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I am in 60's And I enjoy loneliness I prefer isolationism 😊😊

Good insights. I am taking care of my sick mother who is a CKD patient as well as dementia. This my purpose of my life and to keep faith in Allah.

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Please use pictures of the people instead of younger people. Gramma ruth has had lots of work done or im dying

I would never remarry due to drama in her family, financial, and most of all peace of mind !!! Married 47 years.

It hurt when my youngest son abandoned me. My oldest son is also on the verge of the same thing. I am emotionless about my younger son now and almost there with my oldest. I am tired and resentful of the disrespect and want peace in my life. Not all children are loyal and respectful.

I appreciate tips for crone hygiene!!

Thanks for the reminder! A weird problem I came up with at age 70 is toothpaste allergy!!

Mt dtr has disrespected me for years, starting when she moved out at 17. I thought we had a close relationship. I guess that was only for the time that I was taking care of her and giving her mostly everything she wanted. Silly me. Anyway, she lives in another state and I had decided to visit every 3 months to see my grand daughters. Until, she started making excuses why I couldn’t. I had put up with a lot from her and was very hurt when I called her a bad name. She has blocked me. I sent her letters apologizing but to no avail, not really surprised as she is entitled. Even before this happened, she would do ‘air kisses” when saying goodbye or saying she doesn’t like to be touched! Yes it hurts but I am hoping she will at least raise her kids appropriately. I had a great relationship with them. So I will continue to send my grandchildren letters, birthday and Xmas gifts. and hopefully they will visit when they are older.

Thanks clara's for this

No. They don't care!! I'm moving on and leaving them where they left me. God loves me and has been with me through all their childish rejections. I have my rescue animals.

#9. Thanks for your advice

I AGREE WITH THE MOST PART OF WHAT WAS SAID BUT NOT 1 TIME!! DID U MENTION GOD!! YES U MENTION FORGIVENESS AND REESTABLISHING FRIENDSHIP WITH OLD FRIENDS BUT HOW ABOUT ESTABLISHING A RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD?? NEVER! NOT 1 TIME DID U INCLUDE GOD IN YOUR MESSAGE

Very helpful

We are going through this as we speak! Hurts deeply! I'm listening!

9 the last person you talked about sound like myself. Learned Anew look on things. Thanks.

We live in the entitled era ... Selfish and the self absorbed. So far removed from Scripture and the instructions of the Most High YaH 💙

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love this pod cast I'm 80 needed all this advise

We know that schools arnt as they were

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Yes, it's painful to be discounted by our adult children, ignored and disrespected. My only comfort is something my own father said to me long ago: "Someday we will all be together again in heaven." I believe him.

I've worked in nursing homes & my gripe is that these places are far too focused on tasks! Say goodbye to any autonomy or even privacy. You become faceless & unimportant

Just look after yourself and spend their inheritance.

What a diatribe of paranoid rubbish. When we have lived this long we have the benefit of years of immunity, and to start suspecting every doorknob and surface of being a source of infection is profoundly stressful. The stress will kill us before the germs have a start.

Capitalism at its best.

If there is no congenial company, it's best to spend time with yourself. Solitude is beautiful & peaceful.

I just hit 72, and I hate it, I want to go back to 22 and stay there forever! Everything sucks. Things I used to do with impunity take a lot more punity! The worst, absolute worst thing about life at this age is the American Medical Establishment! They take over your life, they become very bossy, dictatorial, and way too intrusive! I hate them, I just want them out of my life! I prefer quality over quantity and they just can't get their heads around it. They make death a viable option!

Yes! I love the peaceful time alone! I am an Introvert so I just cannot be overly social … it drains me! Thank you for the Vlog! I am 77 and realize as I get older it’s just the way I am supposed to live for the rest of my life! My husband moved to Heaven 3 1/2 years ago … he was the only one I could be around and still feel peaceful! Thank you you for this vlog! 🌈🙏🏻🙏🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻

Insightful

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I've been a nurse for 40 years. People are very tiresome, just retired and looking forward to spending time alone.

This is a very helpful video. Thank you v much!

Tranquility Wisdom

Thanks for sharing your valuable tips! This video is really helpful for seniors who want to maintain their health in a sensible way.

Pity those who are a generation or two younger than you. I’m not a social butterfly, but I do know what a heavy and demanding work load is, and the affects it’s had on me now that I’m retired, (age 59). Personally, I spiraled for the first two years of retirement, (disability). People envision retirement as a great celebration of a life well lived. Perhaps for some it is. For my husband and I, we’re on permanent vacation at home. Overlooking the lake, enjoying delicious and healthy foods and just knocking around the house.

there’s no such things as golden years

Retired nurse here. Mother was ill 7 years. We did 24/7 care as family in her home, except for a brief year Stent in a nursing home. OMG!!! No staff. No help. Lying nurses, staff. Bruises on my mom's arms. Med passes done by staff with little or no understanding of meds. It was a nightmare. Mother rolled out of bed on purpose by negligent staff. Injuries. They treat animals better than humans. It's a stench in America. Robbing old folks. Robbing government. Place closed down. Male staff accused of sexual attacks. Disgusting. Dont put anyone you love or even hate in one of these horror chambers. Took Mother out. There is NO HELP. FOOD BAD. We did everything for her there. All they had to do was give her meds.

9,big thanks to the info.,am 80+😊❤️🙏

Friends are overrated, people only want what they want (I speak for myself) for the first time in my life, it’s all about me😅. The main thing I have learned is “don’t seek happiness, seek contentment “😎

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This is a crock. I shared my home for 13 yrs with a daughter, s-I-l and 2 grandkids. Unless absolutely necessary they didn’t speak to me. They didn’t pay their share of bills and on less than $20 an hr it was hard on me. Finally I had to tell them I was retiring, selling the family home and moving out of state. I thought at least my daughter would begin communicating if I kept saying I love you, no matter what and things like that but after months all I got for my 70th birthday yesterday was a text saying happy birthday I hope you a good day (typo deliberately left in as that is how I got it) no emoji’s or words of love; admiration of following my heart after sacrificing for her & her family for over a decade, nothing that couldn’t have been sent to a neighbor. A friend said to me today “if she doesn’t have love in her heart for herself, how can she have love in it for anyone else, including her own mother?” Hope I live long enough for her to love herself so she can love me again.

Nursing home Just a fancy word for PRISON😢

So is this for everyone to complain and air dirty laundry!? Ok then! And if the parent wants nothing to do with their young child let alone as a grown adult, then they expect to be cared for? I don’t want to seem cold but when you’re trying to get in contact with your parent for months and you can’t because they changed their number months prior and haven’t found the time to give you said new number then finally calls AFTER Christmas! And this wasn’t the first time as I called my niece to go check on her as I live across the country! My point, it’s not always the kids’ fault!

True!! I have worked in the nursing home for a long time.. if the family has a time to visit the family they have left in that facility,they need come for thier love ones. Not just left it to the nursing workers as they do not have time as they have 6 person each 1 worker. . They really need someone to be with and feel love and cared .they need to check every little things if they are really what are you looking for. And do not just believe what they say they need to see and discover what are really goin on in everyday. It's very important for the family to see first hand.🙏🙏🙏😢😢🙏🙏🙏

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1) Wash your Hands; Especially OLDER adults 2) Wash your Feet; its Crucial as we AGE 3) Wash your Face; the Elderly neglect cleaning their faces? 4) Private Parts; I refrain comment

I just dont know why my kids don't see want me in their life on any level. I think im a great person. Flawed but still a great person. I never had a mom, i wouldve been thrilled to have me as a mom even at my worst.

I give this 8 powerful actions a #10 b/c this has described my situation with my kids . Some of these actions I have already begin to take but there is more I need to work on.

If you are alone and have important needs, your local adult protective services agency could help. The caseworkers have access to thousands of dollars to help clients who need immediate housing, signing up for benefits, storage. They can also help those with children are exploiting them financially - usually over 5,000, by stopping their access to your funds. Call and use the term "self-neglect" to ask for help.