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@@247BettermentThanks for your early belief in this channel Fritz! 😊🙏

@ anytime:) and Fitz 😜Short of Fitzgerald

@@247Betterment Oops! I knew that! Sorry am a little distracted. Fritz was the name of my Aunty's dog. Got it right on your channel at least! 😄 We have both corrected eachother re names - we're even now 😉 Well, almost! But who's counting 😂

Haha! All very well said David, clearly you are a man who thinks deeply too. I'm glad that you are having fun figuring me out! 😄 But yeah (this time) I agree with all you say! Woohoo! We can be on the same page sometimes 😉 Still don't think Mr Date Man was for me though, hehe. Glad I squeezed in another video for ya'll before your bedtime. Thanks for tuning in and sharing your wisdom with us all! ✌💛

Aw, thanks! 🥰🙏

Thanks for that Seajunkie! 🥰 (What's your real name?) That's good to know, and it totally makes sense to me too! I lost my dad when I was four, mum was my safety net and my best friend! I was so blessed to have a mother like her. I may have turned out very differently if it wasn't for her unconditional love! 💖 (Love you mama! 😇) Thanks girl, I'm glad that you found my channel! Thank you for your lovely comments and for checking out my vids! 🙏♥

@ hi again, my name is Caren. Looking forward to your channel growing 😄

@Seajunkie That makes both of us!! 😀 Thanks hun! 🥰❤

Hey Hey Fellow Introvert! 👋😀 Yeah, it would be nice if people didn't judge us for being quiet (hopefully most extroverts don't!) Haha yes exactly! Being quiet is better than endlessly yapping! That said, it is nice to have a mix of different types of people in the world, but extroverts shouldn't consider us odd just for enjoying or preferring to be alone. Again, we could consider them odd for always needing to have company! Let us all just get along and accept each other for being the way that we authentically are! 💛

Personal growth is a theme that has always resonated with me 😊 Thank you, I will continue to follow my intuition and see where it naturally leads me. I feel like I'm headed in the right direction now at least! Thank you! I'm not sure if the SPCA will always help me but getting free cat food and also getting discounted spaying/neutering vouchers was warmly welcomed and appreciated 🙏 Will film a new cat/kitten Vlog soon! 🙂

💯 Gaye 😊 It's good that we learn to be comfortable and happy with being on our own. I think it makes us better friends and lovers to those we do connect with. People enjoy being around people who are comfortable being in their own skin ♥

@@Gospelhandler233 Yay! 😀❤

@@movementofvitalenergy33 Yay! Just saw the new sub too! Thank you if that was you! 😁🙏 Also, good to know that RUclips is suggesting this random Vlog to people (or did you find me via the loner Vlog? 😄) Thanks for being here! 💛

Thank you! 😊 I agree with that! 💛

@@Kalifornia-ScreamingYeah, solid friendships are nice, but I'm equally content with friendly casual chit-chats with the locals - Then we say goodbye and get on with our own lives 🙂 Nice that you have family and friends! That too would be a full and happy life for me. I'm also content being peacefully solo and enjoying the company of my cats. It's a good life 🌞

Hi Emanuele, I'm sorry that you lost your wife and have struggled to find love ever since. There are millions of single men and women in the world who have the same struggles, so know that you are not alone! Keep living your life, doing the things you love. I hope that one day you will meet someone special, but I encourage you to make the most of life, with or without a woman by your side. All the best! 💛

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@EmanueleMartino-j4x Hi, no I won't be sharing where you live and I don't appreciate the sexual innuendo with the fruit.

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@EmanueleMartino-j4x OK all good, thanks Emanuele 🙂

Yeah, that quite possibly may have been the case. I was quite good at self-sabotage. At different points in my life, I have both been too clingy/needy and also had my guard up too much. Human psychology, gotta love it, lol. I feel most stable alone tbh. But I'm sure that won't always be the case. I'm sorry that your marriage was abusive. Did you have children together? That would make things extra difficult. Yeah, game-playing is never fun, it's immature behaviour. Some women may learn that this is how they have to behave to get a man to like them, but I'm sure it's not all ill-intentioned. I've never been a big fan of the word "submissive", sorry. I have debated about that topic a lot with a Christian friend. I understand the healthier version of it, but it still doesn't quite sit right with me. Masculine/feminine dynamics I do understand, but IMO it's good if the female doesn't completely abandon some of her masculinity and it's good if a man embraces some of his femininity. The pendulum should never swing too far in either direction. That's just my view though. You are entitled to believe whatever you want to believe and find a woman that you feel will match/compliment you best 😊

PS I also would say I'm a feminist in that I believe in equal women's rights. I don't know why men say that word like it's a bad thing. It's just not the focus of my channel but I do support women who do speak out for other women. ✌

@@HeidiNobel I guessed that word would make you cringe as it does to most women, and I guessed that you're a feminist and I'm comfortable just speaking my mind no matter if you agree or not. It's a beautiful thing when we can have different views and still be friends and show respect by being honest. I believe women are equal in value as human beings but that they are designed for a different role. Just like Jesus was equal to the Father and yet He submitted to the Father. We don't need to change each other's minds. Like I said I accept you the way you are and respect that we all have different experiences and our values are valid.

@@Gospelhandler233 Yeah, I'm glad that you don't hit that unsubscribe button just because I disagree with you 😄 Although maybe you would if I hard-core started debating with you, lol. Been there, done that. I may disagree on a few things here and there but I won't go too deep into it! So long as people are good people and do what they believe is the good and right thing to do, there's no harm in disagreeing 🙂 Most of us are also pretty set in our ways, and no amount of debating is going to change that. I think the reason I took everything so extremely personally with this Christian man in the past was because I so badly wanted things to work out between us and I tried everything under the sun to show him I was a good woman and wanted desperately for him to see (and selfishly follow) my way of thinking. The drama was intense and unnecessary. So it's really nice to have come out of all of that mess and be able to accept that we don't all see things the same way and that that's OK. We can still be friends with people who we don't totally see eye to eye with and that's a beautiful thing 😊

@@HeidiNobel i agree. i think despite us using words like submission and feminism, we probably would see eye to eye on most things if we really weed through it. if i thought you were a total bimbo, i wouldnt be subscribed or taking an interest in what you have to say. i think you and I both have been in the place where we were trying to change our partner, and we've come to the place now where we recognize that we don't need to do that anymore. hopefully in the future I can find a woman who agrees to submit. but honestly i don't even know exactly what that practically means or what it looks like. i know I'm going to be alone forever if i need a woman to not have a brain or opinion and to just do everything she's told. at the same time, there needs to be a compromise and I require the base line level of leadership and respect. a good way she can know if she is crossing a line is for her to ask herself, "could i say this to my boss at work in this way and still hope to keep my job?"

You just answered my previous question. Wow David, that's uncanny! One thing I hadn't mentioned in this video was that for years I imagined that Dad was just on holiday and would come back home one day. I couldn't comprehend the permanence of death. I hope that you do reach out to your daughter in the near future. Is it not possible to write her a letter? I take it that legally you aren't allowed to contact her? If so, I hope that changes one day and that you manage to rebuild a relationship with her. There's a show here in New Zealand called Missing Pieces. That's where they reunite parents and their children, often decades later! It's amazing how they still feel that instant loving, familial connection 💛 No, I have spoken about the loss of my father in previous videos but this is the first time I went into details of the night itself. From what little I remember!

@HeidiNobel thank you! Yes I'm legally prohibited from contacting them (i have two daughters but the second one was too young for me to really have a bond with when I was separated from them) I'm going to write them a letter when I can. It's a soft spot for me. Always makes me cry when I think about them.

@@Gospelhandler233 Don't love the situation but love that you will write them a letter and I am sending you my love! ❤ I'm sorry that you have been separated from them. I would be a bundle of tears if I were in that situation too and would think about them! I really hope that your story has a beautiful, happy ending one day! I'm sorry that my video made you upset. Sometimes it's good to release some of that pain though. Hang in there! All the best💛

@@HeidiNobel it's a good thing for me to feel my emotions, so don't be sorry. I made a lot of terrible decisions and i learned from them and I'm grateful I'm here to make up for it and I have a lot of hope for the future. it's all going to turn out for the better, i know! thank you!

@Gospelhandler233 It will! I'm happy for you that you are on the right path now! Life can be full-on at times. That's earth school for ya! If we play our cards right, we can grow and evolve and learn from our past failures. You've got this! 😁

Haha, thanks 😊 I do believe that we can manifest love into our lives. I might make a dream board one day. Not sure writing that down amongst all my other notes will make a huge difference though! But perhaps somewhere where I see it regularly. I'm not yearning for love right now, which is good! Often love comes when we least expect it and least need it. Are you still with the wife of your children Robert? 🙂

​@@HeidiNobel Yes my wife and I are still together. Kids are all moved out. Moved to Florida to enjoy the sun and beaches.

@rkphibb Amazing! Congrats and well done! Not many can say that in this day and age! I hope that your wife will also follow the earthing movement 😁🏖👣

@@HeidiNobel Haha I believe she will allow it. She puts up with my nonsense 😅

Hi Alice, thank you for your lovely comment 😊 Yes, that's exactly it! Feeling like an outsider looking in. I forgot to say that but I'm sure it will be said in a future video. It can be very lonely not feeling like you fit in with the world or belong! Yeah, I've never really had girlfriends that I do all those fun things with either but have been fortunate to at least have one good friend at any given time. Do you not have any friends? I'm sure you are very likeable, it may just be a social anxiety thing. I hope that you do find some soul buddies soon! Finding our tribe feels difficult, I know. It would be nice to have friends that we can completely let our hair down with. Trust that it will still happen. Have you tried finding friends via the Internet? Such as via Bumble BFF, or Meetup.com? I hope that you have some fur babies or a nice supportive family, that's important too. Lots of love! 💛

Good Morning Emanuele (or late afternoon for you!) Thank you, I hope you are having a great day too! 😊💛

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@@retrogamer82Yeah, that's true sadly!

@tonyryan43 Hi Tony, thank you for your message 🙏 Earlier today, prior to filming this video, I was thinking about what I would say, and it did still make me shed a few tears, even after all these years! Grief is something that is difficult to fully heal from. Now and then it still hits you. I also lost my mother, 30 years later. I will film a video about that on another day. I'm sorry to hear that your father lost his father in WWI, also at such a young age! And that your mother lost her brother in WWII and her baby girl! Losing a child is the most painful loss someone can go through, it's understandable that she never recovered 😔 I'm not sure what you mean by "I recounted the background of my concern in one of your posts"? This is the only comment I found of yours. I will check my "held" message folder to see if it's hiding there. If I'm comfortable with it, I will approve it 🙂 Thank you for your comment and for watching my video 🙏

@@HeidiNobel Thank you, Heidi. I have met so many women and girls who have been injured into withdrawal of some kind but after I wrote to you it suddenly occurred to me there must be just as many men and boys. How do they cope? Unwittingly, I think you have exposed a huge human wound that needs attention. Thank you for your courage.

Emotional trauma causes psychological and behavioral issues. The absolute root cause of any emotional trauma is disconnecting from the energy of unconditional love.

@@craig6744 No argument from me. After I wrote, I suddenly realised that the many women and girls reporting injury of this kind, hides the equal number of men and boys, also suffering. Heidi has exposed what I suspect is widespread but hidden social trauma.

@@jaredsmith4281 Sorry to hear that Jared, that must have been very traumatic for you all! Thank goodness he made it out alive! Good to guard scary details from young children I think. Thank you for your condolences 🙏

@@rkphibb Thank you Robert. It was nice getting three likes on the video right after posting 🙏

@@JohnMartinez-is9ov Same here 🙂 I don't like the name "loner" though, it's a bit insulting. I prefer being called independent, someone who can enjoy their own company. That's a strength not everyone has!

@@romemancer7905 Thanks Rome 😊🙏

Aw, thanks Oliae 🥰 I'm so glad that some people enjoy my ramblings, haha. I enjoy Vlogging. Thanks for being here 🙏

@@LivingLifewithJudith Thanks Judith! 😊 Yeah, lots of people prefer being alone. At first I thought your message was for my unedited go-with-the-flow video 😄 Looks like some enjoyed that too. Aleast viewers got to see the whole park! 😋

@@leonardbarber9598Aw, that would have been lonely! Amazing the ways we managed to entertain ourselves in the good old days! 😄💛

@@LivingLifewithJudith Aw you watched this one too 🥰 Thank you! No pressure to always tune in! Especially on weeks when I Vlog a lot (no pressure, ever!) 😘💛

@HeidiNobel I know! But I am home... I can't do much... so vlogs are always welcome!

@LivingLifewithJudith Glad you enjoy them Judith 😊 Vlogs can be relaxing to listen to while enjoying your morning cuppa or getting crafty. Thank you for tuning into mine 🥰🙏

@@romemancer7905 Haha! If only I saw lots of cat-walkers! Not many cats like wearing a harness 😄 I do walk past cats sometimes... try to be a cat whisperer... doesn't always work 😂 Thanks for tuning in to my very long, random, rambling video Rome! You are really helping kick my watch-time off to a great start, so thank you! 😊🙏💛

@@HeidiNobel Wow..Cat Whisperer..i like that..😁😺 and im not far from you..just down in the south part of OZ..so were on similar time.too !

@romemancer7905 That's great! Nice to have at least one subscriber who is not asleep! 😄 Speaking of which it's time I get ready for bed. Goodnight from little New Zealand 🌛

Hi Loner! 😂 (The only time it's socially acceptable to say that!) Living a loner life can be quite peaceful can't it? 😊 It's nice that we still have RUclips to feel connected! Real life interactions are important I think - but I'm a less is more kinda person! Thanks for stopping by again! 😁

Cheers,​@@HeidiNobel

@@romemancer7905 Haha, aw thank you so much! 🥰 You have a beautiful day or night too! 🌞🌛

@@Gospelhandler233 Aw, what a lovely comment! 🥰 I always love hearing from you David! Us quiet folk do have a lot of depth to us, and that's a good thing 😊 I hear you re trying to take an interest in people but not finding many interesting 😄 I connect more with my cats than I do people! I do enjoy the occasional friendly back and forth with random people, but finding true, long lasting connections is no easy feat! Thankfully I don't feel lonely too often because I am just so used to being alone! It hit me hard once my musical rehearsals and performances were over though! That's when I realised that I do actually love that sense of community. Perhaps you find that in the church you attend? 🙂 Once the show was over, we didn't really stay connected. Sorry that you also struggled at school! Thank goodness those years are over and we feel more comfortable in our own skin now! With or without friends! 😊

You're a wise man Robert! 😊 I recommend you check out the Earthing Movie on RUclips if you haven't yet done so! Thank you, I'm glad you enjoyed it. I may film another Vlog today if I feel inspired to share more 🙂 Keep 'em rollin'! 😁🎥

@@HeidiNobel You sent my life into a spiral. I finished the earthing movie. WOW. I spent a lot of time barefoot in my backyard today. Thanks for the recommendation. I never heard of this movie. My mother who loves studying nutrition and health had not heard of it either. She is excited to watch. Now I don't want to leave my house with shoes on 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

@rkphibb Haha! So glad you watched it Robert 😁 I know right!? I went all out and bought an earthing mat (a cheap and cheerful one) which I forget to use! I think grounding it directly into the earth is better than an outlet because, even though it is only connected to the grounding port, I still heard on another video that there can still be some dirty (was that the word?) electrical interference. I don't know if that's true, but when I tried sleeping with it I had very restless/vivid dreams. The only annoying thing about walking barefoot is the regular foot washing (I don't like to go to bed with dirty feet!) But it's a small price to pay for better health! I once took it too far, met my friend at my sisters cafe... walked barefoot all the way there in the middle of a hot summer's day. Ouch in more ways than one! 😂 Awesome that your mother is keen to watch the documentary too! I was reading about earthing via Reddit and Quora posts and thankfully stumbled across the documentary via a random comment. There were two other interesting RUclips videos where a woman tested blood samples before and after using an earthing mat. More longer-term studies need to be done! There isn't much money to be found in natural remedies, so why would scientists bother to research it. Plenty of skeptics out there, but I'm a believer. Glad you are too! 😀

@@HeidiNobel I live in Florida near the beach. I will go walk on the beach barefoot tomorrow. I now feel pressured to be barefoot. I am not ready to get the sheets or the grounding electric mats yet but I will probably obsess over it and do that too. Anyways thanks again! 😃

@rkphibb Florida, the beach, nice! 🏖💛 Haha! I obsess over things too, nice to find like-minded people 😂 Let me know if you feel any benefits over time! Enjoy your research! 😉

@@leonardbarber9598 Hi Leonard! Am doing well thanks! Hope you are too! Thanks for stopping by 😊

Thanks Robert! Thanks for the suggestion also. I have had viewers request that previously. Problem is that I'm not well travelled, not even in my own country! Sad eh!? I do still plan on travelling in the future and I will definitely create some Vlogs of my travels if I am still on RUclips then, but it won't be any time soon. No money, I also don't feel inspired to travel atm. Yes, I'm too much of a homebody, I also have struggled with my health throughout my life! Travel is just not fun when you don't have much energy. I am getting stronger though, one day it will happen (hopefully with a man by my side!) For now, though, you will have to search for other NZ channels where NZ info is concerned. I may still do some filming at the odd local event though. I know you weren't saying travel, but I don't know enough about NZ to confidently promote it.

@@HeidiNobel No worries, keep doing what works for you. Thank you for the nice response. Congrats on your increase subscriber count. Don't forget the original bunch when you are famous 🙂

@rkphibb Haha! Don't think I will ever be famous 😂 Of course I won't forget my cheerleaders/support team who found me first! 😀 It's nice to wake up to 4 new subs (and only nice comments). Some find me via comments I have left on other videos 🙂 Thanks for being here Robert! I hope that you will continue to find my videos interesting and/or valuable. I'm glad I haven't given up on this channel too soon. Vlogging is fun! 😁 Bye for now, have a lovely day! 👋🌞

Thanks sweet Judith, same to you! 😊 Yeah, I have started wearing less of it as I get older but I do still enjoy wearing it, and find it relaxing putting it on but it is nice to go makeup free some days! Lulu is only 5 believe it or not 🙂 I have walked her 3 times and it's difficult to get her to walk, she pops her head right out of her collar sometimes! Thankfully I have had a support worker and their son help me get her out the door. She is fine as soon as she is out the gate! She did pull then, as she was excited. I don't mind a bit of a running start lol. I think the wind hyped her up a bit. Yes, I'm very lucky to get paid for it! It's healthy for me as I also need to cycle for 20 mins there and back. Thanks! Vlogging after 5pm isn't the best time haha I still am self-conscious, but it does get easier the more you do it. Lol! Yeah it was so funny! The lady had to unwrap me! I'll be sure to chat to her more next time I see her. You know, she used to be pretty bossy towards me. Maybe karmically I am meant to meet her baha! She seems lovely now. I was just a very shy, over-sensitive child! I did feel I got picked on a bit more precisely because I was that. No idea about the greenhouse sorry! I will look into that and get back to you! 😄 Yes! I know you're Canadian but thanks for still answering the question! 😁 Greetings to you my loyal friend! 🤍

Cool! Happy you found it too Jared 😊 It's always interesting to me how people worldwide can connect via these online platforms. Thanks for being here! 🙏

Thank you sweet (insert name here). Can I know your real name or shall I call you Gospel?😊 My natural self has been a bit all over the place lately where my videos are concerned haha! That's all good though, I'm a woman, we have many emotions, and this is a nice platform to share them on 😄 I try to always be authentic and real, and I think that comes through. Thanks for being here buddy! 🙏💖

@HeidiNobel my name is David. :) i appreciate your feminine energy. I get a kick out of just listening and watching you just being your authentic and honest self. You seem like you know how to be with yourself and be content in your activities of daily living.

@Gospelhandler233 Nice to officially meet you David! 😊 Aw thanks! Yeah, I have always been on my own so am pretty comfortable with my own company now, even on the days I feel uncomfortable 😄 Love having you here! Don't feel pressured to watch every video. Just whatever resonates 😊🙏