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I can't text back right away and have to wait for my break or lunch so that I will piss them off and get punished. Like shock treatment. No thanks, I'm not a lab. rat

Childish behavior

We talked for almost 2 months and he was telling me that he likes me a lot, that I’m very beautiful and he wants something with me so I let my guard down. One day before he ghosted me, he told me that he was tired because he studied for exams and that he’ll write to me in the next day after his exam. He didn’t😂 I wrote him after 2 days, asking if everything is ok, but nothing.. he came back after 5 days, telling me that everything was fine, his exam was easy and I asked what was wrong then and he told me that “I’ll tell you when we’ll meet”, but he ghosted me again after 2 days and we never met😂 I told him that he shouldn’t play with other people feelings and that he should heal first of past relationships before trying something new and then he answered with “thank you, take care”… so yea.. some guys are complicated

The door can be locked on both sides. Remember that

Ghosters are cowards amd weak!

Grass is greener man has a reputation for coming back later and seeing that she has moved on. Much regret, lifelong.

I was ghosted by someone who told me she hates being ghosted. She told me one of her friends ghosted her I tjen asked her how that makes her feel, she said it pisses her off. Now she's ghosted me 😂. It sucked at the start but now it is what it is. No response is a response. The only thing I hate is the 10 months I wasted on being friends with her. Lesson learned.

When ghosters ghost cut the off . That's one of a long long list of problems you don't need.😂

My boyfriend has been ignoring me since the end of last month it hurts me so much cause I just can't forget him and I'm three months pregnant 😔

Once they knew that i knew.. i got ghosted. It took me a week to accept i was being ghosted.. and then the shame of lowering my standards to begin with had blown up in my face. Im not really even mad at them, im pissed at myself.

My ex bf just did 👻 for a week now and i may want him to explain his side but at the back of my head, this guy is crazy and i fed up on him. 😂Bye bye should be the endings. I just wish him well 💪🫰🏻

I am being ghosted currently. 3 months on Sunday. No idea why but I am NOT going to contact that f**ker first.

He said, "I've been busy working" Sure. I responded back. "I'm busy too, very busy, so busy, getting busy, getting busier by the minute, too busy ✌️"

Thank you so much for the clarity and taking the time to post this, very helpful

My wife of 20+ years and 2 sons later is ghosting me. I'm done with cowardly behavior. I'm 65 and I probably don't have a lot of life left.

Better shut the door permanently to ghosters who come back..They are bound to ghost again

Thanks Bijan ❤

Never give someone that ghosts you another chance. Especially if you have been in any type of relationship with them. They are only coming back to serve their own needs and use you. It's a Prelude of what's to come, if you keep taking this person back. Who wants to be with someone that cannot communicate and behaves in such a disrespectful manner?❤

We had a close couples relationship with another couple. They ghosted us and it hurt terribly. After a year they called us up and wanted to be friends again. I said “No, because you can’t be trusted!” Now they’re horribly nasty to us when we run into them in our small town. It’s sort of unnerving. I don’t understand their reasoning.

Bijan where did you go? Your video's are helpful and i click follow today

Dude stop beating around the bush you're a professional my goodness. They ghost you because their childhood upbringing their pussies and they don't have responsibility

My sibling ghosted me unexpectedly. Learned they are jealous, deep down want to hurt me and deny their nasty behavior. My previous predictable behavior whenever she treated me horribly was to try harder and do more things for her, I stopped that behavior, accepted she will not change. Is it worth fighting for this person, no, they are not who you think they are and it is too draining and unhealthy. Did Approach her in person saying are you angry and her response was I'm not going to talk about it. She is just very angry person, and will not talk about and address difficult relationship issues, and in denial of her mental illness also.

I simply don't agree with #2 from your 13 reasons to stop chasing people because they're are people like me that suffer from abandonment issues, haven't you ever thought of that?

Very good insight. I was ghosted after 1 date. The thing that is perplexing is that we spend a long time during the contact and we got along very well. I was thinking it was a good connection. Well, the next day I sent her a short text asking how her day is, no response. I waited 5 hours then texted "are you ok" no response. So 4 hours later called her went to VM, did not leave any message. It has been 4 days since the contact and she actually made plans with me for this Saturday to meet. I have not contacted her since that day she did not respond. Any suggestions or should I just drop her.

Its been nearly a year since she ghosted me. Haven't heard from her. I don't think she's coming back 😮

gr8 video

Glad mine hasnt come back shes a piece of shit 😂

A girl i was talking to for 6 weeks told me she is 4 years older than me ( i was a little shocked and i think she felt it😂) a day later she ghosted me ....inmature behavior don't need that kind of person in my life !

When they ghost they already won. Sadly. They love it!

Ghosters don’t always come back! You are giving people hope that doesn’t exist. The real question is if your ghosted especially in a long term relationship why do you want them back? They’ve shown you who they really are. No one deserves to be treated that way especially if you were living together and one day they just never show up. They even leave all their clothes toiletries etc so they never give you a clue they are deserting you and don’t want you in their life! 😢 These people are cowards and can’t deal with facing the truth that 1) they’ve been in a relationship with someone else at the same time and don’t want you to know they were cheating on you, or they pretend to have to go on a business trip leave all their stuff at your house and never come back. They are weak and emotionally stunted so instead of being honest they block your phone number so you are left emotionally scared and they just move on to their next lover, job or whatever else they had already lined up but don’t ever let you in on their secret 🤫 Be grateful they finally showed you who they really are and dont waste any more of your precious life on them. 🙏 😢Seek counseling or whatever type of support you need. You may be scared for life so take care of your emotional needs and remember this is about them not you 😢

The ghosted I know ( or thought I knew). She is immature, nefarious, needs help ( but doesn’t). Shame on her!

Run very fast and very far and find someone who actually wants to communicate with you

Ghosting is the last cowardly thing a coward will do.

You Speak with Excellent Sense and Thought ?

Yhank You Great Sincere Information !

when u get ghosted take that persons number out of your phone.dont look back.if that person contacts u say hello who am i speaking with.watch the response they give backfirst u will hear silence then u will hear u dont remember me or somthing like that and notice the shock they have by u not knowing who it was that called u.

They can never come back and they can't apologize. Because it's too late and that's why it's great to block. They don't get the choice to ghost me. And then I think they're gonna come back and say something jokes on them.

Its the same as bullies: They dont realise the damage they do by being cowards. Generally it doesnt bother me if I havent got to the point of actually meeting for real but when it has gotten to that point you owe it to them to give them an honest explanation imo.

I am avoidant which made him anxious. When he became avoidant, I became anxious.

stop swallowing ur spit so loud in between talking

Just don't there's never any upside to being with an DA....I just got out of a relationship with one I had for 4 months. The hole cycle start to finish is like dating a love phycopath. Best person you ever met at the start then they get feelings for you and treat you like shit for it. It's the most fucked up form of unintentionally abusing someone. It will damage you forever but barely effect them.

Ghosting is the worst thing you can do to someone like you meant nothing ever. It makes you feel desperate and stupid.

I hooked up with a guy, everything went well and he kept talking to me after it but then he told me he wasn’t ready for a relationship since he hasn’t moved on from his ex so he will take sometime to heal and maybe later we can try again. I was a little hurt and idk if it’s true but I respect it. I won’t reach out nor say anything since it’s not my job. If he comes back and wants something serious he has to work, I won’t move a finger. I definitely not need his validation. Whatever his issues are, he has to solve them himself. Thanks for the video

If the left/ghosted you they won't return. Ghosting is closure and best served when things are better left unsaid or when there's nothing left to say 😌

Love this - so easy to forget and get stuck in a negative loop. “Whatever we look for, that is what we will see”

I needed this

What do you guys think. I had a new manager last year. He was separated from his wife ( very ugly separation, not divorced, yet). He got a new girlfriend, they used to work together when he was still married. So anyway he started a new job where i happened to work. Felt for me ( he was trying not show bc he was my boss) but I sensed it. When he saw me very first time, I will never forget the way he looked at me. He had this puzzled looked, like he saw a ghost. Staring at me. It almost looked like it was love at the first sight for him. t least that kind of look you see in movies. I never forget this looked. I was puzzled too. He was trying to hide his feelings. I have to give him respect. We had work related relationship. He was my boss. He never crossed that line. He was afraid of his feelings. I could tell. But then 7 months later he suddenly quits this job. It did not worked out for him, problems with his own bosses. I was not aware at all ( I am a small person at this company and have no idea what is going on behind closed doors at my bosses’ offices ) that he was leaving and putted his 2 weeks. He saw me at work at his very last day ( I was not aware it was his last day either ). He did not say a word that he was leaving. He acted like it was his normal day. Even though he has opportunity to say something to me on his last day. We saw each other all day long. He even saw me 10Min before my shift was over in the hallway. Just walked by me without any emotions. Cold and stoic. That was it. It kind of hurt my feelings. We had no problems with one another. Just casual, work related conversations. Just both being professional. He always controlled himself around me. I felt it was very hard for him at times. I thought he could at least thank me for working with him bc he was my boss after all. But he just left abruptly like I was not even excited. That cold, stoic look all I remember in that hallway. Like he never knew me. When he walked by. Has been 6 months. Never heard from him. I am trying to figure out what was it all about? Can anyone help me with this? Thank you

Do they come back tho? 🤔

I derive great enjoyment out of ghosting the ghosters🤡🤡. I’ll make them feel good about themselves and then get my revenge by leaving the conversation hanging.