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She has a right to speak her experience but many have grown up without the Leave it to Beaver family. Divorce and death take their toll but are we supposed to outlaw divorce? Can we stop death? Can we know if our experience would have been better if our fantasy had been given us?

She says is a right for children to be raised by the 2 people who are responsible for their existence, but that's a contradiciton because biological parents don't have a right to the child either. Imagine saying children have a right to their abusive parents. ?

She is saying gay parents adopting are "depriving" children from love and nurture. But for many of those children the ones who did that were their biological parents. So is better for a child to have no one than to have a gay couple looking after him or her?.

the side that preached tolerance and acceptance for the past few decades has become the least tolerant and accepting. it's God's plan for a man and a woman to marry and have and raise children. to go against it will always cause heartache and suffering.

I was raised in an abusive household with a narcissist mother. She kicked my dad out of the family for no reason and married another man. Together my mom and step-father had been abusing me emotionally, physically and even sexually for 18 years. Now I am struggling with MDD and C-PTSD. On the other hand, my father who was different than my mom truly loved me and was a kind person. He isn’t gay or bi, but if he was I’d rather have a my dad and a step-dad family. I didn’t care about the gender of my abusive parents, what tempted me was them failing as humans. I wouldn’t be against living with two dads or moms.

Damn... this is definitely a controversial topic but you having gone through this upbringing are better suited than anyone else on the outside to speak on it! I wonder what a child being raised by two mothers would have to add to this conversation or if there are any paralells there. Fantastic video! We need more people to be outspoken and honest like you

Now I’m curious what a person would say about being raised by a trans couple.

What an amazingly brave person you are for telling the world something that many people just don't want to hear.

So let me get this right. You're blaming your dad's for your problems because you weren't adopted by a heterosexual couple and had the ideal mom and dad scenereo. Get real, the woman who birthed you, for whatever reason couldn't raise you, so two men stepped in and gave you a home. You could've ended up in foster care, bouncing from home to home, never being adopted, and never having parents. This is what we're dealing with right now in this country, but yet you want to play victim because of who adopted you. Be thankful. 😊

Homophobic, shut up

What if a child is adopted by a same sex couple but is also provided a stable paternal figure of the opposite gender, like an aunt/uncle they can trust enough? Is that possible? Also it's important to remember that this woman's trauma is HER TRAUMA. It doesn't mean every child raised by gay couples will be traumatised, and her story SHOULDN'T BE USED AS AN ARGUMENT AGAINST A MINORITY. Please just remember that, but uer trauma is still valid. Children need proper parental figures of both genders.

After listening to this and reading through various opinions in the chat, I think this is a case of "the grass is greener on the other side". We all want "perfect", or what we perceive to be "perfect". In this case, I think we can all agree that the ideal scenario is a child being raised in a HEALTHY home with their biological mother and father. But not everyone gets that, and not just because they were adopted by 2 homosexual parents. (continued 👇) Some children DO live with their biological parents, but 1 or both of them are toxic and the child is NOT better off for being raised by them. Sometimes a child loses 1 or both parents to accidents or medical issues and they're raised by a single parent - That's not ANYBODY'S fault, but still clearly not ideal. And the child will still be missing out on being raised by one of the genders, and the educational experiences that go with that. In the case of being raised by 2 homosexuals, I think the question must be asked - clearly "perfect" isn't going to happen (being raised by both biological parents). And a child isn't getting the "parental" experience in an orphanage anyways... right? So is being raised by a loving couple who happen to be homosexual really WORSE than the child being stuck at the orphanage for who knows how long...? I would imagine being a loving home would be BETTER than being stuck at an orphanage, right? I agree that a child benefits from being raised by a mother AND a father - they learn the dynamic of how 2 genders interact with each other (ideally in a healthy manner), as men and women ARE different and behave differently. But sometimes for a variety of reasons that just isn't possible. So would being raised by 2 loving homosexuals REALLY be worse for the child than being stuck "in the system" for who-knows-how-long without a real parental connection at all? That's the question we should be focusing on. Because I would think what a child needs above all else is safety, security and love.

There is no money, it’s all fiat and debt based

I think every child needs a mother and a father, too.

Robbing a baby of a biological parent to force them to accommodate your sexual fetish for another’s man’s anus = narcissistic child abuse. Homosexuality is a symptom of narcissism, usually full blown NPD. This is why they have no problem doing this type of evil to children

this woman is an absolutely ungrateful pig.

So it's okay for straight couples to abandon children but it's wrong for gay parents to adopt them, ok got it

Hugs. I'm sorry. I understand what you are saying but if it makes you feel any better, there are many of us who were abandoned by our fathers and feel similarly about it. Also, not all mothers are loving ones and that causes a lot of mental turmoil, too. My suggestion is to love both of your fathers if they have been good parents and also to find a motherly, older woman to fill that void. I am a mother of adult children and it is easy for me to mother other young adults because it is my natural instinct. I am sure there is or will be a likeminded older woman out there for you. I agree that children need to see both roles or will feel they have an "empty space" in their "lifes' puzzle" but I also believe that gay and lesbian people have much love to give to children as well.

"Having straight parents doesn't mean having good parents" As if gay people can't be abusive? Having straight parents just means you're more likely to have a normal and natural childhood. Don't go around throwing "but my straight parents abused me!!" As if gay parents can't do the exact same to a child? I get what they mean but this isn't really about a parent being abusive.

I'm glad you've had a chance to speak out on your experience. From this clip it sounds more like you are having issues with adoption. I say that from your last sentence stating that it's "a child's right to be raised by the people who brought them into existence." I, too, am adopted and at last found my birth mother in a different country at age 60. It was healing in so many ways but most of all made me all the more grateful for having been adopted. I hope you find peace.

I felt very sad when you said that you looked for a mother and had difficulty expressing it. I know that had to be very difficult to live with. 😢

AMEN

when the gov purchases weapons, it's paid over time. when they send cash to those in emergency, the money is usually printed.

the money is just fabricated And/or borrowed

This is page that deals exclusively with in homophobic propaganda. You trump babies gonna throw another temper tantrum when trump loses again? 😂

That's your opinion and your experience and I don't want to take away from it but I've seen a lot more people that don't think that way and wouldn't want to change the way they were raised so talking about "every child needs" when your only source is your own childhood is crazy

God chose Katy Faust for the moment in time. In my humble opinion,God choses the best people for utilizing his tenants.

I can argue and say the same thing for any person that has a child out of want, but isn’t necessarily prepared to have a child financially or mentally. My mother had a busy great career, but she was narcissistic and abusive and very much manipulative. My father was the same way. So I don’t understand when people complain about coming from a two-party home that love them and they love them back and that they were taken care for and nurtured you assume that you didn’t have a mother , you missed out. what happened if you found out that your biological mother was actually not that great.? You’re an adult now you can go find your biological mother….

Children deserve the love of a parent, whether it be two adults, opposite or same sex couple, or one adult. I do not understand your video at all and I have no sympathy for you whatsoever. I had no parents at all and I have never had a family, ever. I grew up as a ward of the State, due to being taken by the State from my single, biological, immigrant mother for child abuse when I was a baby (another form of being orphaned not related to physical death of parents). "Perfect gender balance" in the home you said? What a joke. Your issue is with the/your hetero normative, indoctrinized mindset, not on what was "wrong" with having same sex parents who happen to be male who loved you and raised you well btw. I bet you would not have minded two mothers. Outrageous. My survivor story and my videos coming to RUclips soon.

Family roles are cultural 💯

Having a mother is no guarantee of a good parent.

I was-uhm *checks notes* raised by gay parents *checks notes* it was so tough 😨😰

Well, she should have been left in an orphanage until she became an adult

As a person who had a dad- no. I would've been better off without one, thank you lol

❤

Whenever a child raised by a gay couple says I don't have a mum/dad, I want to tell them that yes, honey, you do. You also have siblings, and grandparents, and cousins, and a whole genealogy. Your parents simply were stupid or self-absorbed enough to think you can do without all that familial heritage that is your birthright.

This was interesting. I’ve always wondered about this. It’s kind of like kids who get adopted out they often fantasize about their biological parents how life could have been or would have been.

⁠I agree to disagree but thank you for sharing your thoughts on it. I’d say you were pretty fair in your comment and I appreciate that. @RebeccaTaylorTillery

Boo hoo!! She had two people who loved her, and looked out for her. Her story could have been drastically different. She could have been a child with both a mother and a father, neglected and abused by both, then buried beneath the cement patio. Give me a break! Yeah. I get it, you wonder what it would have been to have a mother, the way a child whose mother died when they were young, and they were raised by a father who was so in love with his wife he never remarried would wonder what things would have been like had their mother not died; or the way an only child wished his parents had given him/her siblings; the way I wonder what it would be like to be part of a family where I was close to all my siblings. This is life we are talking about: not Burger kind where you can have it your way! Hers is only the pain of imagination, but I find myself thinking of the pain her two dads would feel after a lifetime of pouring their love into this homophobic ingrate, which far surpasses the pain of what she never had. "I loved my two gay dads very dearly; and I WAS (past tense) very attached to them, and I APPRECIATED (past tense) them helping me and taking care of me . . ." now wait for it! . . . but no matter how feminine a gay man is he can never be a mother! Wow! What exactly is this horrible woman saying? Assuming this is an actual story, and not some Evangelical fanatic making up a story for political and religious reasons I pity the children of this emotional cripple who will no doubt raise her children to have very little respect for her grandfathers. The woman is f***ed up, and it's not because she was raised by two men, but because she is a self-absorbed, ungrateful, whiny, fanatical b**ch! There are children whose mothers drove their car into a lake while they were strapped into their car seats, who drowned them in the bathtub, whose mothers allowed their step fathers or boyfriends to abuse and kill them. I know I should feel pity for this woman; and I do, but not because she, like millions upon millions of people throughout human history, did not get to special order her family, but because she is filled with self-pity (a truly debilitating problem), and other serious character flaws. If she has children here's hoping they can survive their mother, because this is a person who feels entitled, who places expectations on people. Who knows what crazy expectations she will place on her children? Let's hope they can survive being nurtured by an emotionally crippled mother.

Well, it is your right to think like that, but let's take into account the fact that a lot of children are abandoned by their families and left at orphanages to be raised there by caretakers, with NO family whatsoever. Most straight couples do not adopt any children because they already have as many children as they want through natural procriation. A large number of couples that are waiting for adoption are gay couples. Would you rather have your two gay dads as a family or have been raised in an orphanage with NO family at all? And also, you think that gay couples should not have the right to have access to kids. How about single parents? Single-parent kids would have the same issues that you described. Maybe worse, because they only have one parent... I agree that the most ideal situation is for a kid to have a mother and a father, but the thing is that not all kids have that priviledge. Worse than having no mother or father because your parents are of the same sex would be to have no mother or father because your parent is single... Or having no mother AND father, because you were raised alone in an orphanage. With gay couples having access to adoption, kids would at least have a chance to have something that's similar to a family (for those who believe that a family with two people of the same sex is not a family).

Exactly what it is.

The science says this is an anti gay agenda of a religious fanatics disguised as fighting for children. Just admit it. FOff. Stop showing me garbage, yutube.

Is it possible for a child with no parents and living in a foster home to always have the chance of having a heteroparental family or there are always chances of not getting "picked" by a couple? If you could know the future and know that either a homoparental family or nothing are the only options, is it still better to just be raised in a foster home?

I would've preferred love from anyone - gay, straight, one or two. So many biological parents destroy their children's lives.

I was raised by straight parents, yet my father never gave me any attention. Many parents are flawed. I don’t get why u rally against gay marriage though as it has nothing to do with having children.

What A small mind this woman has. I feel sorry for her dads. She is ungrateful. Her experience is not every child's experience. She needs to woman up and take responsibility for HER crappy marriage and her crappy relationship with her kids. I'm sick of ppl blaming all their shit on their parents gay, straight, adopted whatever take responsibility for yourself. Ugh what a victim.

Je trouve ça injuste pour des enfants en orphelinats de ne pas avoir la chance d'avoir deux parents aimants parce qu'ils sont gays. Et il est clair que les couples hétéros ne les adopteront pas tous. Il est vrai que ça ne sera pas parfait mais rien ne l'est dans ce monde.

Je pense qu'il faut apprendre à se satisfaire de ce qu'on a. De la chance qu'on a et vivre avec.

Et il ne faut pas idéaliser les mères aussi. Parce qu'avoir une mère ne signifie pas qu'elle remplira forcément son rôle

Avoir ses deux parents aimants est une grâce que tout le monde n'a malheureusement pas. Surtout dans la société actuelle.