Empowering Divorce Transitions
Empowering Divorce Transitions
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Rediscovering Yourself Through Divorce
Divorce can strip away more than just a relationship-it can challenge your identity, self-worth, and sense of purpose. For Ben, a listener and coaching client, overcoming this painful transition led to profound personal growth, a renewed connection with his children, and a rediscovery of freedom and happiness.
Listen in as Ben reveals how moving back to his childhood home 800 miles away became a catalyst for change, as well as an important mindset shift that can make all the difference. You’ll hear what it takes to free yourself from the expectations of others, how you can find healing, and more.
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Видео

Pain as a Teacher: A New Perspective on Divorce
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Pain as a Teacher: A New Perspective on Divorce
Managing Divorce Anxiety with "Tapping" | Emotional Freedom Technique with Jenna D’Annunzio
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Managing Divorce Anxiety with "Tapping" | Emotional Freedom Technique with Jenna D’Annunzio
How Detachment Theory Can Help You Heal Through Divorce
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How Detachment Theory Can Help You Heal Through Divorce
Breaking the Fault Cycle: Shifting Your Divorce Energy for a Healthier Transition
Просмотров 26Месяц назад
Breaking the Fault Cycle: Shifting Your Divorce Energy for a Healthier Transition
Post-Divorce Sex: How to Handle Performance Anxiety and New Relationships w/Sexologist Kevin Anthony
Просмотров 63Месяц назад
Post-Divorce Sex: How to Handle Performance Anxiety and New Relationships w/Sexologist Kevin Anthony
How Stoicism Can Help Solo Parents During Divorce
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How Stoicism Can Help Solo Parents During Divorce
Turn Your Divorce Into a Powerful New Beginning
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Turn Your Divorce Into a Powerful New Beginning
Trailer: A Man’s Journey Through Divorce Podcast Relaunch
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Trailer: A Man’s Journey Through Divorce Podcast Relaunch
Transforming Divorce: Empowering Your Journey with You Tree
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Transforming Divorce: Empowering Your Journey with You Tree
Setting a Divorce Plan: Maintain Prosperity and Move Down the Right Path
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Setting a Divorce Plan: Maintain Prosperity and Move Down the Right Path
About the Patreon Page.
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About the Patreon Page.
How To Overcome Uncertainties That Arise Throughout Divorce
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How To Overcome Uncertainties That Arise Throughout Divorce
The 3 Phases Of The Divorce Timeline
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The 3 Phases Of The Divorce Timeline
What The Ending Of Unequals In Your Marriage Means
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What The Ending Of Unequals In Your Marriage Means
This Is How A Divorce Impacts The 3 Realms Of Your Being
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This Is How A Divorce Impacts The 3 Realms Of Your Being
How To Create A Compassionate Divorce
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How To Create A Compassionate Divorce
For the Man Who Didn't Ask for the Divorce
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For the Man Who Didn't Ask for the Divorce
Thought Reversal Technique
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Thought Reversal Technique
Handling Unfairness
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Handling Unfairness
See Divorce as a Season
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See Divorce as a Season
The Toxic Dance
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The Toxic Dance
How to Recover from Divorce?
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How to Recover from Divorce?
Paradox of Transcending
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Paradox of Transcending
Desire for Certainty
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Desire for Certainty
Handling Unfair Divorce Rulings
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Handling Unfair Divorce Rulings
Man Suffering with Divorce
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Man Suffering with Divorce
Parent Alienation - Is Your Ex-Wife Keeping Your Kids From You?
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Parent Alienation - Is Your Ex-Wife Keeping Your Kids From You?
Divorce Recovery Climb
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Divorce Recovery Climb
Steve Schleupner Introduction
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Steve Schleupner Introduction

Комментарии

  • @mussersbowsboatsandscience6610

    My wife divorced me after 27 years. It does few years. I learned a good deal from my new relationships too. Toughest part is 19 year old son is more distant than I wish he would be. My ex wife and I now have really nice conversations.

  • @chrisduhaime5689
    @chrisduhaime5689 Год назад

    So many have there ball in the purse zipped tight living on a small amount of his own money and getting played to the end.

  • @mx5219
    @mx5219 Год назад

    if a women tells you she wants a divorce she has been thinking this for months if not years...and more than likely there is another man involved. Emotionally/physically or both. Bet on it..

  • @olechristianhenne6583
    @olechristianhenne6583 Год назад

    RUN AWAY FROM WOMEN WHO WANTS TO GET MARRIED

  • @hontxn4636
    @hontxn4636 Год назад

    Never enter into a contract with someone who gets paid to break it.

  • @johntomik4632
    @johntomik4632 Год назад

    My xwife was having an affair with her doctor. Classic I know lol. No kids so I just got in my truck and left everything. Clothes, home, business and I mean everything. It's been a second chance at life. I hiked for 1500mi for six months last year. Now I brew beer for work, fly airplanes and a lot of other fun stuff. Life is good and I'm usually the coolest guy in the room:)

    • @divorcecoaching745
      @divorcecoaching745 Год назад

      Now this is a story I like to hear. Brought a smile to my face.

    • @johntomik4632
      @johntomik4632 Год назад

      @Divorce Coaching for Men that's just a very small piece lol. Right after I got divorced I worked a sweet job for couple months. Then my mom developed full blown alzheimers and my dad lost his mind too. I was their caregiver during 2020. It was so brutal. Didn't even have the energy to worry about the divorce. Sadly my mon passed early in 2021. Then my brother raided the house and stole all he could from our dad. I just dropped everything again LMAO and hit the Appalachian Trail. Best thing I could think of at the time lol. Buy I would do it all again. There is still a lot more to my story for sure. Definitely a lone wolf but it's fun most of the time. Thanks for your video!!

  • @williamj.dovejr.8613
    @williamj.dovejr.8613 2 года назад

    Believe it or not, she did you a favor... do it right and it can be the best thing to ever happen to you.

  • @nickwelchoff4677
    @nickwelchoff4677 2 года назад

    Being married nowadays is high risk & low reward for men. There are no benefits for men.

  • @Lydia-Roe
    @Lydia-Roe 2 года назад

    There isn't a handbook for life, for marriage, for relationships. That's the key. Stay the course to your own path, helping your heart, understanding who you are - and being THAT guy no matter what. Taking accountability is key for any/all who have divorced. It is the only way we grow and learn. Not every part of marriage is/was horrible, or none of us would've been there in the first place. Some seasons are good, others are difficult, and most brought us through stronger - or so we had hoped. There are ways to grow from the blindside. Men, I've learned, seem to take this differently than women do. I am learning after 10 years of divorce. There are a lot of wonderful people out there. Work on yourself, get crystal clear about your future, and do not lose hope.

    • @searcymasonry
      @searcymasonry Год назад

      ha . you'll smack the wall in a couple of years and there wont be wonderful " people " anywhere .

  • @Lpmeff
    @Lpmeff 2 года назад

    There all the. Same

  • @EdddieJay
    @EdddieJay 2 года назад

    Thanks for this video, keep moving forward brother

  • @danielstevens4198
    @danielstevens4198 2 года назад

    The Man Who Didn't Ask for the Divorce... :I pity the fool"

  • @jimmyjimjim3054
    @jimmyjimjim3054 2 года назад

    Any man who gets married in 2022 is a fool.

  • @Eric-kn4yn
    @Eric-kn4yn 2 года назад

    Divorce 75% instigated by F. Wake up outta Ur fantasy

  • @tonydiesel3444
    @tonydiesel3444 2 года назад

    Why you get married lol thats not smart

  • @adamsnelson4689
    @adamsnelson4689 2 года назад

    Only way to win is not to play fellas

  • @spirit13the1st6
    @spirit13the1st6 2 года назад

    Never trust a woman. Never take them serious. The Bible says "GUARD YOUR HEART" And always remember GOD HATES DIVORCE. So you are supported by no.1.

  • @jpalm500
    @jpalm500 2 года назад

    Never get married. These hoes cannot be trusted. 90% of American women are liars and are on some kind of pill because they have psyc issues. They are depressed, neglected, you don't give enough attention, 1 out of 3 has had abortion. Marry a foreign woman and move to her country. Do not bring her to the states or she'll be ruined.

  • @collijee
    @collijee 2 года назад

    With thanks and respect from Ireland 👍

  • @ivermectin1974
    @ivermectin1974 2 года назад

    77% of all divorces are initiated by women. So always watch out for yourself. Get a bank account away from your wife’s. And if she stays then you have a nice retirement. Also don’t 100% commit with your heart. That way when she breaks it it doesn’t hurt as much. And if you decide to get married again. Don’t have joint accounts. And don’t commit 100%.

    • @divorcecoaching745
      @divorcecoaching745 2 года назад

      Iver, thank you for sharing this perspective. Seriously! It's a common one, and I understand where it comes from. I truly do. This doesn't have to be our stories, though. We have the power to create different ones. I'll share my perspective. It's not to change yours, because yours may work for you. It's merely to give other readers another point of view. I've seen the 77% stat. It might be true, but it is also a convenient way for us to say divorces are mostly women's vault. To move beyond, we need to take 100% responsibility for the role we played in the relationship, period. Break-ups are 100% her fault and 100% his fault. Without this equal accountability, we get the live with some level of blame. This blame cords us stay to the pain of the divorce. It allows the divorce to define us, and hinders our ability to move on with our lives being the person we want to be. Hiding money is financial infidelity. When you are tempted to hide it (which is a natural protective inclination) realize that the money is a resource to either invest in working on your relationship, or invest in working together to create a healthy exit. Use your money to invest in positive outcomes. There is no size of account that eliminates divorce pain, not even Tom Brady's. Hiding money is a scarcity, fear-based reaction. One can't receive abundance when they operate in scarcity. I understand it's scary to recommit. I just remarried. I am familiar with the thought process. However, not committing to anything you choose to do in life is a recipe for a let down, if not a failure. If a person chooses to stay in non-marriage relationships, commit to that 100%. If a person chooses to get married, commit to that 100%. But, think twice before staying in, or entering, marriage if you are not willing to commit 100%.

    • @davidm4566
      @davidm4566 2 года назад

      This is terrible advice. You are preparing for divorce from the first moment of your marriage. That marriage will be tainted. You are treating the woman who probably has done nothing wrong yet as the enemy from the very start. A marriage started like this will not work. If you can't trust your spouse from the beginning to this degree, then don't get married.

    • @MrRaErickson
      @MrRaErickson 2 года назад

      terrible advice

    • @Eric-kn4yn
      @Eric-kn4yn 2 года назад

      A man of wisdom 👏

    • @mikeheaton8424
      @mikeheaton8424 2 года назад

      Don’t marry in the first place !

  • @chadcowie7715
    @chadcowie7715 2 года назад

    Thank you brother🙏🏼

  • @johnrencheck2283
    @johnrencheck2283 2 года назад

    Learn from your mistake of MARRIAGE the first time and mazke sure theres never a second your life alone will be 100% better

  • @peterm1826
    @peterm1826 2 года назад

    I found out. That when I got divorced. That all my problems were over. And $$$$$ Started adding up. I’m happy doing my own thing. And the ex wife is extremely pissed 😠 off. Because I showed her I’m no simp. Now she’s regretting her decision. lol tough Shit. She made her bed she can lie in it.

    • @PoyTroy
      @PoyTroy 2 года назад

      I think my ex is on the way to feeling this, I can feel it when I'm around her and my child

    • @carlmarch9591
      @carlmarch9591 2 года назад

      Same here mate especially after her friends husband dumped her and levelled up

  • @AfroMedic
    @AfroMedic 2 года назад

    My beautiful girlfriend left, I am glad she started it because I knew if we were to marry it wouldn't work out well. I pray for her.

  • @kestane123chesmo
    @kestane123chesmo 2 года назад

    horrible advice

  • @johnnydoe3469
    @johnnydoe3469 2 года назад

    Because today women have been taught it’s ok you don’t need a man in fact go get a girlfriend go have casual anonymous sex, get drunk be wild…..

  • @hendraprasetya2999
    @hendraprasetya2999 2 года назад

    Do not get marriage . Ever ! Ever ! Please consider to never get marriage

  • @jimdemichele5479
    @jimdemichele5479 2 года назад

    She used filing as a last resort but she is keeping her options open…do I still have hope? We are separated because she wanted space

    • @divorcecoaching745
      @divorcecoaching745 2 года назад

      You always have hope. However, what's within your control is your decisions, choices, and responses. Her decisions, choices and responses are not in your control. Hope is great if managed correctly. Attachment to hope can be harmful because when an action beyond your control blocks what you hope for, then that hope (or desire) bounces back and creates suffering. The suffering is around wanting something you cannot have.

    • @johnrencheck2283
      @johnrencheck2283 2 года назад

      Dont be a beta wanting space is nothing more than her fn other guys as a tryout to be her next fool to sucker into marriage its over for her and has been for a while buddy

    • @racebannon96
      @racebannon96 2 года назад

      My wife of 10 years advised me that she wanted a divorce. She wasnt helping me with the kids or chores. She didnt want me touching her. She was going to let me have our young kids and the new house so she could "find herself". Two months after she moved out, she wanted to come back, her affair partner was not working out. I could never trust her and I didnt want to go through this again with her later on, so I told her No. I filed for divorce and got it done in 5 months. The kids are grown now and married. Divorcing her and moving on with my life was something I never regretted.

    • @GB-en7ue
      @GB-en7ue 2 года назад

      ‘I need space’ & ‘ I need to find myself’ means she’s getting plowed or 💯 open to it with ppl she’s already got an eye for. It’s over.

    • @RearviewMirror-ij2pr
      @RearviewMirror-ij2pr 2 года назад

      Walk away now. Its over. She wants space? Ok. I believe Bezos is selling seats to space. She will have all of the space she wants. And then some.

  • @joebol2036
    @joebol2036 2 года назад

    Never look back and don’t ever attempt to get her back. Work, succeed, enjoy your new life.

  • @mykolavladislavovichzloche6413
    @mykolavladislavovichzloche6413 2 года назад

    💯 true. I just want to kidnap these people who do unfiar things .. Sort of reminds me of something the government taught me

  • @Yongs17
    @Yongs17 2 года назад

    You changed my life wirh your previous videos. Thank you sir. Keep posting brother 🙏 💯

  • @radicalhonesty3628
    @radicalhonesty3628 2 года назад

    as I watch this video, what arises in me, is longing and desire and an immense and intense ache inside my soul... I pray magical blessings in the lives of myself and my true love (that I am yet to meet). may him and I, both experience magical transformation and new levels of enlightenment and bliss... and may that lead us to each other, very-very soon! and may you, as well, beloved reader, be blessed, too...

  • @mariestevenson1630
    @mariestevenson1630 2 года назад

    He’s moved on before the divorce

  • @Yongs17
    @Yongs17 3 года назад

    Thank you brother, I needed to hear this.

    • @divorcecoaching745
      @divorcecoaching745 3 года назад

      You bet. You have what it takes to get through anything. Just ask "how can I..."

  • @meanboycoins6250
    @meanboycoins6250 3 года назад

    My wife took my gold, silver money, and im stuck here waiting on her heh. Im the disabled husband, she is a bread maker. she moved my payments to her account lol. why to F me . She planned all this while i was visiting my dying mother. I cant make this crap up.

  • @brightonwestvideo
    @brightonwestvideo 3 года назад

    Great tips Steve - and I love that you broke out the differences caused by who is leaving who.

    • @divorcecoaching745
      @divorcecoaching745 3 года назад

      Glad it was helpful! If you're interested in a free consult, I'd love to talk with you about your situation. youtreecoaching.com/about/contact/

  • @brightonwestvideo
    @brightonwestvideo 3 года назад

    Thanks Steve - these are great tips!

    • @divorcecoaching745
      @divorcecoaching745 3 года назад

      Thanks Brighton. I'm glad you enjoyed them. Is there any one tip that stood out for you?

    • @brightonwestvideo
      @brightonwestvideo 3 года назад

      @@divorcecoaching745 #3 was the best - it's hard, but it works out in the long term.

  • @AlmostRetiredinMexico
    @AlmostRetiredinMexico 3 года назад

    Great tips - thanks Steve!

  • @kestonluke6439
    @kestonluke6439 3 года назад

    Happy I found this

    • @divorcecoaching745
      @divorcecoaching745 3 года назад

      I'm glad you found it too. Reach out if you need anything Kreston