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Are We Ready Yet - Relationship 101 | Elam B King
Here is the snippet of the Relationship 101 event on Hampton University campus. Sponsored by Kapex and the Beta Chi chapter of Kappa Alpha Psi fraternity, Inc.
Co-host Elisa Buckner
Co-host Elisa Buckner
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The Are We Ready Yet - Relationship 101 | Elam B King w/ cohost Elisa Buckner
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Recap of the relationship event held on the campus of Hampton University on 9/3/24. Sponsored by Kapex and the Beta Chi chapter of Kappa Alpha Psi Fraternity Inc.
Relationship Devotion - Part 2| Elam B King
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Relationship Devotion - Part 2| Elam B King
Are We Ready Yet| Relationship 101| Testimonials
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Are We Ready Yet| Relationship 101| Testimonials
Relationship Devotion - Part 1| Elam B King
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Elam B King - Roles Are Not Automatic
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Be willing to sign up for the love someone needs *I do not own the rights to this music*
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Conversation with@letstalkovercocktailsabout my new game Are We Ready Yet Game
Elam B King| Dedra Allen| Why Some Men Don't Approach Woman
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Tune in to amazing conversation with Dedra Allen from Cutting in the Atl as we discuss challenges in men approaching women and dating.
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Vetting our significant other
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How are we vetting our significant other? #elambking #arewereadyyetgame #understandingaman #gamenight #Shorts
Let's Have Manversation. State of MANHOOD conference.
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Let's Have Manversation. State of MANHOOD conference.
Elam B King| Chanel Nicole Scott| Josh Powell - Understanding your Triggers
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Zuleika Prince| Elam B King| Dear Ms. Independent
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Relationship Talk - Part 2 - Elam B King
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Relationship Talk - Part 1 - Elam B King
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Seeking direction in your relationship - Elam B King
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Dealing with toxicity in your relationship - Elam B King| Chanel Scott| Josh Powell
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Dealing with toxicity in your relationship - Elam B King| Chanel Scott| Josh Powell
Relationships Matter Live Podcast w/ Elam B King - communicating in conflict
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Elam B King| Pamela Byrd| Dating with Intention| The Why
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You're totally right, after go’ogling around I didn't realize that Simmy Krotiel's Bigger Blueprint was updated and you can make it bigger even faster, yep, what Simmy suggested before was pretty good, but now it can grow up to 4 ins, I managed 3 ins myself and I feel like a monster lol
TIGER! Wake up!
Great candid conversation!!!
Always great convo with you🤗
Huge in every aspect! Bigger than such a narrow base as man and woman. Nearly everything breaks down to lack of communion 💙🙏
agreed
100% facts. If you don't communicate, you could be a 10, and I'll run away.
Right there with you
You better preach!
Thanks for this bro. It didn't fall on deaf ears. The scary part is this reflected my situation right now.
Need to get my deck before they all sell out
4 yrs later after you post this, the msg was definitely meant for ME! Thank you 🙏!
Good to hear
I have a question. How do males and females bond with each other? I don't see how men and women can bond (especially romantically) with each other. Women can build incredible friendships and become very close to each other in a way men can't bond, and science shows that women can bond very well with each other. Generally, women are even more social than men are. After something bad happens, a woman quickly rushes to talk to all of her female friends to get support, whereas a man can isolate himself and grief alone. Women tend to be more emotional, more caring, more empathic, more compassionate, more affectionate, more loyal, more nurturing, more understanding, more sympathetic, more sensitive, more kind-hearted, more peaceful, more patient, more calmer, more gentle, more expressive, more intuitive, and more outward than men are, and thus bond more with other women in a special way that they can’t with men. Men, on the other hand, are not that emotional, and thus can’t bond with other men in a special way. Women are more comfortable being around with other women than they are with men. They have a type of bond that usually men with women won’t really have, or with men and men. Most women like to do affectionate things with their female friends like cuddling with them and holding their hands and be touchy-feely towards each other, while most men would never do affectionate things with their male friends (especially not cuddling with them or holding their hands or be touchy-feely towards each other). Men are usually much lonelier than women are. Men don't often talk about their personal problems with their male friends like how women do with their female friends.
There's alot to unpack in your question/response but my first response is that it sounds like you(assuming you are a woman) may not have experienced the right man in an intimate relationship therefore your thoughts are that we are not affectionate. I am a physical touch love language person so I am extremely affectionate. People have to do their due diligence when meeting a potential mate and ensure that their values are congruent. A physical touch person cannot make a quality time person touch them more if that other person is not willing to adapt to the love necessary to sustain the relationship a.k.a you can't change someone that does not want to change. Regarding your thoughts on the attributes of women vs. men, I will agree that some of what you said is correct. Why? Because estrogen is higher in a women and that hormone causes you to communicate, nurture, sensitive, patient, etc... Conversely, you also worry more, have anxiety, make decisions on emotions vs. logic more, have a "mommy brain" that can impede your intimate relationship more, etc... But the majority of this is God's design and a man balances out your biological challenges as a woman balances out a man's biological challenges. Additionally, you are correct that most of the current men are lacking in emotional intelligence. It is culturally driven for men to disconnect from their emotions. Why? The goal was to make us stronger by not being in touch with our feelings. Be Ford tough. Don't cry. Dont express ourselves, etc... in hopes that we would then grow up strong and build a strong family. The challenge with that is that when we meet you(woman), and love you, we then don't understand how to love, how to be emotionally connected to you, etc... and that can lead to challenges in a relationship. However, when you meet a man that is emotionally intelligent and self aware, and connect that with the values that are congruent with yours, that becomes a healthy relationship that is unstoppable and far beyond any other relationship.
This was a powerful and clarifying video. Thank you
Thank you!
Can you imagine having to work 12 hours and come home to one of these women 😂
How u doing?- best .have a good day! buddy- :))
I needed this because I’m dealing with someone with severe trust issues. I’m going to take a step back because it’s affecting my mental health. Everything you said is spot on especially about watching me to make the right moves to make him feel insecure or help out with trust issues.
I mentioned counseling but he stated he didn’t want anyone in his business. So I feel like he doesn’t want to change honestly.
There are multiple reasons why some men are uncomfortable with any coaching or counseling services. Most were taught that counseling makes you a weaker man. Im normally approached by wives or girlfriends for my services. There are several additional possible reasons but there is a common thread of why men don't normally communicate on intimate matters of the heart. Not making an excuse as we need to do better. I just want you to understand it's about you AND what he may have learned from society throughout his life. And sometimes you have to navigate through that.
An intimate relationship with someone can be one of the biggest emotional, financial, and business decisions that you ever make in life. It is a set up for failure if a man/woman does not remain in counsel.
This is great advice! Great video
Thank you. You can also follow me at elambking on IG for more relationship advice and feel free to leave a question that I can answer for you.
Needed to hear this frfr
Great advice
Thank you
“Don’t let things linger,” that right there! This is awesome! Can’t wait to read the book!
Good show 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Single men experiencing less rejection doesn’t sound true. However, if that is a case I can tell you they have a lot less sex than men in relationships. They may have good weeks, but the drought be REAL. Especially if they aren’t especially attractive, charismatic or balling. Also, single men have less opportunities to get rejected because they don’t even have anyone at home. People in relationship/marriages have someone to reject them in a daily basis. Trust me, they are not experiencing a better sex life as a single man. They’re lying for their ego.
Very informative
I have a Question…How did my parents make a successful (happy&loving family) in hard times, sometimes in very hard times with none of the relationship tools or help we have today. Where are we (single or married) going wrong? Why does it seem so difficult to achieve what our (my) parents had?
Great question. When you asked them, what was their answer?
Hmm...I didn't ask them when things were normal (around the house). I asked them (once) when things didn't feel normal (once). And they (both together) said to me "that's how we communicate". It was at the time when my Dad retired so, I guess they had to learn each other in a different/new way (I guess they were working it out). By the way my mother was a stay-home parent there were a lot of us.
Love this
Bills paid ASS whooping KILLED ME HAHAHA
Love it
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Great advice!!!!
What airline🤣🤣🤣🤣 say it sis!
Joketra they can expect what they want, it don’t have to happen. They are confused. Let’s Discuss the expectations before I get flewed out.
It's funny how when man speaks on this subject he doesn't get as many views as when a woman is telling why a man is not communicating 🤔
Tired is just an excuse for not being turned on. The number one aphrodisiac for women is insecurity and marriage is the exact opposite of that. When women get secure they have less interest in sex especially once children come into the picture.
I wanna know why one minute after about 3 to 6 months i can txt her and be like tonights the night and she is like cool then i can when we get the time and i attempt it its like sorry but we " MAY" try tomorrow night or your next day off and you guessed it tomorrow & my day off never comes even when it comes. I work i help with the kids i cook i clean i basically do EVERYTHING for US and im not expecting her to do it EVERY night i dont when shes not feeling it im cool with that bc i wish she knew how i feel when i try to be spontaneous or even try to plan it and get not tonight for whatever reason. I dont ask her for anything except that and its may 1 or twice every 3 months or so it just breaks my heart bc i love her deeply and wanna show her that love but its shut off i really dont know what to do i have mentioned that yes i love you no sex isnt the most important part of us but i need that closeness to you i crave YOU. And i get im sorry i feel bad. Bc you dont ask for much but heres what you have to accept its not happening and um good with it i just feel like if i am breaking my back for my family we should be doing more than we are NO i would never cheat i have told her if we're not gonna do anything you shouldnt expect me not to at least take care of it but its not the same when i want her but what can i do ive done all i can except seeing a therapist for us both this rejection hurts so bad i REALLY have no clue how to fix it and if its a symptom to a problem whats the REAL reason she isnt interested is what i wanna know so i can fix ir
I'm sorry bro. I went through that in my first marriage. I did everything and nothing. Then you talk about doing it on the next weekend and nothing. Keeping it 💯.... I ended up having a 2-year affair with another married woman which I do regret, but what I did do that I don't regret and my life has never been better.....I GOT A DIVORCE! I'M SORRY BRO I'M JUST BEING REAL IT'S NEVER GOING TO GET BETTER SHE'S DONE THIS ONCE ALL THIS TIME TO YOU... That's enough she's not changing. Get a divorce ASAP
well, what do you think incels exist, 80% of a male population globally sexually rejected, why you think tha taliban conquered Afghanistan, for the woman.
Yess, normalizing submission! I truly appreciated this authentic and transparent conversation! Keep up the good work!👍🏾👍🏾
“Thank you, JOI” 😂🤣 #JoiAndKen 🥰
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Shout out to you. .
What if you initiate it and he rejects you?
Thats a great question. Rejection doesn't feel good whether you or man or woman. The key is to find out "why" as early as possible. Look at the trend. And find resolution. Dont let time pass and trends continue. Sexual rejection is not the problem, its the symptom. Seek counseling together to assist in finding resolution.
It’s not without reason.
FIRST OFF GOD COMES FIRST. SECONDLY MY JOB COMES BEFORE MY MAN BECAUSE WITHOUT A JOB YOU CANNOT EAT NOR HAVE A HOME OR BED TO FUCK HIM IN. UF I AM TIRED I AINT DOING SHIT. HE CAN GO ON BECAUSE ANOTHER MAN IS ALWAYS WAITING AT MY DOOR
Def a interesting 🤔 lifestyle. Thank you for having them as guests and educating on something I was unfamiliar with.
You are most welcome and thank you for listening. Stay tuned next week for part 2 and we may even have a part 3.
Preach!!!!
I want to understand this men. Because I hear men sound so hurt about this topic. Like it’s a need. My boyfriend always says that it’s torture for a man who’s sexually repressed and I just want to understand because I went year without sex and I never felt angry or depressed. Can you explain and go more into this. My boyfriend and I have sex regularly but people say it changes when you get married
I can tell you as a man who was shall I say going without and not by choice it is torture when it paraded in front of you night and day. Women have little to no understanding what they are doing. That is why you have men out there who are cold as ice towards women, or worse.
I'll put it to you this way would love your man if he didn't take you out anywhere for a year? Men and women love completely different.... A woman is satisfied by words and courting.. a man is satisfied by respect and sex... Neither man or woman will understand each other's wants a and needs but must respect them
Its like an expression of love. Men are physical and it effects us emotionally. If we care about the person it not just a quickie. If a man commits they want to find someone that wants to fulfill them sexually doesn't have to be penetrative. Its probably equivalent to how women want to find a man that'll take care of them even if things go bad. But when men get rejected without a compromise it damages the ego, affects our work, makes us feel lonely, makes us think you're not into us. Why? Because the 1 person we want to commit to, make happy, support emotionally doesn't want to support our sexual needs.
You answered your own question. YOU went a year without. It was YOUR choice to do so. When a woman refuses or withholds physical intimacy, the choice is hers. He’s left out of the decision, and denied his masculinity. And if it’s in a long term committed relationship, you’ve changed the conditions of the relationship with no regard to his feelings, his desires, his position. It’s a cruel, selfish and dismissive choice for a woman to make.
Can we see every bodies face instead of the back of everybody head. This episode was very good.
Apply this information in 2020 and make your social life Great!
Excellent information on understanding man and woman!
Black women are destroying their sons as they were programmed to do. Read this and be enlightened: www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2905817/
This was a good segment!!
Thanks bro. Keep going
Thank you! I needed this! Peace and favor!