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“nagative” experiences? … Seriously?

The only thing that worked for me was interactive play. My child is now five years old and I’ve had him on those three years. He looks like part ragdoll, but at least he gets along with my other cat. That’s all I can ask for

My cat breaks the cat mold. Pretty much everything you aren't supposed to do, he likes. In fact, if you stop petting him, he'll push his head forcefully into your hand to get more head scratches and rubs.

I had a cat like that once, a tuxedo that I found as a small kitten abandoned in a rural country cemetery. She was anxious and easily spooked her whole life, and never would cuddle with me or sleep on my lap, but just lay next to me when I was sitting on the couch. I was glad to give her a home for her whole life, and she gave me an appreciation of Tuxedos.

Very cute and informative! Thank you! 😺🥰

Great video! Well done. Except, the word akin was used excessively. Thanks, Vince

All my cats love belly and head rubs 🥰

I love this video. My Mr Kitty loves belly rubs,

My cat is not a cuddler but neither is she broken and in need of fixing. 👎👎👎👎

Right there with you! Cats are just the best, aren't they? 🐱❤ Their quirky personalities and cuddly moments always brighten my day!

Oh come on bro. You have spent way too much time to fix something that isn’t broken. I am an avid cat lover & appreciate all their personalities. You need to learn the same.

They will their just acting like they don't like it 😊 ❤

Fix the (yellow) comments, folks.. too many zpeling er0rz.

Yep, my black was in his mommy when she was trapped. Once born, he was kept for adoption. His mother’s fear and anxiety during the trapping may have had a lasting effect on him. He’s been with me for eight years and i still cannot pick him up. He does sit on my lap for a minute or two. My female was never handled by the humans in the house that she was born in. The had a huge german shepherd and she interacted with the dog the most. Consequently, she loved my big dog and not me.

Many cats enjoy being on our lap, enjoy us petting them, they enjoy sleeping on us, but don't like it when we close our arms around them. It is what it is. I don't try to change them.

I hate this rolling text that has become popular lately. It very annoying to look at.

I have a male Nabulung and he is very reserved but is always within 3 feet of me. Will follow me up and down the stairs. He sleeps by my door every night, but won’t cuddle. He was a stray but is hurt when I’m gone a few days…just how he is.

My cat Ms Rosie aka Fat Sexy Mama, hates being cuddled she is a not by birth feral independent that gets very high anxiety when you pet her and I had her from 3 months to 7yrs! She just gets very anxious when she gets petted now God fixed that gave me a 1/2 Maine Coon that loves too many cuddles! So my life is soooo kosher right now!

They’re cats

The problem is that people act as if cats are puppies. Cats are there own people they aren't mean't to be carried around and snuggled like dogs. I don't know why people have to force their cats to be something they are not. We have 6 cats and there is only 1 that likes to be held and loved on. We do not force that on the others. When they want to be loved on and be beside you they will come to you. I hate the misconceptions people have toward cats. Just let them be themselves. It doesn't bother me that I can't hold the other 5. I just love the fact they are in my life and I know they are safe from harm. When they are ready for affection they will let you know. Let them be❤

My cat was a stray and she loves me as a food dispenser haha. There is the odd “moment”. I’m ok with her terms.

Not all kitties are snugglers - don't provide false hope and have stupid people force this on their poor fuzz balls. - 👎

My cat doesn't cuddle but he follows me pretty much whichever room I go into. Him wanting to be near me tells me how much he loves being in My presence. I don't need cuddles if he doesn't want to

I have a different viewpoint since adopting our feral British short hair cat who was feral past time to train, they said. Therefore, they had a hard placing her, several times brought back to the rescue center. Enter me who has never picked a cat. Cats always picked me. I waited 6 months. No cat. So I adopted Miss EliMae. I was told she was not adoptable, nice, cuddly & not so nice things. Nevertheless, I thought we would be a good fit. I was so right. Ten later, she is my love. But the first 6 months was rocky. I didn't see her. Oh she was in the home. I saw the water & food bowl & sandbox being used but never saw her or heard her just her bell I quickly put on. I decided she had a home. I have all the time for her to come to me when she was ready. She did. Baby steps by baby steps. Dental treats were our training tools. Very intelligent cat. Very loving. Very trainable. She snuggles with me at night and purrs, then turns her back to me in protective mode. When she looks at me & I slow blink she automatically calms down & purrs with slow blinks. She will jump on my lap and be brushed belly and all (trainable). I even trained her to go to our bedroom. Her safe room. Can't train her to love her claws clipped, though I still give her dental treats. She hates baths. I don't even try. I do use a boar brush, which she loves & cleans her fur, nice & silky. That is one of my latest research. I really feel sorry for those people who brought Miss EliMae back. The rescue center that I adopted her from were surprised when they called for a visit. But she was still not ready. So I told them anytime she is ready to meet her forever family, they are welcome to see our interaction. They understood if she kept hidden forever, it was still her home, her family. That's all anyone needs. To be loved.❤

My tuxedo cat wandered into our lives as a tiny feral kitten who wanted a better life. (apparently😊) He’s never been super snuggly, and when he is, it’s on his terms. We just know that’s who he is and cherish those rare snuggle times.

Yes you give a lot of wisdom for new cat owners. But almost all those RUclips video's are all the same. I wish there were some RUclips channels for mor experiënced catowners. Any suggestions?

One of my cats has taken to urinating in boxes and containers. The litterbox is clean. Can't figure out why kittie does this. I can't leave boxes, bags or containers out anymore.

Haven't seen any videos on this topic for multi-cat homes. Last year I adopted two kittens, one male and two months later a female from my county shelter. The male was a stray with limited socialization, and the female was surrendered at four months of age by her family. The male cat is extremely sociable, follows me everywhere and cuddles at all times of day and night. The female is active and happy, with her tail always up and curled forward. She is very independent and does not like to cuddle or be carried. After several months she now lets me pet her head. Other than maybe an early bad experience with her previous family, how much impact may be from my other cat constantly marking me and close to m?. Could this be more of a territorial issue between them?

and I thought cats didn’t care about the “can opener,” and litter box attendant. 😂

Some things are simply personality. Not all cats like to cuddle. This does not need to be fixed. Telling people this is strange

Thanks for the info. I will now use these tips.

Wth that ping sound!

10 difference? After watching I think there is only one... Wasted me 10 minutes 😔

Wonderfully helpful! Thank you so much.🐱🐺😊💕💕💕

Thanks for your the information. It will help me deal with my cat that has all kinds of stres. An unsettled ways it came to me in my garden. I had nobody so I adopted her and she adopted me.

I was going to subscribe but I’m short on munny. I’m trying to save up for subscriptions brah

6:54 so you need to bribe your cat brah?

I got a good cat his name is Sage….❤❤❤😊😊😊He’s very affectionate ❤😊and happy

Hmm I don’t have cats but they did hide under the bed while I was at a friend’s house looking after their cats. 🐱

*Reasons

The tail down when they're lying on the ground or sitting is just a natural position. It usually got nothing to do with whether they dislike you. When they do this while walking, then it maybe can signal multiple things on the plain of anxiety or alertness. Even then it's not per se caused by you as an owner, it could be a myriad of (external) factors. I think there must be a video made with signs that show that kitty *does* like you, i like thing to be pawsitive.

Why the apostrophe..?

Many Thanks!🙏

My female (now passed) used to urine spray despite being neutered.

Wow, each one of your videos is very helpful and informative.