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Saurabh Srivastava
Добавлен 10 авг 2024
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I’m Saurabh
I started this channel to connect with you-not to preach or give GYAAN-but to share fresh perspectives and opinions on topics that impact us all: relationships, family, dealing with toxic people, narcissism, love, heartbreaks, and so much more!
Here, we’ll dive into the things that make us human.
While everyone else is focused on technology, AI, jobs, and careers to sustain life, we’ll focus on what we live for: love, romance, relationships, family, art, and storytelling.
Thank you for subscribing!
And if you're on Instagram, feel free to connect with me there, too.
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For suggestions and querries:
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Email - saurabhsrivastavag24@gmail.com
Why a Government Job HUSBAND Might Not Be the IDEAL Match For You!
Why a GOVERNMENT Job HUSBAND Might Not Be the IDEAL Match For You!
Are you thinking about marrying a government job husband because of financial stability and job security? Well, it’s time to rethink! In this eye-opening video, I reveal the hidden disadvantages of marrying a man with a sarkari naukri. While society glorifies government jobs, the reality of married life with a government employee can be far from ideal-whether you're a working woman or a housewife.
The Hidden Truth About Marrying a Government Employee
Many people believe that marrying a government job holder means a life of stability and comfort. But is it really that simple? Here’s what no one tells you:
Frequent Transfers - Y...
Are you thinking about marrying a government job husband because of financial stability and job security? Well, it’s time to rethink! In this eye-opening video, I reveal the hidden disadvantages of marrying a man with a sarkari naukri. While society glorifies government jobs, the reality of married life with a government employee can be far from ideal-whether you're a working woman or a housewife.
The Hidden Truth About Marrying a Government Employee
Many people believe that marrying a government job holder means a life of stability and comfort. But is it really that simple? Here’s what no one tells you:
Frequent Transfers - Y...
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Saadi ke baad bhi agar maa baap ke ghar me rahoge to biwi ko kam chance milega cheat krne ki, nehi to aap jab office jaoge to biwi koi aur ladke ko buliyagi, metro cities me bahut ho rahi hai almost 40 % married women cheat krti hai aise. Aur maan lo ki alagh ghar me raheta bhi hu to issliye ki biwi apni ghar chod rahi hai to mai bhi chodu toiss case me biwi ko ghar banane me ya rent me half contribution krni hogi, agar wo housewife hai to possible nehi hai. Aur alagh rahoge to biwi tumhe explode krne ki kosish kregi financially and mentally, biwi koi kaam nehi kregi kyu ki koi kaam hoga hi nehi bas enjoy kregi aap ki kamai pe.
Hypergamy gogale karle simps 😑
But beech beech mein alag rahe toh bonding badhti hai. Ek dusre ki value samajh aati hai
Bhai tune tension de di aab
Ye Chaman C correct bol raha h, jungle me posting milta h, main khud 12 saal se kar raha hu.. life jhund ho jata h
Bechari ki gf kisi sarkari job wale ke sath Saadi ho gai hai ...
Iski vi jali hai😂😂😂😂
Excellent job 👏
What about marrying a BOB bank girl I'm state government employee?
Same issue might arise! Will your department and BOB bank coordinate to give both of you postings in same station? Discuss this with the girl before getting married. Transfer in banks on spouse grounds depends on vacancy but in government, it depends on bureaucratic process! Both the department and the bank will have to coordinate to accomodate both of you together, which is quite difficult, in my opinion. Basically it will be a constant headache throughout the marriage to get postings together.
@saurabh.sri.vastava actually I'm from Punjab my posting is not an issue because it's in nearby district, 1 house daily travel i have no issue with that But what about her post will they consider this thing after marriage and will she get nearby district or town after marriage?
You will have to discuss this with the girl. Even if she gets posted nearby, she may be transferred later as part of routine reshuffling and mandatory rural postings for a certain duration.
Sarkari Naukri walo ki adhi property adultery wali l jati hai 😌
Bhai tune notice kiya ki tu har tarah ke aadmi aur aurto se shaadi krne ke liye mana kr rha hai !
😂 bhai jo sirf mere thumbnails dekhega...use aisi hi lgega! People need to watch my full videos to understand what I am trying to say. People are just used to consume content within 15-30 seconds these days. You can't watch my video for 2 minutes and then get offended and start commenting! Nothing of value can be delivered in short form content. I would request you all to watch my video till the end....you can increase the speed to 1.5x.
I am not talking about this particular video. Tune pichhli video bhi ese hi banai thi...Don't marry a govt. Job vaali girl. That's why I said that Aur sarkaari naukri vaalo ki shaadi private kahi jyada chalti hai
That's not the point. Main apni videos me kisi se shadi krne ko mna ni krta (sirf thumbnail me krta hun😂).....meri videos ka aim bs ye rehta hai to give people a reality check. Ek govt employee se shadi k advantages sbko pta hote hain bt koi disadvantage ki bat ni krta. Isliye maine video bnayi. Do you think meri video dekhne se koi kisi govt employee se shadi ni krega? Of course krega.....but they will at least know what exactly they are getting into
Is true.. it happens in our home
Give my 16 min, u wasted
I won't....sue me!
😂😂. There are lots of single people who are very very happy and Full of Life. This person is just misleading the people.
Sir, without watching your video I would like to add a comment out of my utter ignorance. In todays age money is everything and w0men will only go after money. At age 28 this is my experience. They dont care about our struggles they are waiting for the winner at the finishing line.
Well said brother. Thank you for being Honest.
Well said brother. Thank you for being Honest.
Govt job me sabka transfer nhi hota bhai I hv seen many couples jo alg alg department me hai, lekin dono joining se lekr retirement tk koi transfer nhi hua...
@@Sonalised_369 maine kb bola sbka transfer hota hai? Please watch the whole video before commenting!
भाई बैक ग्राउंड में जो म्यूजिक चल रहा है उसका नाम बताओ
Book the rental with it - Rage
Bhai tu Govt job lg nahi paya to baaki sb logo pr kyun frustration nikal rha h
Me railway me job karta hu, or jab tak me na chahu tab tak transfer nahi hoga, 6-7 year ke baad apne sehar me transfer ho hi jata hai, me choose kar sakta hu mujhe kaha transfer karwana hai,
Good, you are lucky..... These video was not just about railways department! Can you share in which city you are posted and what's your job profile?
@saurabh.sri.vastava technician 3 , in Siliguri
You're a technician with quite low salary posted in a samll town. Group C or lower level railway employees have stable postings but in backward and remote areas. Group B employees also get transferred in around 10 years and less likely to be in big cities. Totally depends on luck 🤞. Group A officers get posted in Big cities but they get transferred every 2-3 years. So whatever I have said holds true in your case as well. You have less chances of transfer but you have low income and you are less likely to get posting in a big city as you are a technician.
Trackman post pe hoge tum, 12 sal se mera transfer nahi huwa.... It depends on defination
@@rahullife2690 loco shed me hu, or 6-7 saal me transfer ho jata hai, fir ghar ke paas aa jao transfer kara ke, bohot log gaye hai hamare yaha to,
Pl make a video on why not to marry a private job person.😅
Bhai, being a govt employee I m agree with you for some parts..han yehe ki state govt job me kavi kavi blocks area me posting hoti he, rural me b hoti he lekin isse quality of life metro jesi to nehi ho sakti naa, lekin salary aur promotion me to koi farak nehi padta ...aur yesa nehi ki hamesa k lie block me rahe, city me b transfer ho jata he ...bahut sari SBI branch dekho rural area me he, to kya unki quality of life kharab h kya...aaj k time govt job lagana badi baat he ye kon dekhta he ki kanha posting hua he ....ager ladki wale charming prince , rich , metrocity wala rahees ladka dhund rahe h to govt. Employee se marriage mat kare, Software wale bhare pade he
@@dailylife1956 arey bhaiya an koi sahar gaon n h smje aj se 10 sal sahar ho ya gaon sari facilities dono jgh rhengi ap kahi v rho no problem aur aane wle smy me log sahar n gaon me posting chahenge qki vha better rhega atleast sudh hawa Hara bhara environment aur sari facilities milegi aur gaon ke log ache v hote h sahar ke comparison me ap gaon me rhoge kisi emergency v bacho ko chorke jna pad gya gaon ke log 4 roti khila denge ....par sahar ke log n 🙂
Meanwhile me from IIT M , leaving my 25 lpa package joining as Assistant Central intelligence officer in Intelligence Beauro laughing in corner seeing such bulshit video
Good luck....that laugh will not last for long😂
@@saurabh.sri.vastava It's pure evil the way you're trying to create a view that person's with Govt job will not have a good life🤣
You are disrespecting all those crpf jawans raw agents army guys all those whoe are in hard location protecting the land living apart from their families , here you come giving lectures to us that be with your wife and chill, let them die for us .. Your parameter of comparison that you have chosen exposes you badly. You could have chosen parameters like passion work enthusiasm and all but the illiteracy which you have in your innerself lead to such video . Rest in peace
sahi kaha ise kuch nahi pta
@AkashSingh-d2o8i First of all, my uncle is in Airforce. So, don't lecture me on disrespecting Jawans! Ye to whi bat ho gyi....govt ko khi bhi criticize kro to government aur unke agents ka reply aega - "hamare Jawan Siyachin pe lad re hain, don't disrespect them by questioning us!" Har bat me army ko le aao argument jitne k liye😂 Yahan bat general govt services ki condition ki ho ri hai....and it's not like that people working normal jobs are not serving the country and it's economy! I have huge respect for armed forces. They sacrifice a lot for this country, especially their family life. And this government introduced Agni Veer to disrespect them. Go lecture the government and not me. According to me, the Jawans of this country are not getting compensated in proportion to their sacrifice and contribution to this country. Their pay structure needs to be revised and should be different from the rest of the central government employees pay scales. You're from IIT, and you joined the government services for job security. If you want to serve the nation, you don't really need to get into government service. You could have started a startup and created jobs for the unemployed youth in this country. That could have been a bigger contribution than what you would contribute as ACIO! But, I guess you are one of the bottom products of IIT. Who are just lucky to find a job....let alone creating jobs.
Gov. Job wala must be laughing at this video sitting at a remote corner of a village somewhere.😂
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The arguments in this video hold no value: Who said private jobs don’t have transfers? Many MNCs relocate employees frequently. What’s the guarantee that another private job will always be available someone gets fired? Govt job wale business khol sakte hain (through wife), but can a businessman/private job worker get a govt job? Govt provides quarters, private companies don’t even do that after transferring employees. Govt jobs hold prestige in society, unlike private jobs where the boss exploits employees. Private job wale sath reh bhi lenge-par stress me, because private jobs are full of pressure. Mutual transfers and spouse postings in state govt jobs are much easier and frequently accepted, while in central govt mutuals are easy spouse are a bit tricky. Govt jobs have a better work-life balance, private jobs mean constant hustle, after coming to home your mind is still at 60% active not 100% drained like private jobs. Private jobs are unstable, layoffs and salary cuts are common, but govt employees get pensions when was the last time a dad in private job died and family did not get pension for life or a govt job for life. when was the last time a guy retired from business and received a lumpsun retirement amount from business after working 30 years? The challenges which are said in this video are indeed true but very small hurdles that can easily be managed this is life all about everything cannot be 100% perfect, if you seek absolute perfection in your partner, you might stay unmarried forever.
Govt. provided accommodations are shit holes.
@@kapilbhardwaj4680 You can always surrender them and reapply or you can take House Rent allowance instead if you don't like them, the point here is you have the option available to you.
Yes 💯 true ..govt job is govt job no comparison with private sector jobs👍
You have provided me good points about govt job to debunk in my upcoming video of this series. Thanks!
@@saurabh.sri.vastava Glad my points gave you content. Debunk all you want, but at the end of the day, government employees retire with pensions-RUclipsrs retire with demonetization.
Kya ho gaya bhai ...kisi sarkari naukari wale ke sath bhaag gai kya biwi tabhi aise videos bana rha hai 😂😂😂😂😂
Lag rha hai kisi sarkari naukari wale ne iski biwi ko baja diya 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
hn bhai voh directly bol nhi sakta isslia yeh video banaya hai 😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 bhai yaar tum gazab bole ho prakash verma
Dekh lio teri biwi ko b koi baja kr jyga jo tujhse upar hoga ..full bja chuka hoga teri biwi ko koi Ldki k liye kya use kr rha hai word soch toh le ..teri maa bhen ko b bjaa chuka hoga koi
Iska to pata nahi par teri jaroor bajegi pakaa
itna ghatiya kyu hai mindset
Rndya aayengi sarkari Naukri walo se shadi karne ke liye kyuki khud unki aukat to hai nahi naukri pane ki jis samay padhna likhna tha oyo me bechari abla naari log ludo khelri thi waah maa baap ne bahut bade aur unche sanskar diye hai apne betiyo ko beti bachao beti padhao aur oyo me pelwao chhàprio se chhàpri ke sath ghumegi jo bidi pita ho ganja pita ho Aand gend ka jisko hosh na ho bas daru pk party karta ho cool 😎 ho life ki koi tension ho nahi aage chalke yahi log kuda uthate hai shishi bottle 🍾 binte hai 😂😂 aur bhangar wale ko bechte hai 😂
Jaruri h husband hmedha sath rahe 😊sal me har 3 se 4 mhime me ata jata rhega ...ab vo jamana n rha jab pati patni y bhaiya bhabhi khandan sath rhta h ab sb alg alg jgh settle ho jate h 😊......mere pitaji crpf me h unki job 22 sal ke umr me lgi thj aj vo 50 sal ke h par hmlog ko kabhi n lga ki mere papa hmlog se dur h ya sb qki hmedha call ata h aur vo tym tym pr aate rhte h .. aur dur rheke v rk jo pita k pyar me koi kmi n chore h ...😮..its all depends on ur mentality.....by yhr way gov job is better than private job ...because in gov job ur lyf is secure but in private not ....
Bachon ko papa ki kami ni khalti hai……wife ko apne husband ki kami khalti hai…… you made it all about yourself! Just because you never felt anything missing, you assumed your parents were also happy!
Despite being in govt job, ur statement that govt job is better than private job is total bullshit and shows crippled mindset.
Absolutely right 😂
Guruji jai shree ram
Too d point bola sir ❤
Government job walo ke nakhare bhut h 😂
Kyun na ho 5 saal mehnat kar k exam qualify kar k job Mila he, 60 years tak job ka koi tension nehi...salary b achhi he...to nakhre kyun na kare...ladki thodi gori aur sunder kya hui bahut nakhre karne lagti he aur sarkari job wala v to thoda bahut karega naa😂😂😂
bhai your videos are excellent but the background music gives a light feel to your words. This background music doesn't suit the topics you make videos on, consider removing background music, removing it won't make the video boring I assure you
Life is all about compromises...it doesn't matter wherever you marry.
Of course it is. This video is meant to help people decide what kind of compromise they are willing to make!
No. Not exactly.
Bhai apke hisab se sarkari Naukri wale bevkuf hote hai.
Maine aisa to nhi bola
Watch this Video as Well for full picture: Don't Marry a Girl in Sarkari Naukri - ruclips.net/video/LpYAH4dgbdo/видео.html
Marriage has become a business today. Stay single stay happy. Most relationships are materialistic.
Matlab, kamane waali ladki honi chahiye 👍
Mera ek dost hai jiska bodycount 20+ hai. Most girls he has slept with were married housewives so ur analogy is correct 👍🏻
Thanks
One languages uses ..thoda bahut mix chlta hai
Pahle jamane ki tarah ab lady ko nahi rkha ja skta hai...sab kuch change ho gya hai.
फैमिली कोर्ट के अंदर जाए और सुने असली ज्ञान मिलेगा वहां 😂
Yahan nakli gyan mil ra hai!
@saurabh.sri.vastava पहले सुने फिर निर्णय करें आतुरता शोभनीय नही है पार्थ वो सुने जो विवाह जैसे मुद्दों पर सकारात्मक विचारों से परिपूर्ण है तबे ना समझेगा
@@chandanpandey5663 ap gyan ki thodi varsha karen aur darshakon ko aalokit kren! 😄
Bahar kaam karne wli larkiya chinar ban jati h affairs
Lagta teri maa GB road par kaam karti thi
Points to be highlighted. Thankyou❤
Good video. These topics are crucial to discuss.
Spot on. You're correct✅
Thanks
Mere female friend 32 age govt job shadi ke liye ladka nahi mil raha.
Kahan se milega....jb tk age rehti hai tb tk nakhre khatam ni hote!!
@@saurabh.sri.vastavashi kha bhai
Jab tak prenup law nhi aa jata tab tak mai shadi nhi karunga
Kuch log videos banathe hai U should not marry a Medical field girl Kuch IT bolthe hai kuch gov service, Kuch log kuch aur bolenge and the list goes on......
We r there for u...