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Hey, been a while. Great to see ya and check in. Hope things have improved for you even if the smallest amount. Still progress. My own life journey the past 8 years has been a big one. I have overcome A LOT of my social anxiety. The main things that have helped me was having a friend group to practice socializing, that happened shortly after our google hang outs all those years back. Since then I've had 3 relationships. And me and you suffered from very similar things. All I can say is try to find small group of people to converse with regularly, I wont say it will fix your issues, but will certainly help take that anxiety edge off. isolation was a massive affect of my anxiety back in the day, and forcing myself to mix with people repeatedly over and over helped me tons, and is a good place to start and will help with relationships in future.

I Understand your birthday is in January Dale How old will you be? Never mind as I was watching the video you mentioned you were going to be 38 lol. So that means you were born in 1987 you’re three years older than me

Keep going ❤

If you don't know how to act , try on different hats , and I don't mean the clothes?

We all think the same about ourselves. Go easy on yourself mate

Just relax lad your fine stop overthink things pal

You just need to switch off mate im 6 feet 5 22 stone and when i was younger i got a lot of stares and comments " is it cold up there" etc the point is im now 48 years old and i dont care, if people dont add nothing positive to my life i dont bother with them, i look after my parents and my uncle and that is all that matters, forget the world at large mate.

Big respect to mate, I think your so brave talking so openly about this, fair play to you

Don't think too much about it dude 80% of people are stuck in their own world anyway. You do you man! just focus on the people who love you and what makes you happy. You'll find that you start forgetting about what people think ( people who judge others based on looks are the most insecure, it's not you.. its them )

Trust me you are likely on the autism spectrum you’ve said in the past you don’t believe you are, but I Guarantee you likely are. I’m sure because you don’t know how to act that causes your great anxiety and makes You paranoid Social anxiety is a symptom of what a root causes Dale like I said you’re on the spectrum

I hope you manage to move forward with your life. Thats terrible what happened to you at 18. Please dont let this ruin your life. Seek help. Take care

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Sorry to hear that, have you tried CBT? Take care

You're an introvert. Introverts need to be alone to refresh. Extroverts need to be around people to recharge. You and half the population. Do an MBTI test. It will help you.

fuck yeah

Stupid

You know, it's Independence day in India. Maybe you could find independence from your anxiety soon too, and I believe that you will, the best of luck to you from me!!

Once again you cant see what going on about but! I'm alone here that's why I don't seem so bad plus its how i feel on the inside!

The world we live in is crazy, a fantasy and false reality is constantly being imposed on us at every level. We are pressured to be something we were not made to be, and this does not add up, our conscious does not recognise the behaviours around us as palatable, our mind is confused by the information overload, the opinions, etc... We find ourself in a state of shock and defensively withdraw, we react to things we disagree with and close ourselves from everyone, and disspassionate and healthy discussions become impossible. I suggest you look into Orthodoxy, what it is, how does it view the world, what is the purpose of man, etc... I suggest you visit a local Orthodox Church, greek, russian, serbian, antiochan, bulgarian, georgian, etc... and attend the Divine Liturgy or an evening service, whatever jurisdiction of these is available near you, speak to the priest, see how people are there. Fr Zacharias from the Monastery of Essex quotes the old testament, ‘Because you have been strong with God, you will be strong with men', without overcoming your passions, and building a relationship with God, you cannot be bold with men, you will constantly feel inferior and crushed, sin is slavery to the devil, a man living in obedience to what evil forces and passionate movements of the body and soul dictate does not own himself but is owned and a slave and cannot look up and address people with confidence. Sometimes such posessed person can have the illusion of power or well being from wealth, good upgringing, etc... But this only lasts so long then fades away and people have to face reality eventually. Life is short, don't waste yourself for nought.

hey dale I can relate to a lot of what you said about feeling more confident when you were younger

This video took tremendous Courage Dale! I could see the fear in your face yet You have a Warriors soul! as you continue to record fighting the anxiety!! This video is extremely motivational to anybody that has that intense type of anxiety :) I don’t have that type of intense anxiety no more I used to when I did my first social anxiety video I was 22 and I was walking down the street much like you’re doing at this park. and I had intense fear I had hair down past my shoulders. A wispy mustache lol. My iPhone 4 And The belief if just one person that saw this video could be helped that was enough for me to gain strength and willpower to walk down the street and make the video. And in that video when I saw one of my neighbors who normally I would avoid if I was ever outside I had the courage to say hey how are you doing though I don’t have that video no more and my old channel is gone I’ll never forget some of my best Vlogs! You still have that old school SA Vlogger vibe going you are a true original please always share your life journey with us Dale

that's great, small steps

Movies go deep and definitely play a psychological role in our society Dale. This was a really good video! It’s good to see that you’re still on RUclips I decided to start fresh and restart my channel

AAAA IM SO SORRY I WANTED TO ATTEND WHY WASN'T I NOTIFIED 😭😭

Don't fret Dale am sure that you look very normal so they just aren't looking. Would be good though to see you grow the goatee out some, think it's too short now. What do you think?

I can't believe it myself.

34. 5'10"

I thought you were 32 or 33

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I still keep getting these now its a fake Alexa bliss and Margot Robbie ones get regularly now its annoying.

Happy birthday Dale!

Having someone to do things with actually makes it easier from my experience.

well done for doing it

Happy Birthday!🎉😊

Happy New Year!!!

My mic was even on oh well!

Dale, you're wayyy too much in your head. You're inner beliefs and thought patterns are the problem. You are judging yourself more then anyone else. I agree with the previous commenter, there's nothing unusual about your appearance or behavior. Your perception is distorted by anxiety and self judgment. I'm going to suggest self love and self compassion. Pay attention to the things you're saying about yourself. Are they kind things? Or do they make you feel worse?

It's not what you look like or how you act. No one gives a shit about anyone else. They don't give a shit about you in the slightest. It's in your mind. Did your mum judge you when you were younger?