Choosing Love
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The Toxic Trap of Crab Mentality: How It Affects Your Success
Are you trapped in the crab in a bucket mentality? Here is what is it, how it's affecting your success, and how to avoid this harmful way of thinking.
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I'm Cade. My mission is to help struggling individuals everywhere ditch the auto-pilot, unfulfilled life - and transform their lives by:
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Why the Best Is Yet to Come Into Your Life
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Here are 5 reasons why the best is still yet to come into your life, and why good things are just around the corner. ❤️‍🔥 Subscribe to not be dead inside Need some help manifesting? Download my free guide: stan.store/ChoosingLove Socials IG - choosinglove.ig X - choosinglove_x Threads - www.threads.net/@choosinglove.ig TikTok - www.tiktok.com/@choosing.love For busines...
No Smartphone for 30 Days Challenge (here's what happened)
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Curious what happens when you give up your smartphone for 30 days? Watch this video to find out about my experience and the surprising results of this challenge. ❤️‍🔥 Subscribe to not be dead inside Need some help manifesting? Download my free guide: stan.store/ChoosingLove Socials IG - choosinglove.ig X - choosinglove_x Threads - www.threads.net/@choosinglove.ig TikTo...
Bible Verses That Prove Manifesting is Real
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Is manifesting supported by the Bible and religion? We dive into 8 Bible verses that not only prove the power of manifesting is real, but that it is actually supported by the Bible in a powerful way. ❤️‍🔥 Subscribe to not be dead inside Need some help manifesting? Download my free guide: stan.store/ChoosingLove Socials IG - choosinglove.ig X - choosinglove_x Threads - ...
Mid Year Reset: My 7-Day (very low carb) Cleanse
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In an attempt to eat healthier food, I started a 7-day low carb healthy food cleanse, here's how it went. ❤️‍🔥 Subscribe to not be dead inside Need some help manifesting? Download my free guide: stan.store/ChoosingLove Socials IG - choosinglove.ig X - choosinglove_x Threads - www.threads.net/@choosinglove.ig TikTok - www.tiktok.com/@choosing.love For business inquiries...
Anger Management in a Relationship (Strategies & Insights)
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Sometimes we can feel so much anger in a relationship, at our situation, at everything. We discuss the importance of anger management, the role anger plays in our lives, and why it actually might be a good idea to treat yourself to some healthy anger every now and then. ❤️‍🔥 Subscribe to not be dead inside Need some help manifesting? Download my free guide: stan.store/ChoosingLove Socials IG - ...
1 Mindset Shift That Changes Everything in Tough Times
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1 Mindset Shift That Changes Everything in Tough Times
Rich Dad, Poor Dad: 10 Mindset Shifts for Financial Success
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Rich Dad, Poor Dad: 10 Mindset Shifts for Financial Success
Sometimes Life Sucks... But Hidden Lessons Bless Us
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Sometimes Life Sucks... But Hidden Lessons Bless Us
Your mom was right. It's that damn phone. (Reacting to Cole Hasting's Video)
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Your mom was right. It's that damn phone. (Reacting to Cole Hasting's Video)
The People-Pleasing Trap (4 Tips to Overcome)
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The People-Pleasing Trap (4 Tips to Overcome)
Positive Affirmations for Self-Love, Healing, Confidence (Guided)
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Positive Affirmations for Self-Love, Healing, Confidence (Guided)
Lucky Girl Syndrome - How to Utilize this Powerful Tool (Explained by a Dude)
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Lucky Girl Syndrome - How to Utilize this Powerful Tool (Explained by a Dude)
Becoming More Self Confident (The Struggle is Real)
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Becoming More Self Confident (The Struggle is Real)
procrastination is way more harmful than you think
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procrastination is way more harmful than you think
7 QUICK Mindset Shifts for Instant Positivity
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7 QUICK Mindset Shifts for Instant Positivity
Gratitude & Manifesting Session in the Car
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Gratitude & Manifesting Session in the Car
Managing Fear: Our Strategies & Journey
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Managing Fear: Our Strategies & Journey
Self-Love Exercise: What Are Your Strengths?
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Self-Love Exercise: What Are Your Strengths?
Living with a Grudge (& Learning From It)
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Living with a Grudge (& Learning From It)
Mindfulness in the Mundane
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Mindfulness in the Mundane
The Happiness Lie (Choosing Your Own Path)
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The Happiness Lie (Choosing Your Own Path)
3-Day NO COMPLAINING Challenge (Mindset Exercise)
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3-Day NO COMPLAINING Challenge (Mindset Exercise)
7 Productive Morning Habits to Attack the Day
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7 Productive Morning Habits to Attack the Day
6 Strategies to SILENCE Imposter Syndrome (& Self Doubt)
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6 Strategies to SILENCE Imposter Syndrome (& Self Doubt)
Why Laughing is ESSENTIAL For a Powerful Mindset
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Why Laughing is ESSENTIAL For a Powerful Mindset
The Power of Manifesting: For Beginners
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The Power of Manifesting: For Beginners
How to Be Miserable in Life (One Simple Step)
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How to Be Miserable in Life (One Simple Step)

Комментарии

  • @Dr.DorisTorres
    @Dr.DorisTorres 11 дней назад

    I love this so much! Thank you for sharing. ❤ New sub! 😊

    • @choosing_love
      @choosing_love 11 дней назад

      @@Dr.DorisTorres thank you for being here ☺️

  • @freelancerrajons
    @freelancerrajons 29 дней назад

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  • @Merarirdz15
    @Merarirdz15 Месяц назад

    This is so true, thats way sometimes i ignore negate people, they can pass some of that negativity and no thank you! Hahaha

  • @therealNicholeA
    @therealNicholeA Месяц назад

    I've seen this phenomenon so many times. I've probably done it myself without realizing. The key to stopping it, as with most things, is awareness, borne of mindfulness.

  • @RobinsonKris
    @RobinsonKris Месяц назад

    This is a compassionate way to think about how to react to someone who is angry. Lead with curiosity. Especially as a couple. And you two are adorable together.

  • @RobinsonKris
    @RobinsonKris Месяц назад

    I’ve not heard that before. Agreed it’s not a good way to go for humans, but people do it all the time.

  • @Merarirdz15
    @Merarirdz15 2 месяца назад

    Love it !

  • @therealNicholeA
    @therealNicholeA 2 месяца назад

    Yes to the goals!! We have little goals every day. Our brains are here to help us! And a perspective of gratitude makes everything so much easier.

    • @choosing_love
      @choosing_love 2 месяца назад

      Yes! Well said, thanks for sharing.

  • @RobinsonKris
    @RobinsonKris 2 месяца назад

    So many important messages here! Thanks for this, Cade. Your spirit is so refreshing.

    • @choosing_love
      @choosing_love 2 месяца назад

      Thank you so much! Appreciate you 🧡

  • @melaniedejonge5234
    @melaniedejonge5234 2 месяца назад

    So true!!! Even in the darkest times, there is always something to be grateful for!

    • @choosing_love
      @choosing_love 2 месяца назад

      It can be so hard to see in the moment but even if we see it later, that’s helpful too

    • @melaniedejonge5234
      @melaniedejonge5234 2 месяца назад

      @@choosing_love yes! It’s like that line from the Natalie Layne song Grateful For… ”It’s not always easy to see the good, when it doesn’t look the way I think it should.” But it’s still there!

    • @choosing_love
      @choosing_love 2 месяца назад

      Love that.

  • @fulltimetofarmtime
    @fulltimetofarmtime 2 месяца назад

    Such a great message! Gratitude always makes me more resourceful with what I have and that's my favorite part. Leaving this video feeling uplifted and motivated for my day ❤

    • @choosing_love
      @choosing_love 2 месяца назад

      Aww that makes me feel so good 🥹 thanks for sharing that!

  • @NadiaDubininaValues
    @NadiaDubininaValues 2 месяца назад

    There's something nostalgic and comforting about the days before smartphones took over our lives. Back then, everything felt more organic-conversations were more genuine, and we weren't constantly distracted by notifications, social media, or the urge to capture every moment on camera. We were more present in our interactions and experiences. It was a time when people could truly disconnect and enjoy the moment without the constant pull of a digital world in their pockets. Life seemed simpler, and the connections we made felt deeper.

    • @choosing_love
      @choosing_love 2 месяца назад

      Well said Nadia, thank you for your valuable insights on this! It makes you wonder if the benefits of “technology” are even worth it in the first place

  • @davhernandez17
    @davhernandez17 2 месяца назад

    The final reflection about playing with your kid made my heart jump for a second.

    • @choosing_love
      @choosing_love 2 месяца назад

      Aw haha, thanks for sharing that.

  • @therealNicholeA
    @therealNicholeA 2 месяца назад

    I'm glad it resparked your love of reading! My reading list is on my phone, so I don't know how I'd do that though. 😆 An important exercise and even the days you did were impressive!

    • @choosing_love
      @choosing_love 2 месяца назад

      Thank you! 🧡 Yeah so far it totally has, and I’ve even started a list of books I wanna read or have been recommended. Once you start talking books with people, there’s so many great recommendations that come!

    • @therealNicholeA
      @therealNicholeA 2 месяца назад

      @@choosing_love if you're looking for a way to keep them all organized, I love using The StoryGraph app. Plus it'll generate books it thinks you might like based on your list and ratings! (I realize the irony of suggesting an app on a video when you gave up your smartphone. In my defense, there is a desktop version!)

    • @choosing_love
      @choosing_love 2 месяца назад

      Haha no worries, that’s a useful tool! I’ll check it out 😄 thanks!

  • @FaithNFarmstead
    @FaithNFarmstead 2 месяца назад

    Love this!! 👏🏻👏🏻 have you ever watched any Bryan Scott content? Or Joseph Rodriguez?? They make a lot of connections between the Bible and manifestation

    • @choosing_love
      @choosing_love 2 месяца назад

      @@FaithNFarmstead aw thanks! no I haven’t but I’ll check them out!

  • @davhernandez17
    @davhernandez17 2 месяца назад

    La cara de Daisy! Jajaja

  • @project.barbarella
    @project.barbarella 3 месяца назад

    Love this! I’m not very spiritual, but I totally agree that manifestation and prayer definitely go hand in hand

  • @NadiaDubininaValues
    @NadiaDubininaValues 3 месяца назад

    So true! What you see is what you get

  • @project.barbarella
    @project.barbarella 3 месяца назад

    Embodiment of depression 😂 healthy food doesnt need to be boring or depressing. 😂 well done for doing it anyway and wanting to continue with some of the healthy habits.🎉🎉

    • @choosing_love
      @choosing_love 3 месяца назад

      Thank you! Yes, I’ll be better prepared next time and know that there’s still some good tasting options

  • @FaithNFarmstead
    @FaithNFarmstead 3 месяца назад

    The embodiment of depression 😅😂😂 Atleast it’s only 7 days. I couldn’t do that forever. Good on you for being committed and consistent!!!

    • @FaithNFarmstead
      @FaithNFarmstead 3 месяца назад

      I make homemade tortillas. No way I could reject an authentic tortilla!! I think we can cancel that one out 😂

    • @choosing_love
      @choosing_love 3 месяца назад

      @@FaithNFarmstead haha, yum! And yeah since I did that, I’ve totally gotten off track again but I have the desires to eat better and that’s a start!

  • @dylanc5835
    @dylanc5835 3 месяца назад

    my advice after losing a fair bit of weight dieting. Never go hungry! theres always something that can fit within your goals which will keep you full. Also, sometimes you have to satiate that taste/craving hunger to prevent a big binge on stuff outside of your goals. A balanced diet includes treats!

    • @choosing_love
      @choosing_love 3 месяца назад

      @@dylanc5835 I really like that, I’ve been kinda doing that with celery and hummus, which I think is a pretty decently healthy snack and it makes me full! Great advice thanks for sharing

  • @NadiaDubininaValues
    @NadiaDubininaValues 3 месяца назад

    I’m thrilled to see you taking steps to become healthier and striving to be the best version of yourself. I’m also very mindful about what I consume daily. And I agree, it’s perfectly fine to enjoy different foods occasionally in social settings. My sister struggled with her weight but transformed her lifestyle, going from 150 kilos to 65. Her difficult journey showed me just how important it is not to ignore our health and not wait till it goes really wrong.

    • @choosing_love
      @choosing_love 3 месяца назад

      I appreciate that, and wow that is very inspiring of her. Yes, if my goal is to live a vibrant life, I’ve got to eat better to help make that a reality!

  • @KeeshGlowsUp
    @KeeshGlowsUp 3 месяца назад

    For me my main cause of anger is when im.accused of.somerhing i didnt do..no matter how small..i think it stems from childhood trauma

    • @choosing_love
      @choosing_love 3 месяца назад

      Oh interesting, thanks for sharing that.

  • @therealNicholeA
    @therealNicholeA 3 месяца назад

    Hahahaha I love her response

  • @FaithNFarmstead
    @FaithNFarmstead 3 месяца назад

    I love that you guys are reviewing what you’re good at!! Sometimes I get stuck thinking about what I need to improve on. It’s a great mindset shift. Also, my in Laws are Russian and can have a hard time feeling included or unable to keep up with the conversation😂 my husband is also great at filling in the blanks for me. Great episode!!

    • @choosing_love
      @choosing_love 3 месяца назад

      Hey thanks! Oh wow yeah you are in a similar boat then with the language barrier. That’s awesome he fills in the blanks, so you speak some Russian?

    • @FaithNFarmstead
      @FaithNFarmstead 3 месяца назад

      @@choosing_love I know more than most Americans, not enough to keep with the fast paced conversations 😂 I understand a word here or there and sometimes can get the general idea of a conversation

  • @fulltimetofarmtime
    @fulltimetofarmtime 3 месяца назад

    the incredibles reference! 😂😂

  • @melaniedejonge5234
    @melaniedejonge5234 3 месяца назад

    Good job!!! Amazing!!!

  • @RobinsonKris
    @RobinsonKris 3 месяца назад

    Ok, jicama is widely misunderstood. Squeeze lime over it, salt it a little, dip it in salsa or hummus. I ate a lot of it when we lived in Mexico. Tajin on jicama is good too. YOU CAN DO THIS. You are worth it.

    • @choosing_love
      @choosing_love 3 месяца назад

      I will definitely try that next, it started to get better for me and now I need to buy some again.

  • @KeeshGlowsUp
    @KeeshGlowsUp 3 месяца назад

    The adam sandler gif😂😂😂 and i love what you said about cooling off before saying anything❤❤ love this great vid you guys!!❤

    • @choosing_love
      @choosing_love 3 месяца назад

      haha, the movie anger management was too perfect to not use at least once... And thanks!!

  • @KeeshGlowsUp
    @KeeshGlowsUp 3 месяца назад

    So true❤ love this

  • @NadiaDubininaValues
    @NadiaDubininaValues 3 месяца назад

    A good way to deal with anger is not to act under its influence. Don't do anything, don't say anything, don't think. It's better to just do useful things, wash the dishes, walk the dog, switch to something constructive. The hot anger will go away faster than we think)

    • @choosing_love
      @choosing_love 3 месяца назад

      I like that, thanks for sharing. Many mistakes can be made in the heat of anger and we do things we regret and wouldn’t have otherwise done.

  • @in.the.hourglass
    @in.the.hourglass 3 месяца назад

    another great video!! this was fun and funny to watch

    • @choosing_love
      @choosing_love 3 месяца назад

      I’m glad other people don’t mind our sometimes strange sense of humor haha 🙏😄

  • @IasiSustaita
    @IasiSustaita 3 месяца назад

    Amooooo 🇲🇽

  • @ashleerodriguez1958
    @ashleerodriguez1958 3 месяца назад

    Awesome growth from both of you!

  • @gabyjimeneztorres8932
    @gabyjimeneztorres8932 3 месяца назад

    Very true, karma would always do justice🎉😊

    • @choosing_love
      @choosing_love 3 месяца назад

      haha yes. If nothing else, it taught us life lessons to keep in mind.

    • @NadiaDubininaValues
      @NadiaDubininaValues 3 месяца назад

      Yeah, big dogs just don't bark)

  • @project.barbarella
    @project.barbarella 3 месяца назад

    It's about enjoying the journey and not the destination. 100% trust the process. Small wins; celebrating small wins and practising gratitude ! Love your vibe Can i ask what microphone do you use? The sounds is on point 😅

    • @choosing_love
      @choosing_love 3 месяца назад

      thanks for watching! Glad you enjoy the vibe! 🫶 I'm crazy and have like 3 different mics haha. This particular one is a very inexpensive one on amazon that I was testing out: amzn.to/3SoF0nH So far, I think it is pretty good after some light audio editing.

  • @FaithNFarmstead
    @FaithNFarmstead 3 месяца назад

    Gratitude is the best practice!! Thank you for the reminder today

    • @choosing_love
      @choosing_love 3 месяца назад

      I'm so grateful for you stopping by! Glad you enjoyed :)

  • @melaniedejonge5234
    @melaniedejonge5234 3 месяца назад

    I’m working on a series of mystery novels I plan to launch in the next year or so.

    • @choosing_love
      @choosing_love 3 месяца назад

      @@melaniedejonge5234 ooh how exciting! 😀 you should let me know when their out

    • @melaniedejonge5234
      @melaniedejonge5234 3 месяца назад

      @@choosing_love I will!

  • @mandykinser2000
    @mandykinser2000 3 месяца назад

    Love this book! I appreciated the breakdown of the 10 mindset shifts in this video! It was great overview

    • @choosing_love
      @choosing_love 3 месяца назад

      Well thank you! Glad you enjoyed.

  • @melaniedejonge5234
    @melaniedejonge5234 4 месяца назад

    It’s so true!!!! Also, on the idea of thinking there’s no movement on your manifestation just because you can’t SEE movement reflected in the 3D: so many times there are tectonic shifts happening underneath the surface, and we are actually interrupting the momentum being built by constantly checking in. I love the John Green line from The Fault in Our Stars - “I fell in love like you fall asleep: slowly, and then all at once.” What’s the biggest thing that will keep you from falling asleep? Constantly glancing over at the clock and stressing about why you’re not asleep yet! Drawing in manifestations is just like that. You have to relax and let the Universe follow the law! 😊

    • @choosing_love
      @choosing_love 4 месяца назад

      Seriously love this, thank you! And that's a great quote. The flow of life & blessings always comes through for us if we just get out of it's way. So crazy that we self-sabotage so often...

  • @NadiaDubininaValues
    @NadiaDubininaValues 4 месяца назад

    Heading towards financial freedom is essential to having a quality life. Living a life where you can focus on what truly matters - pursuing your passions, spending quality time with loved ones, and not having to choose between buying groceries or that fancy coffee. I must say, I absolutely love your videos and your positive attitudes! They are a source of inspiration and motivation!

    • @choosing_love
      @choosing_love 4 месяца назад

      Aw thank you so much, I’m so glad you are here. 🧡 Well said about financial freedom and the overall importance of it. I thank you for your wonderful thoughts and inspiring messages as well!

  • @FaithNFarmstead
    @FaithNFarmstead 4 месяца назад

    Another recovering people pleaser here! 🙋🏼‍♀️ excited for this episode!!

    • @FaithNFarmstead
      @FaithNFarmstead 4 месяца назад

      A lot of my past “anxiety” and “resentments” stemmed from a lack of setting boundaries or following through with them. It’s so uncomfortable at first to say no, but once you do it- a lot of those secondary problems disappear. And my life is so much more peaceful when I’m happy with myself and my own decision making!! Great episode

    • @choosing_love
      @choosing_love 4 месяца назад

      @@FaithNFarmstead so glad to hear that, and thank you. A peaceful, fulfilling life is what it’s all about 🧡☺️