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I enjoyed your interview with Emily & am glad she has become a part of OSP. I would like to know how to get further information regarding her services. How can I get in touch with her? Thank you, Janet

I am kresolved not to cause any problems- I would rather just go

Let the nasty ones rot!

This is such a well done and important video👌🏾

How much does it cost

How much

Your children didn't ask to be born. Plan for your elderly years instead of expecting someone else to do it for you.

When I was a carer we went to a client. She was just lying in bed 24/7. She was never consiouıs.. Basically she was gone but body was here. I thought this is so cruel. Who benefits from this the big pharma companies...

Great reporting!

Charter Research is such a great asset and Crystal is a wonderful human being!

"Congress is trying to work out the problem, but its daunting" Not suprised. Congress is practically a nursing home. Go figure.

'promosm'

Only one way to manage an elders care without having to use their children's money. They need to be on Medicaid and then everything is covered. They will garnish the Social Security check minus $40. for personal needs.

How sick this world is pray for this to End😂😮😢

Too easy, stop privatzing!

The Golden Girls doesnt seem so funny now

This is one of the hardest decisions a family will be required to make. My grandmother who raised me lived to reach a little shy of 100. Her eldest daughter placed her in a nursing home after a hospital discharge for a fractuted wrist in Wichita, Ks. She convinced her two sisters, one in Chicago, Il and one in New York, NY to come to Wichita to determine her fate. They all conspired together like the witches in Macbeth to confine her to a nursing home. My grandmother completed the rehab and the rigorous therapy, yet the nursing home refused to release her. She called me a month later pleading that I get her out of a nursing home. I was approximately 47 at the time was overcome with fear as I knew my aunts and mother were going to raise hell. I assured my grandmother I would help. She was 95 at that time. I lived in Washington, DC at that time. I prayed and fasted for a 90-day period regarding another matter so my heart was closer to the Lord. I summoned the courage and went to rescue her out of a nursing home. Her eldest daughter in Wichita stole her home 20 years prior and was collecting rent from it, stole everything of value and made sure she could not return back to independent living in her apt. She then tried to make it a crime for me to visit my grandmother, but she was unsuccessful in doing so. My grandmother who was of sound vigorous mind helped me strategize her escape. After months of the nursing home stalling and encountering screaming threats from her daughter threatening that she would sue the hell out of the nursing home, my grandmother returned to independent living. Everything she owned and accumilated over her lifetime was outright stolen from her daughter. My grandmother was liberated with only a generic depend on her bottom and they kept her long enough to get the social security check for that month. I found her an apartment ADA certified and outfitted her apartment with furniture. Her youngest daughter purchased a shower transfer bench and she lived her remaining four years outside the confinement of a nursing home. This was at the onset of the Affordable Care Act, and when I sought out skilled nurses to come to her apt daily, as prior, a director of an agency screamed at me through the cell phone. I read to her the language on the medicare website to the director of the home health agency regarding seniors living at home in comfort with healthcare in place. She yelled that'd what they say, but that is not what they do. They (the government will not pay us). So it was an unfunded mandate as all the money was transferred over to ACA because that populace is young, robust and healthy. So it was the convergence of a perfect storm with all odds against my grandmother. Then her devious first born daughter and son switched out her insurance years ago to Humana from Blue Cross and Blue Shield. All hospital bills were not paid and the state of Kansas picked up the tab and charged her a spenddown that was owed monthly. The apt where my grandmother lived was a driveway length from her firstborn daughter. Her daughter refused to lift a finger to help her. Instead she roused up an army and had her children serving as soy agents to report all activities taking place in my grandmother's apt. Although, my grandmother's mind was robust, she was sharper than a tact, her body had weakened considerably, and in good conscience could not leave her like that. I stayed and was her primary caregiver exhaustingcmy savings by getting her to and from doctors appts and acting as an interpreter between the medical practicioners and my intelligent grandmother. Her daughter who lived a parking lot away did nothing for my grandmother and worked toward the accleration of her death to collect an life insurance policy. My grandmother lived in a food desert and I walked 3 hours to the grocery store to make sure she ate nutritious food. During rain, hail, sleet and snow storms, and tornado warnings, she would not check on her mother. It was a nughtmare, notwithstanding her granddaughter whom she raised alongside me, called the Adult Protective Services on my grandmother with me being the focal point 8 times!!!! In the the end 2 months before her departure, my grandmother told the two social workers who came out to interview her, "My daughter lives right across the street, she could come over and scramble me an egg, but she will not help me. I anit ready for no care home, but when I'm ready you will be the first ones I call." She died less than two months later. As for me the caregiver, it was the hardest journey I've traveled and I was not prepared for the Crocodile/Leviathan spirit of continual venom, vitriole and backbiting and the horrible lies that were told to disparage me publically. I did it all with continuous roadblocks and ditches dug fot our downfall. I was not perfect, as this was being on the cross of crucifixion. My words of advice is to place your complete reliance and trust in God on this journey with caring for the elderly, for it is not an easy one to endure. But if you endure and do your best with God's help, there is laid up for you the words spoken from God, ,well done my good and faithful servant, enter into REST!!!

I find lack of services for #seniorfinancialmanagement #elderlyfinancialmanagement We must provide seniors, elderly, with #bookkeeping for their #finances . If average adults are not good in their finances. Why are elderly services lacking support for this? Especially when there are family members disagreement. Unless going to court for declaring incompetent, elderly bills issues are a nightmare! They are NOT incompetent! Otherwise, most of the population would be incompetent!

20:00 PLANNING is the most important part. However some parents do not want to have this conversation. Some, like my mom, are afraid of death. Or it's cultural issues also, and lack of #financialeducation . But as responsible children, especially knowing we will be the recipients of their stubbornness, if we can we make the decision. Looking back now, I did this against my mother's own will. I made the house handicap ready before she needed it, against her will. Mom 92 is still able to move about. But needs support and has mind slipping sometimes. but lying to manipulate. I've had so much resentment from the siblings who have to include her care now in their daily life and no longer be visiting family members. They were used me taking care of everything for her. It's okay to accept help. We each reap what we sow. God is good.

4:00 (edit)👆major LIE! 🤥The UNAFFORDABLE healthcare act gave more PROFITS to Insurance companies, lawyers are UNTOUCHABLE so litigation is rampant! ADDED STRESS, ROBBED elderly from having funds available. How? It did NOT address: 1) lying lawyers (litigation) who have drs practicing defensive medicine because they are scared of legal actions. 2)Insurance companies that do whatever they want! An insurance agent who never ever attended medical school, is the one making decisions for doctors and pharmacists! Agents decide how long a patient stays in hospital; what medications we are allowed and dosage after a surgery, for ex. Politicians are the worse! We no longer get vicodin, percocet toradol for pain. These for short term do not cause addiction. Now we are prescribed brain altering medications that cause hallucinations; cause animal and people to act crazy! What are doctors doing!? Nothing. Been too scared. Well, American Medical association 30+ years ago sold out drs to these guys in government!

75 and no one im planning on leaving before im at the mercy

Private Equity Groups are Buying up all of these Nursing Homes and Visiting Nursing Agencies lately! Profits for their CEOs and Stockholders are the Main Priority! This is 2023 and job ads now offer only 15.00 - 19.00 an hour for Certified Nursing Assistants! (in NJ) Now they must carry Malpractice Insurance and be State tested and licensed too. It is all about the money- unsafe understaffing is burning out the dedicated healthcare workforce too! ( all and only to Boost Profits!)

Fortunately I never had to deal with this, partly because my parents both died before they got really old, and I wouldn't have taken care of them anyway because I have my own life to live and Didn't want to be burdened by a couple of useless geriatrics. I have no kids and if I can't take care of myself I 'ok take the quick and easy way out rather than selfishly burdening others.

When my mother was in her sixties and still extremely healthy, she told me that when she got old, if I couldn't take care of her, to put her in a nursing home and the government would pay for it. She developed dementia at 83 and after several years, sure enough, I couldn't take care of her and had to put her in a nursing home and sure enough Medicaid paid for it. She decided she was back in her college dormitory (the best time of her life) and had a lovely time up until about a month before her peaceful death. I am so grateful.

Maybe I should thank my parents for being so toxic and all the abuse. I sure won’t be a caregiver to them. If I “cared” for them the way they cared for me I would b screaming at them, swearing, telling them they are “worthless piece of sh*t” (yes, that’s a quote) and pushing, slapping, punching, kicking, etc…them.

Having gone through looking after ageing parents in law and now with my mother, I would say having a plan and preparing, even too soon, is imperative. I know you are not exaggerating the emotional, and financial toll on the family members. And I realize that my husband and I are mid baby boomers. There will be a lot first decade baby boomers ahead of us taking all those spots in nursing home other types of assisted living.

Assisted living everywhere is a horror. If possible, make your home their home!😇

I wish more people would wake up to this crises. My parents are both gone now but this is exactly what we went thru with them. The thing they don’t cover here is the “mental anguish” in dealing with an elderly parent’s attitude….who doesn’t want to be told what to do and doesn’t want to give up their car, or their bank accounts and believes they can still take care of themselves. They don’t realize they’ve lost their grip… my dad swore the assisted living facility we put them in was a couple of miles from his favorite restaurant…only it was a good 40 min. away….that was a fun argument!

How disgusting riping off elderly!!

I am 71 I look after my mother all by myself she is 101 I’ve done this for 15 years since my father died. It’s a 24 seven 365

So typically American to focus on costs rather than personal needs of elderly! How many family members are able to spare time to be patient with their slow reactions, to do what THEY want done rather than what's convenient for oneself, or provide care at the elder's convenience rather than one's own? Not that they don't want to (many don't even understand), but do they have the time? Results in feelings of guilt. On the other hand, elders feel ignored or neglected even though cared for by family with nothing to mitigate their frustration at bring dependent.

I'm a celibate autistic author who works at home and assists my parents. Mum has an injury which requires her to use a cane and my Dad has arthritis from sports injuries. The tasks are light and your parents are your lifelong friends. I'm celibate as I grew up with adults and got jilted by most young women who were not even right for me.

I just hate the expression "ADULT CHILD" or "ADULT CHILDREN" .......how about ADULT SON or ADULT DAUGHTER or ADULT OFFSPRING? Words have meaning and the ways we use them influence our thinking. Are we in search of a perpetual state of childhood long after we should have left these behind? Mommy and daddy are not there in your life to serve you indefinitely Gotta grow up sometime and resist the temptation to be forever shooting up the cultural puberty blockers that would keep us forever enslaved in the ME self centeredness of seeking endless sense gratification that we have been told all our lives is our birthright here in the western world especially You are no longer a kid. Your parents are not going to be around for ever. There is more to life than your acquiring the next latest toy or experience and to hell with everybody else. Its become a cultural MEme......time to grow up. Conversely there are also many real ADULT human beings who have stepped up to the plate and have shouldered adult responsibility as they should and have gratefully reaped the blessed rewards of doing the truly kind and loving thing even when it is not easy or expedient

My sister and I took care of my mother for 2 years I am 75 and it was hard we could afford a care giver 2 times a week so that helped but to watch her dwindle day by day

I’m 73 and so far no health concerns But I have 5 dogs and realise I’m not immortal My vet will come and put my dogs to sleep if I’m taken I’ll and I will make my own arrangements There’s no way I’d expect my kids to care for me or go into a home

I found out the hard way about VA benefits! Shocking isn’t the word for it!

It's obscene how much medical care is! So sad and messed up that adult diapers outsell baby diapers in Japan. They have a population problem. Not enough people having children. That's coming here to the US! Kick God out of your society and you get stuff like this. People are selfish. They'd rather have dogs and cats and treat them like kids. It's weird and disturbing! Used to be that aging relatives would live with younger family members and be taken care of by them.

Our older population should not have to lose everything due to health problems.

Wow! What a sobering site. I'm 86, in the best 9f health, my wife is 67. No kids, so it looks like she'll be taking care of me at some point, this is a horrible thought for me. I just can't imagine being a burden on anyone, especially my sweetie pie. We live in Germany, so there's no euthanasia of course, owing to the Hitler past, but one can either go to Holland or to Switzerland for assisted departure. I'll be also looking for a "do it yourself kit" on RUclips. Hope they don't ban my account. Wish you all long years of health, happiness without burdening others.

A large amount of the difficulty is the side effects of the drugs big pharma puts people on, such as high blood pressure meds made my loved one dizzy. I had the pharmacist pull the side effect sheet, number one side effect was......... dizziness. Dad didn't even need the stuff. The doctor took him off, Dad's anxiety attacks stopped, (my usually stoic Dad!) his dizziness went away AND he was OFF his walker in a few short weeks. Look at the meds people! Many seniors live healthy, PRODUCTIVE lives. Look at nutrition, naturopathic medicine and stuff. (I'm not recommending acupuncture or any new age or energy work, but straight nutrition)

They are robbing people! You get the lowest amt. of money to exist after retiring then they rob you blind when you go to old home care. It does not take that much money in home care

Well thanks to the jab there will be a lot less boomers. A lot less everyone

If people keep voting for Republicans, they definitely are going to lose their Social Security, Medicare and Medicade. They have been trying to accomplish this for years. There are three republican representatives, in Government this term, who have already brought it up.

Its an unworkable situation

And, the people they higher a below par. My mom's in one of those.

The outrageous costs, are set by corrupt Zionists Jewish ✡️ Interests to steal , elderly people's money 💰. The Zionist Jewish Interests get free care, because they are Jewish ✡️ ZIONISTS. Christian ✝️ Gentiles get bankrupt by the ZIONIST JEWISH CORRUPT SYSTEM. IT IS A CORRUPT SUCKER SYSTEM. THE ZIONISTS POLITICIANS OF BOTH POLITICAL PARTIES GET 💯 PERCENT FREE HEALTH CARE, SO DO INMATES IN OUR US PRISONS , MURDERERS, RAPISTS, & DOPERS GET FREE HEALTH CARE IN THE UNITED STATES 🇺🇸 !!!!!!!! THE UNITED STATES ARE RUN BY MAJOR CORRUPT CRIMINAL ZIONIST JEWISH ✡️ EMPIRE. ILLEGAL ALLIENS GET EVERYTHING GIVEN TO THEM BY OUR CORRUPT ZIONIST JEWISH ALLUMINATI GOVT. ALL TAXPAYERS , THIS IS WHERE YOUR TAX MONEY 💰 IS GOING TO !!!!!!!!!!!!!! WAKE UP PEOPLE !!!!!!!!! WE NEED NATIONAL HEALTH CARE , LIKE EUROPE HAS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! OUR CORRUPT HEALTHCARE SYSTEM IS TOTALLY CORRUPTED BY THE ZIONIST JEWISH ✡️ 🙄 INTERESTS RIPPING OFF CHRISTIAN ✝️ GENTILES DO YOUR RESEARCH !!!!!!!! STAND UP FOR YOUR RIGHTS , ARE RIGHT TO FREEDOM , OUR LIBERTIES OF DECENT WAY OF LIVING & LIFE ARE BEING TOTALLY DESTROYED BY SOME IN BECAUSE OF A DEEP STATE ALLUMINATI ZIONIST GOVERNMENT !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! WE NEED CHRISTIAN ✝️ GOVERNMENT THAT GOVERNS FOR THE PEOPLE & BY THE PEOPLE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Kevin Phoenix

When you are a Caregiver, you are in for the duration. You are in until you died.

Safe on child care employ granny that's what used to happen.

Sadly the life expectancy is lower now in 2023. I’m more concerned with cancer. There are worse things than outliving your $.

It was nice of the Interviewer to talk over the Congressman. 😂