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This video deserves more love.

I guess she wants NRI men for marriage and getting continuous rejection..and making frustration videos here....

Aren’t spouse superset of friends ?

I am having frnds now also aftr 35yrs of gap also our generation dint roam or talk much but we are now also do mch close to all

Everyone is gangsta till the baby arrives 😂

I am happy being alone as I am an extremely Introverted man, this was the time I always wanted and I am happiest than ever

NRImen or any of the men have no obligation towards any woman / girl. You are sounding entitled as well as delusional. Madam, like women men too can have preferences. if dont agree, dont marry. you have no right to bash them here for their choices. its because of entitled women like you that men are prefering not to marry at all.

Well unfortunately people are bad and they always judge, distrustful, opportunistic hence we are seeing real connections are rare to have

I thank myself. 2 decades of Chinnamasta Sadhana keeps me on my toes 24*7. Chinnamasta Devi is my Best Friend & Worst Enemy......

Laugh whole world laughs with us. Cry & we cry alone.

Sukh he sab sati, Dukh me Na koi.

God is the Only person who will stand by us in Bad Times. Friends have their own Responsibility & commitments.

We have our own house and still spend 50k a month in Bangalore. Hats off to you guys.

Ik I posted an negative comment in your other video, but this one was really great. I just realized that things that happen with me happen with many.

Your husband looks like a smart guy!!

Heyyyy ... I've been there too! Did you try their caramel custard? And their masala papad while you wait for the pav bhaji?

Did they have a sardar's cardiologist on standby? 😂

Thank you for your comprehensive advise on living expenses in Bangalore. I lived there between 2002 - 2008, but expenses have exponentially increased all over the world (especially here in London), but Bangalore seems still a reasonable destination for working & living. My biggest concern is the 10 months rent in advance which has to be negotiated down to 6 months to make it manageable. Otherwise, this is a huge drain on resources. Nevertheless, based on your video content, I'd again consider returning one day. ThanQ.

Most toxic video ever found 😂😂

If we make a video on what women REALLY want, it wont fit into a youtube video, it will be a netflix series....

7.06 so what wrong with a guy having preference in education. A guy with commerce/arts degree have zero or very less chances with nri women. At least women still get matches. Many Punjab guys sponsored their wife degree,most women left their husband. Lot of them even committed suicide. Bbc channel covered it.... . Women families are so concerned about networth in India. They want guy to disclose every assets they ken . If same thing guys family ask,it become dowry issue. There is minimum cutuff of networth in my community. 15-20cr plus big package is mandatory as men are born to provide everything for women and their family. They are see it as lottery. Family who ask "networth" of the guy have no right to cry about dowry. Indirectly asking guy networth apart from salaries is nothing but dowrry he is getting for his parent.

Appreciate your honesty!

Although this video came as a bit of a shocker to me, I do respect your views. As someone who was born in India and bred overseas and is actively searching for a bride in India, I sympathize with your predicament, and I am sorry that you had to deal with such a distasteful experience. I can only imagine how tormenting it would be for others who are going through a similar story with overseas/NRI grooms. 😕 Having been raised in a conservative family setting all my life, believe it or not - I have more than anything only looked up to women in India, thanks to some really distinctive qualities such as a combination of deep-rootedness in cultural understanding, depth in knowledge, willingness to balance work, life, and family - to name a few. For many living abroad, what's often understated is that parental discretion and intervention also take a massive toll on their marriage decisions, sometimes prompting some dreadful motives leading to the outcomes like you mentioned - completely out of men's control at times. I neither disagree nor agree with any of your statements but would like to mention that not all of us NRI men have any set expectations from women back home - some of us, including me myself, embrace the inclusivity, friendliness, and broadmindedness that we see in you.🙂

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I can’t stop laughing because none of what you’ve said applies to me or my 100+ NRI friends chilling in the most prominent Western countries. But hey, misunderstandings are like Bollywood melodramas-avoidable with a little explanation. So here’s my attempt to clear things up: 1. "Why do NRIs prefer brides in the same country?" It’s not about looking down on women in India-it’s about VISA RESTRICTIONS! (Yes, those dreaded immigration demons.) The paperwork? Nightmarish. The chance of rejection? Very high. The timeline? YEARS. (Ask me how I know.) No one’s signing up for a long-distance marriage that feels like a Netflix series stuck in buffering mode. But hey, not all NRI guys are like this-some genuinely prefer Indian-born-and-raised brides. It’s a matter of preference, not prejudice. 2. "We’ll stay abroad for X years and then move back to India." Why? a.Our visas might expire by then. b.Many of us are here temporarily-earning, saving, and planning to return to where our hearts truly belong. Instead of overpromising, we’re setting clear expectations upfront. Honesty deserves appreciation, not skepticism. Would you prefer sweet lies? Didn’t think so. 3. The Gold Digger Conundrum: In one breath, you said, “What if the girl doesn’t want to come back to India?” and in the next, you joked, “Where’s the gold for us to dig?” Ma’am, I think you answered your own question there. (Mic drop.) 4. "Quality of life might be better abroad, but a person might prefer everyday comfort of maids, drivers, etc." Please clear the definition of "Quality of Life" in your head. 5. Nanny vs. Kid Costs: In India, you can hire a nanny. Abroad, it’s a unicorn-level luxury. But raising a kid? That’s an expensive global sport-healthcare, education, everything costs a kidney and half your soul. The math adds up everywhere. 6. Why CS/Engineering Brides?: It’s not about limiting choices; it’s the job market. Women today prefer careers over being stay-at-home moms, and that’s amazing! Besides, who wouldn’t want an equal partner hustling alongside them? 7. "Sponsor my master's degree." Newsflash: My parents sponsored mine, and now I’m broke with tuition debt piled sky-high. You asked for equality-here it is! Split the bill; let’s both suffer student loan trauma together. 8. "NRIs marry women from India because they don’t get anyone abroad." Nope. It’s just about finding the right partner. Trust me, proposals are NOT the issue. We’re picky, not desperate. 9. "Your friend waited 7 months for a guy to finalize." Y’all thought it was finalized; clearly, it wasn’t. Not every NRI drags their feet, though. Most of us are as eager to move forward as you are-just minus the drama. 10. "NRIs have a long list of expectations." You wanted equality, and now you have it. Expectations are no longer one-sided. Sounds unfair? Welcome to the real world! And finally: God himself had blessed the NRIs who rejected you, and may He doubly bless your husband now 🙏

No Mam. We are looking for a groom from India who can tame our daughter to our culture & religion

Wow, it was good to hear your thoughts. I am in the same process and surprised about almost everything you said. Thank you for providing this perspecitive

But they are upfront of their expectations like coming back to India. I agree with expenses. It should be changed but at this time dowry is also widely accepted so we are expecting a lot. Agreed should be opposed nevertheless. Fund masters is just too much 😬

Everything you said does not apply to an average pool of "NRI Men!".. You need to have a mature and nuanced perspective about potentially sensitive topics like these..!

Thankyou so much for that detailed insight, it’s always nice to know a brutal one sided truth! This is in the nick of time when my friend is in talks with a dude who’s holding a visa. Definitely showing her this and if any perspective she gets from this would be of so much help.

not an NRI, but you will meet all kinds of people in the world, great folks and the folks you talk about!

To the people saying that she is playing a victim card or living in the 90s. Sorry, she is spitting facts. 2 years ago before I came to USA for masters(my own money), I was sent a rishta of an NRI who was 10 years(or more) older than me because he got rejected by my cousin who is working in USA. The dude's family tried level best to gaslight my parents and my parents said no, his family ridiculed my Indian CTC, my looks and worse kept abusing and pestering my parents for months. Worse, it isn't like our NRI was minting money in an HFT, he had no Indian work ex, went straight from an Indian no name college to a no name USA college and was working a server maintenance role in some no name company in the US while I was working with a decent salary in a Fortune 500 company in India.

very biased seems you got pissed off by some NRI groom. sorry but there are lot more problems for NRIs than you think . Staying there is very hard and those expectations formed due to stressful environment there. If you cant take it or its too much please dont seek NRI men.

Its just her perspective and experience, Video is completely biased towards women without any research on the explanation. 4:32 Most of the NRI men you said, how many you dated or went for a match or conversation? 100 or 1000 or 10000? We have 32 million NRIs in 2023 and on what basis you mentioned most of the NRIs ? 2:23 Women can have multiple option of men when it comes to marriage and keep priority based on various factors like income, looks etc why cant men prioritize? Everyone has their own choices and its fair. Here it doesn't matter if he is NRI or not. 4:09 why not? Even girls dictate many things just create a profile on matrimony website as a boy and see the expectations and dictation from girl end. Yes girls also mentioned they want boys without parent or settled in different countries as well. What about that? 4:47 Yes there are women's who are gold diggers, again create a men matrimony profile and you can experience the same. Gold digging based on the salary NRIs get that's why they leave all comfort zone. Salary, income, wealth, alimony after divorce all are there to dig gold. 7:23 If girls are independent why they need specials laws and regulations? They file divorce and and false allegations and dowry and many cases, against men and ask for alimony for entire life even though they earn. Why girls want every thing free and also law protect them even though they misuse? For more info on this follow Deepika Narayan Bhardwaj 8:09 its people chose what they want. 9:48 many women break marriage after engagement and even after few days after marriage, again its their choice and what they want in their life. And their experience and expectations which change over time. 10:58 Again girls also reject after many months. There is no statistics its not applicable only for men. 11:42 If you want some rare item you have to pay price for that. That's how world works. NRIs are less compared to overall population and they have their own worth. If you don't want to pay dowry or gifts marriage an Indian guy. There are many men and family who doesn't take dowry or gifts. When girls want something and expectations why can't boys have? Men pay all bills even though girl don't earn but women rarely pay the same when men don't earn or they just leave men don't earn. This is actual gold digging. 13:31 it was old times when girl leaves everything, now its not the same. Even boy leaves many things and adjust with girl. They move away from parents and many other thing they scarifies because a girl entered in their life. Where is the recognition for that? Victim card every where. 13:54 There is nothing called truth, everything is perspective. Ultimately, Don't blindly create videos without scripting and research when you mention something. The video is just a victim card played. Last question, why you want to marry an NRI men or high net worth or income earning men, if you are independent and earning more? The truth is women never date or look or respect a guy who earns less than them, but men don't. that's the reality and accept that. Do social experiment and create men profiles on social media, matrimony and you realize the reality. I am not sure why I am triggered, and writing this by wasting time, anyway that was my choice as well. And its a public media and I have right to give my perspective as well. May be I am frustrated with all these dramas and victim cards played by women on all social media to seek attention. May be I am also contributing now to give attention which is bad. I want my time back. If anyone reads this don't try to look for my personal details

Let’s stop saying NRI. These are guys on visa who have temporary jobs and can be made to come back any time. Unless a guy is established, it is wild to marry off with someone on a “tourist” visa and one who expects you to struggle like him in a different country. 😂

She has definitely been rejected by an NRI 😂😂. Most of the things in the video do not make any sense and are just fake feminist POV.

Tf is this redpill content? Radfems should just get a life

Please do a detailed video on matrimonial apps from the perspective of girls, boys and NRIs. It'll be an excellent video both for the channel's outreach as well as for the audience. Thanks!

I think most NRIs have a bit of superiority complex in general not only for marriage matchmaking. Lot of very mediocre people moved abroad in last 15-20 years through various routes and and they are living very mediocre life there. But they always try to show off and talk about their high quality life abroad whenever they get opportunity. They expect people in India should treat them like stars. This attitude comes out more during matchmaking process.

In South India ( Hyderabad, Vijayawada, Guntur areas) IF a Boy want to Get Married especially girls expectations are like below. - Lot of Anstral property at least worth 4cr + - 25 - 30lpa is not a good salary. - Girls want a boy who is only white in Colour. - Having a Stomach and belly fat means big big noo. - If you are Bald then...very difficult to get married. - Parents should not depend on Boy's income. - 3BHK house immediately after marriage in paush Gated community. - Car is mandatory.

Please can you release at least 1 vedio in a week...By the weekend if possible...please...I have opened your channel 4 - to 5 times on Saturday and Sunday. to see if you have posted any new videos...

Did you make a video on why you chose your husband? Asking since you made one about your husband choosing you.

Thank you so much. Such sage advice from a smart and pretty girl!. My daughter is doing her Mbbs and I'm worried that she is incredibly dependent on me. Your logical and clear cut thinking will make a lot of sense to my daughter . Kids sometimes don't listen to parents but she will listen to a smart peer like you.

Well, from NRIs pov, to the point of CS grads, I feel it makes sense as I think that's easy for me to help you get a job!

Very informative! As an Indian guy, never thought NRIs had such high expectations

Now a days girls don't want to move out of India ,so boys have limited search😂

Did you like it? I loved the lounge at T1 than T2

My experience is like not all maids are same. Mine is very punctual. Expects hike yearly. Expects diwali bonus and does a decent job as well. If one of the houses she works in are on vacation, she spends extra time for me doing some extra eork too. Blessed to have her. I have a cook too. She wont do those extra work like the maid but does decent work of what is exactly told to her. I stay in bellandur

What gadgets do you use for bathroom cleaning

Why are you talking Like that as if you are biting