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Speak Lord!!!!!!

you forgot to say a lot of BLACK men. sorry to make generalizations but i have rarely met an emotionally available black man....African and Hispanic men however...are 9 times out of 10 emotionally available

Go with the flow = selfishness cloaked in pretense.

"He didn't leave you. I REMOVED him." (GOD) "Rejection is often GOD's protection. Take comfort in knowing that whatever is for you, will not pass you by. It obviously wasn't meant for you. Stop thinking that something is wrong with you. Everything will come into your life at the right appointed time. "Sometimes, the BREAKUP is the blessing." (Tyler Perry)

Thanks for this 🙏🏾

What if you & you ex still communicate from time to time, she still wants you but in a situation where she’s just going with the flow & says it’s complicated. What do they mean by that?

Honest question - but if a man has/had a preference and always only dated that preference/type of woman, even if they found someone entirely different they say they love, wouldn’t they possibly have a wandering eye or when things get hard in the relationship, it be easier for them to return to what was the original preference? Sorry for the run on sentence! Trying to make the question clear. lol

Is 7 weeks too early to ask this ?

Make more videos please 🙏🏾

Thanks for the message, definitely needed to hear it

Men are stupid 😂😂😂😂

I know this guy for 2 years we were friends first, then we had some intimacy but nothing tooooo much out of it. All good, I had to move from 1 county in Europe to another and we were never too much of a big deal. Recently I came back to basically the same city where we met and some months before coming back, he started to reach out and really coming after me, asking things, being presente and straight forward with his intentions, so we reconnect and start texting but still very chill…now has been 2 months that we’ve been going ona few dates and texting (because we live pretty close by but still not in the same city) but, almost a month ago he stopped texting the same way, often doesn’t reply my messages or reply one out of 3/4 messages that I sent and then sends me something nothing related to what was in the messages. I asked him if everything was okay, if something changed, that I was feeling him distant and also said that I enjoy being with him and I’ve been wanting more connection but because of how things were happening I wasn’t sure if he still want that and so on….he was in a work trip so he said that he would be coming back in the next day and he would be able then to reply for my text…proceed to not answer me for 7 days and then when he does he says "let’s not make it difficult or a science out of it , that he really likes spending time with me, has been missing time with me as well" and after that fells like im trying to get an appointment with him every time we try to see each other, he tries to make dates but just when doesn’t mess up with the rest of his week. I’m reading this wrong ??

It's hurtful when the person you loved chooses someone else. He wants back into my life but is blocked. If a man doesn't appreciate my presence then he's not worth being in my life anyway. 💯

Can we also talk about the “go with the flow” kind of men that goes out of his way/put on this mask like he wants an exclusive relationship with you? Does and says the right things intentionally and then later on switch up? This video put out great facts, but I wish that was talked about more 🍵

exactly!! Wise words

This sounds legit but a lot of men don’t even know how to lead. So that alone throws everything off.

Wow. I’m sure you were trying to help with this video, but this just made me feel worse than I already was. Basically you’re saying it’s our fault the guy chose the other girl over us. Thx!

Found this because I searched "what is struggle love" because the way people describe it, basically, if he has money, and we're together, it's not struggle love. Which is wild because some people with money are not good people. I really love that you broke down struggle love beyond physical means. If my life has taught me anything, it's that resources come and go as do physical things. It's all replaceable. I feel it's silly to base love off of physical things and to an extent money, although that is important. I can get things and money on my own. He can get things and money on his own. This clarified a lot of what I've been feeling about what struggle love actually is. Thank you. 💜

This is very true no again. There's obviously exceptions to the Rule. And it really depends on the woman because if she really likes you She wants nothing more than your time in attention and to be in a relationship with you.. Now with that being said if she starts to pull away or say I want to go with the flow Uber going to fast. It can mean multiple things This is where clarification comes in. Now if she wants to go slow because she's been hurt in her past Let's use that as an example. It's something that needs to be discussed because her past experience is ruining her present experience she's bringing the past into the present. Saying I don't wanna get hurt again or whatever the situation is. Without fully understanding that you are not that guy.. What at the same time as men you can't Logic Explain to women. Because they go off of how they feel.. So you only have 2 choices in the matter You could go with the flow And literally that relationships probably going to come 2 and end You're just avoiding the inevitable. Or you could talk about it and come to a solution. Now it depends on the woman If you think it's worth it if you want to put the time in.

Women need to learn submission, men should be given there place 💕

~ "let's take it slow" ~ "let's see what happens" ~ "let's go with the flow" Unless both people are very clear on their expectations from the get go, these arrangements can [& will] set people up for disillusionment, disappointment, hurt & betrayal in the long run 😢

Just bought it on Amazon

Amen

That's my cue to wish him all the best in all his endeavours and find someone who isn't just looking for a place holder. The one guy I dated who wanted to go with the flow was 38, never married no kids but desperate to start a family but wanted to go with the flow. Our convoys fizzled and 2 years later when I saw his FB he was still single and 40 now. In my experience go with the flow men are users or just genuinely clueless in what they want. If you want a life of purpose, stability and direction steer clear or risk wasting your own time.

#4, stay away from me! Don’t waste my time! He got me invested after months of dating and when I asked if we’d progress to more, got rejected and said he’s not interested in a relationship right now. Truth is, he’s ready for a relationship… just not with me.

I totally agree

Thanks mate

how can i properly tell/introduce this to someone i am close to? i see them falling into a deep father less personality

we woman appreciate you....

Thank you!

You're right, bruh. 😅

Ahh really good thank you for these words of wisdom

Men deprive others of love so much, boys become targets for enmeshment from many members of society probably as they are not able to defend themselves yet and people are so starved for validation from men. Its a cycle. If grown men were more present that would take the pressure off of boys but they are just remembering the fear of childhood so they stay guarded. So the cycle continues. A truly evolved person has to both process the pain and fear of childhood and decide to create a different pattern for the next generation at the same time. Without people like that, patterns just cannot change. Its okay for boys and men to feel scared, to feel victimized and until they realize its safe to admit that, they will not heal. There is also the element of shame obviously and many men cajole others to be complicit in doing wrong especially toward women just to not feel alone in their shame and self-loathing.. it has obviously become a big problem - just something men refuse to acknolwedge - shame hurts too and men need to address their shame for themselves instead of being afraid of being condemned.

Went with a girl who tells me "I'm going with the flow." My flow could be different from hers. lol

He didn’t choose you because it was God’s plan. Not because any of the things he is saying in here.

what you're talking about with son and mother is called emotional incest, as the boy tends to be their emotional support

men that express their emotions tend to be more susceptible to being emotionally manipulated by men or women however if they understand how emotionally manipulative people "operate" and trusting their intuition

wow.... that's why a lot of males are like this, it all stems on daddy issues. there's like a lootttt of people i know who doesn't bond with their dad (including me) and i noticed their similar behaviors which is restraint of emotions edit: wait... so u're telling me misogyny can be rooted from daddy issues?? or maybe i interpreted that wrong since English isn't my first language edit: bro.. i just realized how many people on tiktok have daddy issues, men and women

Rule number 1, don't be with a man who wants to go with the flow.

Thank you!

2:57 Where the other video at ?

Finally the world realises that not only females deal with this

Thank you for explaining the differences. I will normalize confidence. You're the best!!!!

Very good advice

This is important and very true,causes men to shut down and avoid expressing emotions. I know a guy who has both mummy and daddy issues and it's sad because i truly care for him but i can't help him he has to want to heal by himself.

YES! We must be intentional when we date. Time is too valuable to waste.

Here because of Kendrick Lamar didn't l needed this but I need this

Yup I’ve started to ignore guys who only text when they ask for my number. I’m not with the daily good morning good night texts from someone I never talk to or go out with. Waste of my time.

So true...

Fuck men like that really