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Thank you both for being so open and vulnerable in sharing your diagnoses. And yes, your love and humor for each other is so evident. Thank you for being an example for us couples also working through a recent neurospicy ADHD/anxiety /OCF diagnosis, very affirming! Stealing neurospicy...love the sense of thriving in the term.

This was awesome. I’m glad I found this channel.

Excellent conversation as usual. Thank you for bringing light to the nuances of our political atmosphere, especially for us navigating as Black women. Going to re-listen and share. Also if the kitty ate the airpods she must have been hungry! Save the kitty!! More treats for the kitty!

I absolutely loved James

Happy Anniversary in advance!🎉🎉🎉🎉

Thank you both for humanizing Marcellus Williams.🫶🏽❤️

Show us the cat!!

Manage emotions😂😂😂 I'll manage my emotions when all dairy demons are gone🤷🏽‍♀️ #reparations #ww3

They are the news is there and police reports! Also we have many soldiers right now in many conflicts !

Expecting people to not act insane is not the same as asking them to be emotionless. Chill with the strawman.

At every place I have worked, the loudest, angriest person has always been a black woman. Mind you, not every black woman I met was angry, many have been mortified by their fellow black sisters' behavior, but if there is someone yelling at work, it's a black woman, not a black man, white man, white woman, Hispanic woman. The reputation is deserved. Now, why don't you instruct your fellow black women to act properly in public?

Structural racism has done me wrong! I am entitled to reparations!

Great conversation! Also you two crack me up!

Had a WW advisor in grad school who would not approve my thesis on Black media. She said it didn’t exist despite my references and the obvious presence. Leadership said nothing. Dropped out and returned when she retired. I had to wait her out.

Moron Leftists! You are so lost! 😂😂😂😂😂😂

It has nothing to do with anything other than people with no kids nit having an invested stake in the future of the country. You sound stupid...and your comprehension is sad

Happy Birthday Jamesa! Continued success and enjoy your day!🥳

Happy Birthday Jamesa

The stereotype comments are disgusting...I don't see anything funny about that....Crown or Hennessy? Deb must be really good friends with this guys deflated personality... I'm not impressed at ALL. The WM is at the top of the food chain so of course they would be more agreeable to work with.

Live the shimmy.

I'm new here, and I love your energy. Congratulations on your move! It feels like DEI hire is being used as a substitute slur. BTW, Push It was with Spinderella!

I’m a black woman and I know that a lot of these tires are DEI hires. In an America where racism was mostly down away with but somehow kept on life support with conversations like these but by the black people.😢 DI is harmful because it’s assuming that all all places are races because there’s a lack of “POC” in a space when the situation is just a lot of people of color just didn’t wanna move in that space, or didn’t work at the same job , or live in the same area.. You can’t force diversity because it takes away peoples choice to choose themselves what they want to do as well as taking away from people that actually deserve to be there. Qualifications or something have nothing to do with your skin tone. Until the parties that think the DEI is a good thing will admit to their own racist behavior you’re going to keep racism alive, and you’re gonna ruin peoples lives

Accurate.

The only people talking about Harris' race are the white racists and the black racists

Congratulations on the move! Jamesa your spirit feels lighter, good for you!

Snoop has no place in the Olympic Games. Connery is always needed to perpetuate the matrix !!!!

Hi Ben and Jamesa. I am a new subscriber. I love your content and try to watch as much as I can. Your conversations are necessary and has definitely made me do a lot of retrospecting. I’m definitely tired of this hustle and grind. Would love to move away from here but my husband is not interested. It’s frustrating but hopefully one day. Oh and Ben is hilarious 😆 Jamesa you have all the patience. You are a doll 😊.

I completely agree about Clarance Thomas. There’s a documentary of sorts about him that talks about his upbringing which makes sense as to why he is the way he is. He hates being black for sure.

White privilege = lack of awareness of harm being caused... It's alright.... cuz it's all white!! #blkgrlmgclwyr

White women weaponize their tears 😭 AND Religion. Full stop 🛑 ! #blkgrlmgclwyr

Very interesting!

Of my 20yrs working in a public hospital 12yrs were spent being the only black med lab tech there. Ok, the white ethnic white women there were Italian, Polish, German, 1 Jewish, 4 white men , some whites of English ancestry. Most were 2 generations post WW2, so you can understand the BS going on between these groups. These was also the time the ongoing media stories were" wife swapping " . The stories I heared abou suburban culture. Oh, they're experts in keeping BS going. By the way during the 70s wore an Afro, my supervisor freaked out, " a black militant " . Showed her my scars on my neck and head from hot combs,chemical relaxers,, she actually cried about what we black women had to go through to get straight hair 😂😂😂😂

Stop calling everyone you don't like facists.

I did a paper in my masters program about this. It focused on ww in higher education and how they weaponize their tears and their whiteness. My class was mind blown and my professor, who was a white women loved it. Thanks for having this conversation. I am in higher education and I’m dealing with this. I have to constantly “check” ww a lot of times. It’s frustrating. They constantly infuse themselves and the microagressions.

I'm quite sick of ww. I've worked in corporate settings as well as retail and they are the same EVERY DANG WHERE! If they aren't whining about being sick just to take off work excessively, they are whining about how bw don't engage with them enough. If they have authority, they abuse it, especially towards a person that's more friendly towards a blk manager verses with them. You are drained more from navigating around them & their sensitivity than you are from your actual job duties.

Some WW will see this podcast and start crying.

Ben is making me cringe but I can relate to Deb. When I hear these stereotypes my face goes blank and the person saying it gets the point knowing what they said was not ok. They change the subject quickly

Greetings from Burlington North Carolina ❤❤❤❤

So glad I found this show! Love the lean into humor to guide us through these seriously tragic topics🙏🏾

did you hear the stupid excuse the head of secret service gave ??? You cant talk about gun control if you wont properly train and pay law enforcement .LA is short 1000 officers .People are being shot to death here.Are you aware of what your team precipitates .Joe Scarborough Lies .You have no clue of whats going on .What about your narrative . do you look at homicide statistics. .The white supremacist ???? you dont give a dam .Trump exist because of how crazy the democratic party has become.People are saying things out loud now?Like Kamala was a DEI hire .They are saying the truth out loud and you hate it.Biden said she was and it was fine till now. Why am i typing ,you most likely are Incapable of learning.Enjoy your stroke bubble .Your going to lose and you wont know why .im at 15;43 and out ,pressed mute

I've been waiting for you two! My family have been contemplating moving out of the country. Where is the question. In school we had weather drills not active shooter drills. I look forward to more. Safe travels!

I like how Margot brings it back to WW learning for better worklife… white women can offer more opportunities, promotions, and mentorship to those Blk women that are not anti Blk.

I also noticed how white women are always so surprised that other white women are racist ….that’s irritating

Deb Riley is bringing the candid description.

After using the rest room at work, I went to the sink to wash my hands. A WW coworker came over to me while my hands were in the water and touched my fingerwaved hairstyle without asking and before she washed her own hands. When she touched my hair, her face went 😮 She hadn’t even said hello.

...and I dare say this is part of the reason why black women have become the fastest growing demographic to go into business for themselves. They're tired of WW shit. I hear it from my sister and significant other constantly.

In all of my career and different jobs. Yt women have been the biggest demon for me. It is SO exhausting. When I speak to some of my coworkers. They always make me feel like an alien. It's always, "what do you mean?" When I communicate with them. It's exhausting and depressing.

I once had a WW manager literally argue with me that the dreadlocks that grew out of my head weren’t real because black women don’t have long hair. Urm….?!

I love your show!

Maaaan there’s some haters out there lol this was a good podcast I’ll be back