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Jessica Pickens: Pickens' Realities
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Добавлен 27 июн 2024
Blended family life coach and public speaker Jessica Pickens shares real life information about the highs and lows, challenges and hurdles, and mountains and valleys, of being part of a blended family for over 21 years. She and her husband met and married within 90 days in 2002, blending four children together at lightning speed, and subsequently adding two additional children within their first 3 years of marriage. Through her family's experiences-what she calls Pickens’ Realities and Blended Family Truths-Jessica now empowers other blended families to navigate complex and unique challenges, offering guidance and encouragement rooted in faith and practical wisdom.
Buckle up and listen in to Jessica and her co-host, daughter Jayla, as they share about their Pickens’ Realities and Blended Family Truths!
Buckle up and listen in to Jessica and her co-host, daughter Jayla, as they share about their Pickens’ Realities and Blended Family Truths!
(Audio Only) Generational Parenting Impacts | How Upbringing Impacted Parenting EP 7 Part 1
In this heartfelt and eye-opening episode of Pickens' Realities & Blended Family Truths, Jayla moderates an intimate conversation between Jessica Pickens, her mother Bobbi, and her sister Teresa. Together, they dive deep into how their childhood experiences, upbringing, and Bobbi’s parenting style shaped Jessica's and Teresa's lives-and how these influences continue to impact the way they parent their own children.
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(Audio Only) Being a Bonus Mom - EP 6 Part 2
Просмотров 1810 часов назад
Welcome back to the 6th episode of Pickens' Realities & Blended Family Truths. In this 2nd part of the episode, Jessica and Jayla continue their open and honest discussion about sensitive topics such as guilty parenting, enabling adult children, the choices adult children make, and trauma bonding. Join us as we uncover the realities of navigating these intricate family dynamics.
Generational Parenting Impacts | How Jessica's Upbringing Impacted Her Parenting | EP7 PT1
Просмотров 7722 часа назад
In this heartfelt and eye-opening episode of Pickens' Realities & Blended Family Truths, Jayla moderates an intimate conversation between Jessica Pickens, her mother Bobbi, and her sister Teresa. Together, they dive deep into how their childhood experiences, upbringing, and Bobbi’s parenting style shaped Jessica's and Teresa's lives-and how these influences continue to impact the way they paren...
Being A Bonus Mom | Guilty Parenting? EP 6 PT2
Просмотров 41714 часов назад
Welcome back to the 6th episode of Pickens' Realities & Blended Family Truths. In this 2nd part of the episode, Jessica and Jayla continue their open and honest discussion about sensitive topics such as guilty parenting, enabling adult children, the choices adult children make, and trauma bonding. Join us as we uncover the realities of navigating these intricate family dynamics. ▶️ Visit My Web...
Being A Bonus Mom Truths & Realities | EP 6 PT1
Просмотров 27516 часов назад
Welcome! In Episode 6 of Pickens' Realities & Blended Family Truths, Jessica is joined by her daughter, Jayla, for an in-depth discussion about the complexities and challenges of being a bonus mom in a blended family. Together, they explore the nuanced dynamics of blending families, addressing the emotional and relational adjustments required to foster healthy, harmonious family bonds. ▶️ Visit...
(Audio Only) Being A Bonus Mom Truths & Realities - EP 6 Part 1
Просмотров 4816 часов назад
In Episode 6 of Pickens' Realities: Our Blended Family Truths, Jessica sits down with her daughter Jayla to dive into the honest truths of being a bonus mom. Jayla leads the conversation, asking Jessica questions like how she managed the challenges of blending her firstborn biological son with her three bonus children. Together, they unpack topics like how Jessica and Tyrone distinguished betwe...
(Audio Only) Authoritarian or Permissive? Inside Our Blended Family’s Parenting Choices EP 5 Part 2
Просмотров 3619 часов назад
In Episode 5, Part 2, join us (Jessica, Tyrone, Jayla, and Dominick) as we dive into the real impact of different parenting styles and how they shaped our blended family. Parenting in a blended family can feel like building a bridge between two worlds. We talk about how different parenting styles impact kids, share insights on adapting and compromising, and offer practical steps to nurture ever...
(Audio Only) Parenting Together - "I was trying to survive!" - EP 5 Part 1
Просмотров 2719 часов назад
Join us for this episode involving Parenting Style Showdown conversations! Authoritarian, Permissive, or Authoritative? In this episode, we dive into how different parenting styles shaped our blended family, and how they might impact blended families in general, as parenting in a blended family can feel like building a bridge between two worlds. We talk about how different parenting styles impa...
Bio & Bonus Mom Conversations | EP 3 Sneak Peek
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Sneak Peek into EP 3 where Jessica and Jayla are joined by Jayla's bio mom Jeri, as Jayla moderates Jess and Jeri having Bonus and Bio mom conversations and discussions about their blended family and co-parenting dynamics, challenges, highs and lows, wins and losses. Emotions sometime run extremely high as they dive into sensitive topics. Are you part of a blended family, or do you know you’ll ...
Authoritarian or Permissive? Inside Our Blended Family’s Parenting Choices | EP 5 PT 2 (Video)
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In Episode 5, Part II, join us (Jessica, Tyrone, Jayla, and Dominick) as we dive into the real impact of different parenting styles and how they shaped our blended family. Parenting in a blended family can feel like building a bridge between two worlds. We talk about how different parenting styles impact kids, share insights on adapting and compromising, and offer practical steps to nurture eve...
Reality Check: Is Love Enough? | EP 4 Sneak Peek
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In this episode Jessica and Jayla talk about a parent's reality verses a child's reality. As a parent you may think everything is cool with your child. You are soon to realize that your kids aren't always thinking or receiving things how you think they are. In turn things can be misconstrued in communication, body language, voice inflection, etc.. In the end, a conversation and understanding wi...
Parenting Style Showdown! Authoritarian or Permissive? | EP 5 Sneak Peek
Просмотров 1114 дней назад
Enjoy this sneak peek into Episode 5! Join us (Jessica, Tyrone, Jayla, and Dominick) as we dive into the real impact of different parenting styles on our blended family. Discover how each style-authoritarian, authoritative, permissive, and negligent-shaped our approach to raising six kids. Get ready for insights, laughs, and a deeper understanding of what it takes to build unity in a blended fa...
PARENTING TOGETHER ...."I WAS TRYING TO SURVIVE!" | EP 5 PT1 (Video)
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PARENTING TOGETHER ...."I WAS TRYING TO SURVIVE!" | EP 5 PT1 (Video)
(Audio Only) Reality Check - EP 4 Part 2
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(Audio Only) Reality Check - EP 4 Part 2
(Audio Only) Reality Check - EP 4 Part 1
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(Audio Only) Reality Check - EP 4 Part 1
Reality Check | Pickens' Realities & Blended Family Truths | EP 4 PT 1
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Reality Check | Pickens' Realities & Blended Family Truths | EP 4 PT 1
(Audio Only) Bio & Bonus Mom Conversations - EP 3 Part 2
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(Audio Only) Bio & Bonus Mom Conversations - EP 3 Part 2
(Audio Only) Bio & Bonus Mom Conversations - EP 3 Part 1
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(Audio Only) Bio & Bonus Mom Conversations - EP 3 Part 1
(Audio Only) Context is Everything - EP 2 Part 2
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(Audio Only) Context is Everything - EP 2 Part 2
(Audio Only) Context is Everything - EP 2 Part 1
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(Audio Only) Context is Everything - EP 2 Part 1
Is Love Enough When Raising Kids? | EP 4 Sneak Peek
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Is Love Enough When Raising Kids? | EP 4 Sneak Peek
Bio & Bonus Mom Conversations | EP 3 Sneak Peek
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Bio & Bonus Mom Conversations | EP 3 Sneak Peek
Bio & Bonus Mom Conversations | EP 3 PT 2 (Video)
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Bio & Bonus Mom Conversations | EP 3 PT 2 (Video)
Bio & Bonus Mom Conversations | Pickens' Realities & Blended Family Truths | EP 3 PT 1
Просмотров 1,2 тыс.28 дней назад
Bio & Bonus Mom Conversations | Pickens' Realities & Blended Family Truths | EP 3 PT 1
Context is Everything | Pickens' Realities & Blended Family Truths | EP 2 PT 2 (Video)
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Context is Everything | Pickens' Realities & Blended Family Truths | EP 2 PT 2 (Video)
Context is Everything | EP 2 PT 1 | Pickens' Realities & Blended Family Truths (Video)
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Context is Everything | EP 2 PT 1 | Pickens' Realities & Blended Family Truths (Video)
The Meet | EP 1 PT 2 | Pickens' Realities & Blended Family Truths
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The Meet | EP 1 PT 2 | Pickens' Realities & Blended Family Truths
Lord, where was all of this 14 years ago.... I needed to just speak with others that went through the same thing. We made it, but Lord knows there were some hurdles.
Love is always more than enough. You are referring to how people SAY they love you, but don't show it. Love is not just a feeling. It's an action that must be shown for the other person to feel it. So when love is done properly and is complete by actually showing it with ACTIONS, it's always more than enough.
You have to think of the other persons perspective. For example tables turned would you want to “ask permission” in a sense to see your kids, etc from your exes new wife? I highly doubt it. I agree with the daughter that the man in the situation should’ve dealt with that instead of putting it all on you to handle. She and him had a child together, not the 3 of you. I let my man talk to his mother’s child because really it’s not my business. Love his kids but, I’m going to stay out of their situation because it’s their situation to handle. I stay in my lane. Less drama that way.
Beautiful show I think as well ❤❤❤
Put a quilt on the back of each recliner
Amen. Love you Lord Jesus. Thank you for peace❤
Yes, I am going to grow with my children and my children are going to grow with me. Please believe that.
Great pod, you guys should add a table or a leg rest so you could use it if you want. Just a suggestion
Thank you!!! Noted!
I agree Flix
Jessica, you are such a loving person, loved listening to your family.
Thank you so much! I truly appreciate the support! What was your biggest take away from listening?
Gm Mrs. J just what I need to get me thru this 1st 4hours❤😊
Why the blond hair mom you look lbg your ex needs the kids not a alphabet mom woke up and be a woman of value take the pussy out your mouth that's for us men we love the pussy
Great job you are blessing more than you know ❤️❤️
Love this glad you are been transparent!! ❤
Jessica, I truly appreciate your and Jayla's relationship, your vulnerability and respect for one another, and Jayla's transparency. I especially appreciated Jayla's honesty. I for sure felt the unsaid responsibilities that come with being the oldest daughter.
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Ty is a fool. He had the bomb mack Lol
Beautiful couple
Girl you know how he is! 😂😂😂
EVERYBODY IN THIS VIDEO IS BEAUTIFUL 😊
Bio mom, mom and the daughter all look a like!
“The Juicy of the Juices” 🤭
Oldest Child and Girl....don't recommend LOL
@@brenaecollier6156 what don’t you recommend? Being the oldest child AND being a girl????? Lbs?? Let us know what you are referring to!!
@JessicaPickensRealities yes, I was agreeing with Jayla...being the oldest child but also the oldest girl is very challenging at times
Got you! Completely understand!
Y’all got this I am excited about the journey ❤
Good job family love this for y’all!!!!
@@trennettadavis3960 thank you so much fam!!
Very deep conversation! I never realized Jayla didn't remember the divorce. I always thought she was resentful toward Jessica because she wanted her biological mom. This video helped me realize it was about "the lady." That blew my mind! Great video!
Yes @algiehorton7175…. That’s why the title is “context is everything!” Super important for parents who are preparing to blend families to take the time to talk and listen to their bio kids regularly prior to, during and after the blend, to get an understanding on what’s really going on and how the kids re feeling, so the adults can properly understand how best to build relationship with the bonus parent and bonus kids…. We totally missed this…. Hoping other families can learn from our mistake!
thank you!!!! newly blending family here (1 year down, also both brought kids into it and have a couple together ) this is so so so needed. this has been both a blessing and the most challenging thing i’ve ever experienced
Thank you for the support- and you are very welcome. Also, let us know via your comments here what topics would you like us to discuss/are you having challenges in? Feel free to go to my website www.jessicapickens.com and get my free gift!! I will also post here info on my next masterclass that I will be teaching next week. ☺️☺️
Thank you, this was a much needed message.
Keep up the great work Love you all utilizing life events to help others ❤
The Part II did not disappoint. I can't wait for the future episodes. My new favorite show.
Thank you!
Good job Family keep up the great work this is absolutely needed
Thank you!
This was great. I certainly appreciated the transparency and how organic the conversation was. Keep up the great work.
There is something you said about having a single mother, actively involved in the feminist movement, that did not prepare you, as a young woman, to be receptive to the idea of needing a man, that resonates so much with me, and a revelation that I had the last time I chose to confide in my mother about my relationships issues. It is so hard in this day and age to find couples that “PUSH through” in their relationship, even when they may not want to, in order to change the trajectory of your family’s legacy. The feminist movement, while much needed, did somewhat of a disservice to the institution of marriage, and it can be a true struggle to get on the other side of that when the main counselor in your life is a woman who did it ALL, BY HERSELF. Like, I CAN do it by myself, but how does that serve me, and how does it serve my children? Maturity teaches us that even when our parents did the best they could, and loved us through it all, every generation is supposed to improve upon the next, and a strong partnership is vital for the ultimate success of the family!
Love you all
Love this family chat !! ❤
This is needed. Please don’t stop regardless of the bumps in the road that will come 💙
Just saw you on ETM talking about you launching your event. YES! Way to go. Keep it up.