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Sunshine Support
Великобритания
Добавлен 3 май 2019
We were founded in October 2017 by Chrissa Wadlow after her own gruelling battle to gain her daughter a suitable education provision.
Her journey, littered with injustice, was filled with a catalogue of errors and the family received very limited help from services they thought they could trust, creating irreparable damage for the entire family.
It took 2 SEND tribunals, a high court case and one final SEND tribunal for Chrissa to gain the educational placement her daughter needs. It shouldn't be this hard.
Chrissa could not allow this to continue to happen, and so formed Sunshine Support to help other families navigate their way through the process of Special Educational Needs to ensure they received the RIGHT advice and guidance from trustworthy experts.
Her story, told in detail at the beginning of each workshop, has inspired hundreds of families to seek justice and exercise their right to the law.
Her journey, littered with injustice, was filled with a catalogue of errors and the family received very limited help from services they thought they could trust, creating irreparable damage for the entire family.
It took 2 SEND tribunals, a high court case and one final SEND tribunal for Chrissa to gain the educational placement her daughter needs. It shouldn't be this hard.
Chrissa could not allow this to continue to happen, and so formed Sunshine Support to help other families navigate their way through the process of Special Educational Needs to ensure they received the RIGHT advice and guidance from trustworthy experts.
Her story, told in detail at the beginning of each workshop, has inspired hundreds of families to seek justice and exercise their right to the law.
Understanding & Supporting ADHD in Children - 10 Minute Taster
Hello! Are you interested in learning more about Understanding and Supporting ADHD in Children? We have a fantastic course on this on the Sunshine Academy.
Our Sunshine Academy online learning platform hosts expert-led, CPD certified content on this topic. This platform is a monthly subscription service costing £10.99 per month, and will give you access to over 170 different webinars, courses, resources and private community boards moderated by our team of advocates.
On the fence about signing up? Why not check out our 10 minute taster, to see if the Sunshine Academy is for you?
Sign up to the Sunshine Academy here: www.sunshine-support.org/academy
Our Sunshine Academy online learning platform hosts expert-led, CPD certified content on this topic. This platform is a monthly subscription service costing £10.99 per month, and will give you access to over 170 different webinars, courses, resources and private community boards moderated by our team of advocates.
On the fence about signing up? Why not check out our 10 minute taster, to see if the Sunshine Academy is for you?
Sign up to the Sunshine Academy here: www.sunshine-support.org/academy
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Let's Talk About... SEMH and SEBD
Chrissa discusses the terms 'SEMH' and 'SEBD' here - she acknowledges that her stance may be controversial, but has explained WHY she does not like these terms in great detail. What are your thoughts Let us know below.
SEND Parents, How Can We COMPLAIN!?
Our SEND kids have legal rights, as do we - but how can we effectively handle situations where discrimination may arise, or other situations where rules are broken against our favour? We're joining 3PB Barristers to show you how you can exercise your legal rights and have the BEST chance of a great outcome. Check out the event and book your tickets below. 08/10/24 - The Ultimate Guide to Lodgin...
Wondering About Autism and ADHD in Early Years?
We're really pleased to be presenting a webinar on this EXACT same topic soon - for those of you with younger children who are presenting with traits, our webinar will cover the ways in which you can support them, and ensure their needs are met. Book your tickets below: 03/10/24 - ADHD & Autism in Early Years www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/841402075257
Toxic: Do You Tell Your Kids To Do This?!
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Our founder Chrissa has shared her viewpoints on telling children to do this thing when at school... what do you think? Her worry is that children who are hyper-empathetic may end up focusing more on the well-being of others and neglecting their own needs. We would love to hear more from you. Visit www.sunshine-support.org for more information, and email enquiries@sunshine-support.org.uk for SE...
Challenging Behaviour - Understanding and Reframing Children's Behaviour - 10 Minute Taster
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Hello! Are you interested in learning more about Challenging Behaviour? You might benefit from watching 'Understanding and Reframing Children's Behaviour', available on the Sunshine Academy. Our Sunshine Academy online learning platform hosts expert-led, CPD certified content on this topic. This platform is a monthly subscription service costing £10.99 per month, and will give you access to ove...
S1 E7 - Just how different is the Welsh Education system to the English one?
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Join Kat on a another dive into the world of SEND as she chats with our Head of Advocacy Kelly and our incredible advocate Rachel, who is based in Wales. This time the team discusses the the differences between English Law and Welsh law and the issues that can present, working remotely and then as a lighter note to finish the team discuss some of the more outlandish comments that have been made...
Back To School Struggles
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Join Chrissa as she discusses the new school term; going back to school can be a really tricky time, for so many reasons. Are you experiencing difficulties with the new school term? We'd love to chat with you in the comments. Get in touch with us at enquiries@sunshine-support.org.uk for more information on how we can help you.
EOTAS - Education Other Than At School & The Law Around EHCPs in EOTAS - 10 Minute Taster
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Hello! Are you interested in learning more about EOTAS (Education Other Than At School) & The Law Around EHCP's in EOTAS? We have a fantastic course on this on the Sunshine Academy. Our Sunshine Academy online learning platform hosts expert-led, CPD certified content on this topic. This platform is a monthly subscription service costing £10.99 per month, and will give you access to over 170 dif...
Supporting School 'Refusal' & Attendance Difficulties - 10 Minute Taster
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Hello! Are you interested in learning more about School 'Refusal' & Attendance Difficulties? We have a fantastic course on this on the Sunshine Academy. Our Sunshine Academy online learning platform hosts expert-led, CPD certified content on this topic. This platform is a monthly subscription service costing £10.99 per month, and will give you access to over 170 different webinars, courses, res...
Kids are Back To School - Cuppa&Chat, anyone?
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That feeling when you realise you can come back to our in-person Cuppa&Chat sessions at our hub in Derby now that school is back on! UNREAL!!!!!!! ☀️In-Person Cuppa&Chats in Derby (every other Friday morning) - www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/385644100887 If you don't live near Derby, then don't worry - our online Cuppa&Chat sessions are fabulous. It's so nice to spend time with a cuppa, other likeminde...
Neurodiversity in the Workplace - WE NEED TO LEARN MORE!
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Neurodiversity in the Workplace - WE NEED TO LEARN MORE!
SEND Support Delays: Have You Heard These Diagnosis Myths?
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SEND Support Delays: Have You Heard These Diagnosis Myths?
Do YOU Recognise The Importance of Connection?!
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Do YOU Recognise The Importance of Connection?!
Facebook live - School and Parent Relationships
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Facebook live - School and Parent Relationships
ADHD & Transitions: Do You Experience 'Squirrel Moments'?
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ADHD & Transitions: Do You Experience 'Squirrel Moments'?
Need an EHCP Fairy Godmother? We're just a flick of a wand away!
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Need an EHCP Fairy Godmother? We're just a flick of a wand away!
Struggling to Make Plans as a SEND Parent?
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Struggling to Make Plans as a SEND Parent?
Venting is SELF-CARE - Don't Bottle it Up!
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Venting is SELF-CARE - Don't Bottle it Up!
Reflection vs. 'Shame' - Do YOU Do This as Self-Care?
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Reflection vs. 'Shame' - Do YOU Do This as Self-Care?
Invisible Disabilities - HOW 'Invisible' Are They Really?
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Invisible Disabilities - HOW 'Invisible' Are They Really?
Dealing With Angry Children This Summer? Chrissa Can Help...
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Dealing With Angry Children This Summer? Chrissa Can Help...
S1 E6 - Like Mother Like Daughter... Intergenerational Curses.
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S1 E6 - Like Mother Like Daughter... Intergenerational Curses.
Chrissa Talks... ADHD! Do YOU relate?!
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Chrissa Talks... ADHD! Do YOU relate?!
I wish I'd seen this 4 years ago! Glad I didn't see it tomorrow! I am an adult who's world just changed.
So relatable, as a company mostly made up of late diagnosed ND adults - you're not alone, we're here for you and you are SEEN! <3
@@SunshineSupportUK Thank-you. It's hard to overstate the value of the catharsis I get from the genuine lapse in my repressive loneliness, thanks to our community. My defence mechanisms against positivity are strong, but I'm working on it ❤️
True. I have ME (/CFS) making me mostly homebound, so I don't go out much. I am, physically invisible to everyone that don't live in this house with me. They only see me those days when I'm well enough to make it outside. So many with ME don't even make it out of bed. We are after all called the invisible people. That being said, it doesn't mean that people won't take advantage of it anyways. "you're home so you could watch my kids for a few hours" or "can you recive a package for me" or "make a phonecall since you have nothing better to do" or do basically anything without regard of our physical and mental wellbeing. IF we say no we're just lazy and they get salty about it. I've had neighbours place heavy boxes on my wheelchair or place stuff infront of it and when I point that out, they get all pissy and claim "it's just sitting there collecting dust". Just because I can walk on occation doesn't mean that I'm well. I usually come home from an excursion and sleep for three hours. I also have hEDS, AuDHD and depression. At least that's what we know of so far. My son and I compete on who has the most diagnoses. So not only do I have to remind people about my situation I need to make sure he doesn't get spread too thin and can manage school as well as a social life. It's either you're too well to be home so you're just lazy or it must be contagious, we must keep our distance so we don't catch whatever that is. And the "we can't be seen near someone with a disability, even if it is invisible".
So relatable. We have AuDHD team members here at Sunshine Support with EDS, so everything here resonates a lot. 'Too well to be at home, or we must keep our distance' - YES!! This summarises it very well. We're here for you if you need any support! <3
Even when my explain my "invisible disabilities" and how it limits me, people forget. Out of sight, out of mind.
Sadly an experience we relate to all too often!
I think, sadly, it’s probably due to evolution and survival of the fittest.
Very interesting point!
Very true 😢
Indeed it is
Thank you for video my LA have refused saying my son Ed child should go back to the said school but still feel EOTAS bespoke package will be best suited for him
Hi Tracey! Definitely push for what you feel is best for your son - if you need any support, drop an email to enquiries@sunshine-support.org.uk and we can run you through our services; we do a free online cuppa&chat group, a free 30 minute advice phone call, as well as other services such as Advocacy which is charged per hour but highly successful!
My youngest was recently diagnosed ADHD as an adult. Doing her psychology degree alerted her to it. She's certain that I have it too. After looking into it I think she's right. 30 years ago I thought the new label was invented by those who hadn't a clue how to handle the more energetic kids. Now I know better. Though my solution of finding something to occupy and engage them was right. I also have c-PTSD which masks ADHD symptoms. I totally agree with you on visibility. No walking aid means we don't stand out in a queue. Have social interaction with us and our vulnerability shows, particularly on a regular basis like working in the same place. Perhaps the discussion with the politically correct agitators needs to be around what they consider to be visible and also on what are the real ways of being both helpful and supportive. Like letting us speak for ourselves. All the best.
A great comment, thanks Michelle - many of us in the team were late diagnosed too! It's such a learning journey, and like you mention, other things can mask ADHD. We definitely need the freedom to have our voices heard and not be spoken for, without a doubt.
I have a family member who many times have had others taken advantage of them due to there Autism but they do have a habit of informing all who will listen of there differences I feel that doesnt help them.
That's a really difficult situation.and there's not really an easy answer to solve it, are they and younger person or an adult?
Thank you, needed that reminder today
We're so glad to help! :)
Thank you Chrissa ❤️😘🙏
You are so welcome
My child will say something offensive and it is not for manipulation but to equalize their status and autonomy. For whatever reason they feel a power struggle this helps them to equalize that feeling. I politely respond with a non rattled “is that appropriate ?” Or “do we feel better?”
This is fabulous - we do the same!! Whereas our parents/grandparents in the same situation would likely have shouted!
You're making the assumption everyone is aware they are traumatized 🤔 interesting
Hi Tara, Chrissa is certainly by no means unaware that not everyone is aware of their trauma - I myself wasn't when I first started working with her at Sunshine Support and now I am much more enlightened having had the insight and support. However, being such a short video, it's not very easy to go into the depth/detail required to address those who are traumatised but struggling to recognise this or have repressed this, so we will certainly seek to address unacknowledged trauma in future. :)
What makes a good parent? Tell us your thoughts!
It's called hoops and hurdles....
Flaming hoops and spiky hurdles parents are expected to leap through and over to get the right help! :'(
It's modern day psychological torture, the SEND underworld..i
This description is, sadly, VERY accurate!
It's modern day psychological torture, the SEND underworld..
It's a very difficult journey to navigate that is for sure.
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I stumbled across this by accident, but great, and such a widespread problem...Surrey and nationally.... Good morning...sadna xx
Hello Sadna! Apologies for the late reply! We hope you're well!
Surrey
How is the SEND system in Surrey?
Sadna, hi.xx
Hi, hope you are ok
Thanks, and I need your support,🙏
How are things going? If you visit our website (information on main page) you can book in a free 30 minute call with the team! :)
Wonderful ❤️ I'm a newbie member of Sunshine and can't wait to get educated on these topics as I can relate to both of these x
There really is so much to discover, let us know if you need anything
Join our related webinar on 23/07/24 - The Connection Between RSD, PDA, and Trauma - www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/867446454697
☕Online CUPPA&CHATs (every other Wednesday evening) www.eventbrite.com/e/102882187392 ☀In-Person Cuppa&Chats in Derby (every other Friday morning) - www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/385644100887
I've definitely experienced judgement, I still get a lot of 'maybe it's your parenting or you're not strict enough' comments. Absolutely zero understanding of the bigger picture. Your experience says more about the person saying it, lack of education, understanding and empathy.
Absolutely, it such a shame that people feel the need to make comments without know what's actually happening. One of our favourite quotes is "be curious, not judgemental"
Awesome ❤
Thanks 🤗
Pda link please
Hi, we didn't get a notification Tara, we're so sorry! We DO have a PDA webinar upcoming on the 5th of September you may like; Identifying and Supporting The PDA Profile with Phil Christie www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/897277570367
We'd love to hear about your experiences navigating different types of school!
really don’t like the pathologizing of pda. “bizzare” and saying that were essentially problems “spend a day at these families homes and you’ll see”. pda is also internalized. and someone can have pda and no autism either
Aspergers is not a diagnosis or term that is used. it is ableist
Hi! This is all expert-led information, in the UK PDA is a distinct presentation. We thank you for your views but assure you that the information within this video is NICE guideline supported in the UK. Your country may have different guidelines. We also are aware that Aspergers is no longer in the DSM, and the very good reasons why, but remember, there are still people out there who have the term on their medical record who many still use it for themselves which is their prerogative and not ableist. This video is also 4 years old. We are a majority neurodivergent crowd here at Sunshine Support but we also ensure that the information we air is formally and clinically supported. In the UK, PDA is classed as a presentation of autism, whether we or yourself actually agree with this or not. Times are changing and this definition is likely to evolve with time. We would also like to add that PDA can present differently amongst individuals, it isn't internalised for everybody.
Do your children find school attendance difficult? Did YOU ever find school attendance difficult? We'd love to hear from you and have a chat in the comments.
#RobertBuckland
We hope you find it useful
I don't know. I think in various ways. Sometimes I visualise things. Sometimes I just think in text. Sometimes I just think in sounds. I don't recall if I've thought in music or not. I probably have and just haven't taken note of it. But I don't know if this is a adhd thing or not. It might as depending on my state I think differently. If I'm not in the moment and am very unfocused and bored I'll just think in a more dopamine inducing way. So you thinking in song might be adhd but again I'm not an expert. Btw your both bringing "sexy back" xD Keep up the good work. This has made my day.
Yes, it might vary depending on the day, environment, other factors etc. The dopamine seeking definitely seems to be a way to self-regulate and self-focus!! Thank you! :D
@SunshineSupportUK no problem, just going of what I've picked up and realised over the years from both me and my friends who have adhd.
🧡20/06/24 - EOTAS (Education Other Than At School) & The Laws Around EHCPs in EOTAS www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/841375776597
Does anyone have a specific preference in terms of type of holiday - cruise, camping, flying, all inclusive, villa & self catering... Tell us in the comments!
How do YOU holiday as a SEND family?
The statistic that disabled parents of disabled children are FOUR TIMES more likely to be accused of FII than non-disabled parents made my stomach drop. Oh my god. 😢🤢
This was an intense watch. FII is quite genuinely one of my worst fears as a neurodivergent SEND parent. Thankfully, nobody has ever batted an eyelid when I've suggested specific suspicions of condtions to professionals involved with my son, I've never been wrong and I've always been listened to & respected but I NEVER take this for granted. It takes one bad person, one bad appointment. This knowledge and awareness raising is SO VALUABLE. ❤❤
Yes!! Glad you mentioned the slippery slope to FII accusations.
Something that needs to be spoken about more. Not something I've experienced but I know people who have, who've been blamed, gaslit and shamed for it. Thanks for bringing attention to this. ❤
So relatable. I had a 'vision' but what unfolded was very, very different! We just make it work for us. Learning the law, learning the medical side of things, SALT, OT etc, it's intense but look where we are now!! A life we never dreamt of for ourselves but being able to craft something beautiful out of it is a skill! ❤
"I know it because I had to learn it." - words I can relate to so much. Carers Allowance, DLA, making it work for us. It really is all-consuming.
This was a great watch. Shocking how many miles parents drive to get their child to their provision!!
SEND family holidays really arent addressed very well so thanks for this. It feels like they really fall by the wayside. There's very little SEND provision for childcare, holiday clubs etc, almost like we are brushed under the carpet which is nothing new but stings a tad when I see all of these great clubs advertised but unable to cater for SEND in any capacity.
Dyslexia is so complex and fascinating - such a learning journey!
!00% we have a few in our team our are dyslexic and its so much more than just what people think
See you there! ❤
Hope you enjoyed it!! The feedback was great, can't wait for the next one
What is your favourite mocktail/cocktail? Tell us in the comments!
Watching this having being accused of FII? You're not alone. Let us know you're here with a comment. 💛
How do you #SEND parents approach quality time?
We'd love to hear from anyone who relates to this in the comments - we're here for you.
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