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Ep 9 Clip: A Puppet's (Open) Relationship Woes
Matt gives advice to Tristchan (Jimmy's personality disordered puppet) on how to better communicate with his boyfriend about their open relationship.
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Видео

Ep 9 Clip: Fear of Opening a Relationship
Просмотров 7118 лет назад
Matt fields a caller's question about the fear of possibly falling in love with other people if a couple opens their relationship.
Ep 6 Clip: Dating & The Gay Age Gap
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Matt & Jimmy answer a caller's question about struggling to know if it's OK to date older gay men and how to do it without feeling like he has to sleep with them on the first date.
Ep 5 Clip: Body Image Issues
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Matt & Jimmy answer a caller's question about body image issues for gay men.
Ep 4 Clip: Social Media Exhibitionism
Просмотров 1,7 тыс.8 лет назад
Matt & Jimmy answer a caller's question about how much is too much to share on social media.
Ep 4 Clip: Social Media Stalking
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Ep 4 Clip: Social Media Stalking
INTO | Episode 1: Femme Shaming
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INTO | Episode 1: Femme Shaming
INTO | Promo
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INTO | Promo

Комментарии

  • @cedricksamaniego9146
    @cedricksamaniego9146 7 месяцев назад

    To the first actual caller that didn't hang up. I've been in that type of relationship. You chose that guy to date.. I was always on guard and ready to defend us. I might not start the unwanted drama, but I will definitely finish with my fist and hopefully, no one calls 911.

  • @RazBenmoshe
    @RazBenmoshe Год назад

    What is the point of relyshnsheeps without loyelty what defind it as rela.?

  • @jaya.d-gauthier1644
    @jaya.d-gauthier1644 Год назад

    21:44 “it isn’t okay to be interested in masculine guys” yeah that’s the only shaming here, kweens. Yikes.

  • @kaymillerfromTX
    @kaymillerfromTX Год назад

    This isn’t a thing lmao. Fem men have long openly and obsessively made fun of masculine men and masculinity in general calling it toxic. Heaven forbid you aren’t someone’s type 😒

  • @kevingave748
    @kevingave748 Год назад

    Bringing home monkeypox is definitely going to close an open relationship.

  • @aaironparker2837
    @aaironparker2837 Год назад

    I'd date a sweet older man

  • @davidparker9086
    @davidparker9086 Год назад

    We have all heard the saying, Age is a number, and it truly is a number. Love is not defined by our age, color or other aspects. I, for example, I was introduced to a young man who was 28 and I was 57 at the time. We became friends and for six months our friend group hung out together which was a mix of younger and older men. He was surprised that I was 57 and said over the course of a few weeks of our hanging out together you are just so full of life and fun to be around. Six months after meeting him he asked if we could date because he was so attracted to the person I showed myself to be to him and others; the man he liked. I was stunned but I was happy he asked because I wanted to from the moment I met him and got to know him. We dated and a year later he asked me to marry him. We were both from military backgrounds; I in naval intelligence and he was special forces. Again, stunned but was so in love with this man. Unfortunately, on his last tour he was killed in 2016. Life since then has not been the same because love like this is truly rare and I say to all of you when you find a man who makes you feel as if you are the only thing in the world that matters, hold onto him regardless of your ages. And, if others cannot see you are truly in love then that is their problem. Never be ashamed of dating whomever makes you feel alive, encourages you and sets your world on fire. I long for that again and hopefully now at 66 it will come again and yes I am still full of life and excited for what each day holds.

  • @malakitimes3125
    @malakitimes3125 Год назад

    I'm not for them. If you want to sleep around just stay single my choice.

  • @DJDeezNutz
    @DJDeezNutz Год назад

    I liked this discussion

  • @ayaebony4461
    @ayaebony4461 2 года назад

    It takes more work to be in open relationship than staying single. Never saw the point in it. But to each their own!

  • @vladoyager1908
    @vladoyager1908 2 года назад

    Well. You have younger guys who's looking for daddies, not all of them are gold diggers. Had BF 25 year's younger he lie about his age got on his real age by mistake....

  • @_BSH_1971
    @_BSH_1971 2 года назад

    This is a really good discussion. So many couples need to discuss issues, and explore what works for them.

  • @masonkufahl8407
    @masonkufahl8407 2 года назад

    Society says we need to follow the norms, screw that. I’m super attracted to older guys. Always have been. They’re easier to talk too. I dated a 52 year old, I’m 24. Distance was the only reason it didn’t last. I asked him first on a date. I never felt in danger or awkward in the slightest. Sex wasn’t something until I consented. If an older guy is approaching me, and I felt red flags, I would stop right there. It’s weird to some people, but that’s their problem

  • @seth_sesu
    @seth_sesu 2 года назад

    Many Euro-descent (Western) gays have been doing megaphone PR preaching the virtues of open relationships for decades saying that monogamy is an arbitrary "social construct" and vestige of Judeo-Christianity. Which shows that they basically don't know anything about sociology or world history. They also like condescending to people wanting monogamy that they are "above jealousy" and morally superior; equating monogamy to controlling other people - even though it's a voluntary institution. Yes, Dan Savage, infidelity has always been a thing - because monogamy has always been a thing. Cultural evolution produced monogamy as a default across pretty much every culture on Earth. It's fun to point out exceptions to this (gay samurai, kings with many wives) but this has been the case for 90%+ of the population of basically every culture. If people want open relationships, that's wonderful. Do it. But let's not pretend that it's arbitrary or inferior or people wanting monogamy are being sanctimonious (which is a highly hypocritical accusation).

  • @ivorytower99
    @ivorytower99 2 года назад

    None too little self-control, most men are not programmed to be monogamous.

    • @youtubefans510
      @youtubefans510 2 года назад

      most men are not programmed to be monogamous but when you act on that you get judgment scrutiny etc. character assisination and relationship armegeddon so it goes underground just like opinions about religion,sexuality, politics etc. the more you judge people the more they are secretive and close up like a sea shell on the bottom of the ocean it only opens up when it feels it is safe to do so

  • @harrys1729
    @harrys1729 2 года назад

    I’m 23 going on date with a 40 year old man Wednesday. Is that too old

  • @miketrek8105
    @miketrek8105 2 года назад

    Great Show

  • @CristianMartinez-cr1eo
    @CristianMartinez-cr1eo 3 года назад

    I wouldn’t fixate on age as much. He’s saying that the older gays have gone through more things and are wiser but actually older age doesn’t necessarily correlate with more wisdom. You’re missing out on a bunch of good potential partners by fixating on a particular age group. Btw As long as they’re adults

  • @jarredxxx5481
    @jarredxxx5481 3 года назад

    Y’all i need advice; i’m 18 and the guy I’m talking to is 25 I would say I am definitely matured for my age in most aspects but obviously my brain still is not fully developed, Can anyone give me tips/advice/thoughts 🙏

  • @onethedotshoppe6264
    @onethedotshoppe6264 3 года назад

    Do you have this on Spotify?

  • @keegisters
    @keegisters 3 года назад

    17:36

  • @yacoobrian
    @yacoobrian 3 года назад

    Hey this is great! My family is from the middle east and it's helping me process certain things. You guys are awsweom!

  • @ArmoredCyberNemesis
    @ArmoredCyberNemesis 3 года назад

    I am grateful for this video, your interesting insights and perspective on depression and I enjoy your company.

  • @bluepavilion82
    @bluepavilion82 3 года назад

    Matt is too good looking to be a therapist

  • @corrytutahione7360
    @corrytutahione7360 3 года назад

    After you discussed about putting your preference for non female on a dating app profile, I wondered if its the same as having a preference for body type, height, nationalities.

  • @vita3726
    @vita3726 3 года назад

    I've never heard such good advice and neither am I a guy nor into guys

  • @SqChff
    @SqChff 4 года назад

    Are you guys on Spotify, by chance? Just discovered the channel. I'm working through things, and it helps.

  • @leonardo899
    @leonardo899 4 года назад

    I've never been attracted to older men. Even when I was in highschool, I didn't like guys who were older than me. I'm 39 now, and I still don't like older guys. It works great for me, young guys love guys my age.

    • @fla8623
      @fla8623 3 года назад

      I'm 18 and I am only attracted to guys in their 40s 😭😭😭

  • @enzmondo
    @enzmondo 4 года назад

    I wish I had a friend to have this kind of conversations with.

  • @SijusWorld
    @SijusWorld 4 года назад

    Omg can't wait for next video 😍

  • @raimusflores1234
    @raimusflores1234 4 года назад

    I am single. Anyone here who is available. 😍😁

  • @leoarioad8684
    @leoarioad8684 4 года назад

    Waw pria itu sangat tampan 😍😍

  • @chamboy00001
    @chamboy00001 4 года назад

    I wouldn't mind interviewing as an older man to younger relationships.

  • @jermwashburn-lugosi7023
    @jermwashburn-lugosi7023 4 года назад

    Great video

  • @zoozyg3108
    @zoozyg3108 4 года назад

    I hate guys around my age I feel like am dating kids I like older guys cause they got more life experience

  • @randywilliams9901
    @randywilliams9901 4 года назад

    Good content...We need this! What happened guys?

  • @jandrade2760
    @jandrade2760 4 года назад

    Please, subtitle Spanish 😢😢📱 Saludos desde #Ecuador🇪🇨🙋🏻‍♂️👍🏻

  • @jandrade2760
    @jandrade2760 4 года назад

    Well, in my case ❣❣ He is 52 years old 👴 and I am 22 years old 👦🏻 and we have known each other since I was 16 years old and I was in my last year of high school 🏫 We get along very well and he has really been a great support for me 👍🏻👍🏻 I have to get used to his Police job 👮🏻‍♂️ since he is several hours away but when he arrives they are the best days we spent. Apart from that, to be 52 years old, it has been very well preserved, since he loves to exercise, I am a bit lazy for that but I am thin and I am 1.80 tall; unlike him who is 1.90 tall and twice as much musculature as me 💪🏻💪🏻🤣 The funny thing is that there have been people who think that I am his son and then we laugh. It has helped me to mature a lot and see life from another point of view ... I don't know what would happen to me if he were missing one day. It is the love of my life and we hope to stay much longer together. Despite being a big guy, he has the most tender heart and feelings ... Greetings from #ECUADOR🇪🇨🙋🏻‍♂️

  • @SEACRUZNY
    @SEACRUZNY 4 года назад

    Loving the show, always relevant and timely 👁🙏👁

  • @bridgetisjonesing5007
    @bridgetisjonesing5007 5 лет назад

    I never had a long term relationship with a man twice my age, I always dated someone my age. Now that I am up there I still date my own age. It all depends on what the person views growing up or what experience they come from. A good topic to explore more on.

  • @柯旭鴻
    @柯旭鴻 5 лет назад

    For me, Jimmy is super hot. He reminds me of a very good friend (ex-hookup) of mine.

  • @Aloha808
    @Aloha808 5 лет назад

    after only a 5 seconds I can tell these 2 flamers have nothing meaningful to say.

  • @troysierra5228
    @troysierra5228 5 лет назад

    I don't know how I stumbled into this. But I find this topic gross. It's in the reverse, where young guys are looking for borderline pedophiles. Was there a father figure missing in your life, where you're substituting them as lovers? There's stages in life, and someone older shouldn't compensate living as your real life experiences. They're not a safety net as your real family!

    • @christianlittle9348
      @christianlittle9348 6 месяцев назад

      I honestly agree with you I was expecting this video to be about a small age gap not barely legal ppl dating men twice their age

  • @buiewynn6975
    @buiewynn6975 5 лет назад

    My boyfriend and I had an open relationship from the beginning of our 7 years together. The only problem is that he was the only one of us who knew about it.

    • @TheKingT17
      @TheKingT17 5 лет назад

      They are a joke. I have never seen a open relationship that was successful. Especially in a gay relationship! A lot of gay men I know want a open relationship so they can sleep around without being categorized as a cheater!

    • @stevencoulter9980
      @stevencoulter9980 3 года назад

      This is so hurtful and unfair. I experienced similar in one of my relationships. Hugs.

  • @moodcityy
    @moodcityy 5 лет назад

    I'm 20 and my boyfriend is 48 and we are cool together 😍

    • @hajuntamayo8895
      @hajuntamayo8895 4 года назад

      Wow.. that's nice Norbert Simon.. congrats to both of you..thats also what i want if i have a boyfriend.i like older than me..im 42 now.single gay..open for a serious relationship.. ☺️☺️🤭💗

    • @GentleG18
      @GentleG18 4 года назад

      All I suggest is that you're not a gold digger. Money can really screw up the mind.

  • @derekrivera8567
    @derekrivera8567 5 лет назад

    I'm 23 and my boyfriend is 45, we love each other so much and been together for over a year now <3

  • @markshao3901
    @markshao3901 5 лет назад

    Are they boyfriend?

  • @markshao3901
    @markshao3901 5 лет назад

    I would appreciate young man and my same age man. It's not big deal for me.😂😂🌹🌹

  • @aniltudu970
    @aniltudu970 5 лет назад

    Come on guys come back 😣😣😣

  • @aniltudu970
    @aniltudu970 5 лет назад

    Hey why don't you guys don't post anything now we want again this type of videos plz