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Nick Pasch
Добавлен 31 окт 2013
Video Diary for myself and anyone intrigued
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If you’re struggling as a young man
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I am struggling. There are few things I look forward to in life. But I try to make decisions that set me on a path that leads me to a place that I want to be. A place that I’ll be proud of. I hope this video helps you. Think long term. Good luck
Missing out as a young man
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I have no friends. I look forward to nothing. I don’t value any of my relationships. For these reasons, it feels like if I died it wouldn’t matter. That’s a difficult reality to face. I talk about this situation and why I endure it with grace.
Beating Depression Day 31 | Life’s Special Moments
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I invite you to consider hearing your children speak for the first time. All the noise that drowns me is trumped entirely by that thought. Good luck
Beating Depression Day 30 | Facing Loneliness
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No one asks to be lonely. But we can fight to improve our situation. I choose to fight.
Beating Depression Day 29 | Another Step on the Journey Upward
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Not a special day but a good day altogether. Becoming increasingly dissatisfied with the circumstances that are self inflicted and dwelling more on what I can do to improve my situation. The path isn’t strewn with roses, but it isn’t strewn with roses for anyone.
Beating Depression Day 28 | Where’s The Finish Line?
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I contemplate when I will no longer be depressed. What that means to me and what I must do. When can I say proudly and confidently “I am not depressed?” I encourage anyone watching to do the same.
Beating Depression Day 27 | Movement is KEY
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Moving is vital for our well being as humans. It is free and easy for most of us, it’s time I start utilizing it.
Beating Depression Day 26 | Alignment
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I want to be proud of myself and make those important to me proud of me as well. I think that thinking in terms of “am I proud of doing this” or “would this make other people proud” is a productive way to reflect on your decisions. I am doing great and fighting like a champion to get better. I hope you are too.
Beating Depression Day 25 | Solid Progress
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Hit the gym and had a refreshing session of family therapy. The future is bright. Never give up.
Beating Depression Day 24 | From 0 To 100
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I have been reflecting on my past and high school and realizing everything I’ve accomplished. I am going from 0 to 100 which is a mindset and a conscious choice. The future is bright, I am capable but more importantly I am excited.
Beating Depression Day 23 | Being Realistic
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I am happy writing this right now because I am consciously striving to create the changes that I desire. Believing that you can and then making the effort to achieve is the only way to make progress, and I am proud of myself for making said progress. Never give up and good luck
Beating Depression Day 22 | Is The Cup Half Full or Half Empty?
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You can focus and build what you have or dwell on what you lack. I am fighting like hell to focus on what I have. I hope you are too.
Beating Depression Day 21 | Reflections on The Pain and Anger
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Beating Depression Day 21 | Reflections on The Pain and Anger
Beating Depression Day 20 | Unwavering Determination
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Beating Depression Day 20 | Unwavering Determination
Beating Depression Day 19 | The Worst Day of My Life
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Beating Depression Day 19 | The Worst Day of My Life
Beating Depression Day 18 | Manic Episode
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Beating Depression Day 18 | Manic Episode
Beating Depression Day 17 | My Thoughts on Loneliness
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Beating Depression Day 17 | My Thoughts on Loneliness
Beating Depression Day 15 | You Can Never Unsay Something
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Beating Depression Day 15 | You Can Never Unsay Something
Beating Depression Day 14 | First day sober
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Beating Depression Day 14 | First day sober
Beating Depression Day 13 | My Birthday
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Beating Depression Day 13 | My Birthday
Beating Depression Day 12 | Solid Start to The New Year
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Beating Depression Day 12 | Solid Start to The New Year
Beating Depression Day 11 | The Bad Motivates The Good
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Beating Depression Day 11 | The Bad Motivates The Good
Beating Depression Day 10 | The Struggle is Real
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Beating Depression Day 10 | The Struggle is Real
Beating Depression Day 9 | Hungover and Hopeless
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Beating Depression Day 9 | Hungover and Hopeless
Beating Depression Day 8 | Loneliness Kills
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Beating Depression Day 8 | Loneliness Kills
Beating Depression Day 7 | Merry Christmas and Be Inspired
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Beating Depression Day 7 | Merry Christmas and Be Inspired
44 minute banger from the Paschman himself, hope you have been well my brother
stay strong brother
Hey it’s ur life man
I've been in a similar spot. What worked for me is: start going gym 3 times a week/or more purely from a stand point of getting out your head and into your body and to get yourself healthy. Eat clean foods, no junk... food intake can regulate your emotional state, eating shit like cookies and lots of pizza you will feel lethargic and grim afterwards whereas eating a e.g. rice & curry and vegetable dish you'll feel light and better afterwards. Clean up, shave your beard or at least trim it down and maintain it - think of it as a self care exercise (you owe it to yourself), same as keeping your hair nice and cut too. Every time you leave the house try and not dress below smart casual (again, as a means of self-care and respect for yourself). Also, There is a quote "you find yourself in the service of others"... try and do good to people, donate to a cause you believe in, tip workers, be generous. Also, the world still sucks and nothing will change that... but try not to dwell on it, just know, with that try to not be so opinionated cus it does nothing, just live and let live the best you can. Monthly massages help with touch deprivation and relaxation and you could use them to help with some muscle recovery if you hitting the gym each week. I could go on, but I find implementing those things you see an improvement, not perfection, but an improvement and you deserve that for you. The more you clean up too, the better people will treat you in general.
Don't feel down. The trauma people get from relationships and work is worse than being lonely. I've seen women 35-40yo still single and working
Good luck man. I know exactly how you feel
Inspiring though, I feel the same way you seem like a strong guy kind, it's motivating that someone like you lives such a content lifestyle if you can make yourself happy then others can aspire to be like you..
Dude stop complaining life sucks your more of an inspiration to me seeing how you live such a simple life style.. kind of how I want to live an seeing how you complain about it makes me not want to live a simple life like you.. sucks..
Dude get a playstation
Im completely miserable and i have a couple very close (pact of steel) friends and loving parents. I have a lot more of a pessimistic view of my future than i'd like to admit. Keep going brother... personally i keep going out of spite for the world
Bro youre only 21..... i would kill to be 21 again... but man.... i feel you dude... youre not alone in this.... god i can tell youre trying your hardest to keep a straight face recording this...
Hope to get an update soon.
Your rumination and self sorrow will drive you to the point of insanity. Pray or meditate get in a Routine daily, and some sort of physically workout. I recommend swimming, push ups ,squats, lunges, long walks. Journal these thoughts read find a bar or restaurant, coffee shop that would find comforting with peers you find attractive and go once a week. no matter how uncomfortable. I love you bru
Victim mindset get off the couch loser
Man I’m just like this I never had nothing in my young years and I’m 19
What do you do for work? and if you don't, how do you survive?
I can relate im 24/7 alone.
You are so young! I know there's this idea that the best times of our lives are when we're young, but I think that's horseshit. It's different for everyone, and it might get a lot worse before it gets better, but that's how I feel. Maybe because my friendships as a teen were such ass 🤭 but I'm so much happier at 32 than 22 and I had to trudge thru a decade of bullshit to make it out the other side.
Same here
how tall are you?
Jesus, you think being a young man is hard in this day and age? Try being a 40 year old man in this day and age! It only gets worse with age, nothing improves. I’m in a hell too.
Why
@@blueocean4447because he has doubled this guys age and been through it if this guy hates it at 21 imagine him at 40
You look like me
hav you tried reading berserk?
"The decisions we make end up making us."
Bro is escaping the matrix 😂
Clean out a jar, use it as a piggy bank and say to I am worth more than that whatever change you put in that jar😊🎉
Dude I was fuckin lonely for 11 yars in the range of 11-22 I had actually no one and thought many times that I will go crazy I felt insane so many times, I'm from kind of pathological family and I went through hell throughout my life overall but loneliness is the worst bitch.
how are you ? why are you twerk
love u bro n love this
see yall ina few years let me know how yall do
You weren't born by mistake, even if your parents may thought it was a mistake. You have something to bring to this world that only you can bring. You will find your way
Your Potential is very high I cant feel that. You can talk very good thats a talent
8:45 the question is, would the little you - the little Nick care? Everyone else comes after , and that is not being egotistical.
Nothing replaces family and the warmth of a supporting family who truly cares about you, and I can feel for you as I've had to live far away from my family for many many years now! Friends come and go, and the good ones give you a sense of security that is often short-lived and conditional. My honest two cents for you Nick: Lower your expectations, find a link-minded person, start your own family and have as many kids as you can afford! Time flies, so hurry up don't overthink too much! God bless you ❤
Hey Nick, I'm not sure if you remember me but it's Christian from high school. I used to hang out with you and Moose in some classes back in the day. This video got randomly suggested to me and it was really insightful. "Do not let your mental state be dictated by your situation" definitely made me rethink some things going on in my life now. Wishing the best for you man.
Not sure if I remember you? I love you bro! We had a great time in math and I wish we could go back again and recreate the math test distribution ring haha. For some reason just thought about selling you fireball recently. I'm glad to have known you and I hope you're doing well brother.
@@nickpasch Oh man that was the only way I was gonna pass Pichione's class lol. && man I totally forgot about that! I bought Bacardi and Fireball from you and Moose cuz I was throwing a party at my place. My parent's found out and I got in so much trouble haha.
Thank you for making this video
Your self-loathing is what is killing you.
I understand learning lessons. I understand the school of life and the continuing learning process, which goes on, reasonably, until the day you die. But... One thing we need to clear up- you do nothing, by yourself, to yourself, good or bad. This idea of implying that "I am responsible for what I've become", is just horse dung. 😳🤔 The ugly truth, is this~ you are NOT responsible for what you've done- we are. It is a collective, collaborative effort of you and those you interact with. 😮 Some of these people, you've a choice about... some not. No one, not one single human being, should ever shoulder the massive weight, of where they have ended up, let alone why. Sorry. Not the most "popular opinion", but sadly, the truth hardly ever is. 😐 Is THIS your world? Is this the way you thought it would be? I've this feeling in the back of my mind that, we were born here to be happy. To live in actuality, be prosperous, meet like minded people, and to produce... 🎉... something. My production is music, guitar construction and the playing of. It is the muse. Currently it's removed from me, and believe you this~ it is an effort of many, not only me, but, hey did you ever hear- it takes two to tango? Yep. It does. But the more intense, or "nuclear", as you say... the more players involved. You do what you can do. But don't forget this~ in the end, it is a collaborative effort. You never walk alone, honest truth. Angels & Devil's walk with you. Good luck. 🆗😎🆒🎸🎼
Thank you for this, and I wish the best to all.
I resonated with him saying "do not let your mental state be dictated by your situation". It's so easy to enable troubles and adversity to change our outlook on life, however, it's important to occasionally take a step back to look at things across a wider scope; to gain new perspectives and not let these things affect us.
lets go
my guy your are not alone , ive been feeling very similar for years. i usually take one day at a time and thats it. its very bad how we feel but a part of me knows there has to be something good in life.
This actually hit home for me in alot of ways. " Don't allow your situation to dictate your mental state." Golden words
Most comments here are saying "wise words nick", honestly i think this has video has much more value than that mindless praise is has and has conveyed a point i needed to hear. EACH action a person takes has a direct impact on their future, and can have long-lasting effects. Being mindful of the consequences of one's actions is key in understanding oneself and creating the reality one desires. To think before we act is the first step in molding reality. The ripples of our actions extend far into the future. The consequences of our choices can affect many things, from the world around us to the people, events, and institutions that exist in it. If we are not careful with our actions, we can become blind to the repercussions of our actions and their impacts. Without reflection, we can unknowingly create a world and existence that we did not intend for.
Hey dude. Not very likely you'll get to see this comment but if you do it first off like to acknowledge and say sorry for the loss of your brother. I can't imagine going through something like that at such a young age. That's probably why you seem wise beyond your years. But bro, knock this shit the fuk off. YOU HAVE ONE FUKN LIFE! If you don't quit wallowing in defeat because your life turned out other than how you expected, the life that you do have is going to pass you by and you'll be left making videos about " Having no friends as a 80 year old senior citizen"!!! The thing about your life is that few get handed much of anything and the ones that do often pay for it later. You'll get what you put into it bro! You don't like the way it's going? Fuking change that shit!!! Don't roll over and die! You are a smart, well spoken and strong man! Be the super hero in your life's movie and make it what you want! You have the ability to do so! I hope you know this comes from a place of love. I'm a man in his 40s who didn't listen to advice like this until much too late in life. I love you man. God loves you!,and the world needs you. 💯💪💚
Thank you Nick
Thank you
Social media has ruined a lot and it’s hard to find the people that aren’t connected anymore. True meaning is hard to find but you also don’t need meaning to live a happy life
Jesus loves you!🎉😊
Needed to hear this, thank you.
Oh hey JaBaby