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I’m guessing you are not married with kids…🧐

Meds and therapy!!

Sounds like being human.

I'm very confused. I don't know whether I've ocd..I get upset when bits of paper fly when the fan is switched on, so I put weights above the paper so I can sleep safely. Another one is that I get upset if water is leaking or overflowing in the washroom. I'm very conscious of it, and I check the washroom frequently to keep my mind calm. Am i suffering from ocd? what do you think? Please help me find out.. Thank you for listening😄

Why haven’t they studied us? Oh yes, misogyny😈

When i interrupt ssri, will my body be able to delete ricaptetion of serotonin? Or I will have it forever? I tried but I didnt have high depression

I was just diagnosed last year (age 39). IEP and records stemming as far back as Head Start preschool program in 1987. I didn't speak til then; I had extremely poor hand to eye coordination; all the early signs. I would be first assessed in the second grade for learning disabilities. Sure enough: NVLD. (Affected mostly math skills academically-speaking but also affected music, gym class, art class) and noted shy behavior upon observation by school shrink on the recess grounds outside. I was then tested triennially, every three years. From second grade until 11th grade (my final psychoeducational evaluation and review before "aging out") that my strengths were all verbal, including a sense of humor and excellent behavior and self-advocacy skills. However...in my final review, it stated my weaknesses were difficulty to transition, 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩, mathematical concepts, receptive language processing, and low self-esteem. We covered my feeling of being on the outside looking in, and while this was noted in the final report before aging out, she was barking up the wrong tree in suggesting a mood disorder. The school therapist never looked deeper or considered the mere thought of autism. Clearly, a longstanding and pervasive pattern that my learning issues and such were not remitting, but due to being gifted with language skills and had learned masking through fear, I was able to obtain assistance with my math but nothing else. The school counselors always felt I was wasting their time just to get out of class due to depression. The entire time, they weren't hearing me and missed what was right in front of them.

thanks that was a breath of fresh air. people don’t know much about actual feminists…but they think they do. adrienne rich is a pleasure.

I am finding all these diagnosis confusing. I would simply try different techniques and see which one sticks. I have been diagnosed with bpd but i also am an infp personality type so i am naturally a neurodivergent mind. I have issues with procrastination, memory and becoming overwhelmed. I get sensory overload and can take things personally. Have always been sensitive. But most of that can be put down to my personality type infp. This being said if i am confronted with anger with the tone or someone shouting of being threatening then is when i can become overwhelmed with emotion and have through stress or fear overreacted in situations. Also low energy has always been a problem for me. So far i have implemented doing tasks and being productive in between doing things i like and of interest and getting rest. This all seems to be helping. And also recording things and keeping a schedule of sorts as well as journalling 😊

Bisexual is also a common theme as well. I think all sexual orientations experience being a sexuality other than the one they identify as.

What about thinking non stop. My brain won’t be quiet. It’s hard to sleep. Or I toss and turn or lay all different ways to get rest but can’t. I had to change my doorknob on my bedroom door so I can lock it every night. If it’s not locked I feel like someone is going to sneak in and kill me and my family. And if someone forgets to lock it, I get so stressed and angry. Whenever I drive I have to tap my middle finger & thumb together on the side. I feel like everyone is stupid and can’t drive and I’m the only smart one. (I’m not obviously) 😭 I pick anything on my face if it doesn’t feel smooth I have to run to the bathroom and pick even if it’s a scab.

Yeah went in to see if I had autism and they said BPD. Reading about it more and people's experiences I'm like 90% sure it was a misdiagnosis. I feel really frustrated.

Those who are not Gifted, by definition, cannot understand Giftedness. Add the American anti-intellectualism and resentment toward "smart" people and the Gifted get short-changed all the time.

Why is the title coping strategies but none are mentioned😅

There's nothing to talk about. We can't live in peace with Caucasians or mongolians. It time you bring live our carbon base planet. You all know our eumelanin/carbon is the ROOT of racism. The sun isn't your friend hence sunburn, sun poison, xerodermia pigmentosum and skin cancer. You are are NOT natural to🌎 You all were genetically engineered by Zeus. Gsyou can photosynthesize UVR. This is why you all hate us. Go back to your 3D universe and leave us alone.

I had a troll laughing at me for my unusual stature and my ocd is much worse today. Slept poorly.

Were are you located?

People straight up panic, even if they know its coming

I’m convinced my house will burn down if I don’t do head counts of my pets before leaving the house. lol exposure therapy itself gives me anxiety lol

“People feel misunderstood in a lot of different ways” wow I had no idea -.-

I think I need to try this because other therapy practices did not help me at all

It's a little confusing to me bc I personally was diagnosed with BPD _after_ I was diagnosed with ASD. But I also didn't really like the therapist that diagnosed me. But, like, I do have childhood trauma and genetic disposition that wouldn't make BPD unlikely. I'm just not sure if I actually have both or if my old therapist was just being kind of stupid.

Another example of how the mental health field mostly has no clue wtf it’s talking about, despite its hubris. This will be even more clear 100 years from now.

Bullshit,ocd is anxiety disorder and 99% of the time it is based on fear and anxiety

Wonderful information. The music is a little distracting tho

Idk if I have ocd but when I change something in my room at night I get really scared and get the feeling something bad is going to happen even if it’s just moving a glass ,a pillow or mg phone.

When i was younger my mum came across as homophobic whereas my dad seemed to be an ally, since coming out, i realised my mum just needed time to move out of her religious upbringing and shes very supportive whereas my dads "support" was actually him making homophobic jokes and he is clearly very uncomfortable and not happy about the person i am.

Lol! I love it! This is honestly a genius scam

BPD is also misdiagnosed as autism

BPD high rate of false diagnosis where Autism and trauma exist is attributed to pure misogyny, mistrust and invalidation of women's pain. Feel free to disagree. Lumping traumatised, genuinely distressed people in with the same category of narcissists and sociopaths is tantamount to psychological abuse, essentially telling victims that their trauma (e.g. childhood abuse) was their fault. Clinicians who ignore trauma and sensory processing issues should be sued for psychological damage.

as an autistic man formerly married to a BPD woman, I know much about this topic

I'm no rocket scientist but if more men are diagnosed Autistic and more women BPD, then maybe the imbalance is telling women their personality is disordered and telling men they merely think differently not disorderly.

You forget infections, like strep throat or Lyme

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I can never understand this confusion because autistic people don't constantly cheat on their partners and lie incessantly.

Talking about internalized homophobia in the same clip youre talking about transphobia is ironic because so many trans identify people feel deep shame in themselves and that is rooted in internalized homophobia. The trans buisness makes a lot of money off internalized homophobia and gay trauma.

What they should do to clarify is look at other things like if the person has sensory processing or coordination issues. Asd has physical components.

I have ocd i tap like a 6k times a day idk what do do and i keep looking back and back until it was perfect i am not good

Why is Giftedness not a Neurodivergence?

DBR is remarkable. A true paradigm shift in the treatment of trauma & dissociation.

First time i realize if i have an ocd was 1w years ago when i still on highschool, firts time i realize that when im drink and doin something, i always repeat somtething multiple time, and i woried if im not doin that multiple time, something bad will happened to me, and i think until now i still have it, but thank God i can handle it now

bro how your glasses perfectly match your hair.

I have ocd, but mine does not seem to be genetic. None of my other family members, my siblings, my grandparents or my great grandparents, (from both sides of my family) have ocd or show symptoms of ocd. I am pretty sure that mine is most likely caused by stress. Could you give an explanation for this by any chance?

I have ADHD, and wasn’t diagnosed until graduate school, when I couldn’t BS my way through classes anymore and had to actually apply what I was learning to the clinical field. Ended up failing and having to take remediation courses. This, along with being told what I’m truly gifted at (music, writing, and language) wasn’t “marketable” by my parents, basically destroyed me. I’m almost 36 and still having an identity crisis.

On top of this, there are strong gendered assumptions about both BPD and ASD. A common misconception about ASD is that it affects men almost exclusively, which makes it easy for women to get a false negative diagnosis of ASD. Similarly, BPD is often (incorrectly) seen as something that affects women almost exclusively, which makes it easy for a woman to get a false positive diagnosis of BPD. (And also makes it easy for men to get a false negative diagnosis of BPD.)

I think I have symmetry ocd. I have all the symptoms and I have for a while and it’s excruciating and this may sound weird but I’ll say it anyways. You know that feeling you get when you hear nails on a chalkboard? Not the sound, but the feeling. When something is off I get that feeling, and of course something is always off so I always have that feeling.

i have ocd

Im almost positive that I have OCD, but I'm too scared to ask ny mom for help... I'm scared that she will judge me, I'm scared the rest of my family will judge me, or think differently of me.. think I'm less capable.... I show myself many signs of it, I'm constantly checking on my chickens because I'm scared to leave them out because maybe a hawk will swoop one or more up! Or that I have really bad overthinking to the point where I even believe my thoughts and can't tell the difference between reality and my thoughts. My thoughts cause anxiety attacks and headaches, so painful un the abdomen. I am always cleaning because I for some reason really want the house to be clean so that nothing bad happens, or my dad doesn't come home from work to a kind of messy house. When I'm doing something like art, I have to have things in order or I freak out or get mad and start overthinking again. I'm not sure in Jealousy is apart of it, but I get mad/sad when people I care about don't hang out with me, I get sad about other people's happiness when I am having a very unsuccessful day... I also have to eat my food in order, like if we are having steak, I HAVE to eat the broccoli first, then the pasta, then the baked potato, then the steak. I get mad at people when they make repeating noises like tapping, or clicking a pen, or whistling/singing the same song over and over... I don't know whats wrong with me... it hurts me and my everyday life. I feel lonely and lost. It felt good to write all of this out. Thanks for reading my problems!

i'm diagnosed by a liscensed therapist with moderate ocd, it's not severe but it definitely isn't mild, and uh people on here questioning if they have ocd, do research outside of youtube shorts, please. these videos can be pretty good at making you think about it but no matter how knowledgeable a person is in the topic, you can't fit enough for you to self diagnose in such a short video. just make sure you do your research, because ocd really sucks and it's not something you can figure out if you have it or not in a day.

Its everything has to be the same and I check everything every time I tap alot