will remember how you ignored this genocide. Grow some humanity!
Salaamun 'alaikum
Boycott McDonald's, Starbucks, etc.
May I suggest using a more descriptive title like "Singaporeans react to Israel-Palestine conflict.
Jews have always existed in those lands even before Islam or Christianity. Al Aqsa is literally built on destroyed Jewish temple. Talking about Israel-Palestine without talking about Islamic colonization is disingenuous. And to me, I don't find existence of a Jewish country in those same lands as immoral. Imagine the red Indians decide to take back their lands from US one day and push out the whites and blacks, would they be wrong to do so? That's the reason why most of the world and Israel tried for a two state solution. But the Palestinians have only been all about "river to the sea".
Israel, Netanyahu and his insane party, does not support a 2 state solution. Israel does not want to give Palestine statehood.
The existence of a country that is exclusively for one race is immoral. Can you imagine Singapore kicking out all non Chinese? Forcing all Indians to live in Little India and all Malays to live in Geylang Serai??
@@72lfk you do understand over 2 million Muslims live in Israel serve in the military and the government. Maybe you should visit the country before jumping into conclusions 🇮🇱🇮🇱🇮🇱
@@HowlingWo1f 6 or 7 year ago there were civil war going on between Israeli Arab and Israeli security forces WHY?
@@HowlingWo1fIsraelis are divided among eachother ( even within Israeli Jews there is racsism) Only Israel can save Israel , but it aint gonna happen because you are ruled by a small "religious" extremist minority, just like those Arab societies mate. My salute goes to the small minority Israelis (normal israelis who want peace and to live in peace with the palestinians) who are once again victim because of the behaviour of the people in charge and in power. The warmongers. Elohim does not like arrogant people, but the humble ones. Shalom.
Free Palestine ❤🇵🇰🇪🇭🇦🇫🇵🇰🫶
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Ewwwwwwww From Ireland 🇮🇪
Free Palestine 🇵🇸
This is actually a really thoughtful and informative video. So proud of you Riya ❤ Glad you covered topics like these, Harshan. Subscribed!
Cool I didn’t know Hinduism was called sanatana dharma 😮😮
Blessed 🙏🏼
The technology for Moksha is built into every individual. But instead of examining or studying ourselves, we study techniques and beliefs, philosophy, and the thought-form objects that others have generated and shared.
Wow really learned a lot hahaha nice bro 💪🏾💪🏾
Blessed!👏🏼🙏🏼
so proud of u❤