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Peter Niko
Добавлен 30 сен 2023
22| he/him Trans masc| Powerlifter| Personal Trainer| Mental Health and Trans Rights Advocate.
@pete.the.neat on Instagram
@pete.the.neat on Instagram
answering your questions about top surgery | and life updates
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Видео
my top surgery experience after 12hrs | what surgery was like from a trans guy
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CW: I SHOW MY DRAINS AND DESCRIPTIONS OF SURGERY Thank you to everyone for your support! I left this video unedited since I don't have the energy, and I also want this to feel as authentic as possible. I went in not knowing what it would be like, so I did my best to explain as much of the process as possible for those thinking about top surgery and those just wondering what it's like. I had a d...
conversion therapy, religious deconstruction, and shame
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Thank you for listening to my story! I hope you found this helpful or educational. Have a great day! IG: @pete.the.neat
PRIDE MONTH Q&A | my advice for other trans people
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thank you so much for all your questions and support! link to my binder: www.forthem.com/queer-revolution?gad_source=1&gclid=CjwKCAjwmYCzBhA6EiwAxFwfgKEN1rVLjtS5ZVhAEMZ9Ch781YtaTZn2w7j2FZMdI8a00fQZV6TGwxoCdJIQAvD_BwE
Building Self Esteem as a Trans Person
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PETE VLOG | self care day! Deadlift PR, Nature Walk, and Horses
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34 second vlog | little guy tells you what's going on
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real video coming soon, thank you for supporting!
CONGRATS ON GETTING TOP SURGERY!!! 🎉🎉❤❤🎉🎉 I started following you for gym content and I loved it, but I'm also staying for your mental health and trans stuff. You really inspire me. I'm glad everything is going well in your recovery process. I'm honestly kind of scared of getting top surgery but I've been saving up for a few years now and I plan on getting it done anyway. Also, congrats on the therapy thing. I've also been in EMDR therapy, for a few months now and it has helped me way more than like talking therapy (I don't know how to refer to it, I think it's CBT or something). It is VERY dense to go through all your traumatic memories but I think it's worthy. Although, I don't know if it's the right therapy for my diagnosis (BPD) but I think it has helped me. I hope it helps you too!! Sorry about the yapping and I apologise for my English, sorry if there's anything weirdly phrased 😅
Thank you so much for this comment! I'm so happy that you like my content! I hope everything goes well for you man, and your English is great!
I love how informative the video is
congratss and thank you for describing this in such detail- it really helpss
This is so important <3
More piercings! Wooo
bruh that pond thing was so pretty what like region are u from
Congrats! 🎉 ❤
Good job man, wishing you a fast recovery.
Some parts sound scary but i am glad the surgery went good you have been so strong 💪
Thank you so much! The IV was definitely the hardest part, but it was over quickly and SO worth it 😁
hellyeeeeeeeee
As a guy struggling a lot with self esteem and impostor syndrome, as well as family, this has been the most helpful video I’ve watched on these issues. Before I learned that my family isn’t supportive I was very proud of my transness and it’s crazy how other people’s influence can break that down Your videos are awesome, thank you for this :))
I'm so happy you feel that way. Everyone deserves a supportive family, I'm sorry that you didn't get that. I hope that you're doing better and are surrounded by supportive people now, you deserve it ❤️
When you said at 22:05 “people had no other reason then God said so” that literally is what I always would struggle with when trying to understand the reasoning of people I grew up with. People would ignore all common sense because “God said so” and it honestly just stems from gaslighting, fear and guilt.
Thank you for sharing and being so real about the hard parts of this. I grew up in a very liberal, accepting denomination and even I was very susceptible to shame from wider Christian and heteronormative cultural messaging. Shame is a hard feeling but it's normal and unavoidable !!
New tattoos?
Yes! Just got my neck done last week:)
I struggled so much with my sexuality and gender identity throughout my life and still do. Listening to this really brought me some comfort and peace. It can become such an isolating experience to go through such a thing, but this video helped me realize I am not alone, and that helps. Love all your content and I am looking forward to new videos. Thank you so much for sharing your story :)
I'm so happy to hear that, you really aren't alone. Wishing you the best ❤
thank you for opening up and being raw about your life like this. it isn’t easy to speak on your trauma to people online or even just in general. hope you are healing and moving forward bro. we’re all here for you 🫂
Thank you so much, I appreciate you, wishing you the best ❤
thank you for sharing your story! I'm glad you are (getting) better & happier now :)
Thank you so much!
From chud to stud?
You keep popping up in my feed lately for some reason, cool advice thanks dude! :D
Didnt expect to see a transmasc video in my recommended feed, but i really like the video :) also you're hot asf
Thank you! SIMPP!! 🤨🫵🚨🚨🚨🚔
Nice video:) May I ask at what age u started t?
Thank you! I started T 2 years ago at age 19!
hiiii hellooo i just found your channel, you seem really cool, also.. transmasc calisthenics athlete here!! i loved seeing that description on your channel, ...much love, have a lovely day
Thank you! 🎉❤
Hey peter man
noone knows what we are as humans and where we came from, the universe is full of secrets yet to be unconvered, even today and for many many years to come. we should observe ourselves and our world objectively and adjust our theories according to new data or phenomenons. if you encounter someone who is hateful or you don't feel comfortable in their presence, let them pass or go away (trust your feelings). avoid oversimplified black and white answers especially by persons who are making fun of others. dig deeper -> nature is a spectrum full of rng and there is usually much more to say and discover about something. your hair looks gorgeous <3
Hey bro, how old are you ? I’m 29 FTM actually currently on HRT. I have bit not so comfortable on my voice and afraid like going to public toilet or speak to anyone cause I’m just 5 month on T , u know is like still have girl face with a deeper voice. People will giving the face like “holy… why this girl has such deep voice” I have no idea how to overcome this 😢
Hey! I'm 21 and I've been on it for 2 years. It gets easier the longer you're on it! I promise, just give it time. I'm proud of you 🙏❤️
@@Pete-the-neat thanks mate, cant wait to 1 year on T. also happy for you has gone through this awkward period and now has good looking. ❤❤❤
Hey keep smiling guys, you all are amazing. ❤
I'm not religious, but if you want to be gay, just BE gay. I feel pity for people who hate themselves so much, that they want to mutilate themselves and transform into the other gender. I think in most cases it comes from sexual trauma as a child or young adult. That being said, I don't believe people should be restricted from attempting to transition. It's a free country so you should be able to do whatever you want, I hope it makes you happy, I just don't think it will.
First of all studies suggest that it's not it being CAUSED by trauma But is actually it existing before hand/seperately but often promoting bullying and others around them to cause trauma in the individual. Also the whole be gay but don't mutilate yourself thing is dumb because being trans isn't related to attraction. It would be like saying "enjoy hotdogs but not fireworks cuz I think they're loud and annoying" (those things aren't related!!!) I mean to be completely Frank ur comment shows a lot of pre built misconceptions that I hope you try to correct. Because correcting them can and often does lead to an LGBTQ+ member avoiding trauma. I really appreciate the vid cuz with how many insecure queer people there are it can be pretty lifesaving to share advice.
@shaigoldsmith605 yea but it doesn't make sense. Why would you want to switch to the other gender if it wasn't to attract your original gender? Vast majority of people are attracted to the opposite sex. If you want to transition, you want to be attractive to your own gender.
@@revolutionaryfrog ... I'm speechless... honestly this is crazy. No the drive to transition isn't to attract the same sex. If anything it drastically lowers the amount of possible partners (from any gender). Cuz people in general are much less likely to be comfortable with being in a relationship with a trans person. It's also dumb cuz you imply that people are Inateley attracted to people who show traits of the opposite sex. Which is just wrong. Like, just as many feminine lesbians are attracted to feminine lesbians as ones attracted to masculine ones (this also goes for masc and for males of course) Also you have the preconceived notion that transitioning is harmful which is wrong. First of all to transition one doesn't necessarily have to have surgeries or take medical action so it's often about as harmful as changing your dressing habits. And surgical procedures are shown to greatly reduce suicide rate in trans people so actually it's very important for a lot of trans people to have these procedures because otherwise they may commit suicide. So I personally think of these surgeries as life saving. You don't get them but let them be what they want freely because otherwise you are potentially and indirectly harming them.
I appreciate that you understand that everyone can make their own decisions. But I do want to say, I think you're very mistaken. I'm not mutilating myself in any way. I am healthy, and my body is not damaged or mutilated. I'm no different than you are. I'm not disturbed, I'm not a mental patient, I don't have some weird disorder. I was simply unhappy and unfulfilled as a woman. I understand why you feel the way that you do given how some people speak about and portray trans people. However, just because you don't experience something, or just because you don't understand, something, doesn't mean that it's not true. It also doesn't mean that you know exactly what a trans person is going through. I'm not secretly sad and unfulfilled. I'm human and I have my struggles, but overall I am very happy and fulfilled. I'm not a political ideology, I'm not part of a group or a trend. I am simply myself.
And to add to that, if people choose to transition because of sexual trauma, or in part because of it, does that make it wrong? Does that mean that they won't be fulfilled? I believe that is a valid reason for someone to transition. We all heal in different ways. I don't think that is the "wrong way" to heal because we all deal with things differently. I think that people can feel better and fulfilled after they transition. I don't think that everyone who has experienced sexual trauma should transition obviously. But I think for some individuals it's life-changing in a good way.
im a teen trans guy, i've known i've been trans ever since i found out what it meant. socially transitioned around 5 years ago, crazy how my fam keeps saying "it could go away". It always messed with me but this really changed my perspective tysm bro🙏🙏
💚 It’s important we live for our own sakes and don’t center the feelings of anti-trans people in our lives
:) important video
I went to visit my boyfriends aunt and uncle earlier this month and his aunt was talking about suits and she said something along the lines of "I don't want to wear a suit like a man" she wanted to wear a suit, but not in the same way a man would and I was like huh? You in no way want to be or look like a man in a suit? That's crazy. We aren't close enough yet for me to say something like that directly to her but I mean like damn wait, cis folks don't want to be like the opposite sex like at all?? Idk it felt like yea okay I'm definitely a bit different
You have been the only person that RUclips recommended that hasn't abandoned their RUclips channel 😌 i love body armor too my diet isn't healthy but its the healthiest drink i enjoyed (strawberry banana is my favorite)
I just gotta say, as a transmasc person who is also obsessed with horses this video was really reletable hell yeah dude
That's awesome!!! Trans cowboys ftw 😎🙌
vlog time frrrrrrr
What could this mean?! 🤔
love these 'stupid little vlogs' you could do them on reels too lol
NOOOO THE SECRET IS OUT 😳😵
Snake plant spotted?????