Amanda Flores
Amanda Flores
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your boundaries are valid. PROTECT THEM.
Boundaries are one of the few things in life that will never change. They make up who we are because they stem from our core values and experiences in life. But with people we love we tend to bend our boundaries. And when we meet the wrong people they will invalidate your boundaries and turn you against yourself without you even realizing it (gaslighting). From relationship boundaries to friendship boundaries, you're not crazy for having them.
0:00 intro
0:57 what makes a boundary
3:01 boundary vs insecurity
7:10 why boundaries don't change
8:05 consequences of not upholding boundaries
10:44 gaslighting
16:57 invalidating others' boundaries
18:16 friendship boundaries
21:00 conclusion
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Видео

if you hate cleaning your room...WATCH THIS
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hi friends! since you guys really liked my motivational content, I wanted to record myself deep cleaning my room since it's something I have been putting off for a LONG time. I hope this helps motivate you! Pls let me know any other topics you need motivation on! I'd love to make a video for it! If you're looking for more motivation, consider subscribing and giving a like to this video! :) Also...
be selfish with your energy
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hi friends. today's podcast episode discusses the times you're allowed to be selfish with your energy. helping people is great but sometimes we overstretch ourselves trying to fulfill everyone's needs on top of our own. I hope this video helps you realize you're not crazy, you're not a bad person, and you're not selfish! If this video resonated with you, consider subscribing and giving a like t...
the bare minimum has changed
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welcome to my Dating Yourself series! Episode 1 In this episode I talk about the importance of solo dates & how self-exploration affects the bare minimum when dating. On my solo date, I decided to journal about what I did recently that I was proud of myself for. I hope these solo date videos give you both ideas on what activities to do on your solo date & how to get to know yourself better :) I...
your intuition is right about that person…watch before it’s TOO LATE
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your intuition is right about that person…watch before it’s TOO LATE
Waking up at 6am for free sh*t
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Waking up at 6am for free sh*t
ONLY watch if you're SERIOUS about success in 2025
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ONLY watch if you're SERIOUS about success in 2025
morning routine to get your SH*T together in 2025
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morning routine to get your SH*T together in 2025
THIS is why you can never find a friend group that lasts
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THIS is why you can never find a friend group that lasts
The UNTOLD TRUTH about making friends in college
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The UNTOLD TRUTH about making friends in college
This changed my perspective on breakups..
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This changed my perspective on breakups..
Breakup Quotes You Haven’t Heard Before
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Breakup Quotes You Haven’t Heard Before
HEALTHY ways to heal from a breakup
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HEALTHY ways to heal from a breakup
1 Month of Heartbreak, in a Nutshell
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1 Month of Heartbreak, in a Nutshell
SDSU On Campus Apartment Tour | Granada
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SDSU On Campus Apartment Tour | Granada
Let a College Student Make Your Leg Day Routine | Glutes and Hamstrings Workout Routine
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Let a College Student Make Your Leg Day Routine | Glutes and Hamstrings Workout Routine
Why You Should Go Out By Yourself | Being Alone is Okay
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Why You Should Go Out By Yourself | Being Alone is Okay
Why I chose SDSU over UCI and UCSB | things to consider when choosing a college
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Why I chose SDSU over UCI and UCSB | things to consider when choosing a college
#77 tioga lake
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#77 tioga lake
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#76 beyond van gogh
#66 frisco's carhop
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#66 frisco's carhop
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Комментарии

  • @manupandheal
    @manupandheal 7 часов назад

    lol seriously who does that!?!

  • @nottsorandom
    @nottsorandom 13 часов назад

    stop I just wanted to take a break

    • @itsamanda.f
      @itsamanda.f 7 часов назад

      @@nottsorandom HELL NAW🗣️TOO MUCH WORK TO BE DONE

  • @alliee12
    @alliee12 18 часов назад

    HAHAHAH yes!!!

  • @ILove_J_e_s_u_s
    @ILove_J_e_s_u_s День назад

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @AnyaMelnyk.
    @AnyaMelnyk. День назад

    really interesting begginig of the video acctualy worked on me

    • @itsamanda.f
      @itsamanda.f День назад

      @@AnyaMelnyk. hehe thanks for the feedback! I was trying to get peoples attention!

  • @allaboutaddieeee
    @allaboutaddieeee 2 дня назад

    that not what God would do

    • @InSaiki.kBasement
      @InSaiki.kBasement 2 дня назад

      stfu true ahh 40 yr christian vanilla b&bw wearing mom at 20 sound ahh

    • @itsamanda.f
      @itsamanda.f 2 дня назад

      It’s a joke 💀💀

  • @totallynot_viv
    @totallynot_viv 2 дня назад

    to anyone who needs this, i want you to know something. there is a God above, who made everything and everyone in his own image. he made everything and everyone perfect. he sent his son Jesus down to earth to die for all of our sins and mistakes because he loves us so much. Jesus hung on the cross for 6 hours. he was tortured, got nailed to the cross through his wrists and ankles, he was mocked, but then he rose from the grave 3 days later and defeated death, he now sits with God in Heaven. Jesus went through horrible things just so we can be forgiven and so that we can be with him in Heaven one day. the way to accept his gift of salvation is by confessing your mind, heart, and soul that Jesus Christ is our savior, and that he saved us from everything wrong we have done, and having faith in him. we can’t save ourselves, and that’s why Jesus came to save us. i just want you to know that God loves you and he is either you no matter what your going through, no matter what you’ve done,he is there. always. waiting for you with open arms. turn to him. I love you so much. have an amazing day.

  • @MonsterPunishers
    @MonsterPunishers 2 дня назад

    someone finally understands

  • @RainingPouringSnoring
    @RainingPouringSnoring 2 дня назад

    I really needed this video. But there is still a part of me that doesn't want to hear. Doesn't want to trust myself. Doesn't want to see what God is showing me. Because if I do, I will be alone in the world. Or rather, I'll have to let go of the illusion of having a tribe. I know it but I'm struggling with it. Thank you for sharing this

    • @itsamanda.f
      @itsamanda.f 2 дня назад

      @@RainingPouringSnoring I know it’s hard and painful to accept it but the heartache that comes from not having believed yourself when you are right is worse❤️‍🩹I wish you the best

  • @thechigirl2498
    @thechigirl2498 3 дня назад

    Aye, I saw the twenty one pilots Vessel vinyl!

    • @itsamanda.f
      @itsamanda.f 2 дня назад

      @@thechigirl2498 LOVE THAT ALBUM

    • @thechigirl2498
      @thechigirl2498 2 дня назад

      @ it’s my fav of their’s. Simply because that’s the era I became I fan. 2013. Also how can it not be your fav. It has some of their most iconic songs

    • @itsamanda.f
      @itsamanda.f 2 дня назад

      @ exactly!!!

  • @Sxarflake
    @Sxarflake 6 дней назад

    took a look at your shelf and saw that (i think) all of the books are romance! any recomendations? 😊

    • @itsamanda.f
      @itsamanda.f 6 дней назад

      YESSS ROMANCE IS MY FAVVVV. Omg yes I got tons! my top 3 are the hating game, archers voice, and the unhoneymooners 🫠🫠

  • @Sxarflake
    @Sxarflake 6 дней назад

    my mom legit told me the other day that we should deepclean my room and then u drop this 😆❤️ hella motivated now !! 😊🌷 loved the video as always <3

    • @itsamanda.f
      @itsamanda.f 6 дней назад

      OMG IT WAS FATE!! thank you happy spring cleaning hehe

  • @itsJaySykes
    @itsJaySykes 7 дней назад

    This the year for small youtube channels LETS GET IT!!! see you at the top

    • @itsamanda.f
      @itsamanda.f 7 дней назад

      @@itsJaySykes YESS🙌🏼

  • @youmama5733
    @youmama5733 8 дней назад

    There's almost always more that they are hiding too.

  • @Sxarflake
    @Sxarflake 9 дней назад

    rip august 2024 me, you would have LOVED this video 😔🙏

    • @itsamanda.f
      @itsamanda.f 9 дней назад

      It’s ok we live and we learn

  • @Sxarflake
    @Sxarflake 9 дней назад

    OMGG YESS 🔥🔥🔥

  • @Sxarflake
    @Sxarflake 9 дней назад

    ITS HERE

  • @makeitranereviews
    @makeitranereviews 11 дней назад

    Sometimes you just have to live and learn ❤❤

  • @noemad5391
    @noemad5391 11 дней назад

    This is not inherently true, yes people hide doing things they know are objectively wrong, but sometimes people do yhings THEY dont consider wrong but don't want YOU too know because you think its wrong. Example my wife loves baking these cookies she loves them I don't but i eat them every time because she takes such pride in them.

    • @itsamanda.f
      @itsamanda.f 11 дней назад

      @@noemad5391 good point! This post was targeting at things that are objectively wrong, however some people don’t even see the objectively wrong act they did as even wrong! But sometimes they do and they do it anyway!

  • @Sxarflake
    @Sxarflake 13 дней назад

    how long on average is the podcast episodes going to be? loved the first one! i generally dont really listen to podcasts but i enjoyed yours a lot! maybe this is the year i listen to podcasts haha. excited for this friday! can't wait! <3 (if i got the day correct lmaoo)

    • @itsamanda.f
      @itsamanda.f 13 дней назад

      @@Sxarflake omg thank you!! I started listening to podcasts this year too! they should be max 30 minutes but probably 15-30 unless people suggest otherwise! Yes Friday is correct! Probably gonna release them at 6am PST :)

    • @Sxarflake
      @Sxarflake 13 дней назад

      @@itsamanda.f i think the duration is good! maybe 1hour (or longer) could be for special occasions haha! timing would be 5pm for me. not the best but i can always listen later! still excited <3

    • @itsamanda.f
      @itsamanda.f 13 дней назад

      @ thank you for your input!! I appreciate it. Let me know any more feedback as you continue watching future podcasts I’d love to know how to improve them

  • @Sxarflake
    @Sxarflake 13 дней назад

    [1:37] this is why i love journaling, you can write it down, or make a voice recording, heck even a filming works! it allows you to make a deeper understanding of yourself :D i also wanted to mention you looked gorgeous in this video <3

    • @itsamanda.f
      @itsamanda.f 13 дней назад

      @@Sxarflake I love this!! I started to journal when I first got broken up with it helped A LOT. Now my outlet is podcasting and making videos! Outlets are so so important

  • @VIC09366
    @VIC09366 13 дней назад

    Firsttt 🩷🩷🩷

  • @Roswell33
    @Roswell33 13 дней назад

    I trained as a therapist and its amazing how therapists will dismiss this stuff too. I've stopped trying to find one for myself, one out of about 20 actually listened to me most of the time. I see it as a sign to listen inwardly not outwardly

    • @itsamanda.f
      @itsamanda.f 13 дней назад

      @@Roswell33 that’s a good way to look at it and I agree with you!

  • @CallieWoest
    @CallieWoest 13 дней назад

    Lana del Rey girl, not every music but a lot have this feeling you looking for Try like, Body Electric or some of the NFR album

  • @erindaazemi6327
    @erindaazemi6327 14 дней назад

    This video resonates with me allat. Lemme share my story, i had this crush at college and one day we made eye contact for some couple of seconds from distant but after that i felt sick right after the eye contact i had stomach ache and the urge to vomit, later on at night the same guy texted me but i blocked him then he told his bestfriend to text me to unblock him and then i did unblock him but guess what I felt even worse about myself. Now im pretty gud and thank u for sharing this video i thought i was illusional about that sick feeling about him.🥰🥰

    • @itsamanda.f
      @itsamanda.f 14 дней назад

      @@erindaazemi6327 I’m glad you’re safe and listened to your intuition! Your body is trying to protect you from him 100%!

  • @dauwjoubert
    @dauwjoubert 14 дней назад

    YES MY INTUITION IS USE TO BE RIGHT IN MY LIFE, AMEN, 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉😂😂😂😂😂😂❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • @itsamanda.f
      @itsamanda.f 14 дней назад

      @@dauwjoubert YES🙏🏻

  • @moeshasmiles
    @moeshasmiles 14 дней назад

    I often have intuitive dreams about certain people, and sometimes I feel nauseous or sick to my stomach when I’m around them. I usually interpret these feelings as a sign that I need to distance myself from that person. When the discomfort becomes particularly intense, it feels like a warning, almost like a physical alert that something is wrong

    • @itsamanda.f
      @itsamanda.f 14 дней назад

      @@moeshasmiles your soul is trying to protect you because it perceives their energy as threatening!! Always trust it. Glad you’re aligning with your intuition🤍

  • @Estherawe444
    @Estherawe444 14 дней назад

    I had a bad gut feeling about my friend group and there would be subtle signs that there was something off but I thought I was being paranoid or looking too deep into it. The amount of times I talked to my best friend about them and she thought I was overthinking. A few months later I found out that one of the girls had been talking shit about me and she ended up physically attacking me and I called the police on her and she got arrested. The other girl ended up sleeping with the guy I liked while we were in the same room....Needless to say, they're both cut off and I will ALWAYS believe my gut feeling and learn to stop giving people 2nd chances when they don't deserve it.

    • @itsamanda.f
      @itsamanda.f 14 дней назад

      @@Estherawe444 I’m proud of you from growing from that experience! Unfortunately it takes us one bad experience for it to never happen again. Those are horrible people and I’m glad you got yourself out of there. And YES’ my new rule is 2 chances are you’re done. The first is a warning, because sometimes they don’t know. the 2nd time there is no excuse for their behavior. I’m excited for us!!

  • @lc9264
    @lc9264 15 дней назад

    Needed 💖💖💖

  • @SexParties
    @SexParties 15 дней назад

    Maybe you should be the one to do it

  • @VIC09366
    @VIC09366 16 дней назад

    I honestly don’t have any idea sorry 😔

    • @itsamanda.f
      @itsamanda.f 16 дней назад

      @@VIC09366 thank you for trying

  • @Leota-q8b
    @Leota-q8b 16 дней назад

    I hope this is the right person that is being mentioned this guy is under black magic and going uncured and has a revenge mode against me for myself standing up for myself against this guy this was over 7 months ago the black magic on this guy has made him falsely believe that he and me are in a romantic relationship this black magic on this guy has made this matter dysfunctional backwards abnormal setting this guy wants me dead it's a embarrassing matter The black magic is sick

    • @itsamanda.f
      @itsamanda.f 9 дней назад

      that is actually insane. i hope you are okay.

  • @makeitranereviews
    @makeitranereviews 17 дней назад

    The gym is such a great way to heal!

  • @imbatakum
    @imbatakum 17 дней назад

    Guys yall better listen to her, I’ve been ignoring all the signs and intuition , it’s was all true, and I would feel bad for thinking about it,

    • @itsamanda.f
      @itsamanda.f 17 дней назад

      @@imbatakum yes!!! The self guilt is real. And a lot of the time it’s the people around you who convince you to feel guilty. Never again. Stay strong in who you are!!!

  • @jujus3468
    @jujus3468 17 дней назад

    I been watching youtube for hours and it just nnow started glitching when i played your video. Meanwhile your video was the best video i seen alll night.

    • @itsamanda.f
      @itsamanda.f 17 дней назад

      @@jujus3468 LMAOOO not the glitch on a good video💀thank you so much that means a lot!!! Just speaking my truth!

  • @jujus3468
    @jujus3468 17 дней назад

    No THOSE PEOPLE ARE PLAYERS TOO AND TRYNA MAKE IT MAKE SENSE SO THEY STAY GOOD WITH YOU PEOPLE ARE SLIMEY

    • @itsamanda.f
      @itsamanda.f 17 дней назад

      @@jujus3468 YES BRO it’s all a game😭😭

  • @AnamNazir-tz7rz
    @AnamNazir-tz7rz 17 дней назад

    How does this only have 1000 views ?-?-?-?

    • @itsamanda.f
      @itsamanda.f 17 дней назад

      @@AnamNazir-tz7rz HAHA thank you! God will send it to the right people at the right moment-those who need to see it. Something meant for you will never miss you!

  • @alexeswright1668
    @alexeswright1668 17 дней назад

    I like how you call them higher power. This opened my eyes about the potential source of my intuition. I was just saying how God knows everything but i don't and neither do you. I told God to stop hiding and keeping secrets. Boy...... have things been churning... changing...

    • @itsamanda.f
      @itsamanda.f 17 дней назад

      @@alexeswright1668 yes! To me intuition is channeling your connection to God/Universe/higher power, hence why we feel like we know something-God is trying to send us a message

  • @misslulu3768
    @misslulu3768 18 дней назад

    How do you know the difference between anxiety/overthinking and intuition tho? - it’s a constant push and pull I experience

    • @itsamanda.f
      @itsamanda.f 17 дней назад

      You have to do a bit of self reflection. Think about what experiences may have made you feel that way or maybe there aren’t any. Be a little realistic but don’t overthink it. It should feel instinctive -that is, without conscious control or overthinking, you get this feeling around them. I also think it comes down to the feeling itself. If you feel like you’re sick/angry/down around them and it’s ONLY when you’re around that person (like no one else brings you this feeling), or it feels like you can almost predict their behaviors and feelings, it’s likely your intuition. For me, intuition is a simmering feeling. It doesn’t develop all of a sudden, but it simmers in the background when I’m around them and it feels ominous. But whenever you’re in doubt, ask the universe to send you a sign, and I promise it will!

    • @misslulu3768
      @misslulu3768 17 дней назад

      @@itsamanda.f thank you for the message :) I’ve dealt with people where I feel something is off and they’re almost trying to play a game with me or manipulate me - which is where I’ve caught this behaviour straight away and cut them off. But this time it’s more of an anxious feeling but I sometimes think maybe it’s jealousy or insecurity - and I don’t like feeling that way at all so I always try to see the best in the situation as I can’t believe that that person would be like that. It’s all complicated haha but I know I’ll figure it out and the universe will guide me 🫶

    • @itsamanda.f
      @itsamanda.f 17 дней назад

      @ yes it definitely can feel complicated when you only see someone one way. The universe will definitely guide you! Best of luck :)

  • @misslulu3768
    @misslulu3768 18 дней назад

    I love how real you are 👌

  • @KP-cy3nz
    @KP-cy3nz 18 дней назад

    Thanks girlie, this is what I needed today!

  • @pandapanda5899
    @pandapanda5899 18 дней назад

    I was looking for a sign, but it's difficult to believe when it's your best friend of years. She's genuinely a sweet person, but recently, I've been wondering if she's jealous and trying to be like me and if I shouldn't trust her as much as I do... I wonder if I'm the problem or if it is genuinely intuition. I've come to realise recently, I don't know her as well as I thought, whilst I've been honest and transparent with her, I think she's hiding a lot (i mean smaller things). I feel horrible for thinking things like this. Nevertheless, thank you so much for this sign. I've been thinking like this for a few months, and this might just be what I needed ♡

    • @itsamanda.f
      @itsamanda.f 18 дней назад

      @pandapanda5899 I get it I really do. It’s hard to believe someone you love and trust so much can really have bad intentions. However don’t let your bond with them blind you from your intuition. I’ve made that mistake too many times, thinking I’m the problem or it’s just insecurity, but I think as soon as you doubt yourself or try to convince yourself otherwise, that’s reason to believe you are right. Your gut knows you better than anyone and you really only have yourself in this life, so choose yourself over anything and anyone. It’ll save you a lot more pain to listen to your intuition instead of letting it show you who they truly are. It’s hard but it’s worth it. I wish you the best of luck and I hope everything ends up okay for you in the end🤍 I’m here for you

    • @pandapanda5899
      @pandapanda5899 17 дней назад

      @itsamanda.f I will definitely keep your words in mind when I am in doubt, Thank you so much for your kindness and genuineness ♡ I truly wish well for you, too, in all regards! We got thissss

    • @itsamanda.f
      @itsamanda.f 17 дней назад

      @ thank you!! We do got this!!

  • @makeitranereviews
    @makeitranereviews 18 дней назад

    Gotta listen to that gut feeling! Intuition is real 🙌🏻

    • @itsamanda.f
      @itsamanda.f 18 дней назад

      @@makeitranereviews 100%!

  • @nylahreece28
    @nylahreece28 19 дней назад

    No frrr thooo 😂

  • @Sxarflake
    @Sxarflake 19 дней назад

    [12:25] thank you! i've been having some doubts about alot of people around me and i think i'll sit down one evening and journal my thoughts down and see. altho i think its clear for some people when i've been having doubts about them for 1-2 years now haha also i hope you healed from your ex! him and that old "friend" doesn't sound good at all. him ignoring you from the begining was a huge sign! but whatever happens happens. i hope you can heal and move past this! 💌🌷

    • @itsamanda.f
      @itsamanda.f 19 дней назад

      @@Sxarflake I think journaling is a good idea! I get it, it can be hard to separate your intuition and your feeling of loyalty of your friendships. That’s why the decision to leave them is so hard. I hope you get your answers & heal either way. Thank you for your support regarding my ex. Definitely was a huge red flag but I didn’t want to end it for fear I would lose a good guy. The irony is that was bound to happen anyway. But now I know and I’ve been growing and learning and I am proud of myself for that. Wish you the best friend❤️

  • @isajoy2294
    @isajoy2294 19 дней назад

    this vid came to me just when i was thinking about someone, thank you ! great vid

    • @itsamanda.f
      @itsamanda.f 19 дней назад

      @@isajoy2294 glad it found you at the right time!

  • @TailsDollwimp
    @TailsDollwimp 19 дней назад

    ...or they are explaining their own thought process? Morality isn't inherent, and explanations are vital. They can be wrong, but an explanation doesn't make them wrong.

    • @itsamanda.f
      @itsamanda.f 19 дней назад

      @@TailsDollwimp there are some things that are just obviously wrong without saying (but I get it not everyone sees it as wrong) regardless if majority of people see it as wrong (like a societal standard, say, cheating) you’re not gonna get anywhere by trying to convince them and it comes off weird if you’re trying to explain yourself before someone even asks you why you did what you did. I see where ur coming from tho

  • @ogmattg8744
    @ogmattg8744 20 дней назад

    This is the same as someone trying to sell themselves to you. "I'm a great person."

    • @itsamanda.f
      @itsamanda.f 20 дней назад

      @@ogmattg8744 agreed unless they are discussing how they have grown from a situation (i.e. they’re going through the healing process to actually realize their self worth). But if they’re not doing that and trying to prove themselves to people who don’t care, yes

  • @mickeyshepherd3887
    @mickeyshepherd3887 20 дней назад

    I'm a dude on this video, but for yall girls. Trust your gut. Like I'm being so fr, you're not crazy. Yall got that spider sense I stg😭

    • @itsamanda.f
      @itsamanda.f 20 дней назад

      NAH LITERALLY I UNDERSTAND. Even my guy friend is like… yeah idk how you do it but BELIEVE IT

  • @not.this.anonymous
    @not.this.anonymous 20 дней назад

    My dad does sometimes lmao so you’re definitely not the only one but seems like your parents do it wayyy more 😭

    • @itsamanda.f
      @itsamanda.f 20 дней назад

      @@not.this.anonymous meh they do it randomly not like every day