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This feels right on for me! I think of myself as a pretty tuned-in, healthy nine who's made some pretty bold choices (hiked across the country a few years ago, woohoo!) but I still have a hard time with not looking agreeable when I actually disagree. That one felt especially true for me.

Ugh I missed it

Yes 👏

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I'm interested in a Type 5 and just hearing what you said 5 wished we knew about them really was encouraging to me. I'm a 4w5 and it is very hard for me to learn to give her space. At first I took major offence to her distance, I thought she was ghosting me for some reason. I was heartbroken and felt like she couldn't care less about me, but it's NOT the case. I learned about enneagrams and everything makes since now. I didn't realize just how important and helpful they were when navigating relationships.

Every word is true! In my experience as a six.

I'm a Type 9 and have read and watched quite a bit about the type. I've gotten to the point that it's almost painful to hear about my weaknesses because they've really messed up my life.

Do yall perhaps think there’s a connection between MTBI type, enneagram, and adhd? For example someone who is INFP, 4w5 suspecting inattentive adhd?

I pretty sure I’m a 9. I would like to think I have more heathy boundaries. But since I don’t seem to demonstrated that well until I’m just done and then stubbornness is what you see.

Thank you for a really helpful video! 🙌

Yes, this did confirm that I am a type one. The thing I'd never heard before was how ones can be different when we are able to relax in "duty free" spaces and wow SO accurate!

Your attempt at gaslighting us won’t even work on fools this time. What a pitifully embarrassing excuse. “He was just talking nonsense. What can I say?” Sure. We believe you. Lol.

I both cringed and laughed because this cleared up any confusion I had about being a 2. Yep, that’s me!

super helpful and insightful. Thanks!

Tyler, you added description that I hadn't heard before and it resonated with me!! Thank you - it made a visual list 😄that is very helpful!

Wow Tyler, you nailed it! This is my highly sensitive husband down to the gnat's eyebrow. Incredible! Thank you!

I think the toughest part of relationships is that even when I feel I am being open and romantic, it doesn’t always read that way to the other person in the relationship. I’m engaging in conversations and sharing myself in a way that I don’t do with others but dependent on my potential partner’s type or relationship experience, they might not understand how much of myself I am giving through those engagements and experiences.

STOP DEFENDING THIS DEMONIC PRACTICE

Weirdo

Spot on. Very instructive. Thanks

4w5 almost everything resonates just the bit about envy maybe it’s my Aquarius sun but I’m comfortable with being an outsider and embrace my uniqueness

It drives me crazy when the boss is attacking or picking on a fellow employee

It sounds like you are reading a book titled Tammy Morgan at work😮

You are spot on!

I drive my friends crazy asking if they are mad at me. I have done this my entire life. What you said about the look in the morning and then I’m still replaying g it and worrying about.

I do absorb emotions of my friends and loved ones and I feel it in the pit of my stomach.

This is SO MEEE

9 here, dating a wonderfully sweet and devoted 5. I also recharge with my alone time, so we have been able to give each other the space we need to thrive, while still deeply enjoying and treasuring our time together. We're both big time into wilderness backpacking, and I love that we can nerd out over that together and enjoy deep quality time on the trail together. Thank you for these tips! I think my takeaway is to come up with more interesting questions for him than just "how was your day?"

oh gosh... this is me... oh my! And I'm an RN... not too many people appreciate a 8 RN.

I am still undecided but for Naranjo to say that it came from automatic writing just as a flippant quip when feeling tired I still questionable, is it not? Is that what trustworthy people do - just lie when they've had enough?

When you compliment a 9 make sure it’s genuine

I find 3s extremely fake..btw I'm 5..

I'm a 5 and your description is accurate..

As an INTJ-T 5w4, I concur with this video. #truthbomb

Sobbing 😭 just discovered I’m a 4. Thought I was a 1 for years. Because of my deep passion for mission work and bringing goodness and healing to the world. And I think being a ‘missionary’ became my identity. So I never questioned it. I thought it was me. But, being a 1 felt tight and restrictive to my soul. Like I was constantly trying to punch myself into a box of staunchness and self denial. And I pushed myself so hard and beat myself up like a martyr. I nearly killed myself with that mindset. BECAUSE now I realize it’s not me! Brooo, I’m messy and deep and moody and cry so much. 😂 my house is zebra print and black. I have to have deep talks for hours a week or I feel like I might die 😂 I write constantlyyyy. My notes on my phone is PACKED with little ‘mini sermons’ about life and meaning. How I see the world. What moves my soul that I feel like I’ll explode if I dont share it. I cry over the easiest things. Flower in the sunshine? Crying. lol. Song? Im crying. My husband is always laughing at my crying 😂 I’m SO SENSITIVE. And I think viewing myself as a 1, brought depression I’d never experienced. It didn’t fit. I felt so flawed and misunderstood, like I couldn’t even be a good 1 😂 I thought I was failing at being a 1. I was so full of my flesh. Too weak because of my soft heart. I needed to be tougher. Harder. More focused. Driven like a soldier. And then I was told by a coach that maybe I was a 4. I was like ‘naw, I’m definitely a 1’. HAHAHA I read the 4 profile and I about died. I wasnt in a place before to let myself be open to the idea of 4s. I envied 4s, because of their freeness, go figure 😂 and I said I thought they were the most beautiful to me. I was SO DRAWN to 4s. but I stuck to my identity of being a ‘warrior for justice 1’. Now that I’m learning about 4s, I feel like a thousand pound weight is being lifted off of me. Like I’m coming out of a costume. Meeting myself truly for the first time ever. IT ALL MAKES SO MUCH SENSE NOW. I can see myself. Even during all the years I thought I was a 1. I see WHY I thought that. Being a missionary, I felt I was at my best as a person. Which 4s go to 1 in health. And I see why it was so hard for me. And why I felt so trapped. Now I’m learning how to accept myself in all that is my true gifts. Depth. Connection. Beauty. Movement of soul. I can feel and not feel bad about it! Like I’m ’out of control’ 😂 I’m a human who God created to feel deeply. And IM SO EXCITED about it 🙌🏼 thank You Jesus! (As I write a small book as my comment 😂😂 not a 4 at alllllll 😂). Thanks for the video!

I have discovered that when I am in the cycle of pushing and pulling, I am trying to cope with the tremendous amount of shame I am currently experiencing. The example of opening presents during Christmas but not feeling like you belong gave me chills. I have felt that way too many times! I'm an Episcopal priest and my sermons tend to be poetic and metaphorical! Growing up all I wanted was to share with what had just discovered. Envy is not always a bad thing. And it's often based in truth. I've learned that when I am experiencing envy it is connected to intuition. Favortism, elitism, and all the other -isms are all real things. But it doesn't have to have the last word. Fours often feel misunderstood because of all the trips they have taken alone. Just like a type one may feel that they have to do something themselves in order for it to be right, fours may feel they alone are forced to take the trips the rest of humanity avoids. Sometimes being invited to the surface is what I need. When I remind myself that this too is being human, I find that the melancholy begins to evaporate and that I may "fit in" more than I realize. Love your insight!

I have discovered that when I am in the cycle of pushing and pulling, I am trying to cope with the tremendous amount of shame I am currently experiencing. The example of opening presents during Christmas but not feeling like you belong gave me chills. I have felt that way too many times! I'm an Episcopal priest and my sermons tend to be poetic and metaphorical! Growing up all I wanted was to share with what had just discovered. Envy is not always a bad thing. And it's often based in truth. I've learned that when I am experiencing envy it is connected to intuition. Favortism, elitism, and all the other -isms are all real things. But it doesn't have to have the last word. Fours often feel misunderstood because of all the trips they have taken alone. Just like a type one may feel that they have to do something themselves in order for it to be right, fours may feel they alone are forced to take the trips the rest of humanity avoids. Sometimes being invited to the surface is what I need. When I remind myself that this too is being human, I find that the melancholy begins to evaporate and that I may "fit in" more than I realize. Love your insight!

As a potential perceptive 5 (though still not sure - could be a 4 or 9), your caption at around 2 min reads Vice=Generosity rather than Virtue=Generosity 🤓 I feel like this might be a test, lol

They best advice you gave; which I confirm, is that you need to stand your ground with 8s. If you get offended, close up or can't argue your point and become emotional, they won't respect you even if they love you. And you need them to respect you or the relationship will be much worse than it could be. Don't be hysterical. Stay firm.

8s speak loudly, strongly and love to argue from time to time to blow off steam. They don't care if there are people around. And they are going to feel attacked easily. They will feel attacked, for example, if you try to mother them in a way they feel is a bit forceful. They don't care about your 'good-intentions'. Either you can deal with that or you won't be able to have a relationship with them. And they have all the other qualities a great human needs to have. Fantastic video!!

I'm a 6. After being in a partnership with someone who I think was a 7 + a narcissist (and having been raised by narcissists), my being in a new relationship with a type 1 is amazing and a huge relief! Love this video!

I emailed the people who made the original video with Naranjo and they said the main interviewer, E. J. Gold, was friends with Naranjo "for years and years." Does that affect whether you think Naranjo was being honest with Hudson?

Why try to conceal your actual anti-Christian intent? You even mock Christians by using the word Gospel in your name.

It's satanic, made through automatic writing.

My husband has called me antichrist, jezebel, & told me that if I ever leave him, I am turning my back on God and that I don't really love Him. He said that he isn't sure if I am really saved, amongst many other horrible statements. Would you consider that spiritual abuse or grounds for divorce? When I ask him to please speak to me kindly, he says that I am trying to control him & be the spiritual leader, even though he is always "right." When I try to voice my opinions he says Paul said that women are supposed to be quiet. I don't feel loved or cherished by my husband.

"...my own observations but mostly from 'autocratic' [sic] writing" - you are trying hard to prove your case but not succeeding. Stop.

The Holy Spirit put a check in my spirit over the Enneagram. That was all I need to stop interest in it

100 percent true

M with 9

Very interesting, thank you!!!