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I just came across this story. I am going through this exact sane thing. And I feel like I’m a roommate if my spouse instead of a wife that is beautiful. It’s truly humiliating to experience a marriage where he has no sexual desire towards me. Even if he takes a pill to help out, it doesn’t always work. I don’t even want to go to counseling anymore because I have no desire to work on it myself. No cheating or anything. But it’s very sad. He’s just not into sex. So weird.

What I see it's a man who gone threw hell and now stand for himself and to improve himself. I felt the need of love in your action with your ex. Sharing this with this high perspective, demonstrate the path you choose to take. I respect that. It's inspiring. I know you are on you're on your journey. Your message touch me, even if I'm french and I live a different life. It's deeply beautiful to see a man busy to become himself. Courage

Thank you so much for being so brave to share your story because I knew men who were living exactly everything you described here. You also found that ultimate level of self-love to say No, and No more. I am pretty sure that you’ve allowed many men to feel seen and heard. Even if I don’t know you personally, I am so proud of you, that you found the courage to stand for your needs, particularly before any child could be born in this pattern. Indeed, the worse situation is for those who stay for children. What many parents cannot fully assess is how far and deep that situation is going to create in terms of trauma, wounds, and fragmentation in children. And how much time, tools, energy and efforts the children will need to heal. The way a mother or a father stays in relationship is an invisible lesson they are giving to anybody in that house. No wonder many of use wear masks in relationships.We learn that as children in toxic environments. It also sounds like there was an incompatibility of attachment styles, meaning, the wife might have had an avoidant attachment style, and portrayed some covert narcissist personality traits. No secure woman would do what she was doing. And many times people with secure or anxious attachment style will go above and beyond in an emotional asymmetric relationship because of their relational growth mindset:

What size is your willy?. Size matters like a mofo.

7:00 my life 😂😂

Listening to your story, I believe you married a trophy, not a wife. Many men and women fall into that trap.

This is my 8th year in a sexless marriage, and I can’t leave because I have two kids. I don’t know how to handle this. What is the best solution for someone who can’t divorce because of their children? Is cheating a good choice?

I want to ask you this question Would most women specifically peers who are more typically experienced or maybe already starting families i know alot of young moms who are 20-21 would have they have a problem with a 21 year old virgin man and would they likely consider him for a relationship and still find him attractive?

Sorry, you were married to a narcissist. Thank you for sharing. God bless you!

Well done mate, you have shown us brothers that we don't have to put up with shallow women. And yes, good sex in a relationship is vital especially in the BDSM world.

I'm so sorry for your 7 years of life without sex. I hope you made up for that later. Such a handsome man, but got involved with the wrong person. Is it bad luck? Spiritualism says nothing is by chance. They explain such things by the fact that once you treat someone wrong, you always pay for it in this life or in another. Can't be proved. But it's a good explanation regardless. So in another life, she'll be the guy whose wife will have no interest in him, and will go through the same hell she made you go through now. That's the only way for souls to learn. By direct experience. Somewhat consoling? Thank you for sharing your story.

This is insane, unthinkable outside western countries …she is supposed to want kids from you etci wouldn’t tolerate 10 days of this îd leave

I hope you’re not very different from the person you was because judging by what you just told us about your old version, you were really very good gentleman just with the wrong people.

6:20 ...mane!!!!

I think we are all a bit lost. Great women wanting love and bonding sex end up with abusers, same for some man. Grandpa's looking to hook up with women in their 20s ... honestly we are going to therapy but keep super unhappy and alone 😢

at least you understand the beauty of sex with one parnter the connection it should have and not use sex for sex ssake like so many people just want to get the pleasure and bad shit happens .thx for sharing a hard truth to share

Awsum video! Strrong of you to "get out" with this and sharing other men. This is so tabu for men to talk about. Strong, really!!

He said that he could not make her happy, healthy person is accountable for their own happiness. Clearly she was gaslighting him, and he was just the cost of doing business.

He was used. His youth’s limited emotional intelligence and pure heart was his downfall. She saw it and cashed in.

Really i appreciate your way to talk and to share your experience. Best regards for you

You are such a cute man. With beautiful eyes :)

Wow.....it sounds like you are telling my story. Thank you for sharing so that I realize I am not alone.

“You set us back 6 months now because you just talked about the issue of me not having sex with you.” Wow, what a massive mind game. She got her PHD in manipulation.

Bro, either your ex was lesbian or were getting it somewhere else😢. I'm glad that you left her we all love you, respect, care about you. Love you from MN

You did not heal from your home trauma before you got into a relationship. You also were and are confused about doing everything accept penetrative sex and think it is not sex. You need to know you before someone gets to know you.

Marriage is the end of happiness for a man. There really is no benefit.

Great video, thanks for posting

It’s crazy to me the withholders won’t make a single video to explain what their deal is

I totally get where you’re coming from. Had almost 4 years of no intimacy at all with the one I had kids with. The youngest was 3 when I finally was able to move. I was hallow for sure. I physically felt the empty space within me. One that hasn’t experienced healthy love doesn’t know what is possible. I’m so grateful I know now and I wound say that most that think they’ve experience pure healthy love hasn’t. But it’s easy to see it when you had non before.

All I hear is I gave her material things, she owes me. Nothing about what was going on with her mentally or physically. There were obviously some sort of issues with her that throwing gifts, trips, and backrubs wasn't going to fix

Holy smokes who would NOT want to have sex with you. Do you have any idea how handsome you Re?

So sorry to hear you were so abused and manipulated in this first marriage. You were used big time ...

If you're gay, I wanna be with you 😂 You're gorgeous and emotionally intelligent. You're caring too, dream husband I would say. She's an unappreciative b*@ch, I can't help but think that. I commend you for getting where you are, and congratulate you for regaining your freedom from that toxic marriage. I send you lots of love and good wishes, and I mean it!

We have a word for this in Norway: to be dumb-kind

I am so sad you had such bad experiences. I am married now for 25 years with 3 kids and I believe in the sacretness of marriage. But I did not pick my husband all by myself, I prayed for the right one. I made a wish list and prayed, until God made me realize that i already knew him for years. I just was not ready and he maybe was not ready either. We married after one year and are still together.

Time waits for no one. Get on with living and love yourself first.

Sir, I am a male, but you are beautiful to look at. You have come through a lot. I wish you the best.

Thanks mate !!

She didn't respect you because you are a simp, a beta male.

She is a stupid woman

I swear i am listening to him talk…and it is so raw and compelling…but maybe he should cover his face when he talks? …bc DAMN, he’s good-looking…*sigh* (me trying not to be shallow) lol

That was really good. It resonated a lot

I am a female version of him. This is the man I wish i met. Uggh

Interest isn't always immediately (sex) hormones are not always in charge!!🎉

You rejected??? You seem too good looking for any woman to be able reject you

Your ex was so ungrateful. I'm single, lonely and longing for a husband. Shame on her.

Around every corner is another possibility, you need to make up your mind to enjoy the person that you are with who has the same choices around the next corner. Happiness is an inside job.

Can we talk in person? I believe we have something to discuss.

I stayed in a sexless marriage for 10 years, holding on to his promises that things would eventually get better. But those words were just empty dreams that never came true. I deeply understand how you feel. I’ve felt rejected throughout my entire marriage. I had to beg for love from my own husband, and it was such a painful and degrading experience. It has left me scared to remarry and has had a lasting impact on my life.

I would love to have a sexless marriage. That would be so ideal.