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I’m so curious to hear what you would do in each situation?

So prompt and beautiful you are 😇 God bless you ❤

What a negative title i am going to marry the right man

Thank you

Amen

From steps 1-5, I believe I dodged a bullet. Thank you, these were all the questions I asked myself before I ended it and I realized he was not meant for me. The bare minimum / emotional Incompetence energy got unattractive. We all deserve better.

I’m thankfully dating the right one☺️

The first point I agree with so heavily but I’ve been been in that situation where I was so sick or couldn’t take care of myself. I know with time I could find out but I don’t want to keep wasting time and become even more invested in the relationship. What should I do? 😭

DAMN GURL I LOVE THE WAY YOU EXPLAIN ITS REAAAAALLY GOOD

Point 1 is so key… idk if I’ve ever been with someone like this but I know they exist

Spot on about entrepreneur and corporate couples. That is something people dont talk about. I've had men say they only want corporate women, and the man im dating now is encouraging me to pursue entrepreneurship.

The reason i broke up with my boyfriend is literally the second point. He had zero boundaries with his mom, like he ticks all of the boxes he is very kind and sweet and all but really I couldn’t get over the fact that he is a mama’s boy like he’s not assertive or decisive or whatsoever Dodged a bullet if you had to ask me, i was heartbroken at first but yeah thank god Also you mentioning that made me go YES YES EXACTLY Keep up the good work! The video was straight to the point and helped alot thankss

Very curious to see your growth on this channel , following you on this journey

Oh thank you sis, the points you've mentioned are literally what webt wrong with my parents. Now I'm old enough to be in the dating stage I really appreciate your advice as it is important in a healthy relationship ❤️

Thank you for sharing! How terrifying.

A taxi driver straight out told my sister in law he was going to kidnap her. Luckily she stood up for herself enough he ended up dropping her home (said her husbsnd was waiting for her etc which was true.) She didn't report him because he then knew where she lived and she worried about retaliation. Always sit behind the driver and get their cab ID number before you get in. Don't travel alone unless you have to. Very scary! P.S. I've tried requesting a female driver but they didn't have many in my area and they were already booked. Should be a market for female cab drivers! I would pay extra. 👍

You should file a complaint with his company. Even if there was no ill intent, at the very least, he's ripping off the company and pocketing the money by not calling in the ride. He gave you his cell number so that the ride does not go through the call center, so as far as the company is concern, he had no ride.

Tbh its always better to be safe then sorry. As a female whenever you get that feeling you have to act on it. The way he kept asking you if you were okay with the detours he was trying to see how submissive you are. No regular taxi driver would ever do that. The fact that he told you to call him is completely normal but its also being really nice? I would have personally also called it through the taxi company so they are on the loop and know you are with there driver. That last koce at the end was smart

Reminds me of yearrrs ago when I was being transferred between hospitals (they ordered me a car to transport me from ER to another campus). While en route the driver gets off the phone & said "If it's alright I'm going to pick up a homeboy of mine". In a daze & not feeling well I OBJECTED & told him I Do mind. I think he was stunned I had enough in me to speak up... so he swerved, resumed appropriate route but he cursed me out calling me all kinds of "b*tches" the whole way. It was still scary.

You are a good story teller but man you take a long ass time to get to the point.

Dang, girl . . . I used that same ploy 54 years ago to get away from a rapist: "My boyfriend will definitely be looking for me. . . " I'm so glad that you thought fast and got away, and I believe you changed the outcome.

It could be everything u suspected because everything is so very possible…It also looks like it could be a regular set up to basically run the meter up to make more money. Maybe it’s their way of scamming passengers, especially women into paying more. He will scam the wrong person one day. Glad you’re safe 🙏🏽

What would you do?

You’re wasting your breath sista! This generation is lost and I feel sorry for the men that women have to choose from these days.

Cree let's talk I'm in Houston

Great message 🥰

Settling vs compromising is a great point! Love this video 🩷

Speaking of paranoia, maybe telling your friends you are having a mental health day might be a bit of oversharing. I'm thinkin'maybe having a personal day might even be more self-respecting.

Go ahead and let your like count number. People like me balk at the no count likes for paranoid reasons. It's probably hurting you.

If only roles are reversed.

This is really great advice 🔥

Yep. Marry a grown up not a grown big.

May I mention how absolutely lucky your husband is

THANK YOU

Amen Sister, ive heard exactly the same. ❤🙏🏻 It takes a village to raise a child.

Not only that. The fees it costs to have babies differ dramatically. They want you to pay 80k plus for child birth in the states. Outside of here. They don’t charge that much. On top of maternity leave and child care

That’s what happens when you have people interfering with your culture.. we just have to get back to our roots

I like your make-up, what do you use?

American. I literally moved in with my brother and his wife for months after the birth of their third child so they could bond/adjust with her with additional supprt for their two oldest. Would totally do it again. My youngest brother and his wife (who don't have kid yet) have already put in their request for live in auntie assistance when the time comes!! 🤣🤣🤣

Oh sweet God, Jesus We God, Jesus😢

See I knew it. I’m sitting here with twins struggling (not financially), and I have no support. I watch everyone else happy, and it’s likely because they have support.

Off topic but ur so prettyy!!

💯🎯

You were made to be a mother.🎀 you have love pouring into them with how you speak to them.

You look and sound like a Disney princess!

This is so adorable ❤❤

I used to have to carry my daughter on my person to even do my hair. I wore her in the front of me so she can see me in the mirror … she’d alwaaayss fall asleep🥹😍

❤ I learned early on; (had no choice😂) to sing or keep talking when I was putting on my makeup (or anything out of eye shot) when my son was little. Sooo exhausting 😂✌🏽

My two year old son does this daily

Mama 😅❤😊