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Janae Carlee
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Welcome to my corner of the internet, where we grow in life, faith, and business. Consider me the accountability partner you didn't know you needed.
A few things no one tells you about marriage (series) | Episode 1
After a viral reel that highlighted how marriage was kicking my butt, I decided to turn this into a series of things they don't tell you about marriage. In this episode, we're going to discuss grief and sanctification. Let's talk about it!
I'd love to dialogue about this. Drop your thoughts below, and I'll address it in this series.
Equipment used:
Camera: Nikon Z6
Editing: Premier Pro
Microphone: HollyLand Lark 150
Music: Epidemic Sound
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I'd love to dialogue about this. Drop your thoughts below, and I'll address it in this series.
Equipment used:
Camera: Nikon Z6
Editing: Premier Pro
Microphone: HollyLand Lark 150
Music: Epidemic Sound
Subscribe to my publication and join my community: www.fortheonelikeme.com/
Purchase my signature Keep Going journal: janaecarlee.com/shop/Keep-Goi...
Your support is appreciated!
For collaboration and inquiries, email: hi@janaecarlee.com
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After God tells you to move and you do it, watch this.
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This is part two of the ruclips.net/video/94cu0BAe56U/видео.htmlsi=XzxcWgMazhfpPsMx series. We'll discuss what happens after you obey God to move. It's hard, and it's often not what you expected. You have to endure! Let's talk about it. Equipment used: Camera: Nikon Z6 Editing: Premier Pro Microphone: HollyLand Lark 150 Music: Epidemic Sound Subscribe to my publication and join my community: ww...
(How) do you know God told you to move?
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How did the Lord tell me to move to Texas? I learned how to hear his voice. I stopped making excuses, and I obeyed the first time. Let's talk about how to know if God is telling you to move. This will be a series where I break down before the promise leading to the altar of I do. Equipment used: Camera: Nikon Z6 Editing: Premier Pro Microphone: HollyLand Lark 150 Music: Epidemic Sound Subscribe...
(How to) overcome fear, anxiety, and anger
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(How to) overcome fear, anxiety, and anger
(How to) heal from heartbreak and get over someone you love
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(How to) heal from heartbreak and get over someone you love
(How to) know if he's the counterfeit or the promise
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(How to) know if he's the counterfeit or the promise
Watch this If God told you to move to Texas
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Watch this If God told you to move to Texas
(How to) overcome procrastination and doubt
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(How to) overcome procrastination and doubt
(How to) become a mature follower of Christ
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(How to) become a mature follower of Christ
Husband and wife do the paint your spouse challenge
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Husband and wife do the paint your spouse challenge
Husband's reaction to wife talking about their morning routine
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Husband's reaction to wife talking about their morning routine
Days in My Life | Living in Texas Vlog | Saying Yes to God Diaries
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Days in My Life | Living in Texas Vlog | Saying Yes to God Diaries
(How to) keep your relationship private until marriage
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(How to) keep your relationship private until marriage
Days in my life | Living in Texas vlog | Galantine's | Saying Yes to God Diaries
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Days in my life | Living in Texas vlog | Galantine's | Saying Yes to God Diaries
(How to) know it is God’s voice you’re hearing
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(How to) know it is God’s voice you’re hearing
(How to) walk by faith without being delusional | stop faking it until you make it
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(How to) walk by faith without being delusional | stop faking it until you make it
Joy comes in the morning | Spoken Word
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Joy comes in the morning | Spoken Word
I thought God said he was my husband | Q&A | positioned, signs, marriage, relationship with God
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I thought God said he was my husband | Q&A | positioned, signs, marriage, relationship with God
(How to) trust and obey God in the waiting period
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(How to) trust and obey God in the waiting period
Days in My Life | Living in Texas Vlog | Saying Yes to God Diaries
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Days in My Life | Living in Texas Vlog | Saying Yes to God Diaries
(How to) walk in obedience even when it looks crazy
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(How to) walk in obedience even when it looks crazy
Days in My Life | Living in Texas Vlog | Saying Yes to God Diaries
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Days in My Life | Living in Texas Vlog | Saying Yes to God Diaries
Days in My Life | Living in Texas Vlog | Relationships | Saying Yes to God Diaries
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Days in My Life | Living in Texas Vlog | Relationships | Saying Yes to God Diaries
Days in My Life | Living in Texas Vlog | Saying Yes to God Diaries
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Days in My Life | Living in Texas Vlog | Saying Yes to God Diaries
I’m about to REINVENT myself and you can too
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I’m about to REINVENT myself and you can too
(How to) use notion to set your goals (12 week year)
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(How to) use notion to set your goals (12 week year)
(How to) build a brand or business WITH GOD
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(How to) build a brand or business WITH GOD
(How) God wrote our love story | From dating app to married
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(How) God wrote our love story | From dating app to married
This is how you embrace the unknown with God
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This is how you embrace the unknown with God
I've always wondered if online dating is setting self up for failure. Experiencing more strain than necessary because it didn't come from God Himself? IF, it wasn't God's hands that aligned the union will it last a lifetime? Is online dating, 'Works' of our own hands? I'm genuinely seeking answers because I also know we have free will. But I'm trying to experience God's Best! Knowing everything I obtain came specifically from Him because I allowed it to come to me? Not me, going after IT.
Ive noticed something that in bible there are a lot of oxymorons ie opposites etc , he says if u want to be great be small, u hv free will but u it says not ur will be done but urs, i will do it quickly though it tarry, so at this point it seems like the opposite fact is always true , ask for confirmations but u cant rely on them , becos its ur desires , so how do u know which ones which . It says will give u ur desires but mostly wat u desire is not his will , Im just trying to understand how really u know if God is telling u something for real without getting confused 😮
Great point. The first point says to delight yourself in him and he will give you the desires of your heart. As you learn God as father and friend, studying and encountering his natural by way of Holy Spirit, through transformation his desires become yours. He gives you the desires as you yield and surrender to him orchestrating your path. It requires trust and not leaning on your own understanding. He knows! The fact you wrestle with this, lets me know you’re exactly where God wants you to be. Keep Matthew 7:7 and 6:33’n 🔥
@@janaecarlee thanks hun , I'm really searching out
Beautiful poem!
Thank you!
Great insight! My questions: “what questions should I be asking pre-courtship?” “Tips for long distance courtship?” “What were somethings you did to prepare your marriage while single and in courtship?”
Adding to the list! Thanks for asking. Gonna answer in the next few videos.
“He’s not the man of my dreams but he’s the man I needed coz my dreams could not have created this human coz I am not that smart”🥹❤️
Listen! This was my exact bar from my vows: Now I know why I was never the little girl who dreamed of this day… because I couldn’t dream of this, of you. You aren’t the man of my dreams, you’re the man of my future, my now, today, and tomorrow.
I like the concept of the video. I think it could be improved by less preaching and more examples. The real life experiences were rushed over and the conversation went back to the pulpit of preaching beatitudes and concepts. I was getting annoyed because it was less about advertised experience of a new wife and more about preaching at the audience. Instead of having a conversation with us.
Understood! Thanks for the feedback. I’ll work on this for future videos. It’ll probably help me to do a few with married friends, so it’s more conversational.
I’m halfway through my second year of marriage and I can vouch that this is 100% true. I married the man that God handpicked for me. Literally, he’s great. I thought that meant we wouldn’t have any problems… false! Lol Marrying right is only half of it. I don’t think all divorced people married the wrong person anymore. I think many people married the right person but didn’t steward it. So I’ve been super intentional now about praying for my husband, serving him, growing, dying to self and my marriage has started changing for the better. God has been really really really good. Thank you for being so raw and honest bc I thought I was the only one that had a rocky start. 😅 But we will finish well and finish strong! I wouldn’t trade this wife life for anything! ❤💍
We will finish! Thank you for your insight and experience. So refreshing 🩵
You are spitting straight fire and facts. It’s worth the work!! Sanctification!!! I’ve always said marriage is a mirror. Shows you so many areas you thought you were healed from lol, then add kids, whew. It’s constant growth, sanctification, it’s beautiful and hard. It can be both and. Thank you for these truths!!! This will help many!❤️❤️❤️
It's beautiful and hard! Excited to have you join the conversation.
I’m like girl please don’t be on her complaining about your husband. THE HOLY SPIRIT SHOWED UP AND SHOWED OUT. Giiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiirrrrrrllllllllll you really are going to bless so many. Thank you for being obedient.❤️🙏🏽😁🙌🏽
She should be honest, that is what we are here for❤
I feel that! I wouldn't complain about him publicly-my wise counsel would respectfully redirect me ahaha.
Girl!!!! Sister!!! Homegirl!!! You do your thing in these videos!! I just met you today (online) and I’m happy I ran across you!! Thank you!!!
Welcome to my corner of the internet.
👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽❤️🩹🎁✨🎀✅
That real real.
Awesome 🤩 !
Here it is. Genesis 2:24. God meant for couples to be closer than any other relationship in your life. That means you have to be prepared to be humble and giving in ways you never have before. It took me 16 years before i realized this. Humility love and respect goes a long way in a marriage from the first year to the 27th year --that we are now in. Ephesians 5::33 goes a long way. 🥰
This is good 📝
I love you! Thanks for this.
Im gonna pray for God to help me to be a better woman if there's someone out there for me.
Wow this is so true. Even motherhood is continual dying to yourself.. this is good
So true!
Thank you for sharing 🙏🏾
You are welcome! 🙏🏾
No offense, I know you meant this message to be uplifting but it's actually a little disheartening. I mean it's your FIRST YEAR. This is supposed to be the fun part of your marriage. You making it sound really hard. But I am assuming this is just one video and maybe the others are speaking on the joys of marriage. Because if YEAR ONE is already this difficult...man....
The way your flesh is so deceptive and how selfish we are in nature. The first of marriage will reveal who YOU REALLY ARE.
I will always be honest...my courtship and first year of marriage were hard. It's what I wish someone could have prepared me for. However, with God, we must endure and walk this life out, counting it all joy. Was there joy? Yup. Did it have fun moments? Absolutely. However, for me and many others, dying to yourself is NEVER EASY. Don't be disheartened; be sober-minded. I could have experienced more joy had I been realistic about how selfless marriage is. They say the first seven are challenging 🤷🏾♀️. If God calls you to it, he will see you through it.
@@janaecarlee hmm very interesting.
@@janaecarlee Thank you! Good message. All and all I guess this is why I have never really been in a "rush" to get married. Not for myself anyway. I knew marriage was hard and I heard stories, but I figured at least the first year was still that honeymoon period where you're still just riding the high of finding someone. But everyone's journey might be different so I can rely on any formulas from other people's experiences in the past.
I think she's being truthful. It's like when we first got saved. We think life will be easy. Wrong! Many challenges and suffering but we overcome. It's worth it all. Jesus said we'd have affliction.
Amen. This is good! Thanks for sharing, sis. God bless you.
Absolutely! I pray it encourages you.
That’s why people should think long and hard before getting married. Stay single.
It's a selfless decision for sure.
Lol at stay single.
The Lord says marriage is honorable.
I think I've been found (finally) by my husband. He's a true Godly man. He's expressed interest in me. He strikes me as man of integrity and treats me well.. so far...Pray we both hear from God. If we should court towards marriage & I already know it takes dying to self.
This is beautiful, thank you for this ❤ I really needed this. Especially the mirror & unhealed trauma. The serving part also.
Thank God this helps you! It's a sober decision. God's got you!
Phouf 😮💨
Basically! Whew.
But didn't move to United States by watching you give me peace mind. I am still in Toronto,Ontario.
Sheesh come on
Thanks for the push, Ro!
Called off an engagement and wedding months ago..
Fear is not our future; God is! So eloquently taught and engaging from beginning until end. Had me tearful and laughing at the same time. This was beautiful Janae!
I appreciate your support. Thank God it spoke to you. I felt crazy when He changed my message lol
❤❤❤❤ love it
This is good sis!
Thank you 🩵
Crazy story
GOOD JOB MY DAUGHTER PLEASE KEEP IT UP OKAY BLESSINGS PRAISE THE LORD 🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌
Amen 🙏
I thank God for this encouragement 😭🙌! I’m currently in the waiting period and it definitely has been stretching me and growing my faith. God is also moving me to Texas; I’ve already said yes to His Will. Now, He’s aligning things up and I’ve been working on being content and having joy where I’m at. Not gonna lie, it be hard sometimes with the schemes the enemy sends my way to throw my focus off and general warfare too. I needed to hear this message, so thank you for sharing❤
Absolutely! God has you.
Your story is inspiring!
Now I’m in Texas but last summer God showed me during prayer and fasting the east coast and told me to prepare to move. I’m still waiting for the green light to go and the open door for a job and home. Now I got a job position in June in NC but I got scared because my pay wasn’t secure and turned the opportunity down at the wisdom from my mom but I kinda feel that I should have taken it anyways and trusted God.
My NC pastor would say - God will tell you to move and open doors or you'll move and the doors open. Keep seeking God.
@@janaecarlee Absolutely! Will definitely keep doing 🙏
I needed this word. I keep asking God, are you sure. This is harder than I thought!
It's not easy - it's sanctifying. God's got you!
Listen, the first four minutes were for me. I so need to listen to this again. God does not play about His people. I moved to a different city a year and a half ago and I'm at the point that I am ready to go when He releases me. I have tried to assimilate to the culture, joined a church and resigned after three months, and have visited many other churches, changed jobs three times, etc. I can say that I have grown as a woman- mentally, emotionally, and spiritually. I have been able to set some goals and accomplish many of them on a personal and spiritual level. I am working on growing professionally as well. I am starting to feel and believe that my professional growth will start here, but I am not planning to plant my feet here, as the city that I came from is larger than the city that I reside in. I believe the Lord is preparing me to move to Texas, as He had me heavily preparing in 2020 and things came to a halt in 2021. Whenever and wherever He says go, I'm going, but it does get hard in the middle. Thank you for sharing this. Now as for meeting my husband, I look forward to that day and becoming a Mom of three beautiful children, per my desires and prophetic words spoken over me. Congratulations on your marriage and the blessings that are unfolding because of your obedience. 🤩🤩🤩🙌🙌💃💃
Preach it sister
Thank you!
This whole video made me cry. Such a word!
Amen!
Janae!! This is soo good! Thank you!
Amen! Thank you
I don't know if safety comes with obedience. Let's list like half the people in the new Testament and all the martyrs... 😅
It’s safer to obey than live in disobedience. When you obey, you know where you’re headed despite what you’ll have to endure. Safety is found in our ability to obey God. Why add unnecessary heartbreak to our stories through disobedience? I understand most of the apostles were killed. However, it’s 2024. At this time, persecution depending on where you live looks different.
What dating app did you use ?
I used Holy
I used Holy
@@janaecarlee I don't have and iPhone so i can't use that
I believe that this word is for me, Miss Janae may you please pray for me? Thank you♥️
God bless! God's got you.
WANT to move scared moved United States leaving one daughter behind and living with my mother how do I have the courage to move to the United States and leave my daughter behind
Beautiful, so beautiful. May God bless you. Thank you.
I've left an abusive marriage after years of God telling me to go but I was too afraid to do it alone. So set on pushing my own will on God and wanting to force him to change my husband. My children and I are in a shelter and waiting for God to supply the next step. I trust you Lord. You will provide all I need.
He will provide!
So good to hear this ❤ thank you so much… I’m on this process 📍🆘
Amen 🙏 🙏 🙏 this is powerful, encouraging in Jesus Mighty Name 🙏 🙌 ❤️