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Yep. Australia has a massive campaign at the moment about domestic violence and it's all about men being the perps.

My ex accused me of assault no further action was taken 3 weeks later

Only women can be victims of violence. Or so the Australian Government seems to think

I have an abusive father he does this.

The VAAAAAST majority of information and media on this topic depicts situations that individually and collectively insinuate it is something caused by men and suffered by women. Even this rare video giving a counterpoint to consider shows men suffering what would be labelled plain old extreme domestic and physical violence. Watch the videos depicting men as the threat and women as the victim and look at the subtle things that constitute coercive control, now tell me with a straight face that less than 90% percent of men in a relationship are not victims to this behaviour....

Police are always on the women's side

It’s absolutely appalling that there are so many people out there, speaking out for women against domestic abuse, but the only service a resource that available for men is listening to the voices of other victims well women have thousands of stories of women who left an abusive relationship, and it made them better. The only thing men have his stories of men who are probably still in an abusive relationship. Some of them got out, but none of them found peace. Because, even though you were able to get out, she still has control of your life that’s not the case with women as soon as you get out, he no longer controls her life.

After seeing this video, I might have the strength to leave before it gets too bad because currently it’s just I’m being primed for abuse. It’s the little things she’s using to control me and I just afraid if I dump her, I’ll be looking over my shoulder for the rest of my life

One thing that I don’t understand about girls who are coercive control you tell them some thing like I have a bad knee or my hand hurts or my teeth are riding out of my skull and they say they listen to it it’s OK I won’t do that and was the first thing she does exactly what she was asked not to like I have my back teeth rotting out of my skull but still my girlfriend will grab my face and squeeze no matter how many times I’ve told her that is excruciatingly painful don’t do that Because she grabs and squeeze it, like she’s telling a child not to put their hand in the cookie jar or something

I might be suffering from coercive abuse, but it’s the early stages and I’m too weak to leave because all she does now is belittle my identity anything that I want to do that she dislikes she makes me feel bad for liking it so I have to like her likes and wants and only her likes and wants if I wear something she disagrees with. I have to change if she hurts me while I were roughhousing and yeah I’m at an actual physical pain because she hit me in the nuts or I’m saying ow stop she starts crying and I’m there to comfort her and I thought no means no and stop means stop because if I tell you stop pinching me stop hitting me stop slapping me stop kicking me that should be the meaning to never do that again even in a playful way because I didn’t enjoy it in a playful way but apparently for men stop, doesn’t mean stop it means I’ll do it again next time and sometimes when she’s upset or mad or frustrated, she’ll pinch me or squeeze me tightly because of a video game or some like that like I feel like I can’t leave her because she’s been diagnosed as a learning disability, and I would be considered a bad person for leaving her and who knows what lies she’ll spread about me or things to fabricate because everyone’s gonna believe her because she’s in capable of lying according to society

One thing society has taught me about mental health in males is it’s easier to make victims and be a victim and if you’ve been a victim, all you’re gonna do is make victims because male domestic abuse is a societal problem that leads to female domestic abuse because 95% of men who domestically abuse a woman admit they were abused one time or another by a woman either their mother or previous partner but the society care about that now they say women deserve every level of protection, and they need to be protected every cost, but we’re not going to stop mail domestic abuse, which is the root cause a female domestic abuse if you want women to stop being abused, maybe take mail domestic abuse seriously and then will be less females being abused by men because a man will abuse a female because he has been abused by a female in the past, but a woman will abuse a man just because she thinks she’s superior, and we need to stop this mentality that women are superior to men because they’re creating domestic abuser’s because they’re untouchable. All they need to do is cry and suddenly everything they did wrong is OK you punch your boyfriend in the face cry and say you’re sorry suddenly he hast to be there to comfort You.

I had to dig in search for this video. It is absolutely sad. That society is doing everything they can to hide information about male domestic abuse and coercion control because I recently learned you can be coercion controlled. Like everything she does wrong to me is somehow my fault. She hit me in the nuts when roughhousing it’s my fault. I wear the wrong clothing. It’s my fault. Currently it’s in the beginning where she doesn’t have a lot of control over my life where she’s doing all the priming, but I’m so desperate for love. I might stick with her because I have no one else that will care about me and society obviously doesn’t want to help me.

This is indeed powerful stuff! And describes many of the things that happened during the many years of Domestic Abuse towards me, when I finally spoke to my local Domestic Violence Services, the Two Ladies who listened to me plight, told that I had suffered from every form of Domestic Abuse there is!! Within the next few months, I myself singlehandedly helped the above Domestic Violence Services and the Professors at the University of South Wales to set up whats now known as the Compass Programme which is the Male equivalent of the Womens Freedom Programme, While all of that time still suffering from the traumatic experiences that I have and still suffer from, Yet I have still helped to mentor Survivors and Victims while finding it extremely difficult to deal and cope with the very difficult problems that have affected and are effecting my own life from own personal experience of the Abuse carried out on me over many years by my estranged wife of nearly Sixteen years.

It could be P.M.T. not that always can be use that as an excuse to get out themselves of trouble though! :-0

(Sigh!), (A Roll Of The Eyes,) "Another pair of shoes/bags?. You know what would happen if you bought either another pair of shoes/or a handbag. O.k, Give me your debit card, youre not getting that back till I say you can have that back, & I can trust you again!" Well, What Kind Of Behaviour Was That?!

Not only women can suffer domestic violence, but men can also suffer from it too. Even domestic violence can happen to gay/lesbian relationships too. The list can go on forever! :-0

Used the legal system to destroy my life. Lies and lies and lies and the family court don’t do anything about it. False allegations and prevent access to my kids. She continues to control my whole life through the court system , 19 months in child arrangements , court in September

My kings. Always remember that in this day and age in the feminist left controlled west, everything you say or do to your wives and girlfriends can always be repackaged and relabeled as "abuse" or "coercive control". However when it happens to us as men we are expected to deal with it and if we leave the relationship, that's when she will destroy you. Women are also encouraged to behave in ways that are rebellious towards their boyfriends and to have no regard for their intimate relationships. The only way to escape this is to date women from abroad or very carefully vet the women in your life who are from the west and make she knows that while she is with you, you are the leader of the relationship and that she is happy to follow in your shoes.

It’s so sad , when I saw this video I can’t believe I going now for all that syndromes , she called on me to police for asking to pick up our son from school on her day off because I’ve had work on afternoon and police coming and didn’t ask me anything just questioning her or I am abusing her , so the system is against me 😢

That's just sad, sad, sad! 😡😡😡😡😡😡

Men can't fight back because they know the system is on their side

I am going through abuse right now by a woman but no one will listen to me

''they try to get everyone to believe I am the abuser'' ....that's their main tool. Female narcissists/sociopaths are everywhere out there, society is deeply deeply ignorant about them and keeps supporting them by demonising men wrongly.

Mine held her hands against the walls of the hall screechinjg at me and when I tucked my arms in and ducted under her she called me a coward, I know as a fact that she wanted me to fight and strike her so she could use a DVO (this is something what she actually said to me, I left 3 days later).

Hope this trial for Johny Depp bring some voice for abused men out there.. Men suffer silently

Controlling, overpossesive, jealous.. These r 3 words that describes it all

Jealousy, possessiveness, controlling.. These 3 terms defines my ex

This is very real and hurts so much

If or when you plan to break up with your partner AND LEAVE due to abuse, PLE3ASE DO NOT TELL THEM. Get away on THE QUIET. Only tell your abusive partner that you have left them once you are safe and sound. You cannot expect an abusive partner to be reasonable about the break up, it simply will not happen that way. Please plan on the queit and safely leave. Your safety is first and foremost

The system is designed for max damage inflict on people, to reduce population, to raise dumb and useless children and to make profit by adding into the families issues. The meanings are in complete disparity with the current vocabularies. Ministry of truth just propagates lies in 1984, as the family court is an anti family device.

Omg I'm so sorry for all of them

I am actually going through this in my life! :( I have been suffering emotional abuse from my partner.. I didn't realise what it was until very recently . I have come out the toxic relationship however she has our home and will not let me see our baby. she is claiming that she was abused by me! I hope the UK legal system will see the truth through my text evidence and the people I know can vouch for my character.

Male victims are on the rise! We need to be heard! I've been a victim more than once! Especially whilst alcohol is involved!

Thank you for making this video. May all these beautiful people find joy again. Does anyone know any good support for survivors?

Wow, alot of what I went through was voiced in this video, im from the u.s. and I'm trying to find a method of legal action to take to stop the bullshit. And I won't back down, any tips or advice would be greatly appreciated

Im going through this now lies if abuse and u just had a vacated plea as police litrally tried to fit me up ..im parental alienation aswell i need belp she is doing everything by the book of buse but no one listens i got 4 sisters and 3 girls im far from it

Have you see Respect UK's toolkits for male victims and female perpetrators ? It is so disgusting.

Thanks a lot for this video. My bro just realized he was the victim and I wish to help him more to go through this 😢

I don't know why society is sceptical all my life I have seen female violence.

Awesome and tragic. I could add to this video and I'm sure there are thousands of other men that either don't know they've been abused\controlled or daren't come forward. Thank you for putting this together.

Excellent video, too many men are suffering and no-one is there for them. People are scared/too blinded to challenge woman in case they are called out for victim blaming, and then there is the male shaming. This works in the favour of female abusers and it is so wrong. Who is there for these men, it's heart-breaking.

Very moving - we need to more to help.

I have little to offer by way of experience (although I have been in an abusive relationship, it went both ways - and it was emotional, as opposed to physical, abuse as it were a distance relationship). But I'd like to leave a comment anyway to make this video more likely (if only slightly) to show up for random people across the world. I will tell you about how when I was a kid, being indoctrinated into the cult of feminist ideas (no, not really "feminism", they never gave it a name), I wanted to be one of those people fighting for the rights of others. I wanted to be one of those "have-it-all"s, fighting for the "have-not"s. I wanted to be a champion of justice and equality, regardless of cost to mind and limb - and I was taught this injustice only happened to people who weren't like me. I never wanted any recognition for it, and I still don't. However, a few years back I came to realize that the people needing this sort of help the most right now, are people like me; men. The people who are told they're not worth anything to anyone unless they put all their effort into the betterment of the state, are men - the people who are told they're worthless and might as well rot away if they don't do enough for others. I thought, for a while, that I could be the hero in shining armor. Turns out the only ones who could wear that enchanted armor are women. The women who truly, honestly, care about the men in their lives. And I'm really scared thinking about how many of those women are left.

The Irish Father was talking about Parental Alienation that is Coercive Control & Child Abuse

Good video lads straight to the point

Excellent production!

Well done in giving voice to men's e experiences. I was wide eyed student in theclare 70s when I attended a talk by Erin Pizzey. At the time she was very well known due to her work on domestic violence. In that talk she included her work with Males seeking help or Refuge. The founder of the Refuge charity and movement subsequently sidelined by feminists turning against her humanitarian concern. It is a tragedy that such a video as this is a brave product, simply pointing out the reality.

A very powerful video containing the valid experiences of abused men

Horrific but brilliant, well done Firebird ❤️

Horrendous, but a superb video. Well done Firebird 🙌🙌🙌